How do you know when a Scorpio man is falling in love with you?
According to Peter Risdon, based on different traits of 12 zodiac signs, every man has a unique way to express his inner feelings towards the woman he loves.
Of course the Scorpio male is not an exception.
The problem is – reading what is going on in a Scorpio’s head is a difficult task because of his mysterious persona.
Fortunately, this guy does show a variety of love signals when falling for someone.
They do not mean a lot if you analyze separately; however, when all are put together, the whole combination is a good indication telling he is truly interested in you.
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So, here are 10 signs a Scorpio man is falling in love to look for basically.
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How to Tell If a Scorpio Man Likes You?
Firstly, if you get tired of guessing what your Scorpio love interest thinks about you, then you’ve come to the right place.
In the following, I’m going to give you some hints allowing you to recognize exactly his intentions and feelings. The Peter Risdon also comes with the guide assisting you in reading Scorpio man quickly with ease.
Alright, keep track of 10 signs of Scorpio man in love with you.
#1: He hides his feelings for you at first
Many often ask me whether or not the Scorpio male is flirty.
The truth is; this guy is misunderstood a lot – women often characterize him as a flirtatious from the first glance. However, things he displays on the surface are just small parts of his story.
Scorpio men are often packed with self-confidence; thus, he is not afraid of exhibiting his lust and flirtatious behavior. Yet, when it comes to expressing his emotions in a true love, he instantly becomes self-guarded. He will act distant and not open his heart until he is certain about your feelings towards him.
#2: He wants to be with you most of the time
When Scorpio man loves you, he is very excited with the fact he can be with you whenever he wants. By spending his precious time on you, he will get a chance of understanding you better from all different aspects.
Since your love interest is cautious in love and hard to fall for someone, all you must do is to gain his trust as well as give him a period to determine his feelings inside.
Always let him know that you have his back, and he will not hesitate to choose you as the woman he wants to commit in return.
#3: He tests you
It’s hard to know what exactly attracts Scorpio men in love.
Influenced by Scorpio male love traits, it’s pretty difficult for him to fall for someone at first sight. In fact, he requires a long time to decide whether or not you are worth his investment. During this time, he will intentionally give you subtle tests for an in-depth understanding about your behavior.
Since this man is kind towards people, he would love to see the way to interact and treat others around you.
My advice here is to display your acts of kindness constantly!
#4: He pays more attention to everything you say
If your Scorpio man shows this love sign, he’s obssessed with you already.
The next signal is – you must take notice and see if he expresses the excitement in what you are saying. Curious in nature, he can’t help but craving to know you better; that explains why he seems to be very attentive when having the communication with you.
What I like most about the Scorpio male is: he puts all of his focus strongly on you.
If you feel like your Scorpio is genuinely listening to what you say and gives you his complete attention, 100% the possibility is that he likes you.
#5: He is open up more with you
Similar to Capricorn man, men born under Scorpio horoscope sign are insecure; hence, don’t be surprised if you find your love interest is quite guarded over his feelings.
The only way for this man to open his heart is gaining his trust, completely. He will put down all the fences around him once getting provided enough security. The moment he is into you from head to toes, he may say something that you’ve never heard before and cannot imagine as well.
Never share his innermost secrets to others.
He expects his partner not to take his trust lightly. Of course this guy will not come back if his trust is betrayed terribly.
#6: He displays the jealousy
Is Scorpio man jealous?
Due to his intensely emotional nature, it’s understandable if the Scorpio male gets jealous sometimes. Although he tries his best not to show it, you can tell when he feels envious with ease.
In case you want to gain his attention, don’t think of making him feel jealous.
Playing games is an unwise move to attract a Scorpio. Why? If you do not take love seriously, he will start perceiving you as an untrustworthy, manipulative woman. Nonetheless, if you notice some small jealousy signs from him, this means he finds you attractive and worth a chase.
#7: He seems to be very possessive
All zodiac signs have both positive and negative traits.
In case of Scorpio man, possessiveness is seen as one of his prominent negative qualities, especially if he doesn’t want to learn to control it.
Yet, at the initial stage of a relationship, he appears possessive could be a sign telling that you means a lot to him. Also check other Scorpio man in love signs now!
#8: He is protective of you
Of all astrology signs, Scorpio is gifted with a very strong instinct to protect the people he loves. So, how does a Scorpio man act when he likes you? He, most of the time, will stand up for you and take a good care of you.
If you see him behave or act in a way too over protective of you, then it is a sure sign he also has a crush on you strongly.
#9: He wants a mutual connection
This Scorpio man will ask you a lot of question about almost everything as he wants to learn carefully about you as well as to find out if you two share anything in common. Especially if he likes you, he’s curious to know whether or not your feelings and his are mutual.
Don’t ignore making more in-depth conversations with this guy so that both of you can develop a strong connection.
#10: He makes you feel special
Although it takes him a long time to fall in love, not many women know that he is extremely emotional, passionate, and romantic when around his loved one.
If you are lucky to be in a relationship with a Scorpio, be prepared as he will shower you with his affections. This is the man of action; therefore, he usually expresses his affections emotionally and physically to make you feel special.
For instance, he will constantly compliment you, help you do things, and even buy you gifts based on your interests.
As he is a deep person in love, he will try hard to become an important partner to you.
When a Scorpio Man is in a Hunt…
Is it easy to spot a Scorpio male chasing you?
Personally, I think it’s quite obvious when a guy of Scorpio sign likes you. He is quite forward when being after someone. At first, he may feel a bit hard to fall in love due to the fear of rejection; however, he will show his interest partially as well as availability if truly having feelings for you.
A mature Scorpio man is extremely loyal in love.
He can go through all ups and downs just to be with the person he is into. No matter what happens, he will be devoted. This guy is never the type giving up so quickly because of his stubbornness.
Don’t try to force a young, immature Scorpio to make the commitment as he is simply not ready to settle.
What Type of Woman Does Scorpio Man Like?
Born under a very powerful sign in the zodiac, the Scorpio male usually plays the leader or domination role as well in most aspects of his life.
How about himself in a love romance?
When it comes to love relationship, this man is quite intense just like his symbol – the Scorpion; therefore, women getting involved with him find it unable to handle his personality sometimes.
In case you are thinking of a hookup with a Scorpio man, then the key is that you must be compatible with his personality traits. He easily gets attracted to a lady who is responsive, affectionate, easy-going, and devoted.
Here are a few ideas describing the woman that Scorpio man feels impressed most:
- Be submissive and let him express his opinions naturally.
- Don’t try to make him jealous
- Be patient and perseverant to him – he doesn’t like women who are too intense with his angry outbursts
- Have a high sex drive
- Always be devoted and understandable
- Pamper and care for his feelings
Scorpio man is believed to have a great compatibility rate with Scorpio woman as well as Pisces woman.
What a Scorpio Man Wants to Hear in Love?
Some find it hard to make a Scorpio man happy due to his mysterious, intuitive, and distant nature. However, if you understand his personality better, you will realize that pampering his heart is not really difficult.
He can’t handle well with criticism; thus, pay attention to what you say to him because this guy loves to hear nice things.
Here are a few things to remember about what your Scorpio loves to hear:
1. Compliment him
It would be hard for a Scorpio to resist any compliment from the woman he loves.
He has a big ego, so a good way to boost his confidence is to shower him with sincere compliments. Praise him for his charming looks, his attractive fashion sense, his fascinating personality, or his dedication for work.
2. Discuss about your dreams
What makes a Scorpio crave for you is you opening up about your achievements in life. He can’t help but getting drawn into women with intelligence and strong will to accomplish goals he has planned before.
Have more deep, intellectual conversations with this guy – this is the chance you can let him get to know all about you better.
Also, he would love to talk about family and friends as well as discuss about fun adventures.
More topics to captivate the heart of a Scorpio!
Recognizing Signs Scorpio Man Using You
Are you afraid that your Scorpio man is just using you for all the time?
Check out following signs to find out exactly if he just messes around with you or he is really into you:
1. He talks about sex a lot
If he’s diving into bed as soon as seeing you, this is the first sign he doesn’t want a serious relationship. It seems like he just talks about sex whenever around you…guess what? He is just using you without any thought of forming a deeply bonding romance with you.
2. He doesn’t open up
It takes a Scorpio man a long time to open because he typically doesn’t feel safe or secure in a relationship.
In case you’re dating the Scorpio male for months but he refuses to talk about his personal things with you, then keep in mind he may not really into you. Since he has no care or trust in you, it’s better to walk away.
3. When a Scorpio man wants you back…
You can tell right away if this guy wants you return by his side.
Scorpio man will make the whole situation is like a coincidence; however, he is creating his own opportunities to encounter you again and again. Don’t be surprised if you find yourself bumped into the Scorpio-ex most of the time; in addition, he already follows you back on social media and also interacts with everything you post.
Overall, becoming obsessively devoted to you is a sign Scorpio man wants to come back to you, gals.
In a Nutshell
Be ready for an intense ride once you are in a relationship with a Scorpio man.
In love, he is fiercely loyalty and devoted but also expects from you the same things. Determined and romantic, the moment he has his eyes on you, he can’t help showering you with lots of affections for a successful chase.
Peter Risdon knows it can be difficult to figure out the mind of this mysterious person; that’s why I’ve offered the list of 10 obvious signs letting you recognize how a Scorpio man expresses his feelings towards someone.
What do you think about the topic here?
Does your Scorpio man show you he likes you in these ways?
Tell Peter Risdon in the comment!
Hi how u doing my boyfriend is Scorpio I really love him but he give me attention before and also take to me a lot but now his change what shall ali do .
Dear Feven,
Don’t worry too much as it’s not just a Scorpio thing, it’s a guy thing. If he wants a more serious relationship with you, then he will soon find a way to tell you.
Be patient and good luck!
what does it mean wen a Scorpio guy say’ i will not leave my girlfriend but as long that you give me what i want i will take it. i ad been friend with him (Scorpio male) for 8 years. I am Married to a Leo and i am a cap girl and he tat Leo cheated on me on several occasion with different ladies but the Scorpio was always there listening to my painful stories. since 2011 we had been friends and we started getting serious in March 2019. recently after our 1st meeting he started to get distant and he rarely respond to my text. I cant even text him on messenger bu i can see him on Facebook without the option of asking friend or send messages. lately he told me he had waited for me all this time and he had girlfriend that comes in the weekend. he said he will not leave his girlfriend but as long as give him or have sex with him he will take it. What he mean by this or is he in pain? why did he suddenly shut his door why? it bothers me a lot. we were friends all this time.
Dear Dina,
Maybe he just wants a friendship with benefit with you and nothing more. Probably his attentiveness make you mistake his feelings towards you…I think this guy shows no sign of interesting in you, just a good friend being next to you and listening to your problem.
Focus on your life and find someone deserve you more!
Good luck!
Is it true that waiting all this time had made him to choose the other girl maybe tired of waiting? But one thing i forgot to say whenever he had a problem or he needed something he always told me this or that broke and i have no cash. He will fix my kids phone, laptop etc… i just do not know any more. I wish i could understand him better.
Dear Dina,
Hope you don’t be disappointed but at this point, the Scorpio man is seeing and relying on you as his best friend. If you truly love him, then you should show him more signs romantically but don’t be too obvious.
Good luck!
Hi dr. I work with a scorpio man. We talked very casual for a couple weeks went to a work party had a couple of drinks. I went over to his place one thing led to another. I left very early without saying goodbye long story short after that we dont talk much at work, and he hasn’t asked firmly number. Its a little awkward small talk , I like him, and sometimes catch him staring, but i dont know how to act around him. Why is this scorpio ignoring me .
Hi Wendy,
There are 3 possibilities explaining why he ignores you:
1/ I’m not doing it intentionally, I have a lot of things on my mind and I’m not paying attention.
2/ I really like the person, so much that I try to avoid them which might seem like I’m ignoring them. This only happened a handful of times and it occurs when I feel like a woman is too good for me and I ignore them or avoid them to help me get over the crush. Actually doing this now.
3/ So much time has passed since we last spoke that it would be very awkward to reinitiate contact. Meaning, I would have to explain myself or hear someone elses explanation and I don’t care to explain or hear someone elses explanation.
Hope this help! Sincere!
Hi hope I’m doing this right. Yes this scorpio article did help thank you. I’m a sagittarian head over heels for a scorpio. He tells me I’ll loose a good thing with him if I’m not patient. He’s trying to save to get his own place and he’s been working overtime he says to hurry and get enough to move out of his current home with his ex woman that he has a kid with she’s 2yrs old. He lives in queens I live in bk n.y so idk. I believe him just I’ve been hurt before and I fall to fast just to fall flat on my face. So I’m kind of confused if I want this or not? Good or bad vibes? I feel good next to him good vibe. I’m not sure how he really feels. Plus we hardly txt the way we use too.
Dear Silvia,
I think you should be patient when getting involved with a Scorpio man.
Guys born under Scorpio sign hardly fall in love easily as they only settle for last. So, give your man time as he said so that he can deal with his issues before starting an official relationship with you. Once this guy is serious, he will stick for life…so you don’t need to worry about his loyalty.
Sincere!
He’s very jealous we use be together year’s ago now we started back dating he’s showing his jealous he thinks I still want be with my ex but he hang out with his lady friend I was jealous at first but it passed he don’t seemlike he trust me he has derp feeling for me what I do is this red flag
Dear Cynthia,
I have to say that Scorpio man is extremely jealous.
He has trust issues so right now he is still doubtful the relationship between you and your ex. Not really red flag because jealousy is his trait. I think you should have a serious conversation with him and be patient.
You need patience to win his trust; once you have his trust, everything will be fine.
Good luck!
Hi , i told my partners brother that i have feelings for him and asked if i moved to his suburb and got work there would he want to see if feelings are on both sides…. we have always texted and are close and i never thought after a few years of knowing him and events that i would fall feelings for him btw!… at first i got no reply then after a day his response came up on messenger facebook he said he had no data And he was using a public wifi to get back to me he said what do u want me to say , and i dont know right now thats such a big thing to do…. what is he thinking!!?? I dont know whether to call him or not..
He is a virgo btw….
Hi i m a cancer woman i m obssesed by a cancer male but the problem i start like his best friend scorpio i don t know who should i choose who is the best for me and this two signs likes me back.
And this scorpio male looks at me all the time but me i looks like i don t care about him because he is not gentle sometimes he make me feel i hate him cuz i m so sensitive
He attract attention and get me angry i don t know why he does that pls help me.
Dear Elena,
I can’t help you choose the love of your life, girl…it’s up to your heart – ask yourself who makes you feel comfortable between the two guys. Stop being indecisive as I think you already has the answer!
Sincere!
Hi! I am a cancer woman and I just recently met a Scorpio man a month ago. We met kind of oddly through a mutual friend. The friend always said we would get along well so I finally added the Scorpio on facebook. We message back and forth every day. Our conversations are fantastic. We have hung out together twice now. I guess I am writing because I am having a hard time telling if he likes me or is just being nice. Also I read online for scorpios they almost always make the first move, but his friends tell me he wont. So I’m unsure if they’re right or if him not making a move might just means he isnt into me romantically? Maybe I am thinking all this through too early. I just think I really like him and enjoy spending time with him, so I cant help but feel a little impatient. Especially considering we message back and forth so much, and have had so much fun both times we hung out. I fear if I made the first move and was rejected, it would ruin our friendship and I would be hurt. Thanks in advance!
Dear Holly,
In a case if Scorpio men like you, then they may be there for you more often, waiting a bit until you’re both ready to leave. He may also be a bit more outgoing and talkative. The thing with Scorpios is that they are sociable around people they’re comfortable with. When they like someone, then they’re more talkative and more protective.
If you do like this person, show interest soon because a Scorpio may get angry if they feel they’re being led on or if they feel as if they’re being played. They won’t hesitate to leave if you make them upset or hurt them.
Sincere!
Dear Shakita,
Thanks for sharing your story with us!
If you want to call him, then just call. I can’t tell exactly if he truly loves you, but I can see the hesitation from his response. Call him and ask whether he’s ready for a life with you or not. In case you keep receiving an uncertain answer, then move on.
Don’t waste time chasing a guy that does not deserve your love.
Sincere!
Im a virgo sorry!! He is a male scorpio!!!!!!
Girl..that means no boo. If a man wants to be with you, you will know. That’s a fact. He will do whatever it takes. Even if he isn’t sure yet but doesn’t want to cancel the possibility, you will also know. He wouldn’t give a damn about his data and paid the extra few dollars..or he would’ve figured out a way to email or something.
He should be trying to move to your suburb and get a job by you girl. Don’t waste your time chasing a dude that isn’t sure about you. Make him chase you sis! Lol
Thanks for your opinion!
After my Scorpio cheated we broke up but remained friends. But he starts getting jealous if another man talks to me. He opens up to me about personal things but then its times where he dont talk to me for days. Just a couple weeks ago he text me if i was coming over to see his grandma whose sick but when i arrived my male friend dropped me off my Scorpio mood change it was like he hated me I (Aquarius) felt how his energy changed it felt scary usually hes sweet & charming. So i left and text him “why is he acting like this” he replied “keep that bs between you & your dude” I was like huh im not even dating him….then he started ignoring my texts & calls. Really hurt my feelings because I loved him still. Before this we was cool and like best friends riding around singing, playing games, watching movies & then slowly we would talk less and less. Or he would call or text me out the blue. Why is like this? Maybe I should move on an forget about him.
Dear China,
It’s obvious that he is jealous and possessive, that’s what a typical Scorpio man is like so don’t get surprised. Maybe he still has feelings for you and wants to come back, so the way he acts toward your male friends is understandable. Also, there are times he will distance himself from you – this is also normal.
I think you two need a serious conversation and you should make a decision yourself whether you still want to be with him or move on. It’s up to your feelings. One thing to remember is Scorpio man doesn’t want to be your friend after the breakup.
Make a wise decision, good luck!
I’m a Pisces woman who likes a Scorpio guy. I worked at a 711 and he works at the Soapy Joe’s car wash that is connected to the building itself. There was a connection between us before we even talked, and I instantly wanted to know him. Anyways I worked only 3 times a week, but I only get to see him for two days at the job itself. We’ve flirted with each other for the small amount of time for weeks, and I couldn’t understand why he hasn’t asked for my number. All my co-workers, and even the guys at the car wash have mentioned that hes talked about me, and wanting to know more. Even telling one of my co-workers to give his number to me, and this was before I made the decision to give him mine. One day I finally did, and he texted me right away letting me know it was his number, and that he liked me too. We talked all day, and it went well as we kinda told each other what we were in for. I laid some of the law down, because I didn’t want him to get the wrong impression of me. Two weeks later, we only spoken to each other on text message about 3 times. At work, he made almost an excuse to be in the store to see me even if it was for a second. I actually had to tell him to get back to work before he would get in trouble, he needed the job and so I didn’t want to be the cause it. One Friday, he was so intense with me at work, and I guess he wasn’t expecting me to be sarcastic with him because he took it seriously. He texted me right after apologizing, but I clarified with him that I was only joking, but that we would talk later. Bottom line he left work early as I thought he was getting off the same time as I did. I texted him saying where did he go, but if it was okay to call each other. He said he was busy so I told him, “okay whatever.” That response led him to text me all night, even though I was at a party by than. Next morning he expressed how he wanted me (hint, hint). The conversation turned sour when I asked him what he wanted our “thing” to be. He said he wanted to be friends, and I got a little hurt because what guy talks to a girl he likes the way he does and decides he wants to be friends? My next question was, “well how many “female friends” do you have?” He told me not to ask a question that I know it was gonna bother me. I was like oh no he didn’t. I pushed the question twice until he said he was talking to four other girls, and having sex with one. I felt like an idiot, and didn’t want to be his 6th girl. We argued for a second and so I deleted his number, because I couldn’t deal with that. Week later at work, he purposely shows me that hes ignoring me, and even lingers around the store. Next day, he walks in all fast as he clocks in for work when he could really be doing it in their office. 2 wk he comes in 10 mins after I come into work, and he gets into the long busy line, but stares at me the whole time. I took 4 customers, and luckily my co-worker took him; took the next regular customer who gets beer. He starts talking to me about if I liked the beer, and blah blah. Scorpio looks over at him and starts talking to him because not once did I look at him when he came to the register. I finally did when he spoke to my customer, and so we kinda all talked. Both leave, but Scorpio comes back a few minutes later using our computer in his regular clothes. He did look good, and leaves out the front door. Scorpio lingers around a car talking and since I was busy I thought he left already. I take a customer who asks for gas, and so the Chevron register faces the window, and I look up to see him sitting in the car talking to the driver but he staring at me. The day after, comes in for coffee and donut for the morning as I had to take him, I accidentally charge him full price, felt like an idiot because he called me out on it. Not in a bad way so I gave him his change back, and tried to correct me again. Charged him as a refill for a fountain drink instead of the coffee refill. I told him we were okay but he kept trying but I said no we’re good. He leaves and the entire time until I had to clock out he passes by our window. During that time he comes in calling my boss all loud so I could notice him. Than the last attempt is when he bought something. I didn’t pay attention to him as I took the next customer, but I could see him indirectly as he looked at me 3 times. My co-worker later told me that he purposely left his phone on the counter first to an open text message, but she couldn’t read what it said. Funny him I never once looked at him that moment, and kinda had to laugh when she told me. I feel like he wants to talk to me again, but I just don’t understand why after I argued with him in that last text message. I figured he would move on because he has that many girls on speed dial. Why does he even care? Does he just wants to claim me because I’m not reacting the way he wants me too? I don’t get what he wants from me.
Dear Laura,
I appreciate that you shared your story with us.
At first when you said that he just wanted you two to be friends, I thought maybe he wanted to take things slow because Scorpio man doesn’t fall in love easily. But then he said that he’s having affairs with 5 other girls, I started feeling confused hah. Well, as he said that he just wants to be your friend, the reason he tried to have a conversation with you is probably because he thinks you need an explanation.
Rather than ignoring him, I think you should talk to him directly and ask what he really wants from you. Since Scorpio man is unpredictable and hard to understand, you must be patient.
Sincere!