You got a crush on a Sagittarius man and want him to chase you?
What to do if your love interest is the Sagittarius male?
Compared to other fire zodiac signs (Aries and Leo), Sagittarius is much more easygoing and friendly. He is the person of challenges and tending to follow his instincts.
As the optimistic kind, he believes that everything in this world has the solution. In addition to that, why should he work hard to gain the heart of one specific lady while there are plenty of women out there?
When he does something but it wastes too much of his time, then he chooses to leave it aside and continue with other tasks.
Of course, if a Sagittarius man falls for someone romantically, he will try several times to get a date with that person. He seems to be the first one to make the call or send message afterward. However, once he senses that you’re not keen with what he is doing, then he will immediately stop himself from being devoted.
Here are obvious signs a Sagittarius is interested!
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BEST Tips of Making a Sagittarius Man Chase You
#1: Be honest…but not 100% transparent
A serious man looks for a woman, not a girl.
If you want to attract a Sagittarius male, you must be independent enough to know what you really want. Also, he hates playing games.
Remember that you’re trying to get him to chase you. However, if you tell him that you want to commit after just a few dates, he is going to run away since Sagittarius values his freedom…a lot.
In this case, a better approach is to drop hints subtly that you’re available. Show your interest in particular things (not by words, of course) and his feelings for you may develop beyond a crush or a few dates.
Display your honesty…just not all of it!
Though being honest is the basic foundation when it comes to dating, it doesn’t mean you have to expose every emotion and thought deep inside. Right now, you are getting Sagittarius man to chase you, so it’s much better if you can decide how many percentage of transparency you need to provide in this relationship.
Be open but also let him know that he cannot completely access your heart and brain.
#2: Be independent…but not too isolated
Sagittarius man likes to challenge himself; thus, submissive women who are available most of the time are not really his ideal type.
Instead, he is more into the lady who is fiercely independent. Show him there are lots of things ranking higher than him in the list even though he’s important to you.
The key here is – you must find out how to make a Sagittarius man miss you.
Why don’t you spend some time apart?
It’s the opportunity to make him think about you. He will start wondering what you are doing and enjoy learning about you through social media. He’ll even get excited and be likely to chase you when seeing you act aggressive.
Don’t mind sharing things you find interesting with him. He would love seeing your enthusiasm and passion in whatever you do. Confidently answer his questions as it’s the best way for him to discover your true self.
Tell him how much you enjoy being around him.
#3: Be yourself…never in the way he wants
Most of women usually act as a totally different person when having a date with the man they are interested in. Ridiculously, men are only turned on by the female who is completely herself.
Don’t try to become another version of someone else!
If you want to know how to make a Sagittarius man want you, the answer is simply being yourself.
There are plenty of ladies, which mean your love interest has plenty of choices. His ideal type is the woman who is unique in style and in way of thinking. Never act as a clingy person; actually, he is more drawn into a genuine gal who is busy with her own life rather than spending time following his every step.
However, don’t make him feel that you ignore him or he will unintentionally leave immediately.
Furthermore, he’s not looking for a woman who just keeps nodding to everything he says as well as doing whatever he asks. This Sag guy wants his partner to state her opinions in every situation. So, if you have any disagreement, tell him honestly.
You don’t wait to respond to his texts; in fact, you are busy all day, remember!
#4: Want him…but don’t need him
Even if you know that you’ve grown strong, passionate feelings for Sagittarius man, please act as nothing happen. Once he senses that you have fallen in love with him, he may give up the chance if not getting hooked anymore.
A man wants to be wanted, not needed, in a relationship.
This is what we call making him obssessed with you!
Being wanted makes him feel sexy, desirable, and admirable. On the other hand, being needed gives him the feeling that you’re trying to trap him and require him to make the commitment without recognizing whether he wants it or not.
As soon as you’ve developed serious affection for this guy, tell yourself that he is not the reason for living. Obviously having him in your life can brighten your life; however, you are still able to be happy by yourself.
On the outside, show that you want him and give him some of your affections (not wholly); at the same time, build a fence to protect yourself from getting hurt by a Sagittarius in the future.
Again, ignoring him is not a good option as it make the Archer feel left out.
Will a Sagittarius man chase you?
You do have a good chance to make him fall for you if you know how to be happy on your own.
#5: Stay active around him
If you want a Sagittarius guy to fall in love with you, then be upbeat. Spread only positive energy around him, like smiling a lot and keeping things lighthearted. Do not bad-mouth about any person or anything as well as not start a negative conservation with him.
What type of woman he is looking for?
This guy wants to be with someone who is able to keep up with him. He is a fast-paced person always found to be on the go. In order to get him to chase you, the key is to show him that you are also as active as he is.
As a huge flirt, he has no matter if receiving flirty messages from you. Flirty and sexy are fine as long as you lure him with your lair only. Never think of showing him naked shots as you’re not after him just for making love. Give him sincere compliments about his looks, the way he talks, and so on – he’ll appreciate it a lot as Sagittarius man is always curious about how you think about him.
Hooking him with mystery is a wise move as he gets bored with women throwing themselves at him immediately.
In short, be fun and playful when around him!
When a Shy Sagittarius Man Likes You…
What he looks in potential partner?
Though he is often stunned by a woman’s beauty, just the looks cannot keep his heart forever. Sagittarius man seeks intellectual stimulation. If you’re dating one, try to make deep, inquisitive discussions with him – as he loves talking about everything in life, it’s better to widen your knowledge in different topics.
In addition, this guy prefers independent women who are capable of taking care of themselves well. He will have a very good impression to the lady dressing well, smelling nice, and having a great style.
Freedom is extremely important to a Sagittarius, so don’t be clingy if you want to be with him.
Many feel hesitant to be with the Sag male in a romantic relationship because he quickly loses his interest. Despite his short attention spans, he is actually committed and dedicated once truly falling in love. Dating with him is like riding a roller coaster – not a dull moment; it will be full of new and exciting adventures. If you want to maintain his feelings for you for long term, the tip is to shower him with surprises and excitement almost every day.
He is known for being brutally honest and tactful; therefore, there will be times you will get hurt by his words. It’s just his way of expressing what he feels, not that he wants to mean.
How to Tell if a Sagittarius Man Likes You?
As you probably, your Sagittarius love interest is a flirt; thus, it’s quite challenging to determine whether he’s just into you at a moment or he’s serious about you. For sure, the archer enjoys the chase; that’s why you should make the initial move no matter how much you like him.
If he asks you to join him in his adventure, high chances that he already falls hard for you. Interestingly, he does prefer to be asked out sometimes. But, in general, this guy still loves the feeling of going after someone.
Don’t quickly tell him that you like him!
The trick here is to be a bit mysterious when talking to him. Play hard to get and keep him guessing, and he can’t help but asking you out as he wants to know more about you. He will never stop until discovering your truest self as well as how you feel about him.
How to Keep the Sagittarius Man?
If you read this part, it means you’ve won the heart of the archer.
So, what to do now?
This guy is independent and really loves his freedom. He will instantly run away once feeling tied down in the relationship. As a free spirit, he does not want to stay with someone who tries to control him and lock him up.
Just let him climb to the top of Mount Everest as he wishes. Don’t get involved with a Sagittarius if you cannot accept his spontaneous adventures and activities. He hates women possessive and jealous; instead, he prefers the lady who is as independent as he is and who also dedicates time to her own life.
Wrap it up
Due to Sagittarius characteristics male, the Archer on the astrology wheel is complicated.
How to tell if a Sagittarius man loves you?
Sometimes it’s very hard to read his mind or catch up with his thinking when it comes to love. Many women find his changeable moods are difficult to deal with. However, once you’re capable of handling his mood swings, then you might be his potential match.
Making a Sagittarius grow interested deeply in someone requires a long process.
Why?
He seems to be a flirty; yet, this guy is quite picky with the matter related to serious relationships.
When it comes to love compatibility, he seems not get along well with the lady born under the Scorpio horoscope sign.
His strength as well as weakness is his honesty. So, learn to accept his brutal words if you want a long-term relationship with him. What he says to you can either brighten your day or crush your dreams in just a few seconds.
If you still be determined to seduce a Sagittarius male and make him chase you, then good luck!
Getting involved in a romance with a Sagittarius is worth your effort.
everything in the above here is so my ex…
Here, we broke up 2 months ago, it was his choice , and obviously it is because i am already at the age of settling down and wanted a man to able to be stable and be loyal as well as serious in this relationship. i thirst for a man to commit , i am desperate wanting my bf to be serious in this relationship so that we could one day Married. The thing is he is youngee then me twice of age.
I became very careful, i became very well cared this relationship.. probably this makes me Not being myself,
and over the time , i admire whatever he do and plan because i love him and i respect him as my bf. Unintentionally many things i made him decide , and let him make the decision. Maybe as time goes by, he felt bored and he felt that i am too depending on him. The broke up was really pain!
Please tell me, what should i do to let him notice me again and give 1 more chance for us to Try again ? …How?
Dear FeiFey,
As you wrote, you’re at the age of settling down…but your choice was a young Sagittarius. If you want to be with this guy, accept the fact that he is not quick for the commitment. Sadly, when a Sagittarius lets go, it’s hard to bring him back. If you can’t provide him freedom or make him feel being tied up, then he will not return.
In your case, I advise you to move on and look for someone who truly loves and cares for you and most importantly deserves your love.
Sincere!
So sad but true. I’m facing something like that too..
I’m a Capricorn and I’ve been in a relationship with my Sagittarius boyfriend for about 8 months now. He’s a year younger than me. Everything was going perfect and smooth until he told me that he needed space in our running 8 months. He literally took a day and half may be for his break because he said he needed to figure himself out. He said I’m too possessive! I can control not being possessive anymore but there are some behaviors that bothers me so much. He said he hasn’t thought about me for a long term either because he’s scared of marriage. I love this guy a lot but I’m scared if he’ll hurt me in future because I don’t think I can trust him like I used to although he says I have to trust him and he said he’ll never leave me. After he took the break,I’m still not over the trauma I felt during that. He shows his love to me but I feel like he’s slowly losing interest. What should I do? Should I let him go although it will really hurt or should I expect this relationship to be better ?
Hi Pearls,
There always comes a time in ones life when it feels difficult to let go. You know you probably should, but you know you cannot. You know you will be hurt if you do, but even more so if you don’t.
Honestly, just let it go. You love him. Nobody can deny it.Nobody is. But this is a proof of your love, let him go. Maybe you’ll get back together again, maybe you won’t, but at this moment I think it would be better for the both of you.
Wish you all the best!
i’m attracted to a sagittarius male and he barely talks to me he makes me feel like i’m forcing the conversation and i’m always the the person who texts first , he didn’t open up to me like i opened up to him and i confessed that i like him and he told me that he likes me too but i think it was genuine he’s nice to me but not as much as i’m nice to him i wanna attract him but it’s hard i literally don’t know if i should move on or continue trying he’s making me confused man
Dear Kawthar,
From what you wrote, I think you are confused about the way he treats you – yeah, this guy is nice to everyone. Actually Sagittarius man is very direct, so I personally think you should move on.
Good luck!
Met a sag man while I was on a date with someone else. There was something about him so I discretely gave him my number. Also very ballsy thing to do on both accounts. Anyway, we texted, there were phone calls, we have so much in common so we met up as friends for coffee and it was great. Long story short after that meet up we lost touch for a few months until I texted him again a couple of weeks ago, I was completely available and thought why not? We had a magical date, sparks everywhere and felt a real connection with him. As an aquarius woman my head is a million miles p/h now because since the magical date he’s completely ghosted me. No passionate texts, no calls, nothing. Disappeared! Question is, do I move on or is he going to show up? Never been dazzled by a sag man before and don’t want to push him away. Any advice?
I am also dealing with a sagittarius man. Our interaction has been going on for couple months. I get to see him at his workplace, he is a bouncer at a club. Which is not quite often, few days in a week or so. So there is the distance and missing each other i assume. Everytime i go to his place his eyes are on me. I definitely have his attention. He also happens to get jealous when guys approach me. So i know i have his attention for quite a long time. But he is not approachable. Sometimes he would look at me but would make sure I don’t see it. The past two weeks were great. This time he was being more friendly and approachable. We even purposely did small physical interactions. So everything was fine until this past weekend. I dont know what happened. But he was being rude to me and my friends. And i clearly saw he didn’t care at the moment because he kept repeating this aggressive behaviour and gave us a hard time. Which annoyed me too. So i am wondering is this guy into me. If he is why did he act so rude and careless last weekend?
Dear Delphi,
Thanks for sharing your story to us!
Personally I think there are 2 posibilities for his aggressive behavior: either he is possessive or he wants to back off from this relationship. I think you two need a serious talk and you can ask him about his act toward you for the last weekend. Sagittarius is honest so he will tell you everything, and together both of you can find a solution for your situation.
Good luck!
so, I met a sag out at a bar. I immediately knew they were a sag, we started talking about philosophy, and shared favorite theorists. we hung out almost every other day for a couple weeks, and he kept messaging me how much he liked me, and that if he were to give me his heart, not to break it, yadda yadda.. a couple nights ago we had gone out to the same bar we met at, it was really packed, and I saw a couple people I knew, both of them men.. he seemed to get really jealous, and started to give me the silent treatment.. eventually I went outside for a smoke, and started chatting up this other guy I knew, so my sag comes out and tells me he’s leaving, he started to walk away, so I chased after him.. he did this once more during the evening, where he just all of a sudden started to leave without warning.. I eventually went home with him that evening, we didn’t do anything explicit, and the next morning I brought up that I didn’t appreciate him walking away like he was going to leave me downtown alone while I was drunk, and that I thought he was unreliable.. I think he took great offense to this comment because it’s been two days now and he hasn’t messaged me.. I wrote him a letter, and left it in his room this morning apologizing for my crankiness and telling him I still liked him.. was that too bold a move, should I have waited to give him more space, do you think he will come around and realize that maybe that wasn’t the best display of behavior at the beginning of a relationship ?
Dear Paige,
Maybe he gets upset because you didn’t understand his behavior. As you two are just at the beginning of relationship, I think he disappears for a while and then will come back. Don’t need to worry! Give him his private space to think and he will soon reach out to you.
Sincere!
I’m currently having an open relationship with sag guy for about 10 months since we know each other from an online dating app. Our chemistry is very strong since i’m a sag woman too and everything he did to me really show sign that he really into me. I never missed morning text from him and we’re always connected all day long until we sleep at night coz he always reaching me whenever I’m not responding. Everything was going good until now but since I’m a single mother, I really want to settling down with him as soon as possible coz I really do feel that he’s the one. During our early relationship he always said that he loves me and always had plan for us for the future. But since we’re in open relationship I always have doubt in him and that maybe what cause him to not confess his love to me anymore. For me that doesn’t really matter but what makes me always have doubt in him is that he have a lot of girl friends and very friendly to them. I tested him few months ago to act as real flirty women through internet and suprisingly he flirting with ‘her’ and even plan to meet each other. I reveal his act and he honestly said that he actually went to make confession at church for his wrong act and not going to meet the fake women. I don’t know if I can believe his words but that’s really hurt me until now. He did said that he someone who get bored with women easily but he feel totally different when being with me. Our main barrier to get married basicly is religion as he is not ready to convert yet. He said he want to marry me one day but we rarely talk about that lately. Do you think he really loves me or he just enjoy doing fun things with me?
Dear Fiona,
Based on his zodiac sign, Sagittarius man is definitely a flirt and it often takes him a long time for a commitment. From what you said, I can feel that he slowly gets bored with this relationship because this guy is easily drawn to new things and new challenges. If he finds no excitement about the relationship with you, then he will leave.
But I believe love doesn’t depend on horoscope only – you two should have a real talk to figure out what each other really is thinking about so that both can end with a solution.
Good luck!