How do you know when a Scorpio man is falling in love with you?
According to Peter Risdon, based on different traits of 12 zodiac signs, every man has a unique way to express his inner feelings towards the woman he loves.
Of course the Scorpio male is not an exception.
The problem is – reading what is going on in a Scorpio’s head is a difficult task because of his mysterious persona.
Fortunately, this guy does show a variety of love signals when falling for someone.
They do not mean a lot if you analyze separately; however, when all are put together, the whole combination is a good indication telling he is truly interested in you.
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So, here are 10 signs a Scorpio man is falling in love to look for basically.
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How to Tell If a Scorpio Man Likes You?
Firstly, if you get tired of guessing what your Scorpio love interest thinks about you, then you’ve come to the right place.
In the following, I’m going to give you some hints allowing you to recognize exactly his intentions and feelings. The Peter Risdon also comes with the guide assisting you in reading Scorpio man quickly with ease.
Alright, keep track of 10 signs of Scorpio man in love with you.
#1: He hides his feelings for you at first
Many often ask me whether or not the Scorpio male is flirty.
The truth is; this guy is misunderstood a lot – women often characterize him as a flirtatious from the first glance. However, things he displays on the surface are just small parts of his story.
Scorpio men are often packed with self-confidence; thus, he is not afraid of exhibiting his lust and flirtatious behavior. Yet, when it comes to expressing his emotions in a true love, he instantly becomes self-guarded. He will act distant and not open his heart until he is certain about your feelings towards him.
#2: He wants to be with you most of the time
When Scorpio man loves you, he is very excited with the fact he can be with you whenever he wants. By spending his precious time on you, he will get a chance of understanding you better from all different aspects.
Since your love interest is cautious in love and hard to fall for someone, all you must do is to gain his trust as well as give him a period to determine his feelings inside.
Always let him know that you have his back, and he will not hesitate to choose you as the woman he wants to commit in return.
#3: He tests you
It’s hard to know what exactly attracts Scorpio men in love.
Influenced by Scorpio male love traits, it’s pretty difficult for him to fall for someone at first sight. In fact, he requires a long time to decide whether or not you are worth his investment. During this time, he will intentionally give you subtle tests for an in-depth understanding about your behavior.
Since this man is kind towards people, he would love to see the way to interact and treat others around you.
My advice here is to display your acts of kindness constantly!
#4: He pays more attention to everything you say
If your Scorpio man shows this love sign, he’s obssessed with you already.
The next signal is – you must take notice and see if he expresses the excitement in what you are saying. Curious in nature, he can’t help but craving to know you better; that explains why he seems to be very attentive when having the communication with you.
What I like most about the Scorpio male is: he puts all of his focus strongly on you.
If you feel like your Scorpio is genuinely listening to what you say and gives you his complete attention, 100% the possibility is that he likes you.
#5: He is open up more with you
Similar to Capricorn man, men born under Scorpio horoscope sign are insecure; hence, don’t be surprised if you find your love interest is quite guarded over his feelings.
The only way for this man to open his heart is gaining his trust, completely. He will put down all the fences around him once getting provided enough security. The moment he is into you from head to toes, he may say something that you’ve never heard before and cannot imagine as well.
Never share his innermost secrets to others.
He expects his partner not to take his trust lightly. Of course this guy will not come back if his trust is betrayed terribly.
#6: He displays the jealousy
Is Scorpio man jealous?
Due to his intensely emotional nature, it’s understandable if the Scorpio male gets jealous sometimes. Although he tries his best not to show it, you can tell when he feels envious with ease.
In case you want to gain his attention, don’t think of making him feel jealous.
Playing games is an unwise move to attract a Scorpio. Why? If you do not take love seriously, he will start perceiving you as an untrustworthy, manipulative woman. Nonetheless, if you notice some small jealousy signs from him, this means he finds you attractive and worth a chase.
#7: He seems to be very possessive
All zodiac signs have both positive and negative traits.
In case of Scorpio man, possessiveness is seen as one of his prominent negative qualities, especially if he doesn’t want to learn to control it.
Yet, at the initial stage of a relationship, he appears possessive could be a sign telling that you means a lot to him. Also check other Scorpio man in love signs now!
#8: He is protective of you
Of all astrology signs, Scorpio is gifted with a very strong instinct to protect the people he loves. So, how does a Scorpio man act when he likes you? He, most of the time, will stand up for you and take a good care of you.
If you see him behave or act in a way too over protective of you, then it is a sure sign he also has a crush on you strongly.
#9: He wants a mutual connection
This Scorpio man will ask you a lot of question about almost everything as he wants to learn carefully about you as well as to find out if you two share anything in common. Especially if he likes you, he’s curious to know whether or not your feelings and his are mutual.
Don’t ignore making more in-depth conversations with this guy so that both of you can develop a strong connection.
#10: He makes you feel special
Although it takes him a long time to fall in love, not many women know that he is extremely emotional, passionate, and romantic when around his loved one.
If you are lucky to be in a relationship with a Scorpio, be prepared as he will shower you with his affections. This is the man of action; therefore, he usually expresses his affections emotionally and physically to make you feel special.
For instance, he will constantly compliment you, help you do things, and even buy you gifts based on your interests.
As he is a deep person in love, he will try hard to become an important partner to you.
When a Scorpio Man is in a Hunt…
Is it easy to spot a Scorpio male chasing you?
Personally, I think it’s quite obvious when a guy of Scorpio sign likes you. He is quite forward when being after someone. At first, he may feel a bit hard to fall in love due to the fear of rejection; however, he will show his interest partially as well as availability if truly having feelings for you.
A mature Scorpio man is extremely loyal in love.
He can go through all ups and downs just to be with the person he is into. No matter what happens, he will be devoted. This guy is never the type giving up so quickly because of his stubbornness.
Don’t try to force a young, immature Scorpio to make the commitment as he is simply not ready to settle.
What Type of Woman Does Scorpio Man Like?
Born under a very powerful sign in the zodiac, the Scorpio male usually plays the leader or domination role as well in most aspects of his life.
How about himself in a love romance?
When it comes to love relationship, this man is quite intense just like his symbol – the Scorpion; therefore, women getting involved with him find it unable to handle his personality sometimes.
In case you are thinking of a hookup with a Scorpio man, then the key is that you must be compatible with his personality traits. He easily gets attracted to a lady who is responsive, affectionate, easy-going, and devoted.
Here are a few ideas describing the woman that Scorpio man feels impressed most:
- Be submissive and let him express his opinions naturally.
- Don’t try to make him jealous
- Be patient and perseverant to him – he doesn’t like women who are too intense with his angry outbursts
- Have a high sex drive
- Always be devoted and understandable
- Pamper and care for his feelings
Scorpio man is believed to have a great compatibility rate with Scorpio woman as well as Pisces woman.
What a Scorpio Man Wants to Hear in Love?
Some find it hard to make a Scorpio man happy due to his mysterious, intuitive, and distant nature. However, if you understand his personality better, you will realize that pampering his heart is not really difficult.
He can’t handle well with criticism; thus, pay attention to what you say to him because this guy loves to hear nice things.
Here are a few things to remember about what your Scorpio loves to hear:
1. Compliment him
It would be hard for a Scorpio to resist any compliment from the woman he loves.
He has a big ego, so a good way to boost his confidence is to shower him with sincere compliments. Praise him for his charming looks, his attractive fashion sense, his fascinating personality, or his dedication for work.
2. Discuss about your dreams
What makes a Scorpio crave for you is you opening up about your achievements in life. He can’t help but getting drawn into women with intelligence and strong will to accomplish goals he has planned before.
Have more deep, intellectual conversations with this guy – this is the chance you can let him get to know all about you better.
Also, he would love to talk about family and friends as well as discuss about fun adventures.
More topics to captivate the heart of a Scorpio!
Recognizing Signs Scorpio Man Using You
Are you afraid that your Scorpio man is just using you for all the time?
Check out following signs to find out exactly if he just messes around with you or he is really into you:
1. He talks about sex a lot
If he’s diving into bed as soon as seeing you, this is the first sign he doesn’t want a serious relationship. It seems like he just talks about sex whenever around you…guess what? He is just using you without any thought of forming a deeply bonding romance with you.
2. He doesn’t open up
It takes a Scorpio man a long time to open because he typically doesn’t feel safe or secure in a relationship.
In case you’re dating the Scorpio male for months but he refuses to talk about his personal things with you, then keep in mind he may not really into you. Since he has no care or trust in you, it’s better to walk away.
3. When a Scorpio man wants you back…
You can tell right away if this guy wants you return by his side.
Scorpio man will make the whole situation is like a coincidence; however, he is creating his own opportunities to encounter you again and again. Don’t be surprised if you find yourself bumped into the Scorpio-ex most of the time; in addition, he already follows you back on social media and also interacts with everything you post.
Overall, becoming obsessively devoted to you is a sign Scorpio man wants to come back to you, gals.
In a Nutshell
Be ready for an intense ride once you are in a relationship with a Scorpio man.
In love, he is fiercely loyalty and devoted but also expects from you the same things. Determined and romantic, the moment he has his eyes on you, he can’t help showering you with lots of affections for a successful chase.
Peter Risdon knows it can be difficult to figure out the mind of this mysterious person; that’s why I’ve offered the list of 10 obvious signs letting you recognize how a Scorpio man expresses his feelings towards someone.
What do you think about the topic here?
Does your Scorpio man show you he likes you in these ways?
Tell Peter Risdon in the comment!
Hi ,I m taurus my name is Reem my birth date 01.05.1990 i married to guy Arif his birthdate is gemini.things are changed so badly we are living separately and would be divorced soon.I met this scorpio man on f.b soon shared many thing about me as whatever he asked
Than we started chatting on whatsapp video calls etc.he offered indirectly for sex I refused.so he appreciate this so much tat i can’t explain .he talked hours on video chat .he accepted tat also in crore he like one tats u.butfrom the next he got busy or pretending.than he directly told don’t think I have any space for love in my heart for anyone he is already divorcee.on another hand he asked what u think about 2nd marriage. I replied no 1st was so scary I don’t want any love affair or marriage we can be frnz.he refused for being just frnz.
Than scorpio told me you are very innocent from heart. N unknown of this world u are very beautiful and sexy and honest but u should have better person than me in your your life and I am not appropriate for u
We where about to meet but now he is saying he is scared of meeting me
I can’t understand watz going on his mind and heart. But i want to meet him know him fully I have a huge crush on him ,he is like a close book every page of this book is a different subject and theory
I desperately want to read each page .
What should I do?and y he scared of meeting me
Dear Reem,
Scorpio men don’t open up to the others completely so easily. I think he was being only acting close to you, but I am sure he never dropped his own self to you so fast.
Remember this – Scorpios are highly self protective. They are very secretive creatures. The only way to make him open up to you is to open up your feelings to him without any hesitation. Say to him that you never meant anything if you did anything wrong. Be honest and that really does good to your relationship.
Sincere!
Scorpio man says he will come back home after a break up. He left all of his stuff. He says one day, hes coming home a few more days, then its soon, then he says hell come home when hes ready. But I’m still getting responses from him hes not ignoring me. Is ever gonna come home? What can i do to get him to come home. We are going on 4 years.
Dear Melissa,
Whether he comes back or not..it depends on what you did for the break up to happen. If you cheated then I would say – you have no chance for a Scorpio once the truth was broken. If it was something less severe, communication and showing affection is a really good way to get back on his side.
They act mean and insensitive but they really are very senstive.
Good luck!
The Scorpio man I am interested in is a workaholic working 13-15 hours a day(business owner). There was Intimacy the first four months, now it’s more like maybe once a month. If that. It’s been about 8 months total We don’t go out because he works so much He calls me 3-4 times a day. During the day and When he wakes up and before he goes to bed. I tried to end it at least 3 times telling him he didn’t have time for me but he got really frustrated and told me “ you know I work a lot”. I really don’t know what to do. He withdraws sometime, but then comes back around. I give him space, I never ask questions and when I try he’s always like”what are you a PI?” But he’ll ask me a million questions. He has a crazy X wife with whom he has a minor son. He also said he tried to have a previous relationship before and his ex started with holding his son from him. I’m thinking this is a factor on why he acts this way. I guess I’m just confused. Sex has stopped but the conversations everyday have not. He has in a way become my best friend. Do you think all he wants from me is friendship? I just have no idea. He is so hard to read. Your thoughts?
Dear Leila,
It possibly takes you years to completely know about a Scorpio man. This man hides and keeps his emotions well hidden. He will tell you when he is good and ready but keep in mind he may never be ready. He will reveal his true feelings when he feels it’s safe if you are important enough to him.
In this case, I think you should get loose a bit and try to communicate with him on a deeper level. He feels comfortable without having to ‘explain’ our selves with words. He’s worthy of respect and should be given the benefit of doubt first and foremost.
Sincere!
Hi! I recently had my first date with a scorpio male last night I am a virgo. We had a lot of fun with banter and sarcasm going back and forth. But, He was kind of hard to read, he didn’t lean in..make a move, reach my hand. But he did hold the door open, get the check and carried our food the whole time. I can’t tell if he liked me or where we stand. Or how to pursue him from here! We had a great connection (at least i like to think so) He said he had a great night
Dear Jaclyn,
If you plan to pursue him then stop thinking about it as Scorpio man prefers to do the chase.
Scorpio guys look at all women. If the woman’s looks are his “type”, then he chases after her. If she isn’t his type he acts like she doesn’t even exist…So, you should give him time to consider.
Sincere!
Hi, I have been seeing a Scorpio man for a couple of months, im an Aquarius, we are both in our 60’s ,I have just come out of a 14yr relationship (who is a narcissist )which has been over for the last year, and he has been going through a bad divorce (for 3 yrs) but also has a friend with benefits who lives abroad, they holiday together. ..I knew about her before I dated him.
I’m not sure if I’m a friend with benefits or not..we have been on a couple of dates ,we also see each other in passing as we work next door to each other. We have met up at each others homes which would end up in bed, but then he would blow hot and cold ,as they do.
He randomly asked me on a day out at the weekend, which we spent all day walking, talking and just enjoying each others company. It was perfect, he booked a table at the Italian for the evening, then back to his. I haven’t had any contact since then except for in passing in work. We do chat in passing but he doesn’t seem to text me in the evening, so I just leave it.
I’m just unsure how to ask him if we are an item as I don’t want to scare him off.
I know he will be meeting his lady friend next month, he says it’s not serious but she’s been really good to him. I haven’t put any pressure on him but I am really falling for him , should I just tell him or is it early days. I have a feeling he really likes me but the other woman is making me feel uneasy. Is he keeping his options open? Very confused.
I mentioned to him at the start that honesty and respect are what is most important to me. Where am I going wrong….
Dear Mandy,
TELL HIM your feelings. SHOW him what he means to you.
The difficulty for Scorpio is that he is so incredibly sensitive and vulnerable that it is often hard in the beginning to trust and move towards. Scorpio men don’t open up to the others completely so easily. I think he was being only acting close to you, but I am sure he never dropped his own self to you so fast.
Remember this – Scorpios are highly self protective.
Sincere!