Love does not mean you have to be with your lover most of the time.
Sometimes a relationship needs distance; however, there is a difference between needing space to think thoroughly and when the partner ignores you.
Is your Sagittarius man acting distant?
When he starts pulling away or withdrawing from you, actually there are plenty of reasons behind. But, the relationship will not end up just because he seems a bit detached.
In this situation, it’s essential to figure out what makes your Sagittarius feel so distant so that you can fix your relationship with him.
Let’s see if you can end up better than where you are now!
Why Does Your Sagittarius Man Pull away?
Not a dull moment can be founded when you are dating a Sagittarius man because he’s always full of surprises. He is a true adventurous person who values his freedom the most. In love, he expects his partner can also be his best friend.
When getting involved in a relationship with this freedom lover, remember not to give him the feeling that you’re trying to control or tie him down; otherwise, he will surely ignore you and even think about running away.
Don’t display any sign of clinginess or you’ll lose him soon.
As this guy can’t resist the excitement and new things, he of course wants to be with someone who is as adventurous and enthusiastic as he is. If you feel that he is starting to behave distant, then you should take him out for a day trip to somewhere in which you two can do whatever you both prefer, such as hiking, swimming, etc.
Doing fun activities together can strengthen the bond between you and him.
All the fun moments will certainly remind him about all the good times both have spent with each other in the past. Don’t be worry if he seems a bit reserved – it’s probably because he wants to be sure if the relationship with you is worth trying.
How to Handle an Ignoring Sagittarius Man?
You already know the reasons, now it’s time to find the solutions for when your Sagittarius man acts distant, ignores or gets mad at you.
#1: He stops texting
When a Sagittarius man ignores your text or stops texting, it’s a sign his interest as well as affection for you is fading.
Not many know that Sagittarius has an aloof side because he is normally an energetic and outgoing person. However, things are not right if you find him extra distant and not returning texts. He either withdraws from you or just wants to test you.
In this case, you should give him time and space rather than bombarding him with tons of calls and messages.
#2: He is not honest with you
Sagittarius man is infamous for his honesty, so there must be a reason once he lies to you. When he truly loves someone, he will only tell the truth – sometimes his truths can be brutal and hard to listen.
For a Sagittarius who is deceptive, it may be because he loses his respect to you.
#3: He cheats on you
When you find out your Sagittarius man is cheating, the solution is to quickly get clear with him.
Don’t be hesitant to question him his infidelity! Calmly ask him about his feelings towards you in the current situation and require a straight, honest answer from him. If he still has any respect for you, he will give a blunt response influenced by his zodiac sign’s directness.
Nevertheless, if he avoids your eye contact and dodges your question, it means he does not want to explain. At this point, you should move on because he shows no sincerity in investing this relationship.
#4: He looks down your intelligence
He is an intellect and values intelligence as much as freedom.
When looking for an ideal partner, he’s more into the woman who can make intellectual conversations with him than ladies with looks only. Nonetheless, if he’s not respecting your intelligence, it’s probably because he thinks you can keep up with him.
If you truly love him and want to fix this relationship, the answer is to widen your knowledge and impress him later.
Is it a good idea to ignore a Sagittarius man in return?
You can consider trying this way when your Sagittarius is acting distant as it somewhat helps you regain his affection. But, keep in mind it’s a risky and tricky move if you want to attract him.
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I have fallen in love witha Sagittarius man and things wher ok till he distance him self and I never questioned him about that till he text me n told me things are a bit hectic for him his trying to fix his life and I met him when he ame ba k from prison and In our conversation I told him if things are not working out he must tell me he replied and told me he will but he still thinks about me n loves me .Just dont know what to do I hate waiting but realise I love him more n miss him .it was a good rhing I delt so complete with him I so wish he. An be straight with me.
Rolland Wooten says
The reason for Sagittarius to distance themselves is because they like freedom. Sometimes, they just feel like they’re trapped in a relationship, or a situation or whatever and they just need to get away for awhile to breathe. It’s not because of you, so don’t take it personally. They just have a strong need for independence and when they feel like that’s being threatened they need to escape for awhile. But don’t worry, they usually come running back!
My advice would be to not bother your Sag when they go away like this, it’ll just make him stay away longer. After awhile he eventually come back happy as ever.
Johanna Espinosa says
This is why I would give him his space. He would turn around a day later and ask me why I didn’t reach out to him. I had my guard because he didn’t want labels on us. But he was very sweet to me. I felt he loved me but just couldn’t say it to me. So confusing. He treated me very loving tho.
Let me lay it out for you guys.
If were in a relationship with you and its a deep connection, we’ve basically made you our best friend/someone special to us.
Well give you everything we can and expect some emotional moments in return. If we just dont see you acting your best you can be with us then we’ll take that as a hit to our relationship because we try hard to please and you should do your best to meet our basic needs. If you find yourself getting a cold shoulder then we’re waiting to see your commitment by asking whats going on and accepting any fault they may lay on you. It might be bottled up so have your seatbelt on. After that we should be chill because we like to progress through things and leave the rest in the past. And like my sign heres some honesty-i was baked writing this. Pls excuse all spelling errors. We might also try to fill our distances with something to make us feel happy/good. Not all sag feel the same tho.
My Sagittarius friend and I have been dating for 5 years. He recently considered a relationship after 5 years of dating. There are times when he will go 3 or 4 weeks without texting or contacting me and I have gotten used to the pattern. It does bother me when he go on what I call a vacation from communicating with me. It makes me feel like he’s found interest somewhere else. I feel like the least that he could do is tell me that he just need some space for about a month, so that I would fret. We just had a really big argument about his absence on New Year’s Eve. I explained that I thought he was with someone else. He accused me of being insecure and I’m not insecure at all. Please help me fix this
I meant not fret
Rolland Wooten says
Though you said you’re not insecure, your fear of him finding interest in someone else proved the opposite. In fact, all women feel the same when dating Sagittarius men so it’s understandable. He’s charming, social, and flirty…you can’t help but feeling a bit scared that he will get bored of you and leave.
Keep in mind that Sagittarius man doesn’t like clingy or needy women. Don’t bombard him with calls and texts or stay around him most of the time; instead, focus on your own life and prove to him that you can be happy without his presence and he will get drawn to you again.
I have been in a long distance relationship with a Sag man for 4 months ( we have known each other for 5 years, with times when we were seeing each other until he disappeared which he used to do a lot ). After suddenly coming back into my life he told me that he wants to have a relationship with me, to live together and some day start a family. We have been communicating daily and for the past four months we have been visiting each other once a month ( we live in different countries ). The plan was for me to move to his once he sorts out where his job will take him. I have been patiently waiting and told him I am happy to make this move. So far things have been going smoothly ( of course with his mood swings and sometimes being distant ), but recently we found out we won’t be able to see each other any time soon, maybe even in 2-3 months. I can feel he is being quite cold and distant now with me. I am tired of seeking for his attention which he should give freely, and he did in the beginning. I don’t want to be desperate but I want this to work out between us, I have always loved him and know we can be great together. How can I be sure he won’t give up on us? We don’t have a great base yet to build this relationship on as this is the first time we were so serious about being together. Now we are only left with this distant communication and I am willing to invest as much as it takes to keep the spark, and I have let him know that but I am afraid I scared him off and he feels pressured now to keep in touch with me. Any suggestions? Is it worth fighting for? How do I know when enough is enough? I never wanted to be too much, I rather wait for him to contact me but how long?!
Rolland Wooten says
There are two possibilities:
1/ You did something or said something he didn’t like it, but maybe he is shy and don’t have the courage to tell you about it.
2/ He felt the chemistry is not there anymore and being shy don’t have the courage to tell you about it.
In the first case a conversation will most likely clear the air and he will be glad you did it. If he likes you, everything will be fine again.
In the second case, since the chemistry is not there anymore, he will be reluctant to confess it, but you will feel the magic is gone. Best thing to do is to start looking for another person that might be more into you.
In summary, don’t waste any more time, and talk to him asap to identify where the problem is.
Hey Sandra! I would like to have a talk. I am also dating a sag and it’s a long distance. You may reach me at firstname.lastname@example.org
Hope to hear from you soon!
My partner now is sagittarius lesbian. I don’t know what’s happening. She don’t want to go out with me. She has a alot of reason. She said she is tired, feeling tired and she don’t want anyone to control her. I understand her but if she is tired why she go’s out with his friend. I ask her if she still love me she said yes. What should i do?
Rolland Wooten says
There are lots of kinds of love. If she says she loves you, she probably does in some way. The fact that she has the presence of mind to tell you about her hesitation to get into a relationship means she is probably honest and cares enough about you to not want to hurt you. Just give it time and love her the way you do..
Best of luck and love,