How do you know when a Scorpio man is falling in love with you?
According to Peter Risdon, based on different traits of 12 zodiac signs, every man has a unique way to express his inner feelings towards the woman he loves.
Of course the Scorpio male is not an exception.
The problem is – reading what is going on in a Scorpio’s head is a difficult task because of his mysterious persona.
Fortunately, this guy does show a variety of love signals when falling for someone.
They do not mean a lot if you analyze separately; however, when all are put together, the whole combination is a good indication telling he is truly interested in you.
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So, here are 10 signs a Scorpio man is falling in love to look for basically.
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How to Tell If a Scorpio Man Likes You?
Firstly, if you get tired of guessing what your Scorpio love interest thinks about you, then you’ve come to the right place.
In the following, I’m going to give you some hints allowing you to recognize exactly his intentions and feelings. The Peter Risdon also comes with the guide assisting you in reading Scorpio man quickly with ease.
Alright, keep track of 10 signs of Scorpio man in love with you.
#1: He hides his feelings for you at first
Many often ask me whether or not the Scorpio male is flirty.
The truth is; this guy is misunderstood a lot – women often characterize him as a flirtatious from the first glance. However, things he displays on the surface are just small parts of his story.
Scorpio men are often packed with self-confidence; thus, he is not afraid of exhibiting his lust and flirtatious behavior. Yet, when it comes to expressing his emotions in a true love, he instantly becomes self-guarded. He will act distant and not open his heart until he is certain about your feelings towards him.
#2: He wants to be with you most of the time
When Scorpio man loves you, he is very excited with the fact he can be with you whenever he wants. By spending his precious time on you, he will get a chance of understanding you better from all different aspects.
Since your love interest is cautious in love and hard to fall for someone, all you must do is to gain his trust as well as give him a period to determine his feelings inside.
Always let him know that you have his back, and he will not hesitate to choose you as the woman he wants to commit in return.
#3: He tests you
It’s hard to know what exactly attracts Scorpio men in love.
Influenced by Scorpio male love traits, it’s pretty difficult for him to fall for someone at first sight. In fact, he requires a long time to decide whether or not you are worth his investment. During this time, he will intentionally give you subtle tests for an in-depth understanding about your behavior.
Since this man is kind towards people, he would love to see the way to interact and treat others around you.
My advice here is to display your acts of kindness constantly!
#4: He pays more attention to everything you say
If your Scorpio man shows this love sign, he’s obssessed with you already.
The next signal is – you must take notice and see if he expresses the excitement in what you are saying. Curious in nature, he can’t help but craving to know you better; that explains why he seems to be very attentive when having the communication with you.
What I like most about the Scorpio male is: he puts all of his focus strongly on you.
If you feel like your Scorpio is genuinely listening to what you say and gives you his complete attention, 100% the possibility is that he likes you.
#5: He is open up more with you
Similar to Capricorn man, men born under Scorpio horoscope sign are insecure; hence, don’t be surprised if you find your love interest is quite guarded over his feelings.
The only way for this man to open his heart is gaining his trust, completely. He will put down all the fences around him once getting provided enough security. The moment he is into you from head to toes, he may say something that you’ve never heard before and cannot imagine as well.
Never share his innermost secrets to others.
He expects his partner not to take his trust lightly. Of course this guy will not come back if his trust is betrayed terribly.
#6: He displays the jealousy
Is Scorpio man jealous?
Due to his intensely emotional nature, it’s understandable if the Scorpio male gets jealous sometimes. Although he tries his best not to show it, you can tell when he feels envious with ease.
In case you want to gain his attention, don’t think of making him feel jealous.
Playing games is an unwise move to attract a Scorpio. Why? If you do not take love seriously, he will start perceiving you as an untrustworthy, manipulative woman. Nonetheless, if you notice some small jealousy signs from him, this means he finds you attractive and worth a chase.
#7: He seems to be very possessive
All zodiac signs have both positive and negative traits.
In case of Scorpio man, possessiveness is seen as one of his prominent negative qualities, especially if he doesn’t want to learn to control it.
Yet, at the initial stage of a relationship, he appears possessive could be a sign telling that you means a lot to him. Also check other Scorpio man in love signs now!
#8: He is protective of you
Of all astrology signs, Scorpio is gifted with a very strong instinct to protect the people he loves. So, how does a Scorpio man act when he likes you? He, most of the time, will stand up for you and take a good care of you.
If you see him behave or act in a way too over protective of you, then it is a sure sign he also has a crush on you strongly.
#9: He wants a mutual connection
This Scorpio man will ask you a lot of question about almost everything as he wants to learn carefully about you as well as to find out if you two share anything in common. Especially if he likes you, he’s curious to know whether or not your feelings and his are mutual.
Don’t ignore making more in-depth conversations with this guy so that both of you can develop a strong connection.
#10: He makes you feel special
Although it takes him a long time to fall in love, not many women know that he is extremely emotional, passionate, and romantic when around his loved one.
If you are lucky to be in a relationship with a Scorpio, be prepared as he will shower you with his affections. This is the man of action; therefore, he usually expresses his affections emotionally and physically to make you feel special.
For instance, he will constantly compliment you, help you do things, and even buy you gifts based on your interests.
As he is a deep person in love, he will try hard to become an important partner to you.
When a Scorpio Man is in a Hunt…
Is it easy to spot a Scorpio male chasing you?
Personally, I think it’s quite obvious when a guy of Scorpio sign likes you. He is quite forward when being after someone. At first, he may feel a bit hard to fall in love due to the fear of rejection; however, he will show his interest partially as well as availability if truly having feelings for you.
A mature Scorpio man is extremely loyal in love.
He can go through all ups and downs just to be with the person he is into. No matter what happens, he will be devoted. This guy is never the type giving up so quickly because of his stubbornness.
Don’t try to force a young, immature Scorpio to make the commitment as he is simply not ready to settle.
What Type of Woman Does Scorpio Man Like?
Born under a very powerful sign in the zodiac, the Scorpio male usually plays the leader or domination role as well in most aspects of his life.
How about himself in a love romance?
When it comes to love relationship, this man is quite intense just like his symbol – the Scorpion; therefore, women getting involved with him find it unable to handle his personality sometimes.
In case you are thinking of a hookup with a Scorpio man, then the key is that you must be compatible with his personality traits. He easily gets attracted to a lady who is responsive, affectionate, easy-going, and devoted.
Here are a few ideas describing the woman that Scorpio man feels impressed most:
- Be submissive and let him express his opinions naturally.
- Don’t try to make him jealous
- Be patient and perseverant to him – he doesn’t like women who are too intense with his angry outbursts
- Have a high sex drive
- Always be devoted and understandable
- Pamper and care for his feelings
Scorpio man is believed to have a great compatibility rate with Scorpio woman as well as Pisces woman.
What a Scorpio Man Wants to Hear in Love?
Some find it hard to make a Scorpio man happy due to his mysterious, intuitive, and distant nature. However, if you understand his personality better, you will realize that pampering his heart is not really difficult.
He can’t handle well with criticism; thus, pay attention to what you say to him because this guy loves to hear nice things.
Here are a few things to remember about what your Scorpio loves to hear:
1. Compliment him
It would be hard for a Scorpio to resist any compliment from the woman he loves.
He has a big ego, so a good way to boost his confidence is to shower him with sincere compliments. Praise him for his charming looks, his attractive fashion sense, his fascinating personality, or his dedication for work.
2. Discuss about your dreams
What makes a Scorpio crave for you is you opening up about your achievements in life. He can’t help but getting drawn into women with intelligence and strong will to accomplish goals he has planned before.
Have more deep, intellectual conversations with this guy – this is the chance you can let him get to know all about you better.
Also, he would love to talk about family and friends as well as discuss about fun adventures.
More topics to captivate the heart of a Scorpio!
Recognizing Signs Scorpio Man Using You
Are you afraid that your Scorpio man is just using you for all the time?
Check out following signs to find out exactly if he just messes around with you or he is really into you:
1. He talks about sex a lot
If he’s diving into bed as soon as seeing you, this is the first sign he doesn’t want a serious relationship. It seems like he just talks about sex whenever around you…guess what? He is just using you without any thought of forming a deeply bonding romance with you.
2. He doesn’t open up
It takes a Scorpio man a long time to open because he typically doesn’t feel safe or secure in a relationship.
In case you’re dating the Scorpio male for months but he refuses to talk about his personal things with you, then keep in mind he may not really into you. Since he has no care or trust in you, it’s better to walk away.
3. When a Scorpio man wants you back…
You can tell right away if this guy wants you return by his side.
Scorpio man will make the whole situation is like a coincidence; however, he is creating his own opportunities to encounter you again and again. Don’t be surprised if you find yourself bumped into the Scorpio-ex most of the time; in addition, he already follows you back on social media and also interacts with everything you post.
Overall, becoming obsessively devoted to you is a sign Scorpio man wants to come back to you, gals.
In a Nutshell
Be ready for an intense ride once you are in a relationship with a Scorpio man.
In love, he is fiercely loyalty and devoted but also expects from you the same things. Determined and romantic, the moment he has his eyes on you, he can’t help showering you with lots of affections for a successful chase.
Peter Risdon knows it can be difficult to figure out the mind of this mysterious person; that’s why I’ve offered the list of 10 obvious signs letting you recognize how a Scorpio man expresses his feelings towards someone.
What do you think about the topic here?
Does your Scorpio man show you he likes you in these ways?
Tell Peter Risdon in the comment!
Hy Rolland
My lover is a Scorpio guy he is very serious in my relationship but suddenly I knew it he is using me and he lie to me there is no feeling for me Iam Deeply depressed does he come back Iam ready to forgive and forget all his mistakes 😕 please reply
Hi Sherin,
Scorpio man comes back or not, I have to say it depends.
Generally speaking, Scorpio men love deeply and hate to let go of anyone. If you had passion before and he can’t find anyone else equal to your passion, then he will return for you.
Sincere!
how can you forgive him that easily as a scorpio women i can say i will you you again so just move on and ignore him dont be so easygoing and weak girllll 😤
Almost 3 weeks ago I met a Scorpio man online the first few days we text a lot back and forth. I became concerned that maybe he was not who she did he was after agreeing to meet him. I cancelled the plans to meet and he became very upset that I didn’t give him a chance and said if he was to meet now it would only be for sex…….so I talked to him and we agreed to meet on original terms not just sexual before time to meet he changed the plans but I was on my way home and he ask if I could do a meet and greet for few minutes. I did and it reassured me that he is who he says he was. The attraction was there and we continued to talk everyday last weekend he had his kids so we could not see one another….now every morning I text him and he responds briefly but ends up leaving me hanging but I don’t push it and every night he text…..so couple days ago I mentioned how he doesn’t seem interested in meeting he said not the case and that he is free this weekend. So since today is Friday I msg this morning that I was tired of waiting on a hang out we need to do something he twisted my words around saying I wanted to skip hanging out and just go to kissing ……..then went quiet again. I really do not know how to take him anymore. When I question he ask why I’m so insecure or jaded. Truth is I just don’t want to waste my time if only sex he is interested in and I did not think that originally and now that we r three weeks into talking I really think there is more but afraid I’m ignoring a sign.
Follow up to yesterday’s post. He responded to a meme with emojis. I broke down and basically ask if he had lost interest and for the first time in 3 weeks he did not respond at all. This morning I sent a heartfelt message and let him know I remember him telling me if he was no longer interested or was interested in someone else that h would tell me and that as adults that’s what I want. I let him know I am physically attracted to him and as a Scorpio will sting a cancer throws up their guard as a defense and if that offended him I’m sorry. I just want clarity. I am awaiting a response since it is early may take a while
With Scorpios my rule of thumb is that you MUST keep your self respect. No fishing, no groveling, no pursuing. They notoriously test someone they’re into, it’s NOT gonna be easy.
My advice, keep yourself busy, treat them as if THEY should be wondering if YOU have lost interest. But always be pleasant, just slightly aloof. They’ll be curious and try to at the very least get your attention. That’s what Scorpio does.
Come to think of it, isn’t that how MOST men react?
Hi dear,
You will find “sex” prominent in two signs of the zodiac, one is Scorpio and the other is Leo..Sex for Leo is Lust. i won’t go into detail as the question is about Scorpions nor about Leos.
Sex for Scorpions is a bonding material, it gives them concentration which enhances their creative power, they love creativity and this makes a loop, creativity arouse them for sex and sex provokes their creativity. but keep one thing in mind that they are so very selfish, so be careful while sharing bed with them, they can betray you any time, so make it sure that the relationship is bonded and long term. as you have stated in your question that he always talk about sex, this clearly shows that he is interested in your body more than you.
If you are certain sex is all he wants, avoid him.
Sincere
I’m dating a Scorpio man who was hurt very bad in the past with a previous relationship. He told me he loved me about 4 months ago and hasnt said it since. He’s a good man but very guarded. I’m just afraid he won’t open up more. Should I be patient and just wait? I love him a lot and trust him just afraid he won’t open up.
Hi Candice,
Does your boyfriend want to get over his depression and feel free to be happy at your side?
If the answer is no, then you have a lost cause.
If the answer is yes, then I have a lot of hope to offer, since I am a coach whose specialty is helping men who have been thrown out of relationships to rapidly heal and find happiness again.
Give him some time. Try making him feel as comfortable as possible and make him realise what he really mean to you. Show him the love and care and affection that he wouldn’t have even dreamt of before. Make him realise that he is WORTH being that one guy, any gal would wish to spend a life time with.
All the best 🙂
Hi dear,
Personally the best intimate relationships have a healthy dash of both with varying intensity. Love is all well and good but never underestimate the power of some good ole fashion lust. They both go a long way in keeping things interesting when interchanged properly. If he is a real scorpio and comminicating with you about any thing even remotely personal to himself he likes you more than probably 98% of the other humans in his life and trusts you more than a little. Don’t ever betray that. No matter how hard he tries he will never see you the same again. You might even like the difference personally as you will find most conversations are now about you. But at that point you have probably learned the last thing of any substance about him from him. The easiest way to find out if he likes you is just ask him if he wants to hang out tomorrow. If you are interested in him intimately make the first move and make it odvious. It subconsciously registers as a challenge.
In the Scorpio mind and body and heart are one…lust and passion and love are all intertwined so the only way to know is if they stick around; unlike Scorpio women, the men are less likely to cheat and neither do not often they’ll cut you loss if they dont want you.
Sincere
Oh ! Thanks a lot for your reply!! <3 I think now I'm sure what should I do. Yeah I'm going to ask him for out & then ask him indirectly & directly…I can't deal with this confused feelings in me. But now I'm also worrying what if he sees this comment! 🙁 is it possible if you please delete my first comment I know I should not be ask that it's just I am feeling guilty…Please…
Hi, Im aries woman met a scorpio man about 6m ago for work purposes and only met him few times , from the day one I attracted to him don’t know why . After few meeting I noticed that sometimes I got feeling he hates me or underestimates me and I wondered because I haven’t done to him any harm, one day I text him to get appointment and he gave me nice comment about my profile pic on viber and promice will call next day for work but guess what he didn’t call until i reminded him at night and really got upset ,2 weeks later he texted about my profile pic that I look marvelous, and some time when we talked he mentioned as a jock to work together me n u or he would take me to nice place I wanted to go with friends and last time i was surprised he said good things about me i didn’tknow he notice them as u smart and talented and u can do whatever u put on ur mind to … really can’t understand this man is there something going on or this part of his job to be nice w people or just me assuming things here ,he makes feel confuse is this just his personality or what ,pleaseI need some help here what’s going on and what should I do ?
Hi Dalia,
The best way to handle this situation is to be straightforward, ask the person for coffee or to an event. Have a plan, not just “Do you want to go out sometime?” Be specific- “ Would you like to have coffee on Saturday?” Or whatever you’d like. That being said, not everyone has the self confidence to ask outright like that, at least not right away. So, if you need a little time to collect yourself and decide if you want to do that here are a few things to watch for: does the person make an effort to see you and talk to you? Do they make extra effort to talk longer when you do see each other? Do they make an effort to learn more about you and/or when you ask them questions do they give in depth answers or just quick ones? None of these things are a definitive measure of “like” but will give you a little indication.
Whichever route you decide to take – don’t wait too long, I know people who have found out years later that their crush DID feel the same way but moved on due to inaction.
Good luck to you!