Love is really complicated and hard to understand.
While some couples are lucky to be in a happy, lost-lasting relationship, others are not that successful.
Falling in love is a beautiful experience that no one can resist and forget; however, being in the relationship with someone you love is not always dreamy and perfect. In fact, many issues will happen when two people live together aside from joys.
When cracks appear, not all couples enable to sort things out; sadly, some choose to back and later end up regretting their impulsive action.
In this article, you’re going to gain insights on signs when a Scorpio man wants you back into his life.
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How to Know If Scorpio Male Wants You Back?
#1: Calling you constantly
This is probably the clearest sign your Scorpio ex boyfriend wants you back.
If he’s the first one making the call, then 100% he is thinking about you and missing you. He may call or text you all of sudden without any particular reason. No matter how many times you ignore him, he still makes his attempts to give you calls or messages.
When you ask him why, he will come up with random excuses; for example, he talks about a mutual friend. Trust me: his reason is quite awkward but it’s just that he’s trying to open a conversation.
Read about what a Scorpio man wants to hear from his girl!
#2: Dialing every time he’s drunk
When a Scorpio man wants you back, this is one of the most common signs.
This is the guy afraid of admitting his true feeling when he’s in the sober state; nonetheless, it’s different at the time he’s drunk. Once completely drunk, he feels it much easier to confront the fact he needs you to come back.
Scientifically, alcohol can help lower one’s inhibition levels allowing them to freely express what they actually feel or try to hide.
This means your Scorpio ex becomes defenseless to his feelings and desires at its peak when he gets drunk. To tell if he is missing you or not, just wait and see whether or not he tries drunk dialing you after a breakup. The moment you see his number displaying on your phone, you will realize you’re still in his system.
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#3: Feelings confused about his feelings
Do you know why he doesn’t want to admit?
It’s because he’s struggled with his own feelings! He may call or text you frequently for a couple of weeks and then suddenly pull away. Your Scorpio man wants to spend time with you, but there are days he is confused about if he should see you again.
Don’t be surprised if you find him disappear out of the blue and unable to contact.
What does his behavior imply? In this case, he’s a bit confused about his feelings for you after the breakup; however, it’s a common behavior for anyone who just broken up. He has a hard time to admit his feelings about you and desire of getting you to come back.
#4: Talking with your family & friends
A sign telling your Scorpio man surely comes back is when he keeps in touch with people close to you, like your family and friends. Even if you two went through a quite intense breakup, he still remains good relationships with your parents, siblings, as well as best buddies.
He doesn’t care the fact you two are no longer together; whenever people in your family have a hard time, he will be there for them willingly.
In addition, he will show up if getting the invitation to your family events or parties. This guy tries to act normal around you as he is totally fine; indeed, he truly wants you to know how important you are to him.
His purpose of keeping the connection with people surrounding you is to make you realize how much you mean to his life.
#5: Dating someone else
Well, Scorpio man will try dating someone else in order to catch your attention and also make you jealous.
This situation is when he’s confused about whether he should move on or chase you for a comeback. That’s why he ends up in a rebound relationship. Deep inside he can’t handle the loneliness; however, there’s no way he wants to admit that. So, his first effort of forgetting you is to enter a new relationship.
Truthfully, he finds it extremely difficult to tell you to return in his life because of the fear of rejection. As a result, your Scorpio male decides to hang out with a new girl as a test to see if you still have any feelings for him.
#6: Reminiscing the good old days
Whenever you hear him saying about all the beautiful memories he had with you, it’s another sign Scorpio man wishes you to come back. There are times good old days passing through his mind – remembering the good times the two of you spent together will rekindle an old flame.
He wants to feel those moments with you again, have fun with you, and create new good memories with you.
#7: Becoming a better person
This is the stage Scorpio man will figure out the reason leading the two of you to the breakup and try to improve himself in those areas so that he won’t repeat that mistake again.
Here is a perfect sign he needs you or he will win you back!
Don’t show much of your excitement with his changes; instead, keep it on hold. You should congratulate him and observe for awhile before agreeing to return. Be a great source of support to him but avoid displaying signs you crave for him.
Be consistent before jumping into any conclusion!
Summary
So, when a Scorpio man wants you back, he will show many signs.
Does he really want both to get back together? Are his actions genuine or just temporary? I hope the information here can help you determine his feelings and not make any wrong decision to your love life.
Take time to think about your current situation.
If you two truly love each other and can forgive one another’s mistakes as well as differences, then follow what your heart wants.
Would a Scorpio make one of his friends call you to check for a green light?
And what if he said he had fear of commitment before and only had the dating stage?
Hi dear,
If he has made his feelings clear and he is indicating that the idea of commitment makes him insecure for whatever reason (the reasons might actually matter if he wants to experience more women?) then you must respect this. This is the nature of your boyfriend. He is simply not ready to be that serious. If you believe he is definitely the one then the best thing you could do is understand him and fit into his world as perfectly as you can. Employ patience, keep loving him and in time he may very well come to realise that what he has, he does not wish to lose.
Good luck! I hope this helps!
Hi!
My Scorpio came back after year. He said he made a mistake to not talk to me again and he apologized, but doesn’t expect to be forgiven. What does that mean?
He said he wanted to apologize a long time ago, couldn’t find the words, and because I didn’t trust him to do the right thing he couldn’t bothered because he thought it won’t change anything.
Will a Scorp reach out more? A lot of things happened, and he deleted all social media and stopped talking to people after a certain event. Total radio silence, but that was more than a year ago.
We did talk like we used to, about everything, about trust, his friends, his family, my friends, my family, life, poetry, movies, but still not as often as before.
Is this just friendship, or more?
Hi Christina,
If you are really meant in his life he will put a maximum effort to reach out to you and for no matter whatever is the situation it is he would manage to handle and make it for you. Just live your life talk to him openly. If he is your ex and you two did have a breakup, your relationship didn’t work for a reason then, why should it be different now? I believe everything happens for a reason. In my opinion for an ex to reach out to you because they truly miss you , and not because they miss the idea of YOU. You will have to discuss any issues that the two of you had before you can move on to talk about your future as individuals and maybe a new reunited couple.
Sincere