Scorpio man is a kind of lover that all women wish to have in life.
He is very popular compared to guys from other zodiac sign. Due to his alluring energy, this man is simply just irresistible.
Calm and confident, the Scorpio male has the capacity of providing comfort to any woman around him. As he is attractive, it’s not a surprise when you find yourself fall in love with him.
If you think of conquering a Scorpio man’s heart, you must be ready for a huge challenge.
Please not that your love interest is competitive and seen as a natural born leader. If you are wondering whether or not showing off your knowledge and experience about life can gain his interest, the answer is: he will see you as one of his competitors.
How to make a Scorpio man obsessed with you? How to be his potential lover?
For the insight of getting the guy addicted to you, read through the article here.
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12 Tips for Becoming a Woman Scorpio Man Obsesses with…
#1: Be smart
When talking to a Scorpio man, it means you are talking to a highly intelligent person. Because of this quality, he tends to look for an intellect woman to be his partner. If you care much about your appearance than your mind, then you likely have no chance with this guy.
He has a great desire of discuss all big issues with his smart lady.
Talking about things you’re knowledgeable about is a wise move, but don’t try to look smarter than him. Actively engage in any topic that he brings up – this is a way to create a stronger connection with him.
#2: Flatter him
One of greatest ways to stroke his ego is to give your Scorpio love interest compliments sincerely. Don’t be too obvious! Just make sure you let him hear many good things about him, such as his looks, his clothes, etc.
He will appreciate if you complement him with a bit of mystery.
#3: Show your wild side
What does a Scorpio man want in a woman?
His high sexual drive makes him a fiery and passionate lover; thus, he can’t help but expecting his loved one can sexually arouse him. In order to make him obsessed with you, you’re advised to be as passionate as him.
How to turn on a Scorpio man sexually?
This guy is drawn into the lady able to fulfill all his sexual desire. Don’t be too stagnant or he will lose his interest in you.
#4: Play hard to get
He is the man of conquest; therefore, you should give him a little challenge by making him chase you. No matter how much you like him, do not let him know your feelings immediately.
Rather than revealing everything, it’s better to imply your attraction for him subtly – this somehow will stir his curiosity.
Since Scorpio man gets bored easily, do not make yourself always be available. Let him wait a couple of minutes whenever he calls or texts you. Play hard to get and he’ll surely be obsessed to you.
#5: Let him set the pace
Did I tell you that Scorpio male enjoys the chase?
You shouldn’t try to dominate when you and Scorpio are in a relationship. Take a step backwards and let him be in charge.
So, what is he likely to act in love? Not to dominate you, a Scorpio guy simply wants to be the one setting the pace. Very reliable, he often comes up with useful advice for almost anything. Let him know how he means to you but don’t make you look needy.
#6: Be confident
The key element to catch a Scorpio man’s attention is your confidence.
Aside from the intellect, you have to be a confident woman who is certain about what you want to do to get this guy addicted to you. Thanks to the natural characteristics of his zodiac sign, Scorpio has confidence written all over him.
When being with a Scorpio man in love, remember to give him only straightforward answers. He hates the lady unable to make her own decisions.
#7: Win his trust
If you want to capture the heart of this guy, then you must be truthful to him.
He finds it hard to fall in love quickly as he has to deal with trust issues; hence, honesty is something very important to a Scorpio man. Be sincere and honest in the relationship and he will see you with a more positive perspective.
He will soon recognize your value and eventually be obsessed with you. With his incredible intuition, he can easily figure out if you are lying to him.
Don’t lie to him or Scorpio man ignores you immediately!
#8: Be mysterious
One of signs a Scorpio man has feelings for you is that he craves to know everything about you. But, it would be an unwise move if you reveal everything about you at once. Like I said earlier, Scorpio loves the feeling of chasing his love interest. Of course he will get what he wants when chasing after something; thus, don’t make it simple for him.
This guy will get bored right away if he can achieve something easily. During the chase, you need to give him any worthwhile challenge. Display a sense of mysteriousness instead of being an opened book.
That’s how to make a Scorpio man obsessed with you.
#9: Show your sincerity
Another way to make Scorpio man want you truly is to show him how sincere you are.
Does your relationship come first? It doesn’t mean that you focus only on your partner and totally ignore other aspects of life. Actually, depending on situations, sometimes you should choose to put the relationship with your Scorpio above all else.
He will deeply appreciate if you make a homemade meal for him. It doesn’t have to be perfect because at least he knows you really care about him.
#10: Display your true beauty
Well, Scorpio man’s ideal woman is someone who not only has the looks but also is capable of showing off her magnetic personality. No matter how stunning or gorgeous you are, what really makes a Scorpio interested is your inner beauty.
Don’t try to look like others; instead, stay true to your authentic self and stick to your own style. Your uniqueness will spread and speak for itself, and this is exactly what will turn the Scorpio guy on.
As long as you can keep him excited and intrigued, he won’t be able to resist you.
#11: Don’t play games with him
When a Scorpio man wants you in his life, he will be very serious. This guy looks for a steady, long-term relationship; therefore, you shouldn’t play games with him. Sensitive and insecurity, he is not the type falling in love quickly. Never expect him to settle down unless you can gain his trust.
He wants to spend his whole life with the woman who is reliable and of course does not take him as a game. Be patient when reaching out on him because he probably won’t response you immediately.
Don’t back off at a glance and make sure you are always there for him!
#12: Don’t force anything
If you want to be with a Scorpio man, make sure to keep things as much private as possible. Why? He is a conservative person who doesn’t want to show love and affection in public. It’s better to keep it low – this guy prefers to express his feelings in somewhere without anyone but you and him.
Try to spend time with him so that you two can know about each other better; also, it’s a good idea to take him for a little adventure or fun activities together.
You shouldn’t be in a rush or force him to like you in return!
When a Scorpio Man Falls in Love…
His feelings:
How does a Scorpio man feel when he loves you?
Referring to this guy in love, it’s frustrated because you can’t really understand his complicated feelings. Just because he flirts with you or treats you kindly, it doesn’t mean he has something special for you. He seems a bit distant at first; however, he will come out straight when truly realizing his love to you.
Your Scorpio will speak up his feelings directly rather than bottling things up inside.
Wonder if he sees you as a friend or more than a friend? Learn to be patient and you’ll get the answer from him at the right time. There are many claims saying this man do not fall in love easily, but the truth is that he sometimes will be drawn into someone with an air of mystery right away.
His behaviors:
About the way Scorpio man acts when falling in love, the first unmistakable thing is that he will do everything for his woman. Just tell him what you want, and he will try his best to satisfy you and make you happy…sounds good, right?
Similar to Leo, the Scorpio male will become possessive when interested in someone.
I have to say that he is extremely jealous. Much like the spider which tends to weave a net around its prey, this guy wants you to belong to him only and him alone. In general, he won’t mind going to any length to make sure you are beside him forever.
Conclusion
In general, be mysterious and honest if you want to get a Scorpio man addicted to you and stick by your side for a long term. You can show him your love affection but in a subtle way.
Scorpio man is not interested in those who are indecisive. Keep in mind that you have to be truthful and straightforward when dating this guy.
All eight tips mentioned in this article will help you know how to become irresistible to the man of Scorpio soul. However, if you want to unlock his deep desire, then you have to gain clarity into his secret obsession in order to know what really makes him tick at a deep level.
Learn about Scorpio man will help you find the answer of what turns him on as well as handle his knowledge and power at times.
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For more info about Scorpio man, leave your comments below!
My scorpio man made me feel that he was super in love with me for the past 3 months while we were together. However, a recent quarrel where I was insensitive to his needs made him lost interest in me, and things changed from then. Even though he admits to losing interest, but he said he is willing to give us another try. Our relationship gave him a lot of worries, and he’s not comfortable.
Do you think he still loves me?
What can I do to win him back?
Dear Felicia,
Honestly if you want to know if he wants you back give him space and dont initiate anything . Let him stew with his thoughts and chase you . Just go on with your life and pay no mind to him. Practice detachment my dear and youll reap rewards . He will realize you are not desperate and that if he keeps playing its possible he could lose you. It may take some patience but its worth it . Give him time and he’ll come around.
If a man doesn’t trust you at all then it’s his own insecurities.
Sincere!
How will a scorpio male react if he realises that I’m no longer showing as much obsession to him?
Dear Felicia,
If Scorpio man has become more distant he’s probably trying to slowly remove himself from your life without hurting you, so stopping showing your obsession to him would be doing him a favor so he doesn’t have to feel guilty.
Sincere!
My scorpio man used to be distant for a short period of time during out arguments. However, he said he is no longer distant, and he felt that everything was back to the way it was before our quarrel and he is asking to meet me more often than previously. What does it mean? If I show less obsession for him now, by texting him less or removing his photo from my wallpaper, is it okay?
Dear Hannah,
He’s a Scorpio, so most likely he just needed some time to himself and just wanted some time to be alone and think. He tends to deal with his stress alone, he’d much rather do it alone, then be back there for you when he’s strong and healed in his mind. Scorpios aren’t known for their loyalty, unless you don’t give them enough attention. I think just give him some time but don’t reject him too long cuz he’ll think you don’t want him.
Sincere!
I and my Scorpio man started off as friends, then we came into relationship. But he backed off. After sometime, he came again. It happened 3 times.Although, I cut off all the ties with him but he keeps coming back into my life , somehow or the other. He used to share things with me and is still the same. But i don’t think he wants to give any commitment, but likes to talk, spend time, meet me and offers to do so. I can’t understand his complicated mind. What do you suggest?
Dear Ishu,
A Scorpio does want to be with you, however when something lays heavily on their minds, or they are feeling emotionally overwhelmed, they need space. They don’t like to show their unpleasant emotions to the world and so choose solitude to hide those away. Scorpio has a hard time ignoring or forgetting things that upset them, they have to work through it, first mentally by themselves, and then they will share it with those closest to them.
They don’t like anyone following them in to their space, if you leave a Scorpio alone when they want to be, they will almost always open up and share what has been on their mind later, when things have calmed down.
Sincere!
HI Rolland,
I met a Scorpio guy a year ago, at the very beginning we thought we both would just stay casual, yet we both fell madly for each other. We decided to stay exclusive, yet out of the nature of our works, it’s really hard to make extra commitment in terms of relationships. So we both stay exclusive, he does plan trips and checks up on me nearly every day. We tried to make time for each other, and it was okay-ish for both of us. Nonetheless, with the increasing burden, he had from his work, we decided to take a step back as he mentioned he doesn’t want to “stuck in the middle” (like more than friends but not couples) anymore. And he also mentioned that he hasn’t got enough time to make sure that whether I’m the person that he would like to have a serious long term with. (given the fact that he works in a law firm I work in an investment bank, we can only have dates on weekends bi-weekly or so).
So we kinda split up earlier in August yet still remain in contact. It was painful to me at first, but then i tried to bury myself with work to ease the hardships. Yet I still occasionally drop him some interesting videos/links (like we did before). At the very beginning, his replies were cold, yet till a point that he started talking about his recent life and checking up on me whether “i’m busy lately” or not. He also re-started sharing his weekend schedules, just like before.
I’m wondering what do these mix signs mean from a Scorpio guy?
Dear Sophie,
Scorpio guys are always hard to figure out!
Just open up to him, and say to him that you never meant anything if you did anything wrong. Should you do this too through Eye communication? Well, if you are not so good at eye communication, then do it with words. But be careful to never try anything cheeky. He can easily guess if you are lying anything to him, even if you are doing it for his sake. Even if he doesn’t know it then, he will somehow come to know it later. Be honest and that really does good to your relationship. Well, even if it doesn’t help your relationship, it helps you.
Sincere!
I like him a lot. But he said he only likes to flirt with no strings attached.
He acts cute and also distant.
He has blocked me now because he thinks I’ll get attached and get hurt as he is not looking for anything serious.
What should I do. Am so into him and he asked me to move on.
I don’t know if he’ll come back to me or not.
Dear DA,
When Scorpio men have feelings for someone, here is what they do:
-look them in the eye while talking
-go out of their way to make conversation with them, sit with them at lunch, etc.
-smile at them and give them compliments
-joke a lot and try and provoke them and make them react
If Scorpio men really don’t like someone and want them to know, they will purposefully be rude to them and just ignore them, make them fell bad, etc. so that they lay off.
Hope this help you!
He does all that you have mentioned also he tells me he is not interested in getting into a relationship with me. Am so confused with this guy.
Hi dear,
Scorpio is a sign of deep feeling, as such, as a sort of natural sense of self-protection, they don’t easily reveal how they feel. They are a classic ‘hard shell’ with ‘soft insides’ type. As a result it is typically hard to tell what they are feeling or thinking.
A Scorpio is more likely to gain trust when the other person extends themselves first, shows they are willing to be vulnerable. When you do this, the Scorpio will feel like they are on a more ‘level playing field’ and be more willing to risk exposing a bit more of what they keep hidden inside.
A Scorpio typically experiences emotional hurts very deeply, and if they have had such an experience, can themselves become colder and more reactive, prone to vengeance. It is best not to trifle with a Scorpio, to respect their private world until they feel ready to share it, and to be sure of your interest before luring them outside of their protective silence.
Sincere!
My Scorpio ex has cheated on me and also backed off every time. Then i decided to cut off all the ties. But somehow or the other, he always finds a way to contact me after few months. His basic problem is that he’s interested in something or someone till that person/thing is out of his reach. As soon as, he’s successful in getting that person/thing, he’s no more interested in that. He himself accepted this problem. And I’m a person of complete consistency and loyalty but I’m in love with him from last 9 yrs. and it’s not easy to look for someone else. What do you suggest?
Dear Ish,
Let’s put it this way. How do you define cheating and what does it mean to you? Is it possible that other people define cheating in a different way?
You probably know this man well and might have a fairly good idea of what cheating means to him. If not, it might be a good idea to spend some time thinking about it. Don’t ask him, you should have enough info by now to be able to arrive at a conclusion. If you still feel lost, that might be the reason why he’s cheating on you in the first place.
Sincere!