You got a crush on a Sagittarius man and want him to chase you?
What to do if your love interest is the Sagittarius male?
Compared to other fire zodiac signs (Aries and Leo), Sagittarius is much more easygoing and friendly. He is the person of challenges and tending to follow his instincts.
As the optimistic kind, he believes that everything in this world has the solution. In addition to that, why should he work hard to gain the heart of one specific lady while there are plenty of women out there?
When he does something but it wastes too much of his time, then he chooses to leave it aside and continue with other tasks.
Of course, if a Sagittarius man falls for someone romantically, he will try several times to get a date with that person. He seems to be the first one to make the call or send message afterward. However, once he senses that you’re not keen with what he is doing, then he will immediately stop himself from being devoted.
Here are obvious signs a Sagittarius is interested!
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BEST Tips of Making a Sagittarius Man Chase You
#1: Be honest…but not 100% transparent
A serious man looks for a woman, not a girl.
If you want to attract a Sagittarius male, you must be independent enough to know what you really want. Also, he hates playing games.
Remember that you’re trying to get him to chase you. However, if you tell him that you want to commit after just a few dates, he is going to run away since Sagittarius values his freedom…a lot.
In this case, a better approach is to drop hints subtly that you’re available. Show your interest in particular things (not by words, of course) and his feelings for you may develop beyond a crush or a few dates.
Display your honesty…just not all of it!
Though being honest is the basic foundation when it comes to dating, it doesn’t mean you have to expose every emotion and thought deep inside. Right now, you are getting Sagittarius man to chase you, so it’s much better if you can decide how many percentage of transparency you need to provide in this relationship.
Be open but also let him know that he cannot completely access your heart and brain.
#2: Be independent…but not too isolated
Sagittarius man likes to challenge himself; thus, submissive women who are available most of the time are not really his ideal type.
Instead, he is more into the lady who is fiercely independent. Show him there are lots of things ranking higher than him in the list even though he’s important to you.
The key here is – you must find out how to make a Sagittarius man miss you.
Why don’t you spend some time apart?
It’s the opportunity to make him think about you. He will start wondering what you are doing and enjoy learning about you through social media. He’ll even get excited and be likely to chase you when seeing you act aggressive.
Don’t mind sharing things you find interesting with him. He would love seeing your enthusiasm and passion in whatever you do. Confidently answer his questions as it’s the best way for him to discover your true self.
Tell him how much you enjoy being around him.
#3: Be yourself…never in the way he wants
Most of women usually act as a totally different person when having a date with the man they are interested in. Ridiculously, men are only turned on by the female who is completely herself.
Don’t try to become another version of someone else!
If you want to know how to make a Sagittarius man want you, the answer is simply being yourself.
There are plenty of ladies, which mean your love interest has plenty of choices. His ideal type is the woman who is unique in style and in way of thinking. Never act as a clingy person; actually, he is more drawn into a genuine gal who is busy with her own life rather than spending time following his every step.
However, don’t make him feel that you ignore him or he will unintentionally leave immediately.
Furthermore, he’s not looking for a woman who just keeps nodding to everything he says as well as doing whatever he asks. This Sag guy wants his partner to state her opinions in every situation. So, if you have any disagreement, tell him honestly.
You don’t wait to respond to his texts; in fact, you are busy all day, remember!
#4: Want him…but don’t need him
Even if you know that you’ve grown strong, passionate feelings for Sagittarius man, please act as nothing happen. Once he senses that you have fallen in love with him, he may give up the chance if not getting hooked anymore.
A man wants to be wanted, not needed, in a relationship.
This is what we call making him obssessed with you!
Being wanted makes him feel sexy, desirable, and admirable. On the other hand, being needed gives him the feeling that you’re trying to trap him and require him to make the commitment without recognizing whether he wants it or not.
As soon as you’ve developed serious affection for this guy, tell yourself that he is not the reason for living. Obviously having him in your life can brighten your life; however, you are still able to be happy by yourself.
On the outside, show that you want him and give him some of your affections (not wholly); at the same time, build a fence to protect yourself from getting hurt by a Sagittarius in the future.
Again, ignoring him is not a good option as it make the Archer feel left out.
Will a Sagittarius man chase you?
You do have a good chance to make him fall for you if you know how to be happy on your own.
#5: Stay active around him
If you want a Sagittarius guy to fall in love with you, then be upbeat. Spread only positive energy around him, like smiling a lot and keeping things lighthearted. Do not bad-mouth about any person or anything as well as not start a negative conservation with him.
What type of woman he is looking for?
This guy wants to be with someone who is able to keep up with him. He is a fast-paced person always found to be on the go. In order to get him to chase you, the key is to show him that you are also as active as he is.
As a huge flirt, he has no matter if receiving flirty messages from you. Flirty and sexy are fine as long as you lure him with your lair only. Never think of showing him naked shots as you’re not after him just for making love. Give him sincere compliments about his looks, the way he talks, and so on – he’ll appreciate it a lot as Sagittarius man is always curious about how you think about him.
Hooking him with mystery is a wise move as he gets bored with women throwing themselves at him immediately.
In short, be fun and playful when around him!
When a Shy Sagittarius Man Likes You…
What he looks in potential partner?
Though he is often stunned by a woman’s beauty, just the looks cannot keep his heart forever. Sagittarius man seeks intellectual stimulation. If you’re dating one, try to make deep, inquisitive discussions with him – as he loves talking about everything in life, it’s better to widen your knowledge in different topics.
In addition, this guy prefers independent women who are capable of taking care of themselves well. He will have a very good impression to the lady dressing well, smelling nice, and having a great style.
Freedom is extremely important to a Sagittarius, so don’t be clingy if you want to be with him.
Many feel hesitant to be with the Sag male in a romantic relationship because he quickly loses his interest. Despite his short attention spans, he is actually committed and dedicated once truly falling in love. Dating with him is like riding a roller coaster – not a dull moment; it will be full of new and exciting adventures. If you want to maintain his feelings for you for long term, the tip is to shower him with surprises and excitement almost every day.
He is known for being brutally honest and tactful; therefore, there will be times you will get hurt by his words. It’s just his way of expressing what he feels, not that he wants to mean.
How to Tell if a Sagittarius Man Likes You?
As you probably, your Sagittarius love interest is a flirt; thus, it’s quite challenging to determine whether he’s just into you at a moment or he’s serious about you. For sure, the archer enjoys the chase; that’s why you should make the initial move no matter how much you like him.
If he asks you to join him in his adventure, high chances that he already falls hard for you. Interestingly, he does prefer to be asked out sometimes. But, in general, this guy still loves the feeling of going after someone.
Don’t quickly tell him that you like him!
The trick here is to be a bit mysterious when talking to him. Play hard to get and keep him guessing, and he can’t help but asking you out as he wants to know more about you. He will never stop until discovering your truest self as well as how you feel about him.
How to Keep the Sagittarius Man?
If you read this part, it means you’ve won the heart of the archer.
So, what to do now?
This guy is independent and really loves his freedom. He will instantly run away once feeling tied down in the relationship. As a free spirit, he does not want to stay with someone who tries to control him and lock him up.
Just let him climb to the top of Mount Everest as he wishes. Don’t get involved with a Sagittarius if you cannot accept his spontaneous adventures and activities. He hates women possessive and jealous; instead, he prefers the lady who is as independent as he is and who also dedicates time to her own life.
Wrap it up
Due to Sagittarius characteristics male, the Archer on the astrology wheel is complicated.
How to tell if a Sagittarius man loves you?
Sometimes it’s very hard to read his mind or catch up with his thinking when it comes to love. Many women find his changeable moods are difficult to deal with. However, once you’re capable of handling his mood swings, then you might be his potential match.
Making a Sagittarius grow interested deeply in someone requires a long process.
Why?
He seems to be a flirty; yet, this guy is quite picky with the matter related to serious relationships.
When it comes to love compatibility, he seems not get along well with the lady born under the Scorpio horoscope sign.
His strength as well as weakness is his honesty. So, learn to accept his brutal words if you want a long-term relationship with him. What he says to you can either brighten your day or crush your dreams in just a few seconds.
If you still be determined to seduce a Sagittarius male and make him chase you, then good luck!
Getting involved in a romance with a Sagittarius is worth your effort.
Would love to know if I am tripping. I met a sag man about a couple months ago. He just got out of a very long serious relationship just 2 months prior to us meeting. We hit it off pretty fast… would speak very often, all day most days. But then there would be times where he would not contact me for a day or two, which was strange for us. He had a couple family members pass away abruptly, and would state that was the reason for his distance. But we got back cool and was back on board with communication. Then he disappeared again (for a day or two), so I straight up asked him “am I wasting my time”? He sent a lengthy message stating that he really liked me and that he takes his time committing (I was not asking for a commitment or exclusitivity at all, nor wanted so early, but just hated the hot and cold treatment). I know that he was also still getting over his ex, rightfully so. So we stopped talking, but I missed him so I reached out, even sent him a thoughtful bday gift, and we became cool again. He actually opened up a lot more this time around, and really built a solid foundation. I saw his effort (since he knew that his distance at times was an issue for me) and really appreciated it. But then he started to somewhat revert back into his old ways of not speaking everyday. THEN for me what was the final straw, he did not contact me on Valentines Day at all. I was not expecting a gift or plans, as I already had mine, but for him not to reach out at all really showed me how he really thought of me. Am I right in assuming that because he did not reach out, that he is not interested, or am I taking that too seriously? To me, its the principle lol. I blocked him since, do you think he will even ever come back?
Hi dear,
Sagittarius guys are free spirits and they kind of breeze through life care free. They don’t take things quite so serious because their to busy being their happy go lucky selves. Don’t take his behavior as a sign that he doesn’t like you because I’m sure he does. Sags are just always doing other things, but when their crushing on someone trust me your on their mind. And I bet your on his mind. Just wait to hear from him and he will probably have a really funny story to tell or something that you might relaize that you were worried for nothing.
Sincere!
Omg girl I’ve been with my sag for 5 years on and off. The longest we’ve gone broken up was for 3 months but he is VERY hot and cold too. He did the same with his relationship prior to ours. I thought maybe he’s bipolar and I’ve gotten to the point of just letting him be when he gets cold and distant and it happens every 3-4 months where he’ll be soooo good and then he’ll start to distant himself and act aloof. We have two kids together and I’m pregnant and he isn’t in the picture atm. Go figures but honestly I’m done playing this game with him I wish I could block him or just straight up left the first breakup. STAY AWAY FROM HIM. Keep him blocked. I’m starting to really see sags like this, they seem to be all the same.
Dear Sir Wooten, yes, like you so wisely detected, this was a toxic relationship… I am not going back to him, just I am analyzing his behavior:
After the new year, the Sag man suddenly unblocked me on facebook, but I didn’t react at all and didn’t message him. Then a week later, he blocked me back.
Then 3 days later, he put a post on facebook ”I am feeling fantastic”, and then it says ”you can’t view this post, as the owner has shared it with a small number of people”. I think he is full of tricks, but why! If he wants me back, he could say it openly. If not, he could stop blocking and unblocking me and advertising how fantastic he now feels. I am puzzled, but maybe that’s his aim. They say, if someone manages to be always in your head, you will fall in love with him. And maybe he is looking for ways to keep my mind busy!?
So I might be too naive, or too clever, I don’t know….. but in any case, he is more ahead in games, than me….!
Two years ago, i met a saggitarius at work. It was an instant attraction from both sides. Seeing as to we live in a very closed off culture, for about a year of working together hes never seen me in normal clothes or without a head scarf. We then bumped into each other in a bar, looking normal, you can only imagine the attraction went up the roof. He asked for my number there and then, and we started talking.
We started going out together all the time, having so much fun. Im a libra so im very social by nature and i got along with him and all his friends. Everything was perfect, chemistry was insane, even his voice made me tremble.
After 10 months, i decided to end things. Like i said, we live in a closed off culture and have different religious backgrounds, so we would never be able to marry. I decided that i did not want to build more memories with this guy and break up eventually, itll just be harder. He was sad and upset but he didnt pressure me as he understood the situation.
We got back together again a few months later, again it was wonderful, and he went on and on about how he missed me, and how i was the perfect girl for him. A few months later, i left him again for the same reasons.
In the past two years (since we broke up) ive seen him out at lounges and bars. And everytime he would be dancing with a different girl, and staring at me at the same time, yep. Im great at acting non chalant, and honestly i wasnt really hurt, they got nothing on me, i know im a catch (excuse the confidence). It just bothered me that he was too obvious, staring at me while with someone else, its rude. But whatever, i never confronted him about him nor do i intend to.
Did i mention he quit? Hes very intelligent he moved on to a better job, bigger position. No more anxiety at work yay! And also i always knew hed make it, hes very charming.
So i was having dinner with my sister and a friend and he showed up to the restaurant, he looked at me, quickly turned his face when i looked back, and kind of just stood there to be seen. The next day he showed up at work, to say hello to some old collegues no less.
So with all this corona stuff, i decided to text him, see whats up. He denied seeing me at the restaurant that day. But kept talking about us, and our relationship. He also asked to be with me again, and said that if there was a 0.00001% chance he could hed fight for it. Then we got into the whole discussion of us, of my reasons. He got angry i texted him and still cant get back together.
Hes a great guy, but theres no future, and its been two years since we broke up, so what is he pretending?
For the record, my family is not as conservative as his, they would probably be on board with whatever i want, his wouldnt.
So im just curious as to what this guy is feeling, could you help?
Hi Celine,
First of all, if you yourself knew that it was not a serious relationship, then it’s not necessary to know his feelings. Whatever it was, it’s over now. You start with the moving on. He definitely did not come back into your life because what had happened.
Sincere!
Hello, my name is onyinye. I met this sag 9 months ago, we hit it off, he was nice to me and always want me around him. Then they transfered him out of the state. He was cool as before, but suddenly it takes him time to reply me my messages, I feel sad. Although we talks on phone but most times he is online, he won’t reply me. I try clearing it with him how it makes me feel, he threatened me that he might quit the relationship. What should i do, i fear that he might have gotten someone else now and looking for the right time to end it.
Hi dear,
Before jumping to any conclusions the best course of action is to sit and talk things through with your significant other. Be gentle and polite and understanding. Be a friend who doesn’t judge under any circunstance. Be someone who he can count on and someone he can trust. Try to understand the reasons for his emotions and his behavior. Be open minded and understand his point of few. Most importantly “LISTEN” without interrupting him and let him talk it out. Understand what he is trying to communicate through his words and actions. If the cause of this behavior of his is any of your actions then try to fix them or find a middle ground or a compromise. If it’s something else then help him in working things out and clearing his mind.
Trust me, in the long run this will make your relationship and bond stronger and give you clarity on the matter for the foreseeable future.
Sincere!
Hi all I met a Sagittarius two months ago and we went on one date and then planned for the next one and the excuses started first it was his son had issues with pot, then he fell asleep as he was overwhelmed with Covid and the loss of his job. Each time I just felt he wasn’t really interested even though he kept telling me i am really cool, funny and hot. He still wants to talk to me and see me in September but August is a busy month for both of us, but the sad thing is he told me he likes me but due to his new job being 2 hours away he doesn’t want to date anyone at this time.. Am I wasting my time, I don’t want to chase him but he honestly is so sweet and asks about my job hunting, my kids and everything else.. what should I do is he just leading me on even though he says he is not playing games ?
Hi Anne,
That depends by what he means by not wanting to be in relationship right now. Has he requested a break to think it out or is he ok with just dating you but does not wish to take it to the next step for now? If it’s the former than you may as well drop him. If he’s asking for a break, most likely he wants out. True, he may regret that decision and come back knocking after some time but the question is, should you wait for him? What if you would have just started to get over him at the time. And what if after you take him back he goes through another confused moment in future? The thing is, you go into a relationship to get something out of it. If all you’re getting is your feelings hurt while he “concentrates”, you must stop to think about yourself.
Secondly this also depends on what he means by loosing concentration. On what I ask? Is his concentration on this relationship, on himself, on his feelings, on his career or worse on someone else? Possibly he’s passing through a bad patch and he needs some space. But if you are now being seen as complicating things or worse still, you are the problem, what chances are there that some breathing space is to cure it all?
You asked what is the best thing to do. Once again I have to say ask and ask. You have to get to the root cause here before you can know what to do. If he’s passing through some difficult moment external to your relationship and the whole thing is worth saving, then by all means hear him out and support him how best you can. But if its all about you or about fear of commitment perhaps it’s time to look elsewhere. A person who loves you should care about his loved one first before himself.
Sincere