You are living in an ambiguous world where you always struggle to understand what others are thinking.
For those who are reading this, the possibility is that you may be wondering whether or not a Scorpio man has lost interested in you.
Seriously who can understand him?
When it comes to a romantic relationship with the Scorpio male, you need to give him all of your sincerity and honesty as he would do the same. However, there comes time you realize the sparks between you and him do not fly anymore.
It’s not surprising when an individual lose their interest to another in a romance.
How do Scorpios act when no longer interested?
There are certain traits you can look for in the guy you’re dating!
5 Common Signs a Scorpio Man is Not Interested Anymore
#1: He is distant from you
Due to his mysterious nature, you sometimes find your Scorpio man elusive. But if he acts more distant than usual and withdraws from your presence, probably he is trying to avoid you.
The best way is to let your Scorpio stay alone as he wants!
When seeing him like that, you should better ask him non-invasive questions in a casual way, and never think of probing him at the moment. Respect his privacy or strike up a casual conversation.
It will be a good sign if he feels comfortable with the conversation.
#2: He acts like he doesn’t care
Similar to Scorpio woman, when a Scorpio man has feelings for someone, he will listen to whatever she says attentively and hold on every word; put it simply, his love interest will have his full attention. Nevertheless, in case he keeps jumping into the conversation or doesn’t seem interested, this mean this guy is not into you.
If you have a talk with him, let’s see if he really listens or just plays aloof from time to time. Sometimes, he doesn’t focus because he gets distracted in his head.
Have you ever had a conversation with someone who checks his phone while you were in mid-sentence? Sounds rude, right?
The Scorpio guy will treat you like that if they he isn’t interested.
#3: He doesn’t reply your calls or texts quickly
Other signs letting you know your Scorpio man may get bored at you are:
- Taking time to reply your messages
- Rejecting your phone calls
When you text this guy, he will not send his reply instantly. We all know that men tends to play it cool and wait for 1-2 hours before texting back; however, it’s not normal if he leaves your text several hours or even days without any response. This definite means he does not want to communicate with you.
In addition, much worse than ignoring your text for hours, the Scorpio male can reject your calls. Though this is not a good manner, but he has no hesitation as you’ll find him does it all the time to those he dislikes.
You may also want to know whether you should ignore him or not when he shows rude manners.
#4: He is no longer intimate
Of all zodiac signs, Scorpio is the most affectionate, and they often show their affection through physical touches to the person they fall for. Considered as the sexual and sensual being, the Scorpio relationship is full of chemistry.
If you don’t receive this kind of attention from him, then there must be a problem.
Like Aquarius, the Scorpio male is quite shy around the lady he likes and will not make the first move when it comes to intimate contact unless she takes the initiative or has to be someone he knows well. If you see him a bit awkward or nervous when being with you, then it’s true he falls hard for you.
But, in case he friendly gives you a hug or touches your shoulder, it’s just that he sees you as a friend. Since he takes intimacy very seriously, he doesn’t display physical touch to anyone.
Also have a glance at the hurtful Scorpio female if you’re having issues with her.
#5: He doesn’t seem bothered how you see him
Did you know that Scorpio men extremely care about their physical appearance?
The thing is: if a Scorpio man does not like you, then he does not bother about how you think about his looks. This guy often cares whether or not he is at his best condition before dating with his loved one.
If he shows up like he’s been sleeping under a hedge, then probably he has no interest in you at all.
More Signs Scorpio Man Has No Feelings for You
Just like any other man, there are plenty of general signs helping Scorpios’ lovers know when they are no longer interested.
Take a look below…this guy:
- Shows rude behavior
- Has no passion to you
- Always makes excuse for his late reply and missed calls
- Spends much time for his friends instead of you
- Refuses to take you to meet his family
- Hesitating in all kinds of things which you get involved
- Mentions other women’s names in his talks
- Avoid making physical contacts
- Not prepares romantic dates for you
- Not includes you in his future plans
- Comes up with many reasons why he should end the relationship with you
Overall, the moment you start feelings the changes in him, possibly his eyes have not focused on you anymore.
Is It Possible to Win Scorpio Man Back?
You can’t accept the fact of losing him just like that; thus, here we’ve got some tips on telling you how to bring your Scorpio man back to you.
No need to rush – just take everything easy and you will be able to steal his heart back again. Here are facts about what you need to do:
- Give your appearance an upgrade
- Make yourself better and improve your intellect as this guy is attracted to intelligent women
- Be independent and simply enjoy your life to the fullest, but still make sure your Scorpio man notices your changes
- Not bother him most of the time
- Not get too emotional
- Play smart and do not let things seem obvious
- Spend time hanging out with your friends and update your social media to spread the news to him
- Be more mature and show him what he has missed
No one wants to see the way a Scorpio man acts when he is not interested anymore. Loyal and sincere, he is the best life partner that you would ever have; therefore, bring much of your effort to get him return to you.
Don’t just give up – you have to fight for what you think you deserve, but first make sure he’s totally worth it.
For any further information, leave your common in the following!
I’ve known a Scorp for a few years.
We became very close, slept with eachother years ago but we’ve never been official. He has been in my life again.
Recently something happened. We have mutual friends and he had a conflict with them and kind of put me in the middle as where he asked me to give information about them and didn’t want to give. The conflict was his fault, and I feel he can’t admit that he is not always right. Lets his ego above everything else. He lost friends from university and don’t talk to him anymore, and now might lose friends from childhood. He told me he wants them back. But now because I don’t give some pics/information about them he said he never wants to talk to me again. Will he ever realize what he does and be less selfish? All his friends think he is really selfish. He says he’s fine, but I know he’s not. I can’t make someone talk to me. Time will tell.
Scorpions are usually serious when done is done. But also when you didn’t do anything wrong? Did he ever cared about me at all? We told eachother so many things… Endless long night talks. How can we go from that to nothing?
Rolland Wooten says
Scorpios aren’t selfish by nature. Scorpios at their worst are jealous, possessive and controlling. At their best, they are nurturing, passionate and protective of the people and ideas they love. Scorpio is human, so the need to recognize the self and do selfish things will be there sometimes, but no more,no less than anyone else.
For Scorpio men, they are extremely secretive. Many times, they will make you feel as if they are dangerous, but usually their secrets are harmless. Scorpios have a tendency to over exaggerate things, because they feel intensely. They brood over things that really shouldn’t matter much during arguments and have a hard time letting go. But they are very affectionate, have a strong core to them, and will always be there when you need them.
Be patient with a Scorpio as they don’t like to get into arguments at all.
Met a pretty hot scorpio dude over the weekend. Just by fate and purely accidental organic meeting. Boom, sparks of course, because I am an Aries and he’s a sexy Scorpio. We immediately liked each other and went out for a bite then met up the next day for a hang out at my place to talk and then watch a movie. Good conversation, comfortable vibe, nice hug goodbye both days. No doubt he’s a hottie and I admire his courage and strength, but not sure after all I’ve read about Scorpio men that I;m all that concerned if we get together again. I don’t really like possessive men who are brooding and moody. Maybe my vivacious, love of life personality will buffer out his Pluto depths of coolness, but if not, then I’m not sticking around for extreme highs and lows. Too content with my life to deal with that kind of emotional drama no matter hot he is! Oh, heck he may have already read up on my zodiac sign too and decided no way, can’t control this one or bend her to my domination so not going to pursue her! ha.
Rolland Wooten says
Scorpio man is all about giving . He is a hardworker and very clean. He is blunt and loves hard and fast. Best believe if they want u they will do whatever to get u. He is indeed a gentleman. But don’t ever lie they can see thru it. They also will push u even if you don’t want to talk about something. They are great people but can have a quick anger.
I am so sad and I can’t understand him! He was chasing me for three years but I moved to another city so sometimes we wrote to each other casual things. After three years he found me again and told me honeslty how he feels about me, was passionated and honest. Then we met finally and it was one of my best date ever. After we were talking on the phone about a month and then met again! He was chatty and I’ve but suddenly after we were having sex he went cold and distant, still we spent all night out having serious conversations and we enjoyed but he never kissed me never realy cared about me and watching his phone several times. (was work and he ask apologize) he told me he has afraid how it will work beetwen us if we are in a different city. And I felt he is not okay. then we slept together and he left me in the morning with a kiss and never massege me back anymore. (since one week) I am so sad and have no Idea waht to think. He was always being a bit cold a dB distant and didn’t answer me few but this is the longest one. I can’t believe of he can just leave me and hurt me like this. Thank you for your help.
Rolland Wooten says
Sometimes Scorpio guys get overwhelmed by the whole idea of relationships and they feel so much themselves…they start to notice themselvescaring for someone, they spook. They feel their autonomy being threatened, they retract. They are in a position to be vulnerable? They close off. It’s not fair to the people who aren’t the way some of the Scorpio people are, to be fair to the other portion of the Scorpio community who aren’t ANYTHING like this. But those who are- when they get a little bit more perspective , they come around and are going to be the most loyal and lifelong allies in your corner ever. As friends, mates, in any sense. Give him a reasonable amount of time. The only thing is reasonable- if he’s still not giving any sense of response or interaction, the guy may be a bit of a tool whenever he was born and in that case, waste no more time.
Dianis Vinson says
I am an african american 35yr old drop out . Even though I did years ago I have been able to get back into schooling and continue my education. As an Pisces, I recently met a 50 year old Scorpion virgin. I stayed with him for a while his mother, niece and nephews. He found out I was on crystal and not we’re not together. So what,should I do, just leave him alone?
Rolland Wooten says
“Men don’t like to feel smothered, if you chase them instead of giving them space to process things, you might lose them. Let them do the chasing.”
The same concept goes with men not always wanting to express their feelings, feeling vulnerable, or commitment. They don’t like to feel weak or trapped.
When your boyfriend stopped talking to you, he was probably taking that time to calm down. You might not like it and you might want to keep texting him to talk to you, but it’s something to not over think and to except. You can ask him to talk about what you were arguing (if he says yes try not to use “you” blaming words). Woman are emotional, whether we like it or not, we like to talk it out and express our emotions but to a man, it can be kind of overwhelming. If the argument is not something worth going over or dwelling on, its best to let it go.