You get attracted by Sagittarius man?
Guys born under the Sagittarius zodiac sign have the symbol of the archer centaur. As their sign stands for freedom, passion, and adventure, they are very charming, intelligent, outspoken, and always in the quest to do something adventurous and exciting.
If you are thinking of capturing a free-spirited archer, things are a bit complicated.
Don’t know how to make a Sagittarius man obsessed with you?
Relax!
Follow the tips below to know how to catch his attention and make yourself irresistible to him. In addition to that, you can get a brief insight into the nature, likes and dislikes of a Sagittarius male.
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5 Tips to Seduce a Sagittarius Man Romantically
1. Look your best at all times
The first thing you must keep in mind when planning to steal the heart of a Sagittarius is to take care of your appearance.
This guy feels drawn into ladies who look fabulous, obviously. His heart will get fluttered when seeing a woman who dresses well and sexy naturally without trying too hard or wearing revealing clothes.
Put on items that play up your best features, wear a makeup and do a hairstyle that bring only the perfection and level up your confidence. Whatever it is, make sure he notices.
Never show your timidity in your appearance and personality.
To a Sagittarius man, a woman who is confident in herself is a thousand times sexier than those keep fidgeting with their looks.
2. Come up with fun, adventurous dates
The art of seducing Sagittarius male is to make him want to chase you.
In order to get the archer chases you, you need to know and keep up with his preferences. If you are a conventional woman who just wants to enjoy traditional dinners in a candlelit room when dating, then the man with Sagittarius soul is not for you.
Due to his personality traits, he is easily bored.
Free-spirited, he always craves for thrilling, unexpected adventures. If you are as bold as him, don’t miss a fantastic opportunity to show him your fun side.
This person wants to stay fresh and excited in life; thus, he’ll appreciate if you can frequently come up with new date ideas, such as bowling, joining in dance classes, or other risky activities.
Be his little pleasure in bed and he simply can’t leave you alone.
You may also want to check signs a Sagittarius man likes you!
3. Think positive
This is a guy that can talk about his unlucky moments or failures in life with a broad grin.
For women who are trying to make a Sagittarius male obsessed with, you must keep in mind that he doesn’t like the idea of gloomy talks, negative thinking, or dwelling on a problem with uncomfortable feelings.
Of course his bright personality sometimes makes people think that he tends to run from his issues; however, he in fact always keeps a light side of life in mind.
Try to make him fall in love with you in happier ways.
Show him that you’re still able to handle the difficulty in every situation without whining a word. Be as positive as him and you can start your journey with the archer with plenty of common things.
The key of keeping a Sagittarius man interested is to keep him out of any kind of drama.
4. Respect his freedom
When a Sagittarius man is mad at you, the reason is definitely something related to his freedom.
You already know how spontaneous and adventurous the archer centaur is, and of course he can be like that only if having the freedom. Please note that one of the best ways to turn OFF a Sagittarius is to make him feel like he is trapped.
What a Sagittarius male likely does if he likes you? The answer is he would want to spend lots of times with you in love; nonetheless, respect his privacy whenever he has to reconnect himself.
The thing he hates the most from a woman is being clingy.
As a freedom-loving person, he cannot handle the fact that he cannot be free. Therefore, instead of being around him most of the time, it’s much better for you to also enjoy your freedom.
5. Discuss big issues with him
Sagittarius man really loves having fun and lives a fullest life, but he also craves to figure out the truth about everything surrounding him.
One of great ways to connect with him is to ask him anything interesting – it could be about a movie, a piece of art, philosophy, or even the meaning of life. He would love to share his curiosity and thought with the woman he likes.
Listen attentively and keep an open mind with what you two have discussed together.
He will immediately impress if you enable to show him the way you see things from different perspectives and you are not close-minded at all.
To become his soulmate, you have to work a lot.
5. Be honest to him
Dishonesty is the reason why Sagittarius man gets hurt in love.
Hence, be real to keep him be your side for a long term.
This guy is so driven to find the truth, so he cannot accept any form of dishonesty. Once you can fulfill him the same honesty and truth he expected from you, things between you two will be over.
When dating with him, keep in mind that he is much direct and forthright up to the point that he can blur out a secret without even realizing that. He is so honest that what he says probably makes people feel upset.
Don’t mind point out the problem to him and he will apology instantly.
Try your best to become more open and earnest with your Sagittarius man. Remember that trust is the foundation of ensuring the relationship lasts. Let him know his investment in you is never a wrong move.
Completely trusting you is also one of signs the archer likes you!
Summary
Will the archer chase you?
You must earn a success in making him obsessed with you firstly.
Truth, love and fun are all ways of winning over a Sagittarius man!
The moment you already conquer his heart, be assured and let him do the rest. He will make sure you are the queen from the bottom of his heart. As soon as a Sagittarius is certain about his feelings for somebody, there will be no way back – it is only his love and care unconditionally.
Via this video, I offer you 5 simple steps of making a Sagittarius love you:
All the guidelines in this article will help you attract your Sagittarius love interest.
Most importantly, never think of changing yourself for somebody, because if Sagittarius man loves you, it’s your true self making him accept you.
Hello, I’m a cancer dating a Sagittarius man and we’ve been dating for 7 months now. This has been the longest 7 months ever, and have had some good times as well as bad times. I know nobody is perfect, but he has broken my trust due to lying several times and trying to make it seem as if certain girls were only friends, but seemed as otherwise or as if they wanted to pursue him in other ways. He occasionally had a history of flirting with these “friends”. I have broken up with him every time i found out he was lying or appeared to be cheating and he’s always came back begging and asking for another chance and on how he will change. When I was ready to try again he would block any of the girls I had worry about if I wanted him to with no hesitation. Sometimes i would bring up old things to reasons why i don’t trust him or certain situations in general. In the beginning i trusted his word and wasn’t insecure about any friends because i had friends too until he ruined it. I tell him i will never trust him like i did in the beginning because he broke that and lied too many times when i’ve only asked for the truth. Now since we tried it again from the last breakup due to arguing and me not trusting him, it’s been good. He haven’t been doing anything, we both now have access to each others phones if we ever do want to check it whenever, communication has improved so much instead of just shutting down and not talking it out correctly. I often still have moments to where i question him, but i think its just due to our past that still plays in my head. I know he loves me because of his actions and drive behind me, I just wonder and worry if he will ever hurt me again. I probably should stop thinking horribly and just let things happen how it will and be positive while things are good. He tells me things upfront now without me having to ask, and haven’t been lying to me about things I question him so he’s kind of been slowly earning a little trust…just a little. I will continue to have my guard up and not get too comfortable as well. He just graduated college and i am now a senior in college, so we still have a lot of time on our hands. I would like to know your thoughts on my relationship and how to stay on good track with him.
Hi dear,
If you want your relationship to be strong:
-Tell the truth. No exceptions. No white lies. No “protecting” which really means messing with someone else’s reality. Nothing will undermine your relationships more thoroughly than people feeling you can’t be trusted.
-Don’t take things personally. How people react depends on many variables that have nothing to do with you. This mental adjustment will reduce emotional volatility: compassion, understanding and patience are easier to come by when you are not standing in the middle of an avoidable argument feeling hurt or insulted.
-Communicate clearly so others don’t have to read your mind for you to get what you want. “Why oh why doesn’t he ever bring me flowers?” can usually be preempted with “honey, I love flowers. Can you pretty please bring an arrangement home once a month?”
-Notice when you are comparing who someone is with who you expect him to be. People are who they already are and neither can nor should be a match to your fantasies. Not to mention, getting to know someone in all their complexity is so much more interesting.
-Ask instead of guessing or assuming. Guessing or assuming lead to an infinite amount of misunderstandings, many of which are not even detectable, like termites in the foundation of your house. Eliminate invisible disappointments by using words instead of jumping to conclusions.
Most importantly, if you don’t love yourself it’s hard to believe others can possibly care about you. As such, a healthy relationship is an inside job.
Sincere!
Hello, I’m an aries female…I fell in love with a Sagittarius man sometime ago, but he already had a girlfriend…it went on for some months, after being embarrassed and threatened by the lady, I decided to let him go… I have undergone so much relationship failures since then, which finally led me to being a single mom…Now, he came back, and claims to have broken up with his girlfriend… I’m not sure what his intentions are…deep down inside of me, I really love him, but I feel it’s too late… please help me, I’m confused and also do not want to get hurt again.
Hi dear,
Holding onto past is the most meaningless thing in my opinion. You do not forget the past as it is part of your life, and honestly it is very important you try to remember what you learn from the past, from every relationship. But do not linger on it. Everything happens in life for a reason. A relationship also ends for a reason.
Heartbreaks hurt a lot and it is very difficult to go through the emtional trauma again.Believe in long term relationships and try to nurture them. Take your decsions wisely.All the best.
Sincere!
Hi,
I’m a virgo woman who is extremely interested in a Sagittarius man (and he is too). Now, I know that the signs do not run our life, but I can’t help but worry that I am not going to be exciting enough for him. I’m a big adventure person, but I’ve never met someone more on the go than him. This doesn’t bother me, but I’m afraid that he is going to realize I may not always be on the same speed and then lose interest. I also am much more of a realist than him, and sometimes I think it may bring him down. I try my best to keep these thoughts to myself and look on his side though. I really enjoy the personality and outlook on life that I get from a person like him, and I really don’t want to lose it! It’s not that I am not myself with him, but I am a curious and malleable person, so I enjoy being shown new ways to live and think. But do you think that he may realize that I am not naturally this way, and wonder if I am maybe not worth his time?
Hi Jane,
Virgo and Sagittarius are opposites attract because they have maybe 50% easy going commonality and 50% conflicting differences. you need the commonalty to keep you together and the differences to develop growth. too easy and it’s boring. too hard and you split up.
its not a combination that inspires passion, but it could be really good for personal evolution.development if it stays together. hell, it might not be easy to break a square like this up as both people may feel/be obligated to the relationship.
if you have a lot of conflicts and can live enough life without dying then all those challenges can turn into some really amazing benefits. if life is super easy in the beginning, though, it may just get tougher and tougher and the individual may never really enjoy the end of their life of experience or even learn from their life. everything changes from one polarity to another and generally we all have multiple polarities going in different directions throughout life.
Sincere
I went on two dates with a Sagittarius Ox (I’m an Aries Pig) almost exactly one year ago. We clicked and laughed a lot; the conversation never let up. And he was quick to follow up with text about meeting up again. I would say that I have a lot going for myself as I‘m fairly attractive, I started a company and am somewhat of an expert in this area (that seemed to pique his interest) , I’ve been on the news. The problem is I hooked up (not all the way) with him on the second date which I feel is a no-no. We watched a movie and, he was definitely making all the moves. We texted back and forth a few times. He was the last to text to suggest we meet again after Thanksgiving. I never texted him back. I just felt like I blew it by hooking up with him right away so, “what’s the point?” Well, we recently connected on social media. After going through his pics, and profile I honestly think he might be the one for me. I had no idea he spent nearly every weekend with his family (As for I…); he is A sweet uncle to his niece. Just a homebody sag. With some travel photos. I’ve dated a dozen guys since him and haven’t met anyone I felt as strongly about. I want to text him to ask him if he wants to get ice cream sometime. I’m fully prepared for him to say no or blow me off, but I feel like I really want to shoot my shot. What’s the best way to ask him out? Should I? But will I just be throwing myself at him? Should I wait until he asks me out? I don’t think he would even if he wanted to since I was kind of the last one to snub him. I’m a single mom, and failed to tell him that before we hooked up. But I notice his sister is also a single mom and they look to be really close… another reason I regret writing him off. Should I contact him?
Hi dear,
It really all depends on what dating stage you guys are and your true feeling about him and this relationship. It also depends on the guy and what you want from him.
1. If you guys just start dating and haven’t make it official a relationship, then play cool and don’t text him constantly if he didn’t reach out first. If a guy is really interested in you, he doesn’t even have the patience to play cool, he will text you and ask you out again.
2. If you really really like him more than he likes you. Then it all depends on what you want from this. If you just enjoy his company, sex or whatever causal, then ,yes, text him and go for it. Just don’t get hurt though.
3. If you guys are together for a while and he is your boyfriend already, and you are still confused about a problem like this, break up with him. No one is irreplaceable in a relationship, you deserve someone who makes you feel great about yourself, feel secure, feel beautiful.
Sincere