You got a crush on a Sagittarius man and want him to chase you?
What to do if your love interest is the Sagittarius male?
Compared to other fire zodiac signs (Aries and Leo), Sagittarius is much more easygoing and friendly. He is the person of challenges and tending to follow his instincts.
As the optimistic kind, he believes that everything in this world has the solution. In addition to that, why should he work hard to gain the heart of one specific lady while there are plenty of women out there?
When he does something but it wastes too much of his time, then he chooses to leave it aside and continue with other tasks.
Of course, if a Sagittarius man falls for someone romantically, he will try several times to get a date with that person. He seems to be the first one to make the call or send message afterward. However, once he senses that you’re not keen with what he is doing, then he will immediately stop himself from being devoted.
Here are obvious signs a Sagittarius is interested!
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BEST Tips of Making a Sagittarius Man Chase You
#1: Be honest…but not 100% transparent
A serious man looks for a woman, not a girl.
If you want to attract a Sagittarius male, you must be independent enough to know what you really want. Also, he hates playing games.
Remember that you’re trying to get him to chase you. However, if you tell him that you want to commit after just a few dates, he is going to run away since Sagittarius values his freedom…a lot.
In this case, a better approach is to drop hints subtly that you’re available. Show your interest in particular things (not by words, of course) and his feelings for you may develop beyond a crush or a few dates.
Display your honesty…just not all of it!
Though being honest is the basic foundation when it comes to dating, it doesn’t mean you have to expose every emotion and thought deep inside. Right now, you are getting Sagittarius man to chase you, so it’s much better if you can decide how many percentage of transparency you need to provide in this relationship.
Be open but also let him know that he cannot completely access your heart and brain.
#2: Be independent…but not too isolated
Sagittarius man likes to challenge himself; thus, submissive women who are available most of the time are not really his ideal type.
Instead, he is more into the lady who is fiercely independent. Show him there are lots of things ranking higher than him in the list even though he’s important to you.
The key here is – you must find out how to make a Sagittarius man miss you.
Why don’t you spend some time apart?
It’s the opportunity to make him think about you. He will start wondering what you are doing and enjoy learning about you through social media. He’ll even get excited and be likely to chase you when seeing you act aggressive.
Don’t mind sharing things you find interesting with him. He would love seeing your enthusiasm and passion in whatever you do. Confidently answer his questions as it’s the best way for him to discover your true self.
Tell him how much you enjoy being around him.
#3: Be yourself…never in the way he wants
Most of women usually act as a totally different person when having a date with the man they are interested in. Ridiculously, men are only turned on by the female who is completely herself.
Don’t try to become another version of someone else!
If you want to know how to make a Sagittarius man want you, the answer is simply being yourself.
There are plenty of ladies, which mean your love interest has plenty of choices. His ideal type is the woman who is unique in style and in way of thinking. Never act as a clingy person; actually, he is more drawn into a genuine gal who is busy with her own life rather than spending time following his every step.
However, don’t make him feel that you ignore him or he will unintentionally leave immediately.
Furthermore, he’s not looking for a woman who just keeps nodding to everything he says as well as doing whatever he asks. This Sag guy wants his partner to state her opinions in every situation. So, if you have any disagreement, tell him honestly.
You don’t wait to respond to his texts; in fact, you are busy all day, remember!
#4: Want him…but don’t need him
Even if you know that you’ve grown strong, passionate feelings for Sagittarius man, please act as nothing happen. Once he senses that you have fallen in love with him, he may give up the chance if not getting hooked anymore.
A man wants to be wanted, not needed, in a relationship.
This is what we call making him obssessed with you!
Being wanted makes him feel sexy, desirable, and admirable. On the other hand, being needed gives him the feeling that you’re trying to trap him and require him to make the commitment without recognizing whether he wants it or not.
As soon as you’ve developed serious affection for this guy, tell yourself that he is not the reason for living. Obviously having him in your life can brighten your life; however, you are still able to be happy by yourself.
On the outside, show that you want him and give him some of your affections (not wholly); at the same time, build a fence to protect yourself from getting hurt by a Sagittarius in the future.
Again, ignoring him is not a good option as it make the Archer feel left out.
Will a Sagittarius man chase you?
You do have a good chance to make him fall for you if you know how to be happy on your own.
#5: Stay active around him
If you want a Sagittarius guy to fall in love with you, then be upbeat. Spread only positive energy around him, like smiling a lot and keeping things lighthearted. Do not bad-mouth about any person or anything as well as not start a negative conservation with him.
What type of woman he is looking for?
This guy wants to be with someone who is able to keep up with him. He is a fast-paced person always found to be on the go. In order to get him to chase you, the key is to show him that you are also as active as he is.
As a huge flirt, he has no matter if receiving flirty messages from you. Flirty and sexy are fine as long as you lure him with your lair only. Never think of showing him naked shots as you’re not after him just for making love. Give him sincere compliments about his looks, the way he talks, and so on – he’ll appreciate it a lot as Sagittarius man is always curious about how you think about him.
Hooking him with mystery is a wise move as he gets bored with women throwing themselves at him immediately.
In short, be fun and playful when around him!
When a Shy Sagittarius Man Likes You…
What he looks in potential partner?
Though he is often stunned by a woman’s beauty, just the looks cannot keep his heart forever. Sagittarius man seeks intellectual stimulation. If you’re dating one, try to make deep, inquisitive discussions with him – as he loves talking about everything in life, it’s better to widen your knowledge in different topics.
In addition, this guy prefers independent women who are capable of taking care of themselves well. He will have a very good impression to the lady dressing well, smelling nice, and having a great style.
Freedom is extremely important to a Sagittarius, so don’t be clingy if you want to be with him.
Many feel hesitant to be with the Sag male in a romantic relationship because he quickly loses his interest. Despite his short attention spans, he is actually committed and dedicated once truly falling in love. Dating with him is like riding a roller coaster – not a dull moment; it will be full of new and exciting adventures. If you want to maintain his feelings for you for long term, the tip is to shower him with surprises and excitement almost every day.
He is known for being brutally honest and tactful; therefore, there will be times you will get hurt by his words. It’s just his way of expressing what he feels, not that he wants to mean.
How to Tell if a Sagittarius Man Likes You?
As you probably, your Sagittarius love interest is a flirt; thus, it’s quite challenging to determine whether he’s just into you at a moment or he’s serious about you. For sure, the archer enjoys the chase; that’s why you should make the initial move no matter how much you like him.
If he asks you to join him in his adventure, high chances that he already falls hard for you. Interestingly, he does prefer to be asked out sometimes. But, in general, this guy still loves the feeling of going after someone.
Don’t quickly tell him that you like him!
The trick here is to be a bit mysterious when talking to him. Play hard to get and keep him guessing, and he can’t help but asking you out as he wants to know more about you. He will never stop until discovering your truest self as well as how you feel about him.
How to Keep the Sagittarius Man?
If you read this part, it means you’ve won the heart of the archer.
So, what to do now?
This guy is independent and really loves his freedom. He will instantly run away once feeling tied down in the relationship. As a free spirit, he does not want to stay with someone who tries to control him and lock him up.
Just let him climb to the top of Mount Everest as he wishes. Don’t get involved with a Sagittarius if you cannot accept his spontaneous adventures and activities. He hates women possessive and jealous; instead, he prefers the lady who is as independent as he is and who also dedicates time to her own life.
Wrap it up
Due to Sagittarius characteristics male, the Archer on the astrology wheel is complicated.
How to tell if a Sagittarius man loves you?
Sometimes it’s very hard to read his mind or catch up with his thinking when it comes to love. Many women find his changeable moods are difficult to deal with. However, once you’re capable of handling his mood swings, then you might be his potential match.
Making a Sagittarius grow interested deeply in someone requires a long process.
Why?
He seems to be a flirty; yet, this guy is quite picky with the matter related to serious relationships.
When it comes to love compatibility, he seems not get along well with the lady born under the Scorpio horoscope sign.
His strength as well as weakness is his honesty. So, learn to accept his brutal words if you want a long-term relationship with him. What he says to you can either brighten your day or crush your dreams in just a few seconds.
If you still be determined to seduce a Sagittarius male and make him chase you, then good luck!
Getting involved in a romance with a Sagittarius is worth your effort.
I’ve been in love with a Sagittarius guy. We known each other for 4 years but only for the last years we became close. He knows I have feelings for him but he will says he sees me as a close friend. We have had several sexual interactions. He will stay over at my house and we will hang out together. When it’s just us everything seem right. If people call me his girlfriend he won’t correct them and he is very friendly to my dad to the point he calls him “pops”. All my friends can see how he’s affectionate with me at all times. His actions are a lot different from his words. He even bought me a cat as I live on my own to keep me company. He does all this nice things but he just won’t commit. I really don’t know what to do at this point.
Dear Sade,
Well actually they do have problems committing. They prefer casual dating more because they know those would never lead to marriage. It is not that they are not committed as such but more that they like to see the world, travelling and the experience is important to them. Only time can really tell, you should look for the signs of commitment as with any man.
Sincere!
Ah dear Sir Wooten, while my ex- Sag man keeps ignoring me for 11 months, I now just met a Pisces new man! He is the exact opposite than the Sag! He seems old fashioned, just like me, and called me already 3 times in 1 day and asked me to go out! He seems to know how to inspire interest in a woman. I am not making the same mistakes this time, as you said I will play it smarter. While the Sag may never come back, he might, if he sees me later in facebook with someone else. I don’t know if Sag men get jealous, or if when they have decided it is over, then that’s it for them? But as a Pisces girl, I will be more understood by a Pisces, who are equally sensitive creatures. I would sadly never be understood by a Sag, who will have to loose my good heart….
Dear Marcia,
Yes, a Sagittarius man can come back, but he will walk away again! If you want a stable relationship with a loyal partner, forget him, move on and find a better man. Not all Sags are like this, but be careful around them.
Sincere!
I’ve recently reconnected with an old sagittarius friend. We’ve known each other our whole lives but recently got in touch (after 9 years). I’m an aquarius female. We hung out a few times now and I can really tell that he likes me, we very intimate once and the chemistry between us was unbelievably strong. After that we have been texting a little bit, not too much though. I was thinking of having a friendly approach, I don’t want to suffocate him with the “relationship talk” (as an aquarius I understand that because I also like my freedom) – we both said that we are not looking for a relationship, but my guess is that we both want to see the progression of our friendship and intimacy. A big plus is that we’ve known each other for a long time and were attracted to each other even as kids . Anyway, I suggested that we go out for a drinks and he said that he would love to, but we didn’t set a specific day so I’m curious, should I let him contact me or should I contact him as the week goes on? I would really like to take this slow because I really see a potential in this. I also need my space so I understand that he needs it too. And I want to make him WANT to meet me and even miss me! Thank you for the advice.
Dear Maria,
I can honestly say that Sagittarius men are difficult to catch and tame. They value their freedom above all else but if they find a partner that is secure enough with themselves and willing to trust them unconditionally, then they can be the most loyal mate. Passion and fun are keys to a Sag’s relationships. They must feel that they have a great friend and amazing lover in one! The words that come out of their mouth are simply what they see and feel.
If they have the right partner, then they can be quite devoted! It takes much effort and acceptance to understand a Sagittarius’s need for freedom, adventure and independence.
Sincere!
Dear Rolland,
I’ve read all the commitments here about a Sagittarius man and surprised to see how many other woman are in the same situation.
I’m a Libra, a true Libra. I met my Sagittarius man in March. He’s divorced for 3 years. He was married for 25 years but cheated by his ex. He’s very hurt by the divorce and has been actively healing since. They have 3 grown up children together. We had an incredible spiritual connection since first date beyond just chemistry. We talked a lot about our perspective on life and beliefs. He paid tremendous amount of attention to me: call, text and FaceTime every day. We live about 2 hours away, he tried to make plans to see me as much as he can when he still has his high school son every other weekend. He also introduced me to all his friends, kids and his brothers. We discussed the idea of finding a house together, and he told me what he wanted for the house. He even told me that he felt vulnerable because he fell in love with me. I asked if he wants to be with me is because he’s lonely but he said no, it’s because he loves me, I can tell also from his eyes he’s telling the truth. 4 months later, his older sons visited him. I hear less and less from him, sometime not even a text for a couple of days which is quite different than usual. I asked if there is anything wrong between us, he said he’s just being busy. He started pay more attention to me but then he started not contact much again. Then he’s away with one of his son traveling for a couple of weeks. During the trip, he only texted a couple of times and not responded to mine, he also never said he misses me before, during and after the trip. We finally talked and he expressed that he needs time to work on himself, his life, be devoted to his kids (although they are grow ups) and it’s not the right time for a relationship because he’s afraid that he can’t provide the time and attention. He did say he loved me 100% and I’m perfect. From what I know, his personal situation hasn’t changed since we met. I don’t understand all the sudden he can’t have a relationship. Then we going back and forth, and I tried to be understanding and give him the time and space he needed. He and I got back again 2 weeks ago and he told me how much he think about me and love me. Then we didn’t see each for 10 days. He didn’t try to meet before the trip. Now he’s leaving to Asian by himself to searching for himself, and he doesn’t want to talk or text during his trip. He wants it to be his silent trip. I told him my concerns but told him I trust in him and our relationship. He didn’t text me until I asked if he arrived ok. He responded yes, then a day later got email from him that he’s thought over again that he can’t comment to relationship this time as he has so much in his life and not ready. But again he said he truly loves me, and wants continuing to love me, in open door. He said we have to love with no condition, and be together only when we both ready and prepared. My heart sunk… I love him so much. It’s a soul mate feeling I never had before and we got along well, I would never imagined this would happen. I feel the pain but helpless
Dear Carol,
Based on Sagittarius male typical traits, I’ll be honest with you they are very confusing, unpredictable and they hate commitment. They hate being tied down unless we want to. In your case, he may love you 100% but the feeling of settling down somewhat stops him…or probably he doesn’t want to get hurt the second time (from his previous marriage).
Sincere!
My husband who has left me for 7 months because of his new found mistress is back, We have been married for 14 years with 3 beautiful kids. I love my husband so much but I could not stop him. I need our marriage to work, I have read countless books on how to please your husband but none worked.
Dear Judy,
There is nothing you can do if he is ready to move on. Wise not to hound him, as that will only push him away more. Speak your truth, and then let it be. If he returns – great maybe you can both learn to love each other in a better way. If he doesn’t return, this hurt too will past, and learn from this journey, and not bring it into the next relationship.
We cannot control people, and when we guilt them back, sadly, it does not work out well.
Sincere!
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I could not believe it when I saw my husband back with his parents to beg me. This was the next day after the spell has being done. My husband Peter was crying on my feet begging me to please forgive him for abandoning our family.
From that very point I knew the spell was working. This same temple has don the same thing for my best friend who has being divorced for 2 years, but now she is happy with husband because she used same love spell to bring back her ex husband. This temple is the greatest solution temple on earth. I am happy I got my life back on track and everyone is happily living together in love just like the way it was before that witch appeared in our marriage.
Dear Sir Wooten,
So my ex-Sag seems to be permanently out of reach. I even dared to send him some hearts in a facebook message. Again, they are ignored, message not read. Why he doesn’t block me and completely unfriend me, I don’t understand. Obviously he doesn’t want us to talk, so why not block me and free me from this burden of being friends in facebook? Can they be so hateful, enjoying seeing me messaging him, and not replying?
Meanwhile, a new man (Pisces, like me) is flirting with me, but I am so hurt from the Sag man, I think I will tell the Pisces man ”there will be no sex ever, unless you marry me”. The Pisces will now have to pay for the Sag man’s sins 🙂
Dear Marcia,
In this case, Sagittarius man ignores you because so much time has passed since he last spoke that it would be very awkward to reinitiate contact. Meaning, he would have to explain himself or hear someone else’s explanation and he doesn’t care to explain or hear someone else’s explanation.
About letting Pisces man pay for your ex’s sins, I disagree. You get hurt because of the Sagittarius, not the Pisces…if you don’t want to start a new relationship, then be honest with him.
Sincere!