How do you know when a Scorpio man is falling in love with you?
According to Peter Risdon, based on different traits of 12 zodiac signs, every man has a unique way to express his inner feelings towards the woman he loves.
Of course the Scorpio male is not an exception.
The problem is – reading what is going on in a Scorpio’s head is a difficult task because of his mysterious persona.
Fortunately, this guy does show a variety of love signals when falling for someone.
They do not mean a lot if you analyze separately; however, when all are put together, the whole combination is a good indication telling he is truly interested in you.
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So, here are 10 signs a Scorpio man is falling in love to look for basically.
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How to Tell If a Scorpio Man Likes You?
Firstly, if you get tired of guessing what your Scorpio love interest thinks about you, then you’ve come to the right place.
In the following, I’m going to give you some hints allowing you to recognize exactly his intentions and feelings. The Peter Risdon also comes with the guide assisting you in reading Scorpio man quickly with ease.
Alright, keep track of 10 signs of Scorpio man in love with you.
#1: He hides his feelings for you at first
Many often ask me whether or not the Scorpio male is flirty.
The truth is; this guy is misunderstood a lot – women often characterize him as a flirtatious from the first glance. However, things he displays on the surface are just small parts of his story.
Scorpio men are often packed with self-confidence; thus, he is not afraid of exhibiting his lust and flirtatious behavior. Yet, when it comes to expressing his emotions in a true love, he instantly becomes self-guarded. He will act distant and not open his heart until he is certain about your feelings towards him.
#2: He wants to be with you most of the time
When Scorpio man loves you, he is very excited with the fact he can be with you whenever he wants. By spending his precious time on you, he will get a chance of understanding you better from all different aspects.
Since your love interest is cautious in love and hard to fall for someone, all you must do is to gain his trust as well as give him a period to determine his feelings inside.
Always let him know that you have his back, and he will not hesitate to choose you as the woman he wants to commit in return.
#3: He tests you
It’s hard to know what exactly attracts Scorpio men in love.
Influenced by Scorpio male love traits, it’s pretty difficult for him to fall for someone at first sight. In fact, he requires a long time to decide whether or not you are worth his investment. During this time, he will intentionally give you subtle tests for an in-depth understanding about your behavior.
Since this man is kind towards people, he would love to see the way to interact and treat others around you.
My advice here is to display your acts of kindness constantly!
#4: He pays more attention to everything you say
If your Scorpio man shows this love sign, he’s obssessed with you already.
The next signal is – you must take notice and see if he expresses the excitement in what you are saying. Curious in nature, he can’t help but craving to know you better; that explains why he seems to be very attentive when having the communication with you.
What I like most about the Scorpio male is: he puts all of his focus strongly on you.
If you feel like your Scorpio is genuinely listening to what you say and gives you his complete attention, 100% the possibility is that he likes you.
#5: He is open up more with you
Similar to Capricorn man, men born under Scorpio horoscope sign are insecure; hence, don’t be surprised if you find your love interest is quite guarded over his feelings.
The only way for this man to open his heart is gaining his trust, completely. He will put down all the fences around him once getting provided enough security. The moment he is into you from head to toes, he may say something that you’ve never heard before and cannot imagine as well.
Never share his innermost secrets to others.
He expects his partner not to take his trust lightly. Of course this guy will not come back if his trust is betrayed terribly.
#6: He displays the jealousy
Is Scorpio man jealous?
Due to his intensely emotional nature, it’s understandable if the Scorpio male gets jealous sometimes. Although he tries his best not to show it, you can tell when he feels envious with ease.
In case you want to gain his attention, don’t think of making him feel jealous.
Playing games is an unwise move to attract a Scorpio. Why? If you do not take love seriously, he will start perceiving you as an untrustworthy, manipulative woman. Nonetheless, if you notice some small jealousy signs from him, this means he finds you attractive and worth a chase.
#7: He seems to be very possessive
All zodiac signs have both positive and negative traits.
In case of Scorpio man, possessiveness is seen as one of his prominent negative qualities, especially if he doesn’t want to learn to control it.
Yet, at the initial stage of a relationship, he appears possessive could be a sign telling that you means a lot to him. Also check other Scorpio man in love signs now!
#8: He is protective of you
Of all astrology signs, Scorpio is gifted with a very strong instinct to protect the people he loves. So, how does a Scorpio man act when he likes you? He, most of the time, will stand up for you and take a good care of you.
If you see him behave or act in a way too over protective of you, then it is a sure sign he also has a crush on you strongly.
#9: He wants a mutual connection
This Scorpio man will ask you a lot of question about almost everything as he wants to learn carefully about you as well as to find out if you two share anything in common. Especially if he likes you, he’s curious to know whether or not your feelings and his are mutual.
Don’t ignore making more in-depth conversations with this guy so that both of you can develop a strong connection.
#10: He makes you feel special
Although it takes him a long time to fall in love, not many women know that he is extremely emotional, passionate, and romantic when around his loved one.
If you are lucky to be in a relationship with a Scorpio, be prepared as he will shower you with his affections. This is the man of action; therefore, he usually expresses his affections emotionally and physically to make you feel special.
For instance, he will constantly compliment you, help you do things, and even buy you gifts based on your interests.
As he is a deep person in love, he will try hard to become an important partner to you.
When a Scorpio Man is in a Hunt…
Is it easy to spot a Scorpio male chasing you?
Personally, I think it’s quite obvious when a guy of Scorpio sign likes you. He is quite forward when being after someone. At first, he may feel a bit hard to fall in love due to the fear of rejection; however, he will show his interest partially as well as availability if truly having feelings for you.
A mature Scorpio man is extremely loyal in love.
He can go through all ups and downs just to be with the person he is into. No matter what happens, he will be devoted. This guy is never the type giving up so quickly because of his stubbornness.
Don’t try to force a young, immature Scorpio to make the commitment as he is simply not ready to settle.
What Type of Woman Does Scorpio Man Like?
Born under a very powerful sign in the zodiac, the Scorpio male usually plays the leader or domination role as well in most aspects of his life.
How about himself in a love romance?
When it comes to love relationship, this man is quite intense just like his symbol – the Scorpion; therefore, women getting involved with him find it unable to handle his personality sometimes.
In case you are thinking of a hookup with a Scorpio man, then the key is that you must be compatible with his personality traits. He easily gets attracted to a lady who is responsive, affectionate, easy-going, and devoted.
Here are a few ideas describing the woman that Scorpio man feels impressed most:
- Be submissive and let him express his opinions naturally.
- Don’t try to make him jealous
- Be patient and perseverant to him – he doesn’t like women who are too intense with his angry outbursts
- Have a high sex drive
- Always be devoted and understandable
- Pamper and care for his feelings
Scorpio man is believed to have a great compatibility rate with Scorpio woman as well as Pisces woman.
What a Scorpio Man Wants to Hear in Love?
Some find it hard to make a Scorpio man happy due to his mysterious, intuitive, and distant nature. However, if you understand his personality better, you will realize that pampering his heart is not really difficult.
He can’t handle well with criticism; thus, pay attention to what you say to him because this guy loves to hear nice things.
Here are a few things to remember about what your Scorpio loves to hear:
1. Compliment him
It would be hard for a Scorpio to resist any compliment from the woman he loves.
He has a big ego, so a good way to boost his confidence is to shower him with sincere compliments. Praise him for his charming looks, his attractive fashion sense, his fascinating personality, or his dedication for work.
2. Discuss about your dreams
What makes a Scorpio crave for you is you opening up about your achievements in life. He can’t help but getting drawn into women with intelligence and strong will to accomplish goals he has planned before.
Have more deep, intellectual conversations with this guy – this is the chance you can let him get to know all about you better.
Also, he would love to talk about family and friends as well as discuss about fun adventures.
More topics to captivate the heart of a Scorpio!
Recognizing Signs Scorpio Man Using You
Are you afraid that your Scorpio man is just using you for all the time?
Check out following signs to find out exactly if he just messes around with you or he is really into you:
1. He talks about sex a lot
If he’s diving into bed as soon as seeing you, this is the first sign he doesn’t want a serious relationship. It seems like he just talks about sex whenever around you…guess what? He is just using you without any thought of forming a deeply bonding romance with you.
2. He doesn’t open up
It takes a Scorpio man a long time to open because he typically doesn’t feel safe or secure in a relationship.
In case you’re dating the Scorpio male for months but he refuses to talk about his personal things with you, then keep in mind he may not really into you. Since he has no care or trust in you, it’s better to walk away.
3. When a Scorpio man wants you back…
You can tell right away if this guy wants you return by his side.
Scorpio man will make the whole situation is like a coincidence; however, he is creating his own opportunities to encounter you again and again. Don’t be surprised if you find yourself bumped into the Scorpio-ex most of the time; in addition, he already follows you back on social media and also interacts with everything you post.
Overall, becoming obsessively devoted to you is a sign Scorpio man wants to come back to you, gals.
In a Nutshell
Be ready for an intense ride once you are in a relationship with a Scorpio man.
In love, he is fiercely loyalty and devoted but also expects from you the same things. Determined and romantic, the moment he has his eyes on you, he can’t help showering you with lots of affections for a successful chase.
Peter Risdon knows it can be difficult to figure out the mind of this mysterious person; that’s why I’ve offered the list of 10 obvious signs letting you recognize how a Scorpio man expresses his feelings towards someone.
What do you think about the topic here?
Does your Scorpio man show you he likes you in these ways?
Tell Peter Risdon in the comment!
I met this scorpio man on a dating app he started the convo saying “Hi you look so cute, I love you” throughout the conversation he sounds like he’s interested in me, then we exchanged number. On what apps he has been straight forward that he’s looking for a girlfriend/wife and told me that he loves me, want my selfies we even haven’t met in person we planned to meet up. When we met up for lunch he grabbed and held my hands. He didn’t ask me ” Can you be my girlfriend” then after lunch we went to the beach and make out in the car then to the hotel. That night he texted me that he loves me so much we were all good then 3 days later he sends me an inappropriate picture I was shocked. I asked him “ain’t you suppose to be at work or are you thinking about sex during work” then he just pulls away. So is the whole time he just wants to have fun or were he was thinking to be in a committed relationship?
Dear KW,
You two haven’t met for a long time, so at this point I think this guy just want to play around. A Scoprio will be very serious if truly in love, so hope you can make the right decision.
Sincere!
But he mentions about meeting my parents, go on holiday and have a family together etc.
Dear KW,
Most Sagittarius men are the commitment phobic of the zodiac, so it may take him a long time to agree to be in a committed relationship. Well, these guys are known for promising a lot but barely accomplising things.
Sincere!
I’m a Capricorn and he is my classmate. He is very mysterious so I was intrigued. He likes to flirt with me because he knows how much I don’t like flirty guys- he just wants to annoy me. But somehow I used to it and find it funny, and actually hooked over.
Then he started to be sensitive, and emotional. At first it was confusing for me. But he always make it clear if he needs time. At first it was a bit frustrating, I don’t know what I’ve done wrong to be left several days. But he always come back, more rational than before. Which then makes me glad to leave him one or two days so he could have better mind
He is the cutest. Really. But he never said he loves me or anything. And I don’t mind. I just like his company as he is very sweet. I don’t know he loves me or not. He doesn’t really shows much signs as you stated, but what I know he spends time with me more than with other classmates. He become very sensitive and shows me side that he doesn’t show to others. He is very different when it’s only two of us and when in front of people. In public we’re just strangers while when it just both of us he teased me a lot, having fun making me blush, being so childish and demand some pampering from me.
It was fun and I spoiled him a lot, doting him and he loved it. Until yesterday he texted me wants me to dote on him and I said I cannot bcz I have things to do. Then he was quiet.. and late night he asked if he can call me (which is not usual). I said yes. Through the phone, he said he don’t want to have any relationship with me because he doesn’t want to commit on anything. He said sorry for giving me hopes and everything. I’m sure he was enjoying our relationship but well Idk what’s going on in his mind. As I don’t want him to feel bad I said I don’t expect anything from him and we aren’t couple or what so we should just brush it off. Being Capricorn, I’m quite detached. He said we should just be normal classmate.
Idk, it was confusing but if that what he wants then I don’t want to demand anything. I would love to call him mine but I don’t want to force him or anything. Now I wonder if I should chase him or just let it go. Because I’m pretty sure he likes me.
For now I just give him time and I decided not to contact him until he did. What do you think?
Dear Caprixiii,
I think you did the right thing, dear. Just give him time to reload all of his thoughts because this guy is so on and off. Focus your attention on other things instead of the Scorpio…if he feels that you no longer care about him, he will make his move.
Sincere!
Hi Rolland
Im a Cancer Woman and this Scorpio guys just make me confused and tired . first time we met , it was all fire , long chats , Video calling , compliments and long late night calls. And all of a sudden he went quiet I tried pulling him back until i gave up and reserved his space because i truly loved him. He came back 2nd time and kinda expressed how he felt and gain disappeared with no fight or argument . Now recently he came back telling me that he ,misses me alot , but feels its too soon for us , he is protecting me from a bombardment love , crippling love and also addictive love, plus he does not like long distance relationship
Dear Mathapelo,
When dating a Scorpio, you have to accept the fact that he will be frequently distant from you in certain times. It’s not that he gets bored; in fact, he needs his own space allowing him to think and refresh his mind. Don’t worry too much! Whenever he ignores you, just leave him alone and rather doing your own things – he will come back soon when his mind is cleared.
Sincere!
So my situation is a little complicated so please bear with me. I was married but the relationship was dead for the last 2 years of it. We had lots of issues which I won’t delve into. I met a scorpio guy who immediately sparked something. I couldn’t stop thinking about it. I was separated when I started talking to him. He talked to me everyday at one point and even invited me out once and paid the tab. He would always compliment, flirt, and ask me questions about myself. He would ask for pics constantly and I would send him pics of me (nothing sexual). He always said I was just a friend so I admitted my feelings at one point and told him to stay away from me. He didn’t talk to me for 2 days then completely freaked out on me and said he likes me and that he didnt want anything until I was legally divorced. I agreed and told him to press pause until I did that. Then he said suddenly he never liked someone enough to be serious with which included me. I gave up on him at that point. We didnt talk and then my parents pressured me to get back with hubby and I was back and suddenly that guy messaged me 3 days in a row and I told him straight up “sorry cant talk anymore I have decided to get back with my hubby” which he just said good luck. I still saw this guy constantly at places I went to and avoided him like all hell all while being in the shitty marriage. He would stare at me and be in front of where I sat with my friends. I was secretly super super into him and trying to forget. 3 months of being with psycho hubby and we got divorced. After sorting out my mess, I talked to that guy again except this time he said he doesnt like me like that and no girl ever made him fall for her. He always sends me greeting in morning and is always checking up how I’m feeling. He gives me freebies at his work and was smiling and staring at me hardbody when he saw then he avoids me suddenly next day. He messages me daily but never asks me to hang. I have never felt like this before but hes so hot and cold. Should I just give up hope and distance myself or wait it out because he is mad at me still maybe for returning to my ex instead of him in past? He is also very charming and a player in his past so am I just getting played?
I also want to add everytime I went to bathroom at the places he would go right after me each time so that he would pass by and stare at me but in this brooding weird way and I would awkwardly smile.
Dear Rayray,
I feel that your feelings are unsafe when around the Scorpio man; additionally, he doesn’t display certain emotions to you – just on and off constantly. If you truly like him and want to start a new relationship, then take your time to observe him a bit more. But I advise you to move on and meet someone who won’t make you confused about your feelings all the time.
Good luck!
I am a Cancer woman who feels like my new Scorpio male friend is “locked” on me.
Our first meeting he locked eyes with me for about 7 seconds and I felt something I never felt before. For once in my life I didn’t know what to do.
After talking with him on the phone I realized he is a scorpio.
He has expressed numerous times he is attracted to me and seems hyperfocused on me. While I find it a bit scary I am VERY attracted to all of this.
I have been my complete self with him and feel we are going to have a great relationship.
Dear Rebecca,
Thanks for sharing your story!
Being in a relationship with a Scorpio is something extraordinary because he is passionate, loving, and loyal to the deepest.
Sincere!