How do you know when a Scorpio man is falling in love with you?
According to Peter Risdon, based on different traits of 12 zodiac signs, every man has a unique way to express his inner feelings towards the woman he loves.
Of course the Scorpio male is not an exception.
The problem is – reading what is going on in a Scorpio’s head is a difficult task because of his mysterious persona.
Fortunately, this guy does show a variety of love signals when falling for someone.
They do not mean a lot if you analyze separately; however, when all are put together, the whole combination is a good indication telling he is truly interested in you.
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So, here are 10 signs a Scorpio man is falling in love to look for basically.
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How to Tell If a Scorpio Man Likes You?
Firstly, if you get tired of guessing what your Scorpio love interest thinks about you, then you’ve come to the right place.
In the following, I’m going to give you some hints allowing you to recognize exactly his intentions and feelings. The Peter Risdon also comes with the guide assisting you in reading Scorpio man quickly with ease.
Alright, keep track of 10 signs of Scorpio man in love with you.
#1: He hides his feelings for you at first
Many often ask me whether or not the Scorpio male is flirty.
The truth is; this guy is misunderstood a lot – women often characterize him as a flirtatious from the first glance. However, things he displays on the surface are just small parts of his story.
Scorpio men are often packed with self-confidence; thus, he is not afraid of exhibiting his lust and flirtatious behavior. Yet, when it comes to expressing his emotions in a true love, he instantly becomes self-guarded. He will act distant and not open his heart until he is certain about your feelings towards him.
#2: He wants to be with you most of the time
When Scorpio man loves you, he is very excited with the fact he can be with you whenever he wants. By spending his precious time on you, he will get a chance of understanding you better from all different aspects.
Since your love interest is cautious in love and hard to fall for someone, all you must do is to gain his trust as well as give him a period to determine his feelings inside.
Always let him know that you have his back, and he will not hesitate to choose you as the woman he wants to commit in return.
#3: He tests you
It’s hard to know what exactly attracts Scorpio men in love.
Influenced by Scorpio male love traits, it’s pretty difficult for him to fall for someone at first sight. In fact, he requires a long time to decide whether or not you are worth his investment. During this time, he will intentionally give you subtle tests for an in-depth understanding about your behavior.
Since this man is kind towards people, he would love to see the way to interact and treat others around you.
My advice here is to display your acts of kindness constantly!
#4: He pays more attention to everything you say
If your Scorpio man shows this love sign, he’s obssessed with you already.
The next signal is – you must take notice and see if he expresses the excitement in what you are saying. Curious in nature, he can’t help but craving to know you better; that explains why he seems to be very attentive when having the communication with you.
What I like most about the Scorpio male is: he puts all of his focus strongly on you.
If you feel like your Scorpio is genuinely listening to what you say and gives you his complete attention, 100% the possibility is that he likes you.
#5: He is open up more with you
Similar to Capricorn man, men born under Scorpio horoscope sign are insecure; hence, don’t be surprised if you find your love interest is quite guarded over his feelings.
The only way for this man to open his heart is gaining his trust, completely. He will put down all the fences around him once getting provided enough security. The moment he is into you from head to toes, he may say something that you’ve never heard before and cannot imagine as well.
Never share his innermost secrets to others.
He expects his partner not to take his trust lightly. Of course this guy will not come back if his trust is betrayed terribly.
#6: He displays the jealousy
Is Scorpio man jealous?
Due to his intensely emotional nature, it’s understandable if the Scorpio male gets jealous sometimes. Although he tries his best not to show it, you can tell when he feels envious with ease.
In case you want to gain his attention, don’t think of making him feel jealous.
Playing games is an unwise move to attract a Scorpio. Why? If you do not take love seriously, he will start perceiving you as an untrustworthy, manipulative woman. Nonetheless, if you notice some small jealousy signs from him, this means he finds you attractive and worth a chase.
#7: He seems to be very possessive
All zodiac signs have both positive and negative traits.
In case of Scorpio man, possessiveness is seen as one of his prominent negative qualities, especially if he doesn’t want to learn to control it.
Yet, at the initial stage of a relationship, he appears possessive could be a sign telling that you means a lot to him. Also check other Scorpio man in love signs now!
#8: He is protective of you
Of all astrology signs, Scorpio is gifted with a very strong instinct to protect the people he loves. So, how does a Scorpio man act when he likes you? He, most of the time, will stand up for you and take a good care of you.
If you see him behave or act in a way too over protective of you, then it is a sure sign he also has a crush on you strongly.
#9: He wants a mutual connection
This Scorpio man will ask you a lot of question about almost everything as he wants to learn carefully about you as well as to find out if you two share anything in common. Especially if he likes you, he’s curious to know whether or not your feelings and his are mutual.
Don’t ignore making more in-depth conversations with this guy so that both of you can develop a strong connection.
#10: He makes you feel special
Although it takes him a long time to fall in love, not many women know that he is extremely emotional, passionate, and romantic when around his loved one.
If you are lucky to be in a relationship with a Scorpio, be prepared as he will shower you with his affections. This is the man of action; therefore, he usually expresses his affections emotionally and physically to make you feel special.
For instance, he will constantly compliment you, help you do things, and even buy you gifts based on your interests.
As he is a deep person in love, he will try hard to become an important partner to you.
When a Scorpio Man is in a Hunt…
Is it easy to spot a Scorpio male chasing you?
Personally, I think it’s quite obvious when a guy of Scorpio sign likes you. He is quite forward when being after someone. At first, he may feel a bit hard to fall in love due to the fear of rejection; however, he will show his interest partially as well as availability if truly having feelings for you.
A mature Scorpio man is extremely loyal in love.
He can go through all ups and downs just to be with the person he is into. No matter what happens, he will be devoted. This guy is never the type giving up so quickly because of his stubbornness.
Don’t try to force a young, immature Scorpio to make the commitment as he is simply not ready to settle.
What Type of Woman Does Scorpio Man Like?
Born under a very powerful sign in the zodiac, the Scorpio male usually plays the leader or domination role as well in most aspects of his life.
How about himself in a love romance?
When it comes to love relationship, this man is quite intense just like his symbol – the Scorpion; therefore, women getting involved with him find it unable to handle his personality sometimes.
In case you are thinking of a hookup with a Scorpio man, then the key is that you must be compatible with his personality traits. He easily gets attracted to a lady who is responsive, affectionate, easy-going, and devoted.
Here are a few ideas describing the woman that Scorpio man feels impressed most:
- Be submissive and let him express his opinions naturally.
- Don’t try to make him jealous
- Be patient and perseverant to him – he doesn’t like women who are too intense with his angry outbursts
- Have a high sex drive
- Always be devoted and understandable
- Pamper and care for his feelings
Scorpio man is believed to have a great compatibility rate with Scorpio woman as well as Pisces woman.
What a Scorpio Man Wants to Hear in Love?
Some find it hard to make a Scorpio man happy due to his mysterious, intuitive, and distant nature. However, if you understand his personality better, you will realize that pampering his heart is not really difficult.
He can’t handle well with criticism; thus, pay attention to what you say to him because this guy loves to hear nice things.
Here are a few things to remember about what your Scorpio loves to hear:
1. Compliment him
It would be hard for a Scorpio to resist any compliment from the woman he loves.
He has a big ego, so a good way to boost his confidence is to shower him with sincere compliments. Praise him for his charming looks, his attractive fashion sense, his fascinating personality, or his dedication for work.
2. Discuss about your dreams
What makes a Scorpio crave for you is you opening up about your achievements in life. He can’t help but getting drawn into women with intelligence and strong will to accomplish goals he has planned before.
Have more deep, intellectual conversations with this guy – this is the chance you can let him get to know all about you better.
Also, he would love to talk about family and friends as well as discuss about fun adventures.
More topics to captivate the heart of a Scorpio!
Recognizing Signs Scorpio Man Using You
Are you afraid that your Scorpio man is just using you for all the time?
Check out following signs to find out exactly if he just messes around with you or he is really into you:
1. He talks about sex a lot
If he’s diving into bed as soon as seeing you, this is the first sign he doesn’t want a serious relationship. It seems like he just talks about sex whenever around you…guess what? He is just using you without any thought of forming a deeply bonding romance with you.
2. He doesn’t open up
It takes a Scorpio man a long time to open because he typically doesn’t feel safe or secure in a relationship.
In case you’re dating the Scorpio male for months but he refuses to talk about his personal things with you, then keep in mind he may not really into you. Since he has no care or trust in you, it’s better to walk away.
3. When a Scorpio man wants you back…
You can tell right away if this guy wants you return by his side.
Scorpio man will make the whole situation is like a coincidence; however, he is creating his own opportunities to encounter you again and again. Don’t be surprised if you find yourself bumped into the Scorpio-ex most of the time; in addition, he already follows you back on social media and also interacts with everything you post.
Overall, becoming obsessively devoted to you is a sign Scorpio man wants to come back to you, gals.
In a Nutshell
Be ready for an intense ride once you are in a relationship with a Scorpio man.
In love, he is fiercely loyalty and devoted but also expects from you the same things. Determined and romantic, the moment he has his eyes on you, he can’t help showering you with lots of affections for a successful chase.
Peter Risdon knows it can be difficult to figure out the mind of this mysterious person; that’s why I’ve offered the list of 10 obvious signs letting you recognize how a Scorpio man expresses his feelings towards someone.
What do you think about the topic here?
Does your Scorpio man show you he likes you in these ways?
Tell Peter Risdon in the comment!
First of all, thank you so much Rolland for your article and sorry my english isn´t as perfect as yours due i´m not a native 😉 I could really discover what you described between the scorpion guy and me. I´m an aquarius and although i read a lot about the problems of compatibility of those two signs, i´m very in to this scorpion guy. But since some days nothing is how it was. We met 3 month ago and we had such a wild, intense and emotional “clash” I never experienced that before. Suddenly 1 month ago he started to go in distance from me. I asked him what is happening, if he lost interest or want to have his space. He said he gave everything last year to someone who hurted him and now he is empty. He said it isn´t about loosing interest or space. So i accepted, didn´t force and expect anything and also went a bit distant, just to give him some space and time. And then something really stupid happened. I shared a picture from a flower I captured with a lot of effort with him. I sent it to him. For me this flower represents love and greatness and I wanted to share this with him. One day later I found the picture of the flower I sent to him on a post of his facebook page and it hit me. After my descovery I did something very stupid: I texted him, he should have asked me before he posted this photo. And i will think twice before I share something like that with him again. That was a big mistake, because i already realise it isn´t worth it to give so much attention to this flower. How did he react? He got really pissed of and told me he can do want he wants with the pictures he has on his device and i´m creating a drama of nothing and he totally don´t understand. Through his reaction i realised i did a big mistake and even this messages got totally a stronger meaning that I actually felt before. I apologized, but he just keep ignoring me or sending me really hurting messages like i´m a big child and i won´t hear from him again. This action from me showed him how i am and so on and this isn´t for him. I just feel like I lost him and he turned his back to me without even looking back. It is a kick in my face and in my heart and i know i did shit, but in the same i should let it go and if he really doesn´t accept any sorry from me and doesn´t want to see me again, he isn´t really marture enough. Because, how can someone take this so back after I told him, that i´m sorry and saying i´m not mad about this topic anymore. What is your opinion about that and what would you suggest to do now? I think i just should let him.
Dear Elena,
Scorpio men are very sensitive creatures, and it hurts them to the core if being criticized by the one they love. Also, the way your Scorpio reacts is a bit strong because he is a Scorpio – the sign that can take revenge on you once betrayed.
So, take this with sympathy and give him time to chill out his mind…don’t force anything; if you don’t have enough patience, then just let him go because he can disappear for a long time.
Sincere!
Sorry i meant: How can even a scorpio take this so badly? I might hurted him although he said he isn’t wasting one second of his life to think about this. His reactions hit me strong, but in the same time i’m learning to listen deep to myself: Do i want this dramas in my life? Even we don’t have a relationship this example shows a lot. I read some books of Anna Kovachs and it is helping me to understand him better. Still it is going against my nature also and i know i do deserve someone who is understanding me. I know i might hurted him and scorpios hate if you tell them what to do, but he could have also tried to understand my sight, no? All that is really confusing and making me hard to get my daily work done.
Hello Pisces woman here, just met a Scorpio man a few weeks ago. I ignored him at first due to our age difference (he’s waaayyy younger). Anyways, our initial conversation and connection was magnetic and has been since. We both have trust issues and are both afraid to let our guards down, but he asks me to let him in and vice versa!! We video chat and text everyday, text messages are sweet and a lot of the time, explicit. He at times gets silent, then I get silent, then he comes chasing after me but says he’s not going to chase a woman hahaha. Bottom line is we’re both going through a divorce and are vulnerable, I think we’re both afraid of becoming the others crutch. However, he expresses that we need to meet in person to make sure it’s real…but I’m afraid because of the age gap (13 years). What if all we have is a crazy sexual chemistry and all the emotional shit goes out the window?? What if one of us falls in love and the other doesn’t? What if the connection is a magnetic force field? I don’t think I would know how to deal with the age issue. The craziest part is he’s doing things that men in their late 30’s haven’t even achieved.
Dear Chris,
It’s understandable that you’re confusing with this relationship, and your trust issues make it harder. But how can you know the relationship will not work if you don’t even try? If you feel something right with this man, then don’t hesitate to make a date with him. Maybe a deep conversation will help you change your mind, and don’t focus too much on the age gap – it’s just a number at the end.
Good luck!
The Scorpio man said when I was talking about someone else he was messing and saying he knows the guy he will have a selfie with him I said don’t say that he said you know I don’t give a flying fuck Confusing
Hi I’m a Taurus and I’ve been seeing a Scorpio for almost a year now. I feel a great connection with him and he makes me feel comfortable around him. However, he is very confusing. He has deleted me from social media, added me back, and deleted again, etc. He has pushed me away saying we should just be friends, that he’s very busy and uses his excuse of working out of town all the time (which he does) saying he’s concerned I won’t like how much he’s gone (his past gf didn’t like how much he was gone). However when he is home he always ends up hanging out at the places he knows I will be and puts himself in with my friend group that he knows I’ll be with. He has told all his friends about me. We always end up spending time together when he is home. When he’s drinking he will sometimes tell me he loves me and he also opens up a lot more, but then pushes me away the next day. In public he won’t even talk to me. When I ask him about this he tells me I don’t come up to him either, yet when I do he seems nervous or stand offish. He keeps tabs on me while he’s gone, gets jealous of my guy friends and says I don’t try enough. Yet when I do make the effort to try more he pushes me away and says we should just be friends. He will talk about a future with me one day and the next he’s rude. This past weekend he was home and we spent time together every day, but then said we need to stop talking because he’s busy and even though I’m a nice girl and all he doesn’t see us going anywhere and he’s moving forward. I feel like there is something going on and I tried talking to him about it but he won’t open up completely. Before he left for work he told me I could come visit him and things were great, but I don’t talk to him as much now that he’s gone. Im not sure if I should move on or give him space? Is he interested or just using me?
Dear Brooke,
He does have feelings for you, but partially he doesn’t want to admit his feelings yet – maybe it’s because of his trusting issues. This guy is very insecure and secretive about his inner emotions; that’s why you find him not open up to you completely. The best way to make him feel confident about this relationship is to win his trust. Prove your love to him and provide him the complete security he always looks for.
Give him his personal space and time to think about things between you and him.
Sincere!