How do you know when a Scorpio man is falling in love with you?
According to Peter Risdon, based on different traits of 12 zodiac signs, every man has a unique way to express his inner feelings towards the woman he loves.
Of course the Scorpio male is not an exception.
The problem is – reading what is going on in a Scorpio’s head is a difficult task because of his mysterious persona.
Fortunately, this guy does show a variety of love signals when falling for someone.
They do not mean a lot if you analyze separately; however, when all are put together, the whole combination is a good indication telling he is truly interested in you.
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So, here are 10 signs a Scorpio man is falling in love to look for basically.
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How to Tell If a Scorpio Man Likes You?
Firstly, if you get tired of guessing what your Scorpio love interest thinks about you, then you’ve come to the right place.
In the following, I’m going to give you some hints allowing you to recognize exactly his intentions and feelings. The Peter Risdon also comes with the guide assisting you in reading Scorpio man quickly with ease.
Alright, keep track of 10 signs of Scorpio man in love with you.
#1: He hides his feelings for you at first
Many often ask me whether or not the Scorpio male is flirty.
The truth is; this guy is misunderstood a lot – women often characterize him as a flirtatious from the first glance. However, things he displays on the surface are just small parts of his story.
Scorpio men are often packed with self-confidence; thus, he is not afraid of exhibiting his lust and flirtatious behavior. Yet, when it comes to expressing his emotions in a true love, he instantly becomes self-guarded. He will act distant and not open his heart until he is certain about your feelings towards him.
#2: He wants to be with you most of the time
When Scorpio man loves you, he is very excited with the fact he can be with you whenever he wants. By spending his precious time on you, he will get a chance of understanding you better from all different aspects.
Since your love interest is cautious in love and hard to fall for someone, all you must do is to gain his trust as well as give him a period to determine his feelings inside.
Always let him know that you have his back, and he will not hesitate to choose you as the woman he wants to commit in return.
#3: He tests you
It’s hard to know what exactly attracts Scorpio men in love.
Influenced by Scorpio male love traits, it’s pretty difficult for him to fall for someone at first sight. In fact, he requires a long time to decide whether or not you are worth his investment. During this time, he will intentionally give you subtle tests for an in-depth understanding about your behavior.
Since this man is kind towards people, he would love to see the way to interact and treat others around you.
My advice here is to display your acts of kindness constantly!
#4: He pays more attention to everything you say
If your Scorpio man shows this love sign, he’s obssessed with you already.
The next signal is – you must take notice and see if he expresses the excitement in what you are saying. Curious in nature, he can’t help but craving to know you better; that explains why he seems to be very attentive when having the communication with you.
What I like most about the Scorpio male is: he puts all of his focus strongly on you.
If you feel like your Scorpio is genuinely listening to what you say and gives you his complete attention, 100% the possibility is that he likes you.
#5: He is open up more with you
Similar to Capricorn man, men born under Scorpio horoscope sign are insecure; hence, don’t be surprised if you find your love interest is quite guarded over his feelings.
The only way for this man to open his heart is gaining his trust, completely. He will put down all the fences around him once getting provided enough security. The moment he is into you from head to toes, he may say something that you’ve never heard before and cannot imagine as well.
Never share his innermost secrets to others.
He expects his partner not to take his trust lightly. Of course this guy will not come back if his trust is betrayed terribly.
#6: He displays the jealousy
Is Scorpio man jealous?
Due to his intensely emotional nature, it’s understandable if the Scorpio male gets jealous sometimes. Although he tries his best not to show it, you can tell when he feels envious with ease.
In case you want to gain his attention, don’t think of making him feel jealous.
Playing games is an unwise move to attract a Scorpio. Why? If you do not take love seriously, he will start perceiving you as an untrustworthy, manipulative woman. Nonetheless, if you notice some small jealousy signs from him, this means he finds you attractive and worth a chase.
#7: He seems to be very possessive
All zodiac signs have both positive and negative traits.
In case of Scorpio man, possessiveness is seen as one of his prominent negative qualities, especially if he doesn’t want to learn to control it.
Yet, at the initial stage of a relationship, he appears possessive could be a sign telling that you means a lot to him. Also check other Scorpio man in love signs now!
#8: He is protective of you
Of all astrology signs, Scorpio is gifted with a very strong instinct to protect the people he loves. So, how does a Scorpio man act when he likes you? He, most of the time, will stand up for you and take a good care of you.
If you see him behave or act in a way too over protective of you, then it is a sure sign he also has a crush on you strongly.
#9: He wants a mutual connection
This Scorpio man will ask you a lot of question about almost everything as he wants to learn carefully about you as well as to find out if you two share anything in common. Especially if he likes you, he’s curious to know whether or not your feelings and his are mutual.
Don’t ignore making more in-depth conversations with this guy so that both of you can develop a strong connection.
#10: He makes you feel special
Although it takes him a long time to fall in love, not many women know that he is extremely emotional, passionate, and romantic when around his loved one.
If you are lucky to be in a relationship with a Scorpio, be prepared as he will shower you with his affections. This is the man of action; therefore, he usually expresses his affections emotionally and physically to make you feel special.
For instance, he will constantly compliment you, help you do things, and even buy you gifts based on your interests.
As he is a deep person in love, he will try hard to become an important partner to you.
When a Scorpio Man is in a Hunt…
Is it easy to spot a Scorpio male chasing you?
Personally, I think it’s quite obvious when a guy of Scorpio sign likes you. He is quite forward when being after someone. At first, he may feel a bit hard to fall in love due to the fear of rejection; however, he will show his interest partially as well as availability if truly having feelings for you.
A mature Scorpio man is extremely loyal in love.
He can go through all ups and downs just to be with the person he is into. No matter what happens, he will be devoted. This guy is never the type giving up so quickly because of his stubbornness.
Don’t try to force a young, immature Scorpio to make the commitment as he is simply not ready to settle.
What Type of Woman Does Scorpio Man Like?
Born under a very powerful sign in the zodiac, the Scorpio male usually plays the leader or domination role as well in most aspects of his life.
How about himself in a love romance?
When it comes to love relationship, this man is quite intense just like his symbol – the Scorpion; therefore, women getting involved with him find it unable to handle his personality sometimes.
In case you are thinking of a hookup with a Scorpio man, then the key is that you must be compatible with his personality traits. He easily gets attracted to a lady who is responsive, affectionate, easy-going, and devoted.
Here are a few ideas describing the woman that Scorpio man feels impressed most:
- Be submissive and let him express his opinions naturally.
- Don’t try to make him jealous
- Be patient and perseverant to him – he doesn’t like women who are too intense with his angry outbursts
- Have a high sex drive
- Always be devoted and understandable
- Pamper and care for his feelings
Scorpio man is believed to have a great compatibility rate with Scorpio woman as well as Pisces woman.
What a Scorpio Man Wants to Hear in Love?
Some find it hard to make a Scorpio man happy due to his mysterious, intuitive, and distant nature. However, if you understand his personality better, you will realize that pampering his heart is not really difficult.
He can’t handle well with criticism; thus, pay attention to what you say to him because this guy loves to hear nice things.
Here are a few things to remember about what your Scorpio loves to hear:
1. Compliment him
It would be hard for a Scorpio to resist any compliment from the woman he loves.
He has a big ego, so a good way to boost his confidence is to shower him with sincere compliments. Praise him for his charming looks, his attractive fashion sense, his fascinating personality, or his dedication for work.
2. Discuss about your dreams
What makes a Scorpio crave for you is you opening up about your achievements in life. He can’t help but getting drawn into women with intelligence and strong will to accomplish goals he has planned before.
Have more deep, intellectual conversations with this guy – this is the chance you can let him get to know all about you better.
Also, he would love to talk about family and friends as well as discuss about fun adventures.
More topics to captivate the heart of a Scorpio!
Recognizing Signs Scorpio Man Using You
Are you afraid that your Scorpio man is just using you for all the time?
Check out following signs to find out exactly if he just messes around with you or he is really into you:
1. He talks about sex a lot
If he’s diving into bed as soon as seeing you, this is the first sign he doesn’t want a serious relationship. It seems like he just talks about sex whenever around you…guess what? He is just using you without any thought of forming a deeply bonding romance with you.
2. He doesn’t open up
It takes a Scorpio man a long time to open because he typically doesn’t feel safe or secure in a relationship.
In case you’re dating the Scorpio male for months but he refuses to talk about his personal things with you, then keep in mind he may not really into you. Since he has no care or trust in you, it’s better to walk away.
3. When a Scorpio man wants you back…
You can tell right away if this guy wants you return by his side.
Scorpio man will make the whole situation is like a coincidence; however, he is creating his own opportunities to encounter you again and again. Don’t be surprised if you find yourself bumped into the Scorpio-ex most of the time; in addition, he already follows you back on social media and also interacts with everything you post.
Overall, becoming obsessively devoted to you is a sign Scorpio man wants to come back to you, gals.
In a Nutshell
Be ready for an intense ride once you are in a relationship with a Scorpio man.
In love, he is fiercely loyalty and devoted but also expects from you the same things. Determined and romantic, the moment he has his eyes on you, he can’t help showering you with lots of affections for a successful chase.
Peter Risdon knows it can be difficult to figure out the mind of this mysterious person; that’s why I’ve offered the list of 10 obvious signs letting you recognize how a Scorpio man expresses his feelings towards someone.
What do you think about the topic here?
Does your Scorpio man show you he likes you in these ways?
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Hi how are you doing?
I’m a Pisces woman, I met Scorpio man he’s 12 years older on online dating. He came on so fast on me telling me how he’s never met someone like me before (we are at distance) and how we wants to visit me ASAP before some other guys snatch me. He tells me about his life, his family his family problems etc without me asking him and how much he fantasises us making love etc. Long story short after 2 weeks he kinda pulled away and I didn’t understand why so I was asking him about it but he got defensive and pulled away even further to the point he said bye…I was having surgery that time and later I found out that he’s got a new job so visiting me would not be a good idea at the moment. When he said goodbye I thought that was it it’s done, I was upset but respect his desicion no less and we went no contact for a week. He then reached out to me 2 days after my surgery asking me how I feel, so we back talking to each other again. He would text me everyday asking me how am I coping but no longer flirty or passionate and limited conversation. I don’t initiate the conversation and I did only twice in almost 3 weeks after the no contact. One time I ignored him for 3 days because he was being mean despite how he knows my feelings about him (I told him I like him) and ever since then he started liking my Facebook posts and stalking me even more constantly. When I finally reached out to him he went sarcastic saying how nice of me for not bothering him and how he did notice that. This guy is extremely prideful but I went along with it since to be honest I have no expectations towards him anymore…he would keep me updated on what’s going with his life like seriously without me even asking him. So my questions are..does he like me or maybe love me? I’m planning to visit him next year and I think he’s very happy about it, he even said he hopes for me to fall in love and move in with him. He’s so confusing in so many aspects and acts cold pretty often. Please help thank you so much.
Dear Nathalia,
Men and women fall in love differently. Men’s feelings for us grow deeper when they are away from us and when they get to miss us. For women their feelings grow deeper when they are together with a man a lot. This is one reason why men can be somewhat distant when it comes to physical, emotional and mental intimacy. If he has spent a lot of time with you he may need to back off a little to find his personal boundaries again.
So how can you pull him back? Well, the first thing you may need to do is to give him that time and space. The second thing you may need to do is to show him that you are comfortable with living in the moment and that you feel safe with the relationship. Also allow him to get into his masculine energy and to feel like a man again. With men you should try to fall into your feminine energy where you lean back and allow yourself to receive what he has to give and provide.
Also show him that life with you is uncomplicated, easy and amazing. Value your own time and energy. Have interests outside the relationship. Be your own person and hold the key to your own happiness. Your relationship should just be icing on the cake. This is how you can inspire his love, attraction, affection and commitment. They can never be forced or convinced.
Sincere!
Thank you for responding Rolland it makes me feel better and have more insights on what I should do to make our situation better.
Hi Rolland,
I am a Scorpio woman who’s had a crush on a Scorpio man since I was a child. We started talking on social media a few years ago and the conversations became sexual. He reached out often but we somehow never made it work to see each other since we live about 8 hrs apart. So we slowly just stopped talking. This was about 2 years ago. Then Finally, we saw each other about a month ago and we had sex. After that I had to be the one to reach out and he responds but is never first to reach out to me. He told me recently that he wants to have fun and see each other, but doesn’t want me to develop feelings for him. I really like him a lot and at this point I am totally fine with this, but I want him to go back to showing interest. Should I just leave him alone?
Hi Sofia,
“Leave your boyfriend alone” can be interpreted in many ways; however, yes sometimes it is more than better to go out and have fun in the way you want to and be away from the boyfriend.
The thing is, in this case, I advise you to leave and move on with your life. He has a high sex drive as most male Scorpios do, and it seems like he just sees you as an available sex partner. You will hardly have ultimate happiness with a man like him as he doesn’t show any sign of wanting to commit.
Find an available man to be with. Let this guy go!
Sincere!
Hello everyone. I also wanted to share my little story and get some advices as well. So here it goes:
I am a libra, that guy is a scorpio for sure. We are same age cause we go to same high school so it means we see each other very often. We are classmates since 5th grade so I know this guy really well. He is that type of guy that almost every girl has crush on and you probably know what I mean. We always had a good relationship, and throughout the time we became closer. Especially this year. Thing is that we have so much in common, I know his family and they are really cool. He knows my mom well. My mom and his mom are friends and stuff like that. So the reason why I am writing this all is that I am confused right now. I am sure I am not catching feeling or even developing them but i dont know… He is really different, like he tries to be really close to me but he doesn’t do that too often. He replies fast which is what he didn’t used to do. He compliments sometimes. He even told me that wanted the same career as I wanted. And believe me its not really common thing. He pays attention to every single thing that I say or do. He looks on my phone secretly while I am texting someone or doing something and then asks me who that is or whats that and so on. He gets jealous if I mention someone but i dont do that with purpose because I know that no guy likes it. So why I wrote this all, can someone please tell me what it means? If something, I guess we are not gonna get along which is sad but complicated to explain here, right now.
Waiting for some comments or advice or anything. Thank you and this page helped me a lot.
Hi Natia,
I think he’s probably falling for you but still confused with his feelings. Maybe he is not sure about your feelings and doesn’t want to make big steps that could affect the friendship with you badly. So, if you like him, then give him signals so that he can approach you directly. Once he is certain about your love for him, then he will make his chase passionately. Don’t rush too much as he doesn’t like to be forced!
Sincere!
Hi Rolland
I really liked your article i thought it was really accurate. Me (Capricorn woman) and my Scorpio man (a couple years older) train at the same sporting club for years now, but we’ve only become close friends over the past few years. We get along really well and back then we used to message each other a lot and at first it was a lot of funny banter, then it turned into some flirty remarks (including us mutually agreeing we would sleep with each other), and this flirtation would sometimes make its way into training, though we never really said/done anything about it since i wasn’t 18 at the time. I think this was why he was hot and cold a lot of the time: some days he would obviously flirt with me and others he wouldn’t even read my messages. We still message each other, but its not as frequent, which is fine, since we’re both pretty busy with uni, but since i turned 18 a few months ago I have felt as though our dynamic has changed. We hung out for the first time outside of training with some close friends, but there were moments in which it felt like it was just the two of us. I’ve recently talked to him about a lot of personal stuff, and he’s really great at listening and giving advice, but at this point i can’t tell if he’s doing it as a friend or if he’s interested in something more. I’ve found that i’m usually the one who asks to hang out which makes me think he’s not into me that way (or he’s just being hesitant because he’s older?), but then there are some moments again in person and over text when he flirts with me: (one thing i’ve picked up on a lot is his intense stare and how much smaller our proximity becomes when we’re talking). He really is a lovely guy and i feel as though i’m overthinking his actions, but i really want to tell him my feelings and i just have no idea if he likes me and i’m wondering if this is worth ruining a friendship that i really appreciate
Thanks 🙂
Hi Hazel,
A Scorpion man is not a tricky one. He will stare at you from the corner of the room. He will notice you when no one will even stop to see you. He will text you, everyday and make sure that he is a part of your life. They are very secretive so they will not convey their feeling quickly. However , physical attraction and sensuality is something that cannot let go of a Scorpion. They will find compelling ways to touch you and you can’t just ignore that they are in constant touch with you. You will have to reciprocate, which they perceive as a hint of your interest. Sex is very important to them. If their sex life is not good , they might as well leave you. But , once the settle their eyes on you, they are extremely loyal to you and will worship you. The only drawbacks for scorpion males is their possesiveness. They lose in keeping up their relationship by invoking silly fights with their partner because of their jealousy. They at one point become highly insecure which lead to fights and misunderstanding. But, After leaving your Scorpion man and settling for another relationship you will realize how loyal they were to you and you will eventually miss them. Thats how strong their love is.
Hope this helped you!
Hi I’m a piscis women , n I recently got a divorce two years ago, n I met this Scorpio three years ago ..we had a thing but no further than that no sex , because I was in a relationship, but then I saw him recently last month he was visiting, he moved to California but his sister leaves close to me , so we catch up on old times we are still messaging but I’m catching feelings , n I’m single now . But he only texts when he can , he sounds interested about some topics , n also the sexting, I’m 35 his 30
Hi Julia,
Pisces and Scorpio have a great overall understanding of each other. They sense in each other a similar kind of depth in their approach to relationship, which is both intuitive and emotional. Pisces woman can always make a great match for a strong and stern Scorpio man. She seems to get pulled in all directions often and needs to lean completely on her Scorpio lover for protection, stability and help in making such decisions. Scorpio man has her total confidence and has the ability to talk with her as she is a very patient listener.
While they understand each other’s emotional pull, the male scorpion is more intense than the female fish. Because of this, they will have to find compromises at certain points in their relationship.
Sincere!