Scorpio man is a kind of lover that all women wish to have in life.
He is very popular compared to guys from other zodiac sign. Due to his alluring energy, this man is simply just irresistible.
Calm and confident, the Scorpio male has the capacity of providing comfort to any woman around him. As he is attractive, it’s not a surprise when you find yourself fall in love with him.
If you think of conquering a Scorpio man’s heart, you must be ready for a huge challenge.
Please not that your love interest is competitive and seen as a natural born leader. If you are wondering whether or not showing off your knowledge and experience about life can gain his interest, the answer is: he will see you as one of his competitors.
How to make a Scorpio man obsessed with you? How to be his potential lover?
For the insight of getting the guy addicted to you, read through the article here.
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12 Tips for Becoming a Woman Scorpio Man Obsesses with…
#1: Be smart
When talking to a Scorpio man, it means you are talking to a highly intelligent person. Because of this quality, he tends to look for an intellect woman to be his partner. If you care much about your appearance than your mind, then you likely have no chance with this guy.
He has a great desire of discuss all big issues with his smart lady.
Talking about things you’re knowledgeable about is a wise move, but don’t try to look smarter than him. Actively engage in any topic that he brings up – this is a way to create a stronger connection with him.
#2: Flatter him
One of greatest ways to stroke his ego is to give your Scorpio love interest compliments sincerely. Don’t be too obvious! Just make sure you let him hear many good things about him, such as his looks, his clothes, etc.
He will appreciate if you complement him with a bit of mystery.
#3: Show your wild side
What does a Scorpio man want in a woman?
His high sexual drive makes him a fiery and passionate lover; thus, he can’t help but expecting his loved one can sexually arouse him. In order to make him obsessed with you, you’re advised to be as passionate as him.
How to turn on a Scorpio man sexually?
This guy is drawn into the lady able to fulfill all his sexual desire. Don’t be too stagnant or he will lose his interest in you.
#4: Play hard to get
He is the man of conquest; therefore, you should give him a little challenge by making him chase you. No matter how much you like him, do not let him know your feelings immediately.
Rather than revealing everything, it’s better to imply your attraction for him subtly – this somehow will stir his curiosity.
Since Scorpio man gets bored easily, do not make yourself always be available. Let him wait a couple of minutes whenever he calls or texts you. Play hard to get and he’ll surely be obsessed to you.
#5: Let him set the pace
Did I tell you that Scorpio male enjoys the chase?
You shouldn’t try to dominate when you and Scorpio are in a relationship. Take a step backwards and let him be in charge.
So, what is he likely to act in love? Not to dominate you, a Scorpio guy simply wants to be the one setting the pace. Very reliable, he often comes up with useful advice for almost anything. Let him know how he means to you but don’t make you look needy.
#6: Be confident
The key element to catch a Scorpio man’s attention is your confidence.
Aside from the intellect, you have to be a confident woman who is certain about what you want to do to get this guy addicted to you. Thanks to the natural characteristics of his zodiac sign, Scorpio has confidence written all over him.
When being with a Scorpio man in love, remember to give him only straightforward answers. He hates the lady unable to make her own decisions.
#7: Win his trust
If you want to capture the heart of this guy, then you must be truthful to him.
He finds it hard to fall in love quickly as he has to deal with trust issues; hence, honesty is something very important to a Scorpio man. Be sincere and honest in the relationship and he will see you with a more positive perspective.
He will soon recognize your value and eventually be obsessed with you. With his incredible intuition, he can easily figure out if you are lying to him.
Don’t lie to him or Scorpio man ignores you immediately!
#8: Be mysterious
One of signs a Scorpio man has feelings for you is that he craves to know everything about you. But, it would be an unwise move if you reveal everything about you at once. Like I said earlier, Scorpio loves the feeling of chasing his love interest. Of course he will get what he wants when chasing after something; thus, don’t make it simple for him.
This guy will get bored right away if he can achieve something easily. During the chase, you need to give him any worthwhile challenge. Display a sense of mysteriousness instead of being an opened book.
That’s how to make a Scorpio man obsessed with you.
#9: Show your sincerity
Another way to make Scorpio man want you truly is to show him how sincere you are.
Does your relationship come first? It doesn’t mean that you focus only on your partner and totally ignore other aspects of life. Actually, depending on situations, sometimes you should choose to put the relationship with your Scorpio above all else.
He will deeply appreciate if you make a homemade meal for him. It doesn’t have to be perfect because at least he knows you really care about him.
#10: Display your true beauty
Well, Scorpio man’s ideal woman is someone who not only has the looks but also is capable of showing off her magnetic personality. No matter how stunning or gorgeous you are, what really makes a Scorpio interested is your inner beauty.
Don’t try to look like others; instead, stay true to your authentic self and stick to your own style. Your uniqueness will spread and speak for itself, and this is exactly what will turn the Scorpio guy on.
As long as you can keep him excited and intrigued, he won’t be able to resist you.
#11: Don’t play games with him
When a Scorpio man wants you in his life, he will be very serious. This guy looks for a steady, long-term relationship; therefore, you shouldn’t play games with him. Sensitive and insecurity, he is not the type falling in love quickly. Never expect him to settle down unless you can gain his trust.
He wants to spend his whole life with the woman who is reliable and of course does not take him as a game. Be patient when reaching out on him because he probably won’t response you immediately.
Don’t back off at a glance and make sure you are always there for him!
#12: Don’t force anything
If you want to be with a Scorpio man, make sure to keep things as much private as possible. Why? He is a conservative person who doesn’t want to show love and affection in public. It’s better to keep it low – this guy prefers to express his feelings in somewhere without anyone but you and him.
Try to spend time with him so that you two can know about each other better; also, it’s a good idea to take him for a little adventure or fun activities together.
You shouldn’t be in a rush or force him to like you in return!
When a Scorpio Man Falls in Love…
His feelings:
How does a Scorpio man feel when he loves you?
Referring to this guy in love, it’s frustrated because you can’t really understand his complicated feelings. Just because he flirts with you or treats you kindly, it doesn’t mean he has something special for you. He seems a bit distant at first; however, he will come out straight when truly realizing his love to you.
Your Scorpio will speak up his feelings directly rather than bottling things up inside.
Wonder if he sees you as a friend or more than a friend? Learn to be patient and you’ll get the answer from him at the right time. There are many claims saying this man do not fall in love easily, but the truth is that he sometimes will be drawn into someone with an air of mystery right away.
His behaviors:
About the way Scorpio man acts when falling in love, the first unmistakable thing is that he will do everything for his woman. Just tell him what you want, and he will try his best to satisfy you and make you happy…sounds good, right?
Similar to Leo, the Scorpio male will become possessive when interested in someone.
I have to say that he is extremely jealous. Much like the spider which tends to weave a net around its prey, this guy wants you to belong to him only and him alone. In general, he won’t mind going to any length to make sure you are beside him forever.
Conclusion
In general, be mysterious and honest if you want to get a Scorpio man addicted to you and stick by your side for a long term. You can show him your love affection but in a subtle way.
Scorpio man is not interested in those who are indecisive. Keep in mind that you have to be truthful and straightforward when dating this guy.
All eight tips mentioned in this article will help you know how to become irresistible to the man of Scorpio soul. However, if you want to unlock his deep desire, then you have to gain clarity into his secret obsession in order to know what really makes him tick at a deep level.
Learn about Scorpio man will help you find the answer of what turns him on as well as handle his knowledge and power at times.
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For more info about Scorpio man, leave your comments below!
I have try that he is to controlling its crazy and i m in love with him but he is to controlling what do i do now
Dear Denise,
Maybe you two need a serious talk in which you can tell him directly about the problem.
Keep the conversation light.
Sincere!
Hi. I met him online and been chatting on and off for the past 8 mos. Initially he was very open and intense about his feelings but as everybody else’s issue , he kept on pulling away. Initially only 2 to 3 days with no communication at all then came to a week, 2 weeks and recently a month or so. He always have reasons and I have always been warm towards him whenever he alls or text me. Btw, he lives in paris and I live in london and we havent met! ( I know)
He did say he likes me a lot and even said iloveyou even in the first few months we were chatting. 3 days ago I received a call from him using his mobile number ( we used to chat on WhatsApp but before the lockdown he stopped using it. But even before that, the last time he texted me was feb 22, which was my bday and greeted me. Then weeks nothing before march 13th which was the last time he went online.) He was saying all the good stuffs , I’m sorry, I love you and I miss you.. he said his phone was stolen and he said it’s a long story as to how he got my number again. Promised me ( as always) that he would call me to explain further but never did. Waiting for 3 days now. We became friends on fb 3 days ago after that call!
What shall I do? I love him though.. just confused as to why he acts like that .
Hi Lynn it’s either two answer number one is from experience some feels as if the love could be too good to be true sometimes so when it gets to the climax Shoo away then they miss u and shoo away it could be past trust issues or anything or he could be a big liar have a wife and all or a girl and can’t tAlk like that only when they are in their outs
Omg!!! Why do i have almost the same issue? I met this guy online, been chatting for almost 3mos, he told me he loves me after 3wks of chatting then i told him i love him too in the 4th wk. after that i feel like he’s getting cold, i really dont know what to do im getting crazy, i feel like he’s unfair coz after making me fall inlove with him its like he’s pulling away omg!!!
I ve known him for 3 years now but still I know nothing about him he used to tell me little about himself n his family but nat anymore . He doesn’t tell me when he lives the country and when he comes back .i only know after his gone or after he comes back . So should I leave him or shall I give him some time ? I love him so much but his secretive behaviour is driving me crazy.
is it ok to propose a scorpio guy?tell him that I like him.I liked him a lot.I know him for a long time.he was single but when I went to giving him my all attention,he started a new relationship.what should I do? tell him that I like him.
Dear Sadia,
Scorpios are VERY shy and hold back.
They are mysterious and that just makes you want him more. Keep talking to him to let him know you’re interested. He is feeling you out. He wants to be with a woman he can trust, open up to but eventually he wants control.
Do not get to close physically, he needs his space.
Keep in mind he moves slow.
Sincere!
This Scorpio is quite open with me but I think he likes the flirt and likes me as a friend
Dear Jane,
Just give him more time to understand his feelings!
Good luck!
My Scorpio man is complicated but simple at the same time. He is always busy with football or his ps4, but he says he misses me. I wish I could ask him about it. Does he love me?
Dear Keila,
I think he playing games and he loving you have no relation – if you want to know if he loves you, then take the right moment and ask him that question. Only your Scorpio man can give you the answer you’re craving for, not me.
Sincere!
Hi! so my scorpio and I have known each other for some time and we clicked instantly. We’ve hung out twice and he is very touchy as in wants to hug or hold hands and also kiss, which I don’t mind because I like him a lot. ever since we got each other’s contact, we been talking 24/7. however, he can be a little distant when texting or I feel like he gets bored. so when I lag on him, he replies faster and flirts again so I don’t know. I’m confused by his actions and I don’t know what to do.
Dear Josie,
Give him space. Let him know you care and are ready to interact with him when he is ready again.
Scorpio men can become moody and withdrawn frequently. Always expect to be treated with kindness and respect. But as long as they are not being mean or disrespectful..if all they need is some time with themselves…give them what they need.
Sincere!