You got a crush on a Sagittarius man and want him to chase you?
What to do if your love interest is the Sagittarius male?
Compared to other fire zodiac signs (Aries and Leo), Sagittarius is much more easygoing and friendly. He is the person of challenges and tending to follow his instincts.
As the optimistic kind, he believes that everything in this world has the solution. In addition to that, why should he work hard to gain the heart of one specific lady while there are plenty of women out there?
When he does something but it wastes too much of his time, then he chooses to leave it aside and continue with other tasks.
Of course, if a Sagittarius man falls for someone romantically, he will try several times to get a date with that person. He seems to be the first one to make the call or send message afterward. However, once he senses that you’re not keen with what he is doing, then he will immediately stop himself from being devoted.
Here are obvious signs a Sagittarius is interested!
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BEST Tips of Making a Sagittarius Man Chase You
#1: Be honest…but not 100% transparent
A serious man looks for a woman, not a girl.
If you want to attract a Sagittarius male, you must be independent enough to know what you really want. Also, he hates playing games.
Remember that you’re trying to get him to chase you. However, if you tell him that you want to commit after just a few dates, he is going to run away since Sagittarius values his freedom…a lot.
In this case, a better approach is to drop hints subtly that you’re available. Show your interest in particular things (not by words, of course) and his feelings for you may develop beyond a crush or a few dates.
Display your honesty…just not all of it!
Though being honest is the basic foundation when it comes to dating, it doesn’t mean you have to expose every emotion and thought deep inside. Right now, you are getting Sagittarius man to chase you, so it’s much better if you can decide how many percentage of transparency you need to provide in this relationship.
Be open but also let him know that he cannot completely access your heart and brain.
#2: Be independent…but not too isolated
Sagittarius man likes to challenge himself; thus, submissive women who are available most of the time are not really his ideal type.
Instead, he is more into the lady who is fiercely independent. Show him there are lots of things ranking higher than him in the list even though he’s important to you.
The key here is – you must find out how to make a Sagittarius man miss you.
Why don’t you spend some time apart?
It’s the opportunity to make him think about you. He will start wondering what you are doing and enjoy learning about you through social media. He’ll even get excited and be likely to chase you when seeing you act aggressive.
Don’t mind sharing things you find interesting with him. He would love seeing your enthusiasm and passion in whatever you do. Confidently answer his questions as it’s the best way for him to discover your true self.
Tell him how much you enjoy being around him.
#3: Be yourself…never in the way he wants
Most of women usually act as a totally different person when having a date with the man they are interested in. Ridiculously, men are only turned on by the female who is completely herself.
Don’t try to become another version of someone else!
If you want to know how to make a Sagittarius man want you, the answer is simply being yourself.
There are plenty of ladies, which mean your love interest has plenty of choices. His ideal type is the woman who is unique in style and in way of thinking. Never act as a clingy person; actually, he is more drawn into a genuine gal who is busy with her own life rather than spending time following his every step.
However, don’t make him feel that you ignore him or he will unintentionally leave immediately.
Furthermore, he’s not looking for a woman who just keeps nodding to everything he says as well as doing whatever he asks. This Sag guy wants his partner to state her opinions in every situation. So, if you have any disagreement, tell him honestly.
You don’t wait to respond to his texts; in fact, you are busy all day, remember!
#4: Want him…but don’t need him
Even if you know that you’ve grown strong, passionate feelings for Sagittarius man, please act as nothing happen. Once he senses that you have fallen in love with him, he may give up the chance if not getting hooked anymore.
A man wants to be wanted, not needed, in a relationship.
This is what we call making him obssessed with you!
Being wanted makes him feel sexy, desirable, and admirable. On the other hand, being needed gives him the feeling that you’re trying to trap him and require him to make the commitment without recognizing whether he wants it or not.
As soon as you’ve developed serious affection for this guy, tell yourself that he is not the reason for living. Obviously having him in your life can brighten your life; however, you are still able to be happy by yourself.
On the outside, show that you want him and give him some of your affections (not wholly); at the same time, build a fence to protect yourself from getting hurt by a Sagittarius in the future.
Again, ignoring him is not a good option as it make the Archer feel left out.
Will a Sagittarius man chase you?
You do have a good chance to make him fall for you if you know how to be happy on your own.
#5: Stay active around him
If you want a Sagittarius guy to fall in love with you, then be upbeat. Spread only positive energy around him, like smiling a lot and keeping things lighthearted. Do not bad-mouth about any person or anything as well as not start a negative conservation with him.
What type of woman he is looking for?
This guy wants to be with someone who is able to keep up with him. He is a fast-paced person always found to be on the go. In order to get him to chase you, the key is to show him that you are also as active as he is.
As a huge flirt, he has no matter if receiving flirty messages from you. Flirty and sexy are fine as long as you lure him with your lair only. Never think of showing him naked shots as you’re not after him just for making love. Give him sincere compliments about his looks, the way he talks, and so on – he’ll appreciate it a lot as Sagittarius man is always curious about how you think about him.
Hooking him with mystery is a wise move as he gets bored with women throwing themselves at him immediately.
In short, be fun and playful when around him!
When a Shy Sagittarius Man Likes You…
What he looks in potential partner?
Though he is often stunned by a woman’s beauty, just the looks cannot keep his heart forever. Sagittarius man seeks intellectual stimulation. If you’re dating one, try to make deep, inquisitive discussions with him – as he loves talking about everything in life, it’s better to widen your knowledge in different topics.
In addition, this guy prefers independent women who are capable of taking care of themselves well. He will have a very good impression to the lady dressing well, smelling nice, and having a great style.
Freedom is extremely important to a Sagittarius, so don’t be clingy if you want to be with him.
Many feel hesitant to be with the Sag male in a romantic relationship because he quickly loses his interest. Despite his short attention spans, he is actually committed and dedicated once truly falling in love. Dating with him is like riding a roller coaster – not a dull moment; it will be full of new and exciting adventures. If you want to maintain his feelings for you for long term, the tip is to shower him with surprises and excitement almost every day.
He is known for being brutally honest and tactful; therefore, there will be times you will get hurt by his words. It’s just his way of expressing what he feels, not that he wants to mean.
How to Tell if a Sagittarius Man Likes You?
As you probably, your Sagittarius love interest is a flirt; thus, it’s quite challenging to determine whether he’s just into you at a moment or he’s serious about you. For sure, the archer enjoys the chase; that’s why you should make the initial move no matter how much you like him.
If he asks you to join him in his adventure, high chances that he already falls hard for you. Interestingly, he does prefer to be asked out sometimes. But, in general, this guy still loves the feeling of going after someone.
Don’t quickly tell him that you like him!
The trick here is to be a bit mysterious when talking to him. Play hard to get and keep him guessing, and he can’t help but asking you out as he wants to know more about you. He will never stop until discovering your truest self as well as how you feel about him.
How to Keep the Sagittarius Man?
If you read this part, it means you’ve won the heart of the archer.
So, what to do now?
This guy is independent and really loves his freedom. He will instantly run away once feeling tied down in the relationship. As a free spirit, he does not want to stay with someone who tries to control him and lock him up.
Just let him climb to the top of Mount Everest as he wishes. Don’t get involved with a Sagittarius if you cannot accept his spontaneous adventures and activities. He hates women possessive and jealous; instead, he prefers the lady who is as independent as he is and who also dedicates time to her own life.
Wrap it up
Due to Sagittarius characteristics male, the Archer on the astrology wheel is complicated.
How to tell if a Sagittarius man loves you?
Sometimes it’s very hard to read his mind or catch up with his thinking when it comes to love. Many women find his changeable moods are difficult to deal with. However, once you’re capable of handling his mood swings, then you might be his potential match.
Making a Sagittarius grow interested deeply in someone requires a long process.
Why?
He seems to be a flirty; yet, this guy is quite picky with the matter related to serious relationships.
When it comes to love compatibility, he seems not get along well with the lady born under the Scorpio horoscope sign.
His strength as well as weakness is his honesty. So, learn to accept his brutal words if you want a long-term relationship with him. What he says to you can either brighten your day or crush your dreams in just a few seconds.
If you still be determined to seduce a Sagittarius male and make him chase you, then good luck!
Getting involved in a romance with a Sagittarius is worth your effort.
Hi dear,
I think both of you still have feelings for each other, and the unhappy marriages seem to make the connection between the two of you stronger. Of course he wants to get back with you because he has display his non-stop affections towards you, but the decision is up to you.
Since Sagittarius man is very honest, try to have a direct conversation with him.
Sincere!
Hi sag woman dating sag man. Him and i were talking dating for about 11 months during the time we were talking i asked him do he see him and i growing into something his response was i think so. A few weeks later i broke it off because i felt like my feelings were deeper than his. 1 month later we started talking again…just conversation…his actions says he likes me but His mouth doesn’t…should i continue talking to him or move on
Hi dear,
When two people are born under the same star sign it can be a rather hit and miss situation in terms of a relationship. In the case of two Sagittarians uniting their romantic energies, it can be a powerful combination, but it needs to be carefully managed.
Sincere!
Ah, it is difficult for me, a Pisces girl, to move on… All in all, this Sag man has been ignoring my messages for 5 months, never reads them, and doesn’t reply. So I don’t undrestand why he doesn’t block me completely to show me we are over. Could he be testing my patience? To watch me suffer and crumbling till I break? Could his ignoring be a strategy to make me come back begging him? Do men think / act like that? If I had a straight answer from him, I would hate him and easily move on. While there is no explanation from him, I am kept in limbo, unable to move on…waiting to see what the next move will be from him, but he sadly acts like a ghost.
Dear Marcia,
If you want to know if he loves you, look straight into his eyes and find the ‘special look’, or observe his caring gestures towards you. But then he needs his space, do his stuff and yes, sometimes for a few days (few!) just cool down a bit. Not because he forgot you, he just needs to ‘zoom out’ a bit. But that’s actually good for you, don’t push a Sag into doing anything because he can get very bored and lash out on you. When a Sagittarius man got bored, he starts ignoring you.
Good luck!
Hi there… great article…I wish I had read it before I made a mess of things..I like a Sagittarius man…we been together only for a few months…however, I became clingy and needy…he stopped talking to me saying he was going through some stuff…so I gave him his space…after about a week of not speaking…I put the pieces of the puzzle together and figured out what I had done wrong…I sent him an email…we spoke on the phone…cleared the air, or so I had thought..said I was moving too fast for him…I asked what he wanted..and he just asked me to slow it down…I said I had no problem
With that….and asked if we could start over…and he said, “ of course we can”….however, he still has a lot going on…it’s been a week again…I haven’t contacted him and nor has he contacted me….There were a lot of misunderstandings on both of our parts…which were discussed and I thought were cleared up also…he thought through the misunderstandings that I wanted to settle down etc…ahhhh….no, not ready to do that at all….I don’t know what to do..,I really like him…I think I became needy/clingy was when he said we’d get together, and that just never happened…something would always come up in his life…I started to get upset, missed him, etc…o explained why I got like that…that I don’t need a man in my life, but want one…is he coming back? Or should I just move on? Should I contact him? I don’t know what to do? I don’t want to make more of a mess of this than I already have…it was going so well !!! looking for your expertise advice please…thank you…
Dear Nancy,
Well, big mistake when you act clingy and needy to a Sag because that’s what he doesn’t like at all.
Sagittarius needs someone who will always be spontaneous and have fun with them. They aren’t exactly the commitment type of person, and are sometimes promiscuous. So, if he’s walking away from you, chances are he’s not going to look back at all. He’s out to look for more.
Sincere!
Ah, you are spot on! Sag man got bored and ignores my messages for 5 months. Actually, some time before all that, he had suggested 3 times to meet up. He had just moved into his new house, and said he was looking forward for me to visit him at his new house. But I understood that if I went, all he wanted was sex: he made it clear that he is still not interested in having a relationship. So I didn’t visit his new house, telling some silly lies (I am busy this week etc). He had said ”perhaps you want more than what I offer” but I was afraid to answer that question , so I always cut the conversation before any conflict, and then I disappeared for a while… Then I kept messaging him, trying to break the ice, but he ignores me for 5 months. Why doesn’t he have the guts to block me, or tell me to leave him alone? I think this may be a mind game, if he is ignoring me to make me beg him to reply. I wonder if there is any way to get through to his heart, without meeting him, as I don’t want to fall into the trap of being intimate with him. Because if I see him, it will be like a movie, I know we will be kissing after 3 seconds, and then I will either cry and leave, or fully get back with him, arriving again at point zero, not knowing if we have a relationship, if he will ever dare to bring me to his family, if he will ever agree to go on holidays like couples do etc… he didn’t even want to go out with me in public places, he said ‘let’s not be seen outside by people we know’ so I thought for a while he could be married, but he is not married. He is selfish and impossible to cage into a relationship….. I think if I ever agree to meet him I will dare to ask for a wedding ring, otherwise I am not going to his house. How crazy is that? As crazy as him, since he is not willing to go out with me in public…
Dear Marcia,
The fact he doesn’t want to go out with you in public places is definitely a sign he doesn’t take things seriously with you. If you feel that all he wants is just having sex with you, then it’s time to give this relationship an ending. Don’t spend time with the guy who doesn’t want an official connection with you – find someone deserve you better.
Good luck!