How do you know when a Scorpio man is falling in love with you?
According to Peter Risdon, based on different traits of 12 zodiac signs, every man has a unique way to express his inner feelings towards the woman he loves.
Of course the Scorpio male is not an exception.
The problem is – reading what is going on in a Scorpio’s head is a difficult task because of his mysterious persona.
Fortunately, this guy does show a variety of love signals when falling for someone.
They do not mean a lot if you analyze separately; however, when all are put together, the whole combination is a good indication telling he is truly interested in you.
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So, here are 10 signs a Scorpio man is falling in love to look for basically.
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How to Tell If a Scorpio Man Likes You?
Firstly, if you get tired of guessing what your Scorpio love interest thinks about you, then you’ve come to the right place.
In the following, I’m going to give you some hints allowing you to recognize exactly his intentions and feelings. The Peter Risdon also comes with the guide assisting you in reading Scorpio man quickly with ease.
Alright, keep track of 10 signs of Scorpio man in love with you.
#1: He hides his feelings for you at first
Many often ask me whether or not the Scorpio male is flirty.
The truth is; this guy is misunderstood a lot – women often characterize him as a flirtatious from the first glance. However, things he displays on the surface are just small parts of his story.
Scorpio men are often packed with self-confidence; thus, he is not afraid of exhibiting his lust and flirtatious behavior. Yet, when it comes to expressing his emotions in a true love, he instantly becomes self-guarded. He will act distant and not open his heart until he is certain about your feelings towards him.
#2: He wants to be with you most of the time
When Scorpio man loves you, he is very excited with the fact he can be with you whenever he wants. By spending his precious time on you, he will get a chance of understanding you better from all different aspects.
Since your love interest is cautious in love and hard to fall for someone, all you must do is to gain his trust as well as give him a period to determine his feelings inside.
Always let him know that you have his back, and he will not hesitate to choose you as the woman he wants to commit in return.
#3: He tests you
It’s hard to know what exactly attracts Scorpio men in love.
Influenced by Scorpio male love traits, it’s pretty difficult for him to fall for someone at first sight. In fact, he requires a long time to decide whether or not you are worth his investment. During this time, he will intentionally give you subtle tests for an in-depth understanding about your behavior.
Since this man is kind towards people, he would love to see the way to interact and treat others around you.
My advice here is to display your acts of kindness constantly!
#4: He pays more attention to everything you say
If your Scorpio man shows this love sign, he’s obssessed with you already.
The next signal is – you must take notice and see if he expresses the excitement in what you are saying. Curious in nature, he can’t help but craving to know you better; that explains why he seems to be very attentive when having the communication with you.
What I like most about the Scorpio male is: he puts all of his focus strongly on you.
If you feel like your Scorpio is genuinely listening to what you say and gives you his complete attention, 100% the possibility is that he likes you.
#5: He is open up more with you
Similar to Capricorn man, men born under Scorpio horoscope sign are insecure; hence, don’t be surprised if you find your love interest is quite guarded over his feelings.
The only way for this man to open his heart is gaining his trust, completely. He will put down all the fences around him once getting provided enough security. The moment he is into you from head to toes, he may say something that you’ve never heard before and cannot imagine as well.
Never share his innermost secrets to others.
He expects his partner not to take his trust lightly. Of course this guy will not come back if his trust is betrayed terribly.
#6: He displays the jealousy
Is Scorpio man jealous?
Due to his intensely emotional nature, it’s understandable if the Scorpio male gets jealous sometimes. Although he tries his best not to show it, you can tell when he feels envious with ease.
In case you want to gain his attention, don’t think of making him feel jealous.
Playing games is an unwise move to attract a Scorpio. Why? If you do not take love seriously, he will start perceiving you as an untrustworthy, manipulative woman. Nonetheless, if you notice some small jealousy signs from him, this means he finds you attractive and worth a chase.
#7: He seems to be very possessive
All zodiac signs have both positive and negative traits.
In case of Scorpio man, possessiveness is seen as one of his prominent negative qualities, especially if he doesn’t want to learn to control it.
Yet, at the initial stage of a relationship, he appears possessive could be a sign telling that you means a lot to him. Also check other Scorpio man in love signs now!
#8: He is protective of you
Of all astrology signs, Scorpio is gifted with a very strong instinct to protect the people he loves. So, how does a Scorpio man act when he likes you? He, most of the time, will stand up for you and take a good care of you.
If you see him behave or act in a way too over protective of you, then it is a sure sign he also has a crush on you strongly.
#9: He wants a mutual connection
This Scorpio man will ask you a lot of question about almost everything as he wants to learn carefully about you as well as to find out if you two share anything in common. Especially if he likes you, he’s curious to know whether or not your feelings and his are mutual.
Don’t ignore making more in-depth conversations with this guy so that both of you can develop a strong connection.
#10: He makes you feel special
Although it takes him a long time to fall in love, not many women know that he is extremely emotional, passionate, and romantic when around his loved one.
If you are lucky to be in a relationship with a Scorpio, be prepared as he will shower you with his affections. This is the man of action; therefore, he usually expresses his affections emotionally and physically to make you feel special.
For instance, he will constantly compliment you, help you do things, and even buy you gifts based on your interests.
As he is a deep person in love, he will try hard to become an important partner to you.
When a Scorpio Man is in a Hunt…
Is it easy to spot a Scorpio male chasing you?
Personally, I think it’s quite obvious when a guy of Scorpio sign likes you. He is quite forward when being after someone. At first, he may feel a bit hard to fall in love due to the fear of rejection; however, he will show his interest partially as well as availability if truly having feelings for you.
A mature Scorpio man is extremely loyal in love.
He can go through all ups and downs just to be with the person he is into. No matter what happens, he will be devoted. This guy is never the type giving up so quickly because of his stubbornness.
Don’t try to force a young, immature Scorpio to make the commitment as he is simply not ready to settle.
What Type of Woman Does Scorpio Man Like?
Born under a very powerful sign in the zodiac, the Scorpio male usually plays the leader or domination role as well in most aspects of his life.
How about himself in a love romance?
When it comes to love relationship, this man is quite intense just like his symbol – the Scorpion; therefore, women getting involved with him find it unable to handle his personality sometimes.
In case you are thinking of a hookup with a Scorpio man, then the key is that you must be compatible with his personality traits. He easily gets attracted to a lady who is responsive, affectionate, easy-going, and devoted.
Here are a few ideas describing the woman that Scorpio man feels impressed most:
- Be submissive and let him express his opinions naturally.
- Don’t try to make him jealous
- Be patient and perseverant to him – he doesn’t like women who are too intense with his angry outbursts
- Have a high sex drive
- Always be devoted and understandable
- Pamper and care for his feelings
Scorpio man is believed to have a great compatibility rate with Scorpio woman as well as Pisces woman.
What a Scorpio Man Wants to Hear in Love?
Some find it hard to make a Scorpio man happy due to his mysterious, intuitive, and distant nature. However, if you understand his personality better, you will realize that pampering his heart is not really difficult.
He can’t handle well with criticism; thus, pay attention to what you say to him because this guy loves to hear nice things.
Here are a few things to remember about what your Scorpio loves to hear:
1. Compliment him
It would be hard for a Scorpio to resist any compliment from the woman he loves.
He has a big ego, so a good way to boost his confidence is to shower him with sincere compliments. Praise him for his charming looks, his attractive fashion sense, his fascinating personality, or his dedication for work.
2. Discuss about your dreams
What makes a Scorpio crave for you is you opening up about your achievements in life. He can’t help but getting drawn into women with intelligence and strong will to accomplish goals he has planned before.
Have more deep, intellectual conversations with this guy – this is the chance you can let him get to know all about you better.
Also, he would love to talk about family and friends as well as discuss about fun adventures.
More topics to captivate the heart of a Scorpio!
Recognizing Signs Scorpio Man Using You
Are you afraid that your Scorpio man is just using you for all the time?
Check out following signs to find out exactly if he just messes around with you or he is really into you:
1. He talks about sex a lot
If he’s diving into bed as soon as seeing you, this is the first sign he doesn’t want a serious relationship. It seems like he just talks about sex whenever around you…guess what? He is just using you without any thought of forming a deeply bonding romance with you.
2. He doesn’t open up
It takes a Scorpio man a long time to open because he typically doesn’t feel safe or secure in a relationship.
In case you’re dating the Scorpio male for months but he refuses to talk about his personal things with you, then keep in mind he may not really into you. Since he has no care or trust in you, it’s better to walk away.
3. When a Scorpio man wants you back…
You can tell right away if this guy wants you return by his side.
Scorpio man will make the whole situation is like a coincidence; however, he is creating his own opportunities to encounter you again and again. Don’t be surprised if you find yourself bumped into the Scorpio-ex most of the time; in addition, he already follows you back on social media and also interacts with everything you post.
Overall, becoming obsessively devoted to you is a sign Scorpio man wants to come back to you, gals.
In a Nutshell
Be ready for an intense ride once you are in a relationship with a Scorpio man.
In love, he is fiercely loyalty and devoted but also expects from you the same things. Determined and romantic, the moment he has his eyes on you, he can’t help showering you with lots of affections for a successful chase.
Peter Risdon knows it can be difficult to figure out the mind of this mysterious person; that’s why I’ve offered the list of 10 obvious signs letting you recognize how a Scorpio man expresses his feelings towards someone.
What do you think about the topic here?
Does your Scorpio man show you he likes you in these ways?
Tell Peter Risdon in the comment!
Hi, I’m currently involved with a Scorpio man we been seeing each other back and forth for 4 years. Just recently his behavior has changed he’s been very clingy and very jealous He’s expressed that he loves me. he has opened up. He consistently compliments me on the way I look 👀 smell dress etc. But I confused at the fact of he says he has fun with but he doesn’t want commit. He made a statement saying people try to figure him out and can’t figure him out But I can. If he doesn’t hear from me he’s reaching out. I just want to know is that his way of downplaying his feelings. When he really does want to be in a relationship but don’t want to say it.
Dear Stephanie,
Scorpios don’t commit, they only stickto the one they feel they are comfortable with. Again exceptions are very much there but most of them have limitations of some kind to remain stuck in the relationship. Your Scorpio man is a free soul you can only tame him as long as you remain hospitable by dint of your sacrifice. You decide how long you want to do it or it worths it.
Sincere!
Hello Roland, I am a Pisces and I have been seeing my Scorpio man for several months now. Our first date ended up with passionate and wild sex. He told me the next day that things happened too fast and I was not his type. Two weeks later he text me that he wants to see me again because he thinks of me sometimes. We do not go out in public, he will only text…no phone calls allowed. He sends pictures of his hard penis and likes sexting. Recently he invited me to his house and we enjoyed each other. Each time we get together he seems a little more attentive and caring. We agreed on a friends with benefits relationship because he says that if I get feelings for him he can not see me anymore. I am doing my best as a Pisces to slow down on the emotions and trying to keep things real. But now I find myself wondering what is real with this Scorpio. I am 58 and he is 60. We have experienced a lot of life. How should I move forward with this because now I want more than just friends with benefits.
Dear Jodie,
Be honest and if you can, be brutally honest. Talk about what you want — but also talk about what you don’t want. For instance, don’t dance around the topic of monogamy. Ask your Scorpio man how he feels about that, and if he’s on the same page that you are.
Giving yourselves a time frame to check in and see if you’re both satisfied with this relationship transformation. That way, you can sort of test-drive the change without the transition feeling so intimidating.
Sincere!
hi!
I recently met a scorpio guy (i’m a sagittarius woman) at a party and after the first contact I immediately felt somewhat of a connection. We barely talked at the party but he approached me a second time and had a very short but fun conversation. Afterwards i got his facebook name from my friend so i added him and he accepted and texted me. The conversation was fun and light-hearted in my opinion, and I really enjoyed talking to him. But he seemed to think I was very guarded as his exact words were, ” i have a giant wall around me”, and he eventually told me he loses interest in people who won’t open up. The thing is, we’ve only been texting for less than 3 days by then, and although i wasn’t trying to hide anything, it still seems irrational to assume we’d be completely opening up to each other already. So i replied to his text saying in the most polite way i could think of that we basically needed some time to get to know each other, and made a silly joke to keep it light-hearted, and made sure he knew i wanted to get to know him too. Now it’s been 4 days and he hasn’t replied to the text though he used to reply rather quickly, he’s even seen my story posts on social media and continues to ignore me. I feel like his last text he was just informing me that he’s no longer interested although just the night before he was saying that he won’t give up until he figures out more about me. I don’t really understand how he finds me to be mysterious either because it was a very casual conversation to me. Also, now it’s his birthday and I’m hesitating about whether i should wish him a happy birthday or not.
(rock) – ME – (hard place)
please help!
many thanks in advance.
Dear Lucy,
He probably senses that you’re getting too attached to him, hence him giving you the cold shoulder.
I think you should give him his space. I think that’s what Scorpio males like.
I guess my best advice I could give to you is to just leave it be. In the mean time, just go out there, have fun with your girlfriends or whatever. If he texts you back, then good. If he doesn’t, oh well. Although, it sounds like you really like him.. but you have to think about your needs too. Don’t spend all your precious time worrying about whether or not he likes you. Just be yourself, and most importantly, take it slow. If he ends up flaking out on you, then he’s obviously not that into you. ( Or not ready for a relationship. )
But you shouldn’t take any of that personal…there’s a guy out there for you.
Sincere!
Hi I’m a Sagittarius girl. I have been in a relationship with a Scorpio guy. We were all set to get married. But then we had some fights. And he became distant. Started ignoring me and also refused to marry me. He told me he needs time I said I cannot wait and then he gave up on me. I begged him to stay but it didn’t work. But he didn’t disappear he kept texting me. It was annoying for me so I blocked him. He then unfriended me on Facebook. I started ignoring him. Then after some months he texted me asking for his belonging. I said he will get them and then he said OK. Then we didn’t talk. Now last week he showed up in our college at farewell party. He travelled all the way from another city to attend this party. I was also there. He didn’t talk to me I also ignored him. But I guess he wanted to talk. Anyhow he didn’t talk. Now I’m still in love with him. Wanna talk to him but when we ended this relationship his behavior was so much insulting and he degraded me mostly so I don’t wanna text him as I fear he will reject me and insult me. I cannot figure out what’s going on in his mind. Kindly guide me should I move on or wait for him to come back ? As I been waiting for 8 months and I suspect he has a new girlfriend as well.
Dear Farwa,
Give up on him and move on!
He has too much baggage and drama going on. After a break-up people need time to heal and reflect on what they could have done better and what they want in their next relationship. Right now you may feel vulnerable and need some space. Meet new people and date someone who is single.
Remember you will find love, so don’t give up; even if it means having heart break and rejection along the way.
Sincere!
Thank you so much. Working on your advice.
My male best friend is a scorpio, we’ve known eachother for 6 years. I have always had a thing for him, but now i fell for him and the signs show that he also fell in love with me. I admitted this, he said he knew, but he cannot see a relationship with me beacause he knows me for this long.. but his behaviour has changed.. he opens up a looot more, cares for me and stuff…
Don’t worry dear!
It takes a Scorpio man much time to fully open up his heart and willingly get involved in a love relationship…just never push or force him.
Sincere!