You got a crush on a Sagittarius man and want him to chase you?
What to do if your love interest is the Sagittarius male?
Compared to other fire zodiac signs (Aries and Leo), Sagittarius is much more easygoing and friendly. He is the person of challenges and tending to follow his instincts.
As the optimistic kind, he believes that everything in this world has the solution. In addition to that, why should he work hard to gain the heart of one specific lady while there are plenty of women out there?
When he does something but it wastes too much of his time, then he chooses to leave it aside and continue with other tasks.
Of course, if a Sagittarius man falls for someone romantically, he will try several times to get a date with that person. He seems to be the first one to make the call or send message afterward. However, once he senses that you’re not keen with what he is doing, then he will immediately stop himself from being devoted.
Here are obvious signs a Sagittarius is interested!
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BEST Tips of Making a Sagittarius Man Chase You
#1: Be honest…but not 100% transparent
A serious man looks for a woman, not a girl.
If you want to attract a Sagittarius male, you must be independent enough to know what you really want. Also, he hates playing games.
Remember that you’re trying to get him to chase you. However, if you tell him that you want to commit after just a few dates, he is going to run away since Sagittarius values his freedom…a lot.
In this case, a better approach is to drop hints subtly that you’re available. Show your interest in particular things (not by words, of course) and his feelings for you may develop beyond a crush or a few dates.
Display your honesty…just not all of it!
Though being honest is the basic foundation when it comes to dating, it doesn’t mean you have to expose every emotion and thought deep inside. Right now, you are getting Sagittarius man to chase you, so it’s much better if you can decide how many percentage of transparency you need to provide in this relationship.
Be open but also let him know that he cannot completely access your heart and brain.
#2: Be independent…but not too isolated
Sagittarius man likes to challenge himself; thus, submissive women who are available most of the time are not really his ideal type.
Instead, he is more into the lady who is fiercely independent. Show him there are lots of things ranking higher than him in the list even though he’s important to you.
The key here is – you must find out how to make a Sagittarius man miss you.
Why don’t you spend some time apart?
It’s the opportunity to make him think about you. He will start wondering what you are doing and enjoy learning about you through social media. He’ll even get excited and be likely to chase you when seeing you act aggressive.
Don’t mind sharing things you find interesting with him. He would love seeing your enthusiasm and passion in whatever you do. Confidently answer his questions as it’s the best way for him to discover your true self.
Tell him how much you enjoy being around him.
#3: Be yourself…never in the way he wants
Most of women usually act as a totally different person when having a date with the man they are interested in. Ridiculously, men are only turned on by the female who is completely herself.
Don’t try to become another version of someone else!
If you want to know how to make a Sagittarius man want you, the answer is simply being yourself.
There are plenty of ladies, which mean your love interest has plenty of choices. His ideal type is the woman who is unique in style and in way of thinking. Never act as a clingy person; actually, he is more drawn into a genuine gal who is busy with her own life rather than spending time following his every step.
However, don’t make him feel that you ignore him or he will unintentionally leave immediately.
Furthermore, he’s not looking for a woman who just keeps nodding to everything he says as well as doing whatever he asks. This Sag guy wants his partner to state her opinions in every situation. So, if you have any disagreement, tell him honestly.
You don’t wait to respond to his texts; in fact, you are busy all day, remember!
#4: Want him…but don’t need him
Even if you know that you’ve grown strong, passionate feelings for Sagittarius man, please act as nothing happen. Once he senses that you have fallen in love with him, he may give up the chance if not getting hooked anymore.
A man wants to be wanted, not needed, in a relationship.
This is what we call making him obssessed with you!
Being wanted makes him feel sexy, desirable, and admirable. On the other hand, being needed gives him the feeling that you’re trying to trap him and require him to make the commitment without recognizing whether he wants it or not.
As soon as you’ve developed serious affection for this guy, tell yourself that he is not the reason for living. Obviously having him in your life can brighten your life; however, you are still able to be happy by yourself.
On the outside, show that you want him and give him some of your affections (not wholly); at the same time, build a fence to protect yourself from getting hurt by a Sagittarius in the future.
Again, ignoring him is not a good option as it make the Archer feel left out.
Will a Sagittarius man chase you?
You do have a good chance to make him fall for you if you know how to be happy on your own.
#5: Stay active around him
If you want a Sagittarius guy to fall in love with you, then be upbeat. Spread only positive energy around him, like smiling a lot and keeping things lighthearted. Do not bad-mouth about any person or anything as well as not start a negative conservation with him.
What type of woman he is looking for?
This guy wants to be with someone who is able to keep up with him. He is a fast-paced person always found to be on the go. In order to get him to chase you, the key is to show him that you are also as active as he is.
As a huge flirt, he has no matter if receiving flirty messages from you. Flirty and sexy are fine as long as you lure him with your lair only. Never think of showing him naked shots as you’re not after him just for making love. Give him sincere compliments about his looks, the way he talks, and so on – he’ll appreciate it a lot as Sagittarius man is always curious about how you think about him.
Hooking him with mystery is a wise move as he gets bored with women throwing themselves at him immediately.
In short, be fun and playful when around him!
When a Shy Sagittarius Man Likes You…
What he looks in potential partner?
Though he is often stunned by a woman’s beauty, just the looks cannot keep his heart forever. Sagittarius man seeks intellectual stimulation. If you’re dating one, try to make deep, inquisitive discussions with him – as he loves talking about everything in life, it’s better to widen your knowledge in different topics.
In addition, this guy prefers independent women who are capable of taking care of themselves well. He will have a very good impression to the lady dressing well, smelling nice, and having a great style.
Freedom is extremely important to a Sagittarius, so don’t be clingy if you want to be with him.
Many feel hesitant to be with the Sag male in a romantic relationship because he quickly loses his interest. Despite his short attention spans, he is actually committed and dedicated once truly falling in love. Dating with him is like riding a roller coaster – not a dull moment; it will be full of new and exciting adventures. If you want to maintain his feelings for you for long term, the tip is to shower him with surprises and excitement almost every day.
He is known for being brutally honest and tactful; therefore, there will be times you will get hurt by his words. It’s just his way of expressing what he feels, not that he wants to mean.
How to Tell if a Sagittarius Man Likes You?
As you probably, your Sagittarius love interest is a flirt; thus, it’s quite challenging to determine whether he’s just into you at a moment or he’s serious about you. For sure, the archer enjoys the chase; that’s why you should make the initial move no matter how much you like him.
If he asks you to join him in his adventure, high chances that he already falls hard for you. Interestingly, he does prefer to be asked out sometimes. But, in general, this guy still loves the feeling of going after someone.
Don’t quickly tell him that you like him!
The trick here is to be a bit mysterious when talking to him. Play hard to get and keep him guessing, and he can’t help but asking you out as he wants to know more about you. He will never stop until discovering your truest self as well as how you feel about him.
How to Keep the Sagittarius Man?
If you read this part, it means you’ve won the heart of the archer.
So, what to do now?
This guy is independent and really loves his freedom. He will instantly run away once feeling tied down in the relationship. As a free spirit, he does not want to stay with someone who tries to control him and lock him up.
Just let him climb to the top of Mount Everest as he wishes. Don’t get involved with a Sagittarius if you cannot accept his spontaneous adventures and activities. He hates women possessive and jealous; instead, he prefers the lady who is as independent as he is and who also dedicates time to her own life.
Wrap it up
Due to Sagittarius characteristics male, the Archer on the astrology wheel is complicated.
How to tell if a Sagittarius man loves you?
Sometimes it’s very hard to read his mind or catch up with his thinking when it comes to love. Many women find his changeable moods are difficult to deal with. However, once you’re capable of handling his mood swings, then you might be his potential match.
Making a Sagittarius grow interested deeply in someone requires a long process.
Why?
He seems to be a flirty; yet, this guy is quite picky with the matter related to serious relationships.
When it comes to love compatibility, he seems not get along well with the lady born under the Scorpio horoscope sign.
His strength as well as weakness is his honesty. So, learn to accept his brutal words if you want a long-term relationship with him. What he says to you can either brighten your day or crush your dreams in just a few seconds.
If you still be determined to seduce a Sagittarius male and make him chase you, then good luck!
Getting involved in a romance with a Sagittarius is worth your effort.
I just break up with my Bf, he’s Sagittarius, we’ve been living together but due to my visa expiration, I need to come back to my country and before that we married so that I can go back to him, but as since we have long distance relationship there’s so many problems that can’t be fixed, and 3weeks who he asked me to break up because he thinks we’re not meant to be, but we’ve married, I want to bring him back and fix everything but he denied my call and don’t want to talk anymore about this relationship except our divorce, I don’t want to divorce but I cannot convinced him, he let me go, what should I do to make him fall in me again ?
Dear Brilian,
It’s easy for a Sagittarius to let go from a relationship because he is the detached type. Before thinking of winning back his heart, you should figure ways to get his attention on you again. Don’t be clingy or keep contacting him; instead, just do your own things and act like you don’t care. Participate in many activities as well as hang out with your friends, then take pictures and show off them through your social media. The purpose is to let him see that you’re still fine without him…soon he will make the connection if he still thinks about you.
If not, then you should move on!
Good luck!
hi,im currently dating a sag man in facebook,we both far away to each other.we talk a lot,evryday!morning till night,,he seems like me coz he is brutally honest..he loves to send me me a pic of place wherever he is going,always inform me of how he is doing evry second.we goes along easily on chatting,he tells me al his dreams and plans.he told me about evrything in him.and he confess to me last night that i habe his haert and he have mine,and he told me if i keep doubting on him that someday he will lose hiß interest in me.he will forget everything.he loves adventures,he always go to gym.and he told me we cn be forever.im his soulmate,,im happy with him and im dreaming that we cn be together someday.im afraid and im a jeaous type person..he always say sorry when im get jealous and he told me that he loves me for being so faithful and he is lucky to have me..do u think he is in love with me?im honest with him too.were just only 10days but he loves me .i dnt know what to believe..he replied easily and i feel his xcitement.
Dear Yurie Leiz,
Probably he truly thinks about you as his soulmate…once a Sag meets his soulmate, he will do everything to keep that person always on his side. Afraid nothing; instead, show him your sincerity and love and the chance to win his heart completely will be higher.
Sincere!
Hi! I had a casual relationship with a Sag man for 1,5 years. I am older than him and I tried to turn this into something more serious, but he always refused my suggestions. I felt it was so hard to convince him to even try a relationship. It was like pulling teeth. Eventually I decided to stop seeing him, in order to see, if he will miss me and decide to pick up this relationship and rebuild it properly (as I was hoping). But he reacted exactly the opposite way! He blocked me, stopped reading my messages, and stopped replying. Then he unblocked me after 2 months, so I thought this means something positive, and I sent a couple of messages (casual messages, not asking him why he disappeared) but again, no reply. He is ignoring my messages, for 5 months total. Maybe he is waiting for me to beg him. I am Pisces, so I am very proud, and also waiting for him to beg me. How can I make him reply to my messages?
Dear Marcia,
If you both are waiting for the other to reply, then you two will end up waiting forever because no one wants to step back. You have to be more sympathetic if you want to continue this relationship. Rather than finding ways to make him answer your text, you should ask him out for a direct conversation and clear off the misunderstanding between two of you.
Good luck!
Ah, thank you so much! I am a scared Pisces… I feel at dissadvantage compared to this Sag man. We also have a 16 year age gap (to my dissadvantage) and he repeatedly said he doesn’t want an emotional relationship, because our relationship can’t lead to marriage. He had said if we allow it to fall in love, it will be a disaster when we need to split up, when one of us finally meets “the one” who will be suitable for them. I think he uses the age gap as an excuse, to avoid the responsibilities of a proper, loving relationship. So his ghosting, I take that it means his official withdrawal from me… I am too scared to invite him to talk, as I think I will fail. Because despite my good looks, I am sadly not in my 30ies but in my 40ies…. I thought love doesn’t ruthlessly count age numbers. But I am romantic, while he is cynical and blunt. So I am stuck and like a scared fish, I hide in the deep sea, to cry alone..
Dear Marcia,
If you feel that he slowly displays his disinterest towards you, then it’s time for you to leave him. Don’t put your focus on him; instead, focus more on yourself, be independent and have fun with your own things. Show him that you’ll be doing fine without him by your side!
Find someone who deserves your love!
Sincere!
Hello I’m a Leo women in love with a Sagittarius man and need help.. well we met when I was 18 and he was 19 broke up at the age of 20 due to him going to the navy and well me being young.. I felt the distance was killing me. I was missing him everyday and hated that I couldn’t see him or talk to him when I wanted to and I expressed that to him so he broke it off with me because he didn’t want me to wait on him and wanted me to live my life. We both agreed and plus we were both young and still needed to “explore life” you can say but I was really truly hurt after but I never told him that. We still kept in contact after the whole break up.. I got married.. he got married.. we both told each other stories about our significant others, even vented. Well long story short here I am at age 31 him at 32.. he got a divorce a few years ago and well my husband and have had our share of troubles and it’s getting worse, it’s really coming to an end to me.. I did see my sag a year ago but nothing happened just hung out got something to eat. My sag has been really questioning me more than usual lately just like asking what am I doing, who are you with, what happens when I go out etc.. and my bday just passed and he texted me singing happy bday which I thought was so cute. And the next morning he texted to check to see how my bday went and he randomly said I miss you. It caught me off guard a little because well we never really talked about our “feelings” after our whole breakup from years ago, even though deep down inside I still do love him..I never stopped.. I casually played it off but really wanted to tell him right there and then that I feel the same and that I’ve BEEN missing him.. I just couldn’t get myself to do it. He returned back to the navy and is currently stationed in another state and well he asked me to fly out there to spend time with him but I can’t. My question is does it sound like this sag is tryin to get back with me? Maybe I’m reading to much into his I miss you.. maybe he’s just wants to hang out again? I know in my heart I would love to be back with him but am I reading this the wrong way?