You got a crush on a Sagittarius man and want him to chase you?
What to do if your love interest is the Sagittarius male?
Compared to other fire zodiac signs (Aries and Leo), Sagittarius is much more easygoing and friendly. He is the person of challenges and tending to follow his instincts.
As the optimistic kind, he believes that everything in this world has the solution. In addition to that, why should he work hard to gain the heart of one specific lady while there are plenty of women out there?
When he does something but it wastes too much of his time, then he chooses to leave it aside and continue with other tasks.
Of course, if a Sagittarius man falls for someone romantically, he will try several times to get a date with that person. He seems to be the first one to make the call or send message afterward. However, once he senses that you’re not keen with what he is doing, then he will immediately stop himself from being devoted.
Here are obvious signs a Sagittarius is interested!
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BEST Tips of Making a Sagittarius Man Chase You
#1: Be honest…but not 100% transparent
A serious man looks for a woman, not a girl.
If you want to attract a Sagittarius male, you must be independent enough to know what you really want. Also, he hates playing games.
Remember that you’re trying to get him to chase you. However, if you tell him that you want to commit after just a few dates, he is going to run away since Sagittarius values his freedom…a lot.
In this case, a better approach is to drop hints subtly that you’re available. Show your interest in particular things (not by words, of course) and his feelings for you may develop beyond a crush or a few dates.
Display your honesty…just not all of it!
Though being honest is the basic foundation when it comes to dating, it doesn’t mean you have to expose every emotion and thought deep inside. Right now, you are getting Sagittarius man to chase you, so it’s much better if you can decide how many percentage of transparency you need to provide in this relationship.
Be open but also let him know that he cannot completely access your heart and brain.
#2: Be independent…but not too isolated
Sagittarius man likes to challenge himself; thus, submissive women who are available most of the time are not really his ideal type.
Instead, he is more into the lady who is fiercely independent. Show him there are lots of things ranking higher than him in the list even though he’s important to you.
The key here is – you must find out how to make a Sagittarius man miss you.
Why don’t you spend some time apart?
It’s the opportunity to make him think about you. He will start wondering what you are doing and enjoy learning about you through social media. He’ll even get excited and be likely to chase you when seeing you act aggressive.
Don’t mind sharing things you find interesting with him. He would love seeing your enthusiasm and passion in whatever you do. Confidently answer his questions as it’s the best way for him to discover your true self.
Tell him how much you enjoy being around him.
#3: Be yourself…never in the way he wants
Most of women usually act as a totally different person when having a date with the man they are interested in. Ridiculously, men are only turned on by the female who is completely herself.
Don’t try to become another version of someone else!
If you want to know how to make a Sagittarius man want you, the answer is simply being yourself.
There are plenty of ladies, which mean your love interest has plenty of choices. His ideal type is the woman who is unique in style and in way of thinking. Never act as a clingy person; actually, he is more drawn into a genuine gal who is busy with her own life rather than spending time following his every step.
However, don’t make him feel that you ignore him or he will unintentionally leave immediately.
Furthermore, he’s not looking for a woman who just keeps nodding to everything he says as well as doing whatever he asks. This Sag guy wants his partner to state her opinions in every situation. So, if you have any disagreement, tell him honestly.
You don’t wait to respond to his texts; in fact, you are busy all day, remember!
#4: Want him…but don’t need him
Even if you know that you’ve grown strong, passionate feelings for Sagittarius man, please act as nothing happen. Once he senses that you have fallen in love with him, he may give up the chance if not getting hooked anymore.
A man wants to be wanted, not needed, in a relationship.
This is what we call making him obssessed with you!
Being wanted makes him feel sexy, desirable, and admirable. On the other hand, being needed gives him the feeling that you’re trying to trap him and require him to make the commitment without recognizing whether he wants it or not.
As soon as you’ve developed serious affection for this guy, tell yourself that he is not the reason for living. Obviously having him in your life can brighten your life; however, you are still able to be happy by yourself.
On the outside, show that you want him and give him some of your affections (not wholly); at the same time, build a fence to protect yourself from getting hurt by a Sagittarius in the future.
Again, ignoring him is not a good option as it make the Archer feel left out.
Will a Sagittarius man chase you?
You do have a good chance to make him fall for you if you know how to be happy on your own.
#5: Stay active around him
If you want a Sagittarius guy to fall in love with you, then be upbeat. Spread only positive energy around him, like smiling a lot and keeping things lighthearted. Do not bad-mouth about any person or anything as well as not start a negative conservation with him.
What type of woman he is looking for?
This guy wants to be with someone who is able to keep up with him. He is a fast-paced person always found to be on the go. In order to get him to chase you, the key is to show him that you are also as active as he is.
As a huge flirt, he has no matter if receiving flirty messages from you. Flirty and sexy are fine as long as you lure him with your lair only. Never think of showing him naked shots as you’re not after him just for making love. Give him sincere compliments about his looks, the way he talks, and so on – he’ll appreciate it a lot as Sagittarius man is always curious about how you think about him.
Hooking him with mystery is a wise move as he gets bored with women throwing themselves at him immediately.
In short, be fun and playful when around him!
When a Shy Sagittarius Man Likes You…
What he looks in potential partner?
Though he is often stunned by a woman’s beauty, just the looks cannot keep his heart forever. Sagittarius man seeks intellectual stimulation. If you’re dating one, try to make deep, inquisitive discussions with him – as he loves talking about everything in life, it’s better to widen your knowledge in different topics.
In addition, this guy prefers independent women who are capable of taking care of themselves well. He will have a very good impression to the lady dressing well, smelling nice, and having a great style.
Freedom is extremely important to a Sagittarius, so don’t be clingy if you want to be with him.
Many feel hesitant to be with the Sag male in a romantic relationship because he quickly loses his interest. Despite his short attention spans, he is actually committed and dedicated once truly falling in love. Dating with him is like riding a roller coaster – not a dull moment; it will be full of new and exciting adventures. If you want to maintain his feelings for you for long term, the tip is to shower him with surprises and excitement almost every day.
He is known for being brutally honest and tactful; therefore, there will be times you will get hurt by his words. It’s just his way of expressing what he feels, not that he wants to mean.
How to Tell if a Sagittarius Man Likes You?
As you probably, your Sagittarius love interest is a flirt; thus, it’s quite challenging to determine whether he’s just into you at a moment or he’s serious about you. For sure, the archer enjoys the chase; that’s why you should make the initial move no matter how much you like him.
If he asks you to join him in his adventure, high chances that he already falls hard for you. Interestingly, he does prefer to be asked out sometimes. But, in general, this guy still loves the feeling of going after someone.
Don’t quickly tell him that you like him!
The trick here is to be a bit mysterious when talking to him. Play hard to get and keep him guessing, and he can’t help but asking you out as he wants to know more about you. He will never stop until discovering your truest self as well as how you feel about him.
How to Keep the Sagittarius Man?
If you read this part, it means you’ve won the heart of the archer.
So, what to do now?
This guy is independent and really loves his freedom. He will instantly run away once feeling tied down in the relationship. As a free spirit, he does not want to stay with someone who tries to control him and lock him up.
Just let him climb to the top of Mount Everest as he wishes. Don’t get involved with a Sagittarius if you cannot accept his spontaneous adventures and activities. He hates women possessive and jealous; instead, he prefers the lady who is as independent as he is and who also dedicates time to her own life.
Wrap it up
Due to Sagittarius characteristics male, the Archer on the astrology wheel is complicated.
How to tell if a Sagittarius man loves you?
Sometimes it’s very hard to read his mind or catch up with his thinking when it comes to love. Many women find his changeable moods are difficult to deal with. However, once you’re capable of handling his mood swings, then you might be his potential match.
Making a Sagittarius grow interested deeply in someone requires a long process.
Why?
He seems to be a flirty; yet, this guy is quite picky with the matter related to serious relationships.
When it comes to love compatibility, he seems not get along well with the lady born under the Scorpio horoscope sign.
His strength as well as weakness is his honesty. So, learn to accept his brutal words if you want a long-term relationship with him. What he says to you can either brighten your day or crush your dreams in just a few seconds.
If you still be determined to seduce a Sagittarius male and make him chase you, then good luck!
Getting involved in a romance with a Sagittarius is worth your effort.
I have been in a relationship with a Sag for 7 months…things moved VERY quickly but I don’t mind because we had so much in common on a deep level…. I am a Scorpio woman and much like the Sag I’m my self don’t bite my tongue and am brutally honest….I feel the things he doesn’t like about me is the very things he does! Coupled with the fact that I was very Unapologetic about my past as being an exotic dancer even those he said he could understand that was in my younger days but he still brings it up in little snide remarks….he and I are so much alike I feel we are twin flames but he can be so irrational and it peeves my soul to the point we have gotten into physical altercations….his anger can control him but (this may sound like every women) I KNOW he loves me but he met his match and doesn’t know how to handle me…. I’m not sure if I should just let go completely….even those in the past when I tried he wouldn’t let up with the calls and texts and coming to ANYPLACE where he thinks I might be…. SMH I feel he is confused therefore confusing me!
Dear Isha,
I think you two should give each other a break and think about this relationship carefully. Don’t let more confusions block the connection of both. If you feel unable to handle being with him, then simply let him go and focus on your own.
Sincere!
hi.
I am in love with a Saggi guy for almost 4 years. We were supposed to get married since he got his mom to propose to me. However, things change after I receive a text that he’s playing behind my back.
Out of anger and ego, we broke up. And he met someone new. I tried to move away from him but I keep on running back to him. At the same time, despite being in a new relationship, he still looked for me when I went missing on him for a few days.
Up till today, he still stays in contact with me. And we still meet up and spend time together. He never treated me like a friend. He still treats me the same when we were together in a relationship. He doesn’t me to contact or meet other guys, fearing I will leave him for them.
I don’t know what I should do. I feel complete with him in my life and feel a part of me is missing when we are apart. I want him back but I don’t know to make him commit to me again without her in his life..
What should I do?
Dear Es,
Once he plays behind your back, there will be the second, third, and even fourth time. For your best, I think you should ignore him completely from your mind and focus on a new relationship.
Sincere!
Ah, you are so correct! I was hoping this Sag man would one day change his mind, and give it a try to have a relationship. But he always said he doesn’t want a relationship, as it would cause us wounds in the future. I find this very odd, after keeping this situation for nearly 2 years in such a heartless way. Him getting what he wanted, while me, not getting what I wanted. He is so stubborn. Why are Sag men so stubborn? I have other men qeuing for me, but sadly I don’t want them. I want that stubborn Sag, because I finally wasted 3 years because of him…
Dear Marcia,
I think it’s now time to give yourself the best rather than chasing someone who gives you nothing but wrong hopes. As you said, you already wasted 3 valuable years but regained only hurt and sadness. From now on, try to focus on what actually makes you happy and find the right person truly deserving your love and care.
Sincere!
Aw, your words are so wise and soothing, thank you so much! I know you are so right, only I find it odd, and sad, that he chose to disappear on me , not answering my texts for 5 months. Why would he dissapear and not send me a few words like “please don’t contact me again, I am with someone else now”. Also, his instagram seems frozen for those 5 months. I worry in case he had an accident, or if he is in hospital, or in some other trouble. However, I see him daily online on facebook, so I quess he is alive, possibly enjoying his revenge, by not talking to me, because I didn’t go to his house… It’s such a sad way to end things without a closure… I thought Sag men are direct and never expected him to disappear like that, as if I don’t deserve a few words, not even a goodbye…
Dear Marcia,
He probably decided it was time to end it. If I were you, I’d just let it go, too. Nothing worse than someone who keeps coming at you especially when it’s OVER. Are you getting it, dear? Don’t be sad about his disapperance! Move on. And if you see him in public? Let him approach you, if he decides to. Play it smarter than you have in the past. Maybe you’ll feel better about yourself, is my hope for you!
Sincere!
Your caring words are so amazing and I am grateful for those…. I was thinking to send that Sag a testing text proposing ”shall we meet at your house”, in case he replies a yes! Then I will know that this is the message he was waiting for, after 11 months of silence. And if he replies ”yes come over”, I am never going to his house! 🙂 It is unlikely that I would see him in public, as we live in different areas… Messages were the only way to contact him, but he cut me off for 11 months. I never tried to call him for those 11 months. This is the sad way of relationships nowadays, whether he is a Sag or not. Maybe the problem was his age. Men of 30 don’t know how to behave or how to treat a woman. I should have quessed that from the beginning. But…. I fell for him without questioning anything, because (hold tight) I had a dream 15 years ago, being in love and utterly happy with some man who looked exacty like him. When I met him, I thought he was ”the one” I had seen in my dream… this is why I find it so hard to let go of my hope that maybe it is him, who will be that man from the dream… Thank God I never told him that he resembles the man from my dream, and that this is the reason I talked to him, otherwise I would never dare to talk to a stranger. But now, as you say, I don’t think he is ever coming back…. I wonder how would you feel if a woman told you she had dreamt of being with you, 15 years before meeting you? Would you ever believe her?! It is too extreme to believe….
Dear Marcia,
I know it’s hard to cut off everything related to him at once..maybe he’s not the right one for you, and your true mate is still waiting out there; just don’t lose hope and always keep a positive mind. Even if he is the man of your dream, it’s not worth staying with the person uncaring and showing no affection to you.
Sincere!
Hello,
I’m interested in a sagittarius Male, and its started long ago when I was 17 he told me he like me, while I was on the phone with a cousin (who happen to like him, and wanted me to tell him) and when I did he stated, tell your cousin, I like you. After that we just talked as friends for months. But nothing ever happen beside a genuine friendship, probably because he was of age and I was months shy of my 18th birthday. Anyway, he always made is clear that he wouldn’t let any harm come my way. But eventually we stop talking,we will see each other from time to time when I visit my grandparents. Everytime its little flirts here and there and we’ll move on. But recently during a lost of a love one, he been around my family, and he was flirt with me in front of everyone, as well telling everyone that he like me. Something he never did before. He asks if I was single and stated that he single too, He stated that he could take me out but Asks to cook for me instead. But as a bbw I took it a insult( I kinda turn it down) a couple days later he see me at my grandfather and in his car just staring at me with a smile, if I put my head down or look away once I look book at him he smiles, he try to show attention but my cousin who I mention earlier got in the way. ( now love making have came up, I dont want to leave that out) but anywho after while a friend of mines decided to shoot a text from facebook asking to step out and his response was who all going????? And when the response was you and I he didn’t respond back. But the next day at my grandfather house he pull over get out the the car and touch me and asks mymother about ticket’s to a concert we all going to. And again the whole time he talking to.my family he looking at me.
What is it????? With him????
Dear Dee,
Sagittariun men are outspoken and frank..if they like u they will probably tell u straight up. They start to pay more attention to you and are pretty assertive. They will flirt, make eye contact, maybe touch your arm while talking, listen to every little thing you say and love to talk to you.
In your case, the Sag may be confused with his feelings a bit but he likes you in general. If you’re not ready, then give both of you time before getting involved in a relationship.
Sincere!
Thanks so much for your help!
What should do, if I want to date, the sag male, I’m a pisces women a d I’m reading that they dont work out to well.
Dear Dee,
I have to say the chance is 50/50 – this is a challenging combination as Pisces is a water sign and Sagittarius is a fire sign. Sex will always be good but love will be another story. Over time, the attraction could fade due to gossip, suspicion and secrets. The lucky thing is, both Pisces and Sagittarius loves to gain knowledge, understanding, friendship, and love. Everything is really hard, but when we works things out our relationship only gets stronger.
Good luck!