How do you know when a Scorpio man is falling in love with you?
According to Peter Risdon, based on different traits of 12 zodiac signs, every man has a unique way to express his inner feelings towards the woman he loves.
Of course the Scorpio male is not an exception.
The problem is – reading what is going on in a Scorpio’s head is a difficult task because of his mysterious persona.
Fortunately, this guy does show a variety of love signals when falling for someone.
They do not mean a lot if you analyze separately; however, when all are put together, the whole combination is a good indication telling he is truly interested in you.
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So, here are 10 signs a Scorpio man is falling in love to look for basically.
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How to Tell If a Scorpio Man Likes You?
Firstly, if you get tired of guessing what your Scorpio love interest thinks about you, then you’ve come to the right place.
In the following, I’m going to give you some hints allowing you to recognize exactly his intentions and feelings. The Peter Risdon also comes with the guide assisting you in reading Scorpio man quickly with ease.
Alright, keep track of 10 signs of Scorpio man in love with you.
#1: He hides his feelings for you at first
Many often ask me whether or not the Scorpio male is flirty.
The truth is; this guy is misunderstood a lot – women often characterize him as a flirtatious from the first glance. However, things he displays on the surface are just small parts of his story.
Scorpio men are often packed with self-confidence; thus, he is not afraid of exhibiting his lust and flirtatious behavior. Yet, when it comes to expressing his emotions in a true love, he instantly becomes self-guarded. He will act distant and not open his heart until he is certain about your feelings towards him.
#2: He wants to be with you most of the time
When Scorpio man loves you, he is very excited with the fact he can be with you whenever he wants. By spending his precious time on you, he will get a chance of understanding you better from all different aspects.
Since your love interest is cautious in love and hard to fall for someone, all you must do is to gain his trust as well as give him a period to determine his feelings inside.
Always let him know that you have his back, and he will not hesitate to choose you as the woman he wants to commit in return.
#3: He tests you
It’s hard to know what exactly attracts Scorpio men in love.
Influenced by Scorpio male love traits, it’s pretty difficult for him to fall for someone at first sight. In fact, he requires a long time to decide whether or not you are worth his investment. During this time, he will intentionally give you subtle tests for an in-depth understanding about your behavior.
Since this man is kind towards people, he would love to see the way to interact and treat others around you.
My advice here is to display your acts of kindness constantly!
#4: He pays more attention to everything you say
If your Scorpio man shows this love sign, he’s obssessed with you already.
The next signal is – you must take notice and see if he expresses the excitement in what you are saying. Curious in nature, he can’t help but craving to know you better; that explains why he seems to be very attentive when having the communication with you.
What I like most about the Scorpio male is: he puts all of his focus strongly on you.
If you feel like your Scorpio is genuinely listening to what you say and gives you his complete attention, 100% the possibility is that he likes you.
#5: He is open up more with you
Similar to Capricorn man, men born under Scorpio horoscope sign are insecure; hence, don’t be surprised if you find your love interest is quite guarded over his feelings.
The only way for this man to open his heart is gaining his trust, completely. He will put down all the fences around him once getting provided enough security. The moment he is into you from head to toes, he may say something that you’ve never heard before and cannot imagine as well.
Never share his innermost secrets to others.
He expects his partner not to take his trust lightly. Of course this guy will not come back if his trust is betrayed terribly.
#6: He displays the jealousy
Is Scorpio man jealous?
Due to his intensely emotional nature, it’s understandable if the Scorpio male gets jealous sometimes. Although he tries his best not to show it, you can tell when he feels envious with ease.
In case you want to gain his attention, don’t think of making him feel jealous.
Playing games is an unwise move to attract a Scorpio. Why? If you do not take love seriously, he will start perceiving you as an untrustworthy, manipulative woman. Nonetheless, if you notice some small jealousy signs from him, this means he finds you attractive and worth a chase.
#7: He seems to be very possessive
All zodiac signs have both positive and negative traits.
In case of Scorpio man, possessiveness is seen as one of his prominent negative qualities, especially if he doesn’t want to learn to control it.
Yet, at the initial stage of a relationship, he appears possessive could be a sign telling that you means a lot to him. Also check other Scorpio man in love signs now!
#8: He is protective of you
Of all astrology signs, Scorpio is gifted with a very strong instinct to protect the people he loves. So, how does a Scorpio man act when he likes you? He, most of the time, will stand up for you and take a good care of you.
If you see him behave or act in a way too over protective of you, then it is a sure sign he also has a crush on you strongly.
#9: He wants a mutual connection
This Scorpio man will ask you a lot of question about almost everything as he wants to learn carefully about you as well as to find out if you two share anything in common. Especially if he likes you, he’s curious to know whether or not your feelings and his are mutual.
Don’t ignore making more in-depth conversations with this guy so that both of you can develop a strong connection.
#10: He makes you feel special
Although it takes him a long time to fall in love, not many women know that he is extremely emotional, passionate, and romantic when around his loved one.
If you are lucky to be in a relationship with a Scorpio, be prepared as he will shower you with his affections. This is the man of action; therefore, he usually expresses his affections emotionally and physically to make you feel special.
For instance, he will constantly compliment you, help you do things, and even buy you gifts based on your interests.
As he is a deep person in love, he will try hard to become an important partner to you.
When a Scorpio Man is in a Hunt…
Is it easy to spot a Scorpio male chasing you?
Personally, I think it’s quite obvious when a guy of Scorpio sign likes you. He is quite forward when being after someone. At first, he may feel a bit hard to fall in love due to the fear of rejection; however, he will show his interest partially as well as availability if truly having feelings for you.
A mature Scorpio man is extremely loyal in love.
He can go through all ups and downs just to be with the person he is into. No matter what happens, he will be devoted. This guy is never the type giving up so quickly because of his stubbornness.
Don’t try to force a young, immature Scorpio to make the commitment as he is simply not ready to settle.
What Type of Woman Does Scorpio Man Like?
Born under a very powerful sign in the zodiac, the Scorpio male usually plays the leader or domination role as well in most aspects of his life.
How about himself in a love romance?
When it comes to love relationship, this man is quite intense just like his symbol – the Scorpion; therefore, women getting involved with him find it unable to handle his personality sometimes.
In case you are thinking of a hookup with a Scorpio man, then the key is that you must be compatible with his personality traits. He easily gets attracted to a lady who is responsive, affectionate, easy-going, and devoted.
Here are a few ideas describing the woman that Scorpio man feels impressed most:
- Be submissive and let him express his opinions naturally.
- Don’t try to make him jealous
- Be patient and perseverant to him – he doesn’t like women who are too intense with his angry outbursts
- Have a high sex drive
- Always be devoted and understandable
- Pamper and care for his feelings
Scorpio man is believed to have a great compatibility rate with Scorpio woman as well as Pisces woman.
What a Scorpio Man Wants to Hear in Love?
Some find it hard to make a Scorpio man happy due to his mysterious, intuitive, and distant nature. However, if you understand his personality better, you will realize that pampering his heart is not really difficult.
He can’t handle well with criticism; thus, pay attention to what you say to him because this guy loves to hear nice things.
Here are a few things to remember about what your Scorpio loves to hear:
1. Compliment him
It would be hard for a Scorpio to resist any compliment from the woman he loves.
He has a big ego, so a good way to boost his confidence is to shower him with sincere compliments. Praise him for his charming looks, his attractive fashion sense, his fascinating personality, or his dedication for work.
2. Discuss about your dreams
What makes a Scorpio crave for you is you opening up about your achievements in life. He can’t help but getting drawn into women with intelligence and strong will to accomplish goals he has planned before.
Have more deep, intellectual conversations with this guy – this is the chance you can let him get to know all about you better.
Also, he would love to talk about family and friends as well as discuss about fun adventures.
More topics to captivate the heart of a Scorpio!
Recognizing Signs Scorpio Man Using You
Are you afraid that your Scorpio man is just using you for all the time?
Check out following signs to find out exactly if he just messes around with you or he is really into you:
1. He talks about sex a lot
If he’s diving into bed as soon as seeing you, this is the first sign he doesn’t want a serious relationship. It seems like he just talks about sex whenever around you…guess what? He is just using you without any thought of forming a deeply bonding romance with you.
2. He doesn’t open up
It takes a Scorpio man a long time to open because he typically doesn’t feel safe or secure in a relationship.
In case you’re dating the Scorpio male for months but he refuses to talk about his personal things with you, then keep in mind he may not really into you. Since he has no care or trust in you, it’s better to walk away.
3. When a Scorpio man wants you back…
You can tell right away if this guy wants you return by his side.
Scorpio man will make the whole situation is like a coincidence; however, he is creating his own opportunities to encounter you again and again. Don’t be surprised if you find yourself bumped into the Scorpio-ex most of the time; in addition, he already follows you back on social media and also interacts with everything you post.
Overall, becoming obsessively devoted to you is a sign Scorpio man wants to come back to you, gals.
In a Nutshell
Be ready for an intense ride once you are in a relationship with a Scorpio man.
In love, he is fiercely loyalty and devoted but also expects from you the same things. Determined and romantic, the moment he has his eyes on you, he can’t help showering you with lots of affections for a successful chase.
Peter Risdon knows it can be difficult to figure out the mind of this mysterious person; that’s why I’ve offered the list of 10 obvious signs letting you recognize how a Scorpio man expresses his feelings towards someone.
What do you think about the topic here?
Does your Scorpio man show you he likes you in these ways?
Tell Peter Risdon in the comment!
Forgot to mention it’s been two years since he conveyed he thinks about me and flirting. We used to chat on communicator sometimes. He had asked me to stop by his office after work to which I had replied if didn’t have work to do. He is observant, watchful, Once I stepped out of elevator and told my friend I would stop by later, she didn’t reply… he looked up to see who it was…. she noticed and quickly replied ok. He is 13 years older to me. Not sure if he is serious, has feelings or just looking for casual hang up.
Dear Nika,
No need to worry – Scorpio man tends to keep distance as he needs time and space to make clear about everything, including relationships and other stuff. As soon as he has his own decision, he will come back. Forcing him to open up is not a good idea; instead, you should be patient and slowly win his trust. He is likely to tell you his secrets once he feels you’re reliable.
Sincere!
Do you think he likes me? Does he have feelings for me?
His silence is killing me. Any advice tips on how to get him back miss that hug n those days?
Dear Nika,
If he keeps his silence for quite too long, then you should have a direct conversation with him – ask him about what happened as well as his distant behavior towards you. Keep a comfortable atmosphere during the whole talk and don’t make him feel offended.
Good luck!
Hi I’m Capricorn and my bf is scorpion whom is now an ex. We’ve been dating for almost a year. He lost trust in me because I cheated on him and I was not even honest about most of the things. He found out and this girl seduced him and they started dating. He told me that he loves the other girl but then I still want him in my life and I don’t know what I must do to win his trust again. I’m 2months pregnant and he don’t even believe that the baby it’s his so he wants to have unprotected sex with me which I really don’t think k it’s a good idea coz he also sleeps with his current gf without protection. Should I move on and take care of my pregnancy alone or focus on getting or winning his heart back?
Dear Pearl,
At this time, I think it’s good if you just focus on your pregnancy. Your ex is now having his own relationship and you shouldn’t keep thinking about the past. Take care of your pregnancy and later find yourself someone love you better.
Most importantly, it’s not easy to win a Scorpio’s trust again.
Sincere!
Omgosh everything down to the T. I am a cancer in a relationship with a Scorpio and at the beginning it was rough however we have moved past all that and I actually finally feel like I have a real family and a real relationship. The issue with us is more of his random distancing from me or random being upset for I don’t know what reasons. Its very annoying however I have learned to not react so quickly and will give him his space. Some background he hadnt worked in a while and has started a job about 3 weeks ago. I took care of everything along with my kids. We share 1. I have 2 of my own. He recently has been okay during days while at work texting then evening before bed he is in a mood. To where he has been too tired for even sex. And now he is the feeling of entitlement because he works now and is always upset about something not done the way he likes at home. Example:( dishes not done right away by kids). When I do ask whats wrong his answer is, Don’t trip I’m just tired. Mind you I work fulltime and deal with the kids and all and chores and cook almost every night. I get butt hurt when his moods are so random and I cant figure out why in the first place. It weighs on me. It can get ackward because I will let him be in the room and I in the living room till its time for bed. I guess my question is why the sudden mood change or random being upset and then doesnt really clarify why later down the road? I would like to mention he does always think of me in all that he does. Its very sweet. I dont have to tell him or remind of him things he is on top of it.
Dear Eve,
I totally understand your feeling right now.
It’s really pissed off sometimes when being with a Scorpio because his mood changes frequently – this makes you confused and frustrated all the time. But, keep in mind that you have to be patient and understanding when being in a relationship with this man.
In your case, the reason for his mood swings is probably because he is too busy. When he is too tired, he becomes unpleasant to everything including you. Find the right time in a day and give him supportive words or gestures – this could make him happy.
Good luck!
Hello!
I hope that my English is not so bad and you will understand me. I have an amazing story. 4 weeks ago arrived on a business trip to the capital and in my last three days I met a scorpion at hostel where I stayed. I am Libra. I’m 24, he’s 23. We noticed each other when he was cooking and invited me to dinner. We sat in the hostel for an hour, ate, talked a bit. He offered to go somewhere for a walk with the whole company (there were 3 people eating), but I did not agree. He offered to show me one district of the city. In the evening we subscribed on each other in the instagram, he sent me his music, he plays the guitar and sings. The next morning I really wanted to continue our conversation and I asked him to show me the city. He agreed. We met at 21:00 and sat together for 4 hours. I do not remember what we were talking about. Something about friends and pets, he told me what kind of dog he wanted, what cats he have. I asked him about his ex, but he did not want to talk about it. He said he just wants to be with me. Then we talked about stars, music and literature. I love this kind of talking. There’re not so many people around who I can speak to. I turned out we have a lot of similar interests. I did not communicate with anyone as easily as with him. I am 100% introvert. I am secretive and uncommunicative person, but I talked to him without any problems, felt completely safe. In the beginning, he was very closed, even confused some words. I told him to calm down and tried to sit a bit closer to him, I think he felt it. After 3 hours, he asked if he could hug me. I did not have time to answer – he already hugged me. So much as if he hadn’t hugged anyone for a couple of years. He hugged me completely, even my legs, almost lifted up in his arms. We held each other’s hands like chains. Then he tried to kiss me, but I refused. On our way to the hostel, he behaved like a child, full of joy, smiled all the time. As if the parents had finally bought a child a toy that he had been asking for a long time. When we returned to the hostel (he slept next to me) we texted a bit. I could not resist. I wrote to him to come to me and when he came I kissed him. We kissed less than a minute, but then he sat on the bed and sat there for a minute, he said that no one had kissed him that way before, and that his legs were buckled. Our kiss was like magic. That’s true for me too. He told to me that he had the feeling that he knew me forever and that perhaps that is how it is. Then he went to his bed. The next day, after our daily routine, we saw each other again, our hands literally stretched towards each other. We always kept our hands together. His look at me was something crazy. Than we just stood hugging, as if we had known each other for 100 years and our souls needed it. I almost burst into tears. I do not know from what. He kissed my forehead with such tenderness. Then we kissed. I felt that he wants me. That evening we barely spoke. Then we went to bed, but I terribly wanted to hug him again. I went to his bed to him where we hugged and kissed. Now I feel shocked by my behavior than, but at that time I didn’t understand what I was doing, all I wanted is to hug him. He very timidly stroked my hair, did not try to undress me at all, kissed my forehead. I even thought he was a virgin, because when I asked him when he had his last partner, he got confused. And he was very shy in his movements, even in his kisses, because my kiss was much rougher, it was with tongue and bites. Than all of a sudden he strongly grabbed my hair and even neck. He stroked my neck and lips, I opened my mouth and his finger was in my mouth. I really liked it and he said that he noticed it. He said, “I see you liked it too”. Than we stoped. We were lying on the bed, he said that he would miss me and would like us to fall asleep hugging together, but he did NOT say that he wanted me to stay and not to leave. The next evening was my last in that city, we met in the morning, but he was distant, all squeezed. Nevertheless, he hugged me very gently in the morning before leaving for work. Each of us went on our business, we agreed that we will meet in the evening. I waited for him in the evening, wrote to him, he read my message, but did not answer and did not appear in the hostel. He did not come for the night. The next morning I left. I wrote to him a lot, I was so confused and felt addicted to him, asked what was that and whether he told me the truth. I asked why he did this, he said that he is a difficult and harsh man, asked for forgiveness for his behavior. He also said that everything was true. Next morning he asked how I got home. I wrote that everything is fine. Then a couple days later I wrote that in 2.5 months I’ll be transferred to the city where he was. This is the capital of our country. I asked a couple of questions about experience of his moving to the capital and our communication stopped at this point. He seemed very cold. After 2 weeks I wrote to him and asked him how he was doing. He said that he had problems at work, I could say that he behaved rudely. In the end, I texted him that I didn’t understand the silence, that I needed a direct answer and asked him directly if he wanted to see me when I arrived, if he needed this. I asked him to tell me hard truth. In a few minutes he answered me to write to him when I come back. It’s all. I worry that I wrote too much to him when he did not appear that evening. I felt like drug addict and texted a lot of nonsense. But still he answered me to write to him on my arrival. So now I am all silent. I am going to write to him only when I’m in the city. Tell me what is it all about? I still do not understand his behavior. I do not even understand MY behavior and feelings. I do not recognize myself, I became more bolder and more assembled. I like these changes in myself. But how to deal with him when we meet? I want serious relationship, not a guy for a couple of nights. Should I tell him about it right away when we meet? I do not want to waste time. And I still do not know what was that for him and for me. Is such behavior typical for scorpion?
Dear Anna,
Due to his sun sign, Scorpio is not a one-night-stand man; actually, he longs for a committed relationship more than anyone. I think his behavior changes because he feels not certain once seriously getting involved with you because you two have less time for each other. If you want to be with him, the key is to make him feel secure and safe because he lacks security.
Now the decision is up to you!
Good luck!
I am a leo woman..i found a mature scorpio man. .i was just my normal kind hearted self and won him over..ik i am playing with fire for a leo and scorpio is suppose to be one of hardest to be together but let me tell you its so worth it..the best man ive ever had! He treats me like a queen..he messages me telling me his every move and to let me know he loves me! I have never onced showed and signs of jealousy or anything..being a leo it is hard to be submissive all the time but for him thats all ive been and all ive wanted to be..as far as in the bedroom omg a scorpio is the best!! Weve only been together for like 2 months it has been moving fast here..that to me is scary but what do you think..do i have a great chance?
Dear Alicia,
There’s no too fast or too slow. As long as both of you are comfortable with where you are at in the relationship then it’s going just fine. But, if you feel it’s going too fast or slow, then you just need to talk with your Scorpio man and tell him how you feel honestly so that both can sort things out.
Good luck!