How do you know when a Scorpio man is falling in love with you?
According to Peter Risdon, based on different traits of 12 zodiac signs, every man has a unique way to express his inner feelings towards the woman he loves.
Of course the Scorpio male is not an exception.
The problem is – reading what is going on in a Scorpio’s head is a difficult task because of his mysterious persona.
Fortunately, this guy does show a variety of love signals when falling for someone.
They do not mean a lot if you analyze separately; however, when all are put together, the whole combination is a good indication telling he is truly interested in you.
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So, here are 10 signs a Scorpio man is falling in love to look for basically.
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How to Tell If a Scorpio Man Likes You?
Firstly, if you get tired of guessing what your Scorpio love interest thinks about you, then you’ve come to the right place.
In the following, I’m going to give you some hints allowing you to recognize exactly his intentions and feelings. The Peter Risdon also comes with the guide assisting you in reading Scorpio man quickly with ease.
Alright, keep track of 10 signs of Scorpio man in love with you.
#1: He hides his feelings for you at first
Many often ask me whether or not the Scorpio male is flirty.
The truth is; this guy is misunderstood a lot – women often characterize him as a flirtatious from the first glance. However, things he displays on the surface are just small parts of his story.
Scorpio men are often packed with self-confidence; thus, he is not afraid of exhibiting his lust and flirtatious behavior. Yet, when it comes to expressing his emotions in a true love, he instantly becomes self-guarded. He will act distant and not open his heart until he is certain about your feelings towards him.
#2: He wants to be with you most of the time
When Scorpio man loves you, he is very excited with the fact he can be with you whenever he wants. By spending his precious time on you, he will get a chance of understanding you better from all different aspects.
Since your love interest is cautious in love and hard to fall for someone, all you must do is to gain his trust as well as give him a period to determine his feelings inside.
Always let him know that you have his back, and he will not hesitate to choose you as the woman he wants to commit in return.
#3: He tests you
It’s hard to know what exactly attracts Scorpio men in love.
Influenced by Scorpio male love traits, it’s pretty difficult for him to fall for someone at first sight. In fact, he requires a long time to decide whether or not you are worth his investment. During this time, he will intentionally give you subtle tests for an in-depth understanding about your behavior.
Since this man is kind towards people, he would love to see the way to interact and treat others around you.
My advice here is to display your acts of kindness constantly!
#4: He pays more attention to everything you say
If your Scorpio man shows this love sign, he’s obssessed with you already.
The next signal is – you must take notice and see if he expresses the excitement in what you are saying. Curious in nature, he can’t help but craving to know you better; that explains why he seems to be very attentive when having the communication with you.
What I like most about the Scorpio male is: he puts all of his focus strongly on you.
If you feel like your Scorpio is genuinely listening to what you say and gives you his complete attention, 100% the possibility is that he likes you.
#5: He is open up more with you
Similar to Capricorn man, men born under Scorpio horoscope sign are insecure; hence, don’t be surprised if you find your love interest is quite guarded over his feelings.
The only way for this man to open his heart is gaining his trust, completely. He will put down all the fences around him once getting provided enough security. The moment he is into you from head to toes, he may say something that you’ve never heard before and cannot imagine as well.
Never share his innermost secrets to others.
He expects his partner not to take his trust lightly. Of course this guy will not come back if his trust is betrayed terribly.
#6: He displays the jealousy
Is Scorpio man jealous?
Due to his intensely emotional nature, it’s understandable if the Scorpio male gets jealous sometimes. Although he tries his best not to show it, you can tell when he feels envious with ease.
In case you want to gain his attention, don’t think of making him feel jealous.
Playing games is an unwise move to attract a Scorpio. Why? If you do not take love seriously, he will start perceiving you as an untrustworthy, manipulative woman. Nonetheless, if you notice some small jealousy signs from him, this means he finds you attractive and worth a chase.
#7: He seems to be very possessive
All zodiac signs have both positive and negative traits.
In case of Scorpio man, possessiveness is seen as one of his prominent negative qualities, especially if he doesn’t want to learn to control it.
Yet, at the initial stage of a relationship, he appears possessive could be a sign telling that you means a lot to him. Also check other Scorpio man in love signs now!
#8: He is protective of you
Of all astrology signs, Scorpio is gifted with a very strong instinct to protect the people he loves. So, how does a Scorpio man act when he likes you? He, most of the time, will stand up for you and take a good care of you.
If you see him behave or act in a way too over protective of you, then it is a sure sign he also has a crush on you strongly.
#9: He wants a mutual connection
This Scorpio man will ask you a lot of question about almost everything as he wants to learn carefully about you as well as to find out if you two share anything in common. Especially if he likes you, he’s curious to know whether or not your feelings and his are mutual.
Don’t ignore making more in-depth conversations with this guy so that both of you can develop a strong connection.
#10: He makes you feel special
Although it takes him a long time to fall in love, not many women know that he is extremely emotional, passionate, and romantic when around his loved one.
If you are lucky to be in a relationship with a Scorpio, be prepared as he will shower you with his affections. This is the man of action; therefore, he usually expresses his affections emotionally and physically to make you feel special.
For instance, he will constantly compliment you, help you do things, and even buy you gifts based on your interests.
As he is a deep person in love, he will try hard to become an important partner to you.
When a Scorpio Man is in a Hunt…
Is it easy to spot a Scorpio male chasing you?
Personally, I think it’s quite obvious when a guy of Scorpio sign likes you. He is quite forward when being after someone. At first, he may feel a bit hard to fall in love due to the fear of rejection; however, he will show his interest partially as well as availability if truly having feelings for you.
A mature Scorpio man is extremely loyal in love.
He can go through all ups and downs just to be with the person he is into. No matter what happens, he will be devoted. This guy is never the type giving up so quickly because of his stubbornness.
Don’t try to force a young, immature Scorpio to make the commitment as he is simply not ready to settle.
What Type of Woman Does Scorpio Man Like?
Born under a very powerful sign in the zodiac, the Scorpio male usually plays the leader or domination role as well in most aspects of his life.
How about himself in a love romance?
When it comes to love relationship, this man is quite intense just like his symbol – the Scorpion; therefore, women getting involved with him find it unable to handle his personality sometimes.
In case you are thinking of a hookup with a Scorpio man, then the key is that you must be compatible with his personality traits. He easily gets attracted to a lady who is responsive, affectionate, easy-going, and devoted.
Here are a few ideas describing the woman that Scorpio man feels impressed most:
- Be submissive and let him express his opinions naturally.
- Don’t try to make him jealous
- Be patient and perseverant to him – he doesn’t like women who are too intense with his angry outbursts
- Have a high sex drive
- Always be devoted and understandable
- Pamper and care for his feelings
Scorpio man is believed to have a great compatibility rate with Scorpio woman as well as Pisces woman.
What a Scorpio Man Wants to Hear in Love?
Some find it hard to make a Scorpio man happy due to his mysterious, intuitive, and distant nature. However, if you understand his personality better, you will realize that pampering his heart is not really difficult.
He can’t handle well with criticism; thus, pay attention to what you say to him because this guy loves to hear nice things.
Here are a few things to remember about what your Scorpio loves to hear:
1. Compliment him
It would be hard for a Scorpio to resist any compliment from the woman he loves.
He has a big ego, so a good way to boost his confidence is to shower him with sincere compliments. Praise him for his charming looks, his attractive fashion sense, his fascinating personality, or his dedication for work.
2. Discuss about your dreams
What makes a Scorpio crave for you is you opening up about your achievements in life. He can’t help but getting drawn into women with intelligence and strong will to accomplish goals he has planned before.
Have more deep, intellectual conversations with this guy – this is the chance you can let him get to know all about you better.
Also, he would love to talk about family and friends as well as discuss about fun adventures.
More topics to captivate the heart of a Scorpio!
Recognizing Signs Scorpio Man Using You
Are you afraid that your Scorpio man is just using you for all the time?
Check out following signs to find out exactly if he just messes around with you or he is really into you:
1. He talks about sex a lot
If he’s diving into bed as soon as seeing you, this is the first sign he doesn’t want a serious relationship. It seems like he just talks about sex whenever around you…guess what? He is just using you without any thought of forming a deeply bonding romance with you.
2. He doesn’t open up
It takes a Scorpio man a long time to open because he typically doesn’t feel safe or secure in a relationship.
In case you’re dating the Scorpio male for months but he refuses to talk about his personal things with you, then keep in mind he may not really into you. Since he has no care or trust in you, it’s better to walk away.
3. When a Scorpio man wants you back…
You can tell right away if this guy wants you return by his side.
Scorpio man will make the whole situation is like a coincidence; however, he is creating his own opportunities to encounter you again and again. Don’t be surprised if you find yourself bumped into the Scorpio-ex most of the time; in addition, he already follows you back on social media and also interacts with everything you post.
Overall, becoming obsessively devoted to you is a sign Scorpio man wants to come back to you, gals.
In a Nutshell
Be ready for an intense ride once you are in a relationship with a Scorpio man.
In love, he is fiercely loyalty and devoted but also expects from you the same things. Determined and romantic, the moment he has his eyes on you, he can’t help showering you with lots of affections for a successful chase.
Peter Risdon knows it can be difficult to figure out the mind of this mysterious person; that’s why I’ve offered the list of 10 obvious signs letting you recognize how a Scorpio man expresses his feelings towards someone.
What do you think about the topic here?
Does your Scorpio man show you he likes you in these ways?
Tell Peter Risdon in the comment!
Hi ammm me as a cancer girl n my Scorpio hv been dating each other online dating for 3 years and in March we met first time and had S** he lives in different country so this is long distant relationship… He has all traits as u mentioned in all replies specially the Disappearing one .sometimes I feel so fed up n pissed of his behavior he texts very shortly sometime after two weeks .after having s** I thought he could make our relationship more stronger he always tell he loves me a lot BT wt kind of love it is he text me rarely in short word n its been more then 20 days no reply from him …I want him to commit to me n show me the same love as he showed me earlier..I wanna marry him he loves me a lot BT never shows me any sign abt marriage etc..wt I need to do nw …
Dear Xoxo,
With a Scorpio man, he’s always ready for the commitment but he needs time to feel the relationship worth his investment. Maybe his disappearing acts are to test your patience, so don’t bombard or push him too much. This guy takes love & relationships seriously – don’t need to worry that he gets bored of you.
Just give him more time…at the same time, show your love, sincerity, and empathy to him.
Sincere!
So I just have a quick question and nobody seems to answer it correctly. So I just met this Scorpio guy, he’s my coworker and he’s seems to be really nice and gentleman like. He’s really sweet to me, more than the other women there. He’s always staring at me and stares so hard until we finally make eye contact and then he’d smile really big at me. I try to avoid eye contact only because I don’t want the women there to talk. He’s always complimenting how pretty I am and always want to walk with me or talk to me more than the other women there. Everyone says he might be crushing but I’m not so sure. Then he asked for my number “to give information about a hairstylist” and now he’s texting me asking about my day etc. I’m still thinking he’s just being nice. Or maybe I’m just naive. How can I tell?
Dear Nova,
Yeah I think you’re really naive, lady…this Scorpio man is falling hard for you. He makes a really strong eye contact with no one but you in the room, compliments you, and even takes initiative (asking your phone number) – those are all the signs a Scorpio man falls in love.
Most importantly, his eyes are only on you.
Sincere!
I’m scorpion, I met a scorpion man too.. He has been starring at me intensely for 1 month. He showed all the signs and hints that he like me indirectly.. When we split after the program, I texted him, I will miss him.. But he just replied, nice to meet me, see you again with wink emoji.. I did not get it why he could not confess to me directly.. All the hints is to be obvious…. At first I don’t bother about him but later I rralize I loved his efforts approaching me.. I will meet him again, maybe after 1 year.. I just hope he confess now… I feel frust now.. If he shy, I already said I will miss him badly.. What made him stop progressing? I confuse
Dear Yayah,
He is a very patient man and can waits for years to reach his goal.
He never takes love lightly so before he makes his confession, please be patient…this guy is testing you.
Good luck!
Hi, I’ve been talking to a Scorpio guy for 6 months now going 7 this month but he can be distant at times. I’m a Sagittarius by the way. He is really hard to read at times. This minute I think we are good the next he hardly talks to me or anything. Recently I got tired of his actions so I expressed how I felt to him and told him I think he has lost interest. However, he said the he wouldn’t call it lose interest it’s just that he has been busy with stuff and thinking. He said he needs time to get his thoughts together but I don’t know how to interpret that. I need help!!!
Dear Sarah,
It’s true that Scorpio man doesn’t lose his interest…you need to understand that he sometimes will be busy with his own thoughts. Whenever he acts distant from you or suddenly disappears, it means he needs his own space to clear his thoughts. Give him time and he will soon make the return!
Sincere!
I met my Scorpio couple of months ago. He did pursue. Texted frequently. Called alot. Sweet. Then we went on a date. He was very touchy which I felt uncomfortable with. I’m conservative in my views about this and have only had sex with those I’ve been seriously committed to, as in engaged to or married to (Pisces). I admit in the beginning, I didn’t have much time to text him back as I was busy working and my family was going through changes. He is 10 years older than me. We can talk for hours and have shared private details about one another and life goals. He kept asking me if I felt the intensity. I did but didn’t admit it as I’ve built so many walls from a horrible marriage & divorce while men pursued me avidly during my divorce, I felt betrayed by those who were supposed to be my friends. We ended the night kissing, which that was still new to me. I was hopeful. He barely texted me afterwards and then blocked me – or I’m pretty sure he did as he no longer replied to my texts and my texts appeared to be sent differently. Yet he was texting occasionally “How are you?” There were no responses to my texts so I felt he was playing games with me. Couple of weeks later, I saw he contacted me at work. Against my better judgment, I responded and we began texting again. He asked me over few days later. I felt hesitant to do so as I felt it already moved too fast when I didn’t like these games. I fell for him, and this scares me. Again, against my better judgment, I went over. He refuses and has yet to ask me out on a weekend, it’s always during a weekday. We talk for hours. We share a lot with one another. I have never met anyone like him and although I feel this is not the norm for him, I don’t know if this is only a game or what. I felt it was spiritual in nature and I opened up my spirituality with him. He was patient that night as we made out. He wanted to have sex but I couldn’t as I was confused and value having a commitment & understanding. I told him I’m leaving and he asked me to just sleep next to him. No sex. I’m such a dummy. We ended up having sex many hours later – but it wasn’t in the manner I thought it would be. We were both very tired and sleepy. He rushed it, didn’t use any protection and he just took from me. No foreplay. I was so shocked and when he jumped in the shower, I cried. He said he had to go to work so I left. He texted late that night how I was doing but i didn’t see it nor respond until days after as I was so scared he is still playing games with me. I feel awful about myself. He barely texts now but does respond if I text. I wish we were in a place where we could talk about this but I’m not a chaser and feel rejected and used. I ended up turning towards a friend. Although I’m not attracted to my friend, he’s become a protector and cares about me and my kids. He believes my love for him can grow. I decided I need to let my Scorpio go as I’m already hurt and don’t foresee how this is going to change. I have never been treated and used this way before. There’s nothing in my character or profile which would suggest I am a skank either. He knew this about me. He told me he couldn’t see me the following weekend either as he already had plans with a friend – as he always seems to have on a weekend. He made up some other excuse of why he needed to be there for his friend. I’ve decided to walk away as this is unhealthy. He seems to be a player and a cheater. I thought he was a sincere and spiritual person, looking for a monogamous relationship. I’ve never had sex where we leave the status quo open and so unbelievably hurt he doesn’t make the effort to right this situation with discussion. Please tell me I’m doing the right thing to walk away as I’ve given him plenty of space… I know we’re both busy but I feel he could show some gentleness and kindness after this. Is that too much?
Dear Carina,
If you don’t feel safe at all when being next to that Scorpio man, just move on and look for someone deserve your love better. But I think you should be more open in the new relationship – your partner will hardly understand your feelings if you are too guarded.
Sincere!
Thanks for your insightful article. It is pretty spot on regarding my relationship with my Scorpio partner for a few years now (I am a Virgo). I would not say he is the jealous kind but he is constantly watchful and observant, always with an underlying layer of suspicion which rears its head every now and then and takes me by surprise. He will tell me frankly if he notices patterns in my behaviour or if he has an issue with friends of mine. He does not try to control my friendships but he simply makes his feelings clear on how he feels it may effect us. I still struggle with his overpowering sense of confidence that he is right on most things and often he fails to appreciate my point of view if he cannot see the logic or reason to it. This may be partly due to his Scorpio nature but also him as an individual. Either way, from my own personal experience, the Scorpio characteristics mean that the relationship can be unpredictable, challenging, difficult and high maintenance at times, but equally it can be passionate, emotional and very reassuring (once you know you have his love and commitment) at other times. Yes I do find him secretive and mysterious on some levels but in terms of our relationship, I find him very mature, trustworthy and loyal, as long as I respect his independence. I am very independent also which helps. I think it’s a question of weighing the pros and cons of the Scorpio characteristics as they are both quite extreme. The cons can be especially difficult to handle, yet the pros when they are displayed are very positive traits in any man.
Absolutely agree with your opinions here, Vanessa!
I really appreciate when you share your own experience with a Scorpio man which (to me) is valuable. Again, thanks so much for your POV!
Wish the best for you and your Scorpio man!