Scorpio man is a kind of lover that all women wish to have in life.
He is very popular compared to guys from other zodiac sign. Due to his alluring energy, this man is simply just irresistible.
Calm and confident, the Scorpio male has the capacity of providing comfort to any woman around him. As he is attractive, it’s not a surprise when you find yourself fall in love with him.
If you think of conquering a Scorpio man’s heart, you must be ready for a huge challenge.
Please not that your love interest is competitive and seen as a natural born leader. If you are wondering whether or not showing off your knowledge and experience about life can gain his interest, the answer is: he will see you as one of his competitors.
How to make a Scorpio man obsessed with you? How to be his potential lover?
For the insight of getting the guy addicted to you, read through the article here.
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12 Tips for Becoming a Woman Scorpio Man Obsesses with…
#1: Be smart
When talking to a Scorpio man, it means you are talking to a highly intelligent person. Because of this quality, he tends to look for an intellect woman to be his partner. If you care much about your appearance than your mind, then you likely have no chance with this guy.
He has a great desire of discuss all big issues with his smart lady.
Talking about things you’re knowledgeable about is a wise move, but don’t try to look smarter than him. Actively engage in any topic that he brings up – this is a way to create a stronger connection with him.
#2: Flatter him
One of greatest ways to stroke his ego is to give your Scorpio love interest compliments sincerely. Don’t be too obvious! Just make sure you let him hear many good things about him, such as his looks, his clothes, etc.
He will appreciate if you complement him with a bit of mystery.
#3: Show your wild side
What does a Scorpio man want in a woman?
His high sexual drive makes him a fiery and passionate lover; thus, he can’t help but expecting his loved one can sexually arouse him. In order to make him obsessed with you, you’re advised to be as passionate as him.
How to turn on a Scorpio man sexually?
This guy is drawn into the lady able to fulfill all his sexual desire. Don’t be too stagnant or he will lose his interest in you.
#4: Play hard to get
He is the man of conquest; therefore, you should give him a little challenge by making him chase you. No matter how much you like him, do not let him know your feelings immediately.
Rather than revealing everything, it’s better to imply your attraction for him subtly – this somehow will stir his curiosity.
Since Scorpio man gets bored easily, do not make yourself always be available. Let him wait a couple of minutes whenever he calls or texts you. Play hard to get and he’ll surely be obsessed to you.
#5: Let him set the pace
Did I tell you that Scorpio male enjoys the chase?
You shouldn’t try to dominate when you and Scorpio are in a relationship. Take a step backwards and let him be in charge.
So, what is he likely to act in love? Not to dominate you, a Scorpio guy simply wants to be the one setting the pace. Very reliable, he often comes up with useful advice for almost anything. Let him know how he means to you but don’t make you look needy.
#6: Be confident
The key element to catch a Scorpio man’s attention is your confidence.
Aside from the intellect, you have to be a confident woman who is certain about what you want to do to get this guy addicted to you. Thanks to the natural characteristics of his zodiac sign, Scorpio has confidence written all over him.
When being with a Scorpio man in love, remember to give him only straightforward answers. He hates the lady unable to make her own decisions.
#7: Win his trust
If you want to capture the heart of this guy, then you must be truthful to him.
He finds it hard to fall in love quickly as he has to deal with trust issues; hence, honesty is something very important to a Scorpio man. Be sincere and honest in the relationship and he will see you with a more positive perspective.
He will soon recognize your value and eventually be obsessed with you. With his incredible intuition, he can easily figure out if you are lying to him.
Don’t lie to him or Scorpio man ignores you immediately!
#8: Be mysterious
One of signs a Scorpio man has feelings for you is that he craves to know everything about you. But, it would be an unwise move if you reveal everything about you at once. Like I said earlier, Scorpio loves the feeling of chasing his love interest. Of course he will get what he wants when chasing after something; thus, don’t make it simple for him.
This guy will get bored right away if he can achieve something easily. During the chase, you need to give him any worthwhile challenge. Display a sense of mysteriousness instead of being an opened book.
That’s how to make a Scorpio man obsessed with you.
#9: Show your sincerity
Another way to make Scorpio man want you truly is to show him how sincere you are.
Does your relationship come first? It doesn’t mean that you focus only on your partner and totally ignore other aspects of life. Actually, depending on situations, sometimes you should choose to put the relationship with your Scorpio above all else.
He will deeply appreciate if you make a homemade meal for him. It doesn’t have to be perfect because at least he knows you really care about him.
#10: Display your true beauty
Well, Scorpio man’s ideal woman is someone who not only has the looks but also is capable of showing off her magnetic personality. No matter how stunning or gorgeous you are, what really makes a Scorpio interested is your inner beauty.
Don’t try to look like others; instead, stay true to your authentic self and stick to your own style. Your uniqueness will spread and speak for itself, and this is exactly what will turn the Scorpio guy on.
As long as you can keep him excited and intrigued, he won’t be able to resist you.
#11: Don’t play games with him
When a Scorpio man wants you in his life, he will be very serious. This guy looks for a steady, long-term relationship; therefore, you shouldn’t play games with him. Sensitive and insecurity, he is not the type falling in love quickly. Never expect him to settle down unless you can gain his trust.
He wants to spend his whole life with the woman who is reliable and of course does not take him as a game. Be patient when reaching out on him because he probably won’t response you immediately.
Don’t back off at a glance and make sure you are always there for him!
#12: Don’t force anything
If you want to be with a Scorpio man, make sure to keep things as much private as possible. Why? He is a conservative person who doesn’t want to show love and affection in public. It’s better to keep it low – this guy prefers to express his feelings in somewhere without anyone but you and him.
Try to spend time with him so that you two can know about each other better; also, it’s a good idea to take him for a little adventure or fun activities together.
You shouldn’t be in a rush or force him to like you in return!
When a Scorpio Man Falls in Love…
His feelings:
How does a Scorpio man feel when he loves you?
Referring to this guy in love, it’s frustrated because you can’t really understand his complicated feelings. Just because he flirts with you or treats you kindly, it doesn’t mean he has something special for you. He seems a bit distant at first; however, he will come out straight when truly realizing his love to you.
Your Scorpio will speak up his feelings directly rather than bottling things up inside.
Wonder if he sees you as a friend or more than a friend? Learn to be patient and you’ll get the answer from him at the right time. There are many claims saying this man do not fall in love easily, but the truth is that he sometimes will be drawn into someone with an air of mystery right away.
His behaviors:
About the way Scorpio man acts when falling in love, the first unmistakable thing is that he will do everything for his woman. Just tell him what you want, and he will try his best to satisfy you and make you happy…sounds good, right?
Similar to Leo, the Scorpio male will become possessive when interested in someone.
I have to say that he is extremely jealous. Much like the spider which tends to weave a net around its prey, this guy wants you to belong to him only and him alone. In general, he won’t mind going to any length to make sure you are beside him forever.
Conclusion
In general, be mysterious and honest if you want to get a Scorpio man addicted to you and stick by your side for a long term. You can show him your love affection but in a subtle way.
Scorpio man is not interested in those who are indecisive. Keep in mind that you have to be truthful and straightforward when dating this guy.
All eight tips mentioned in this article will help you know how to become irresistible to the man of Scorpio soul. However, if you want to unlock his deep desire, then you have to gain clarity into his secret obsession in order to know what really makes him tick at a deep level.
Learn about Scorpio man will help you find the answer of what turns him on as well as handle his knowledge and power at times.
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For more info about Scorpio man, leave your comments below!
My scorpio crush and me are friends on social media for 4 years. Because we live in different countries we have not met yet. We had several conversations during this period but from the summer he initiated contact once again and opened up to me. We were texting daily but not 24/7 just one month. He is warm and respectful, ready to help me . He is planing to visit me in the following months and I am planning to visit him too. For recent months he seems to be distant but he apologized for not being attentive with me twice. I am confused now , is he really busy with other stuff or is he testing me ? What should I do ? I don’t want to initiate contact all the time even so he likes it 😉 I am a leo woman 😀 Thanks
Dear Mg,
Scorpios take relationships way more serious. And they usually never cheat and would have never got into a relationship if they weren’t serious. Scorpio guys can be both hot and cold. It is normal for scorpio guys to act distant. Most of the times they are very much responsive but sometimes they may disappear as if they never existed. And after sometime they would return and act as nothing happened. So whenever they act like this just give them their space and they will comeback because scorpios are naturally introverts and like taking a break from everyone. And don’t worry about your relationship, your guy would never cheat on you.
And sometimes they act as they are not interested, but deep down they are crying for attention. They won’t let you know that though. So its better to leave them alone and they will come back when they have finished all of their works.
Sincere
Me and my Scorp know only for few months. We have been together every weekend since (we live in different towns). He text or call every day. There has been times he has asked what we are (friends or more)? He tells that I’m not single anymore and we are couple now etc. things like this. But at same time he is cold and pulling me away sometimes. It’s super confusing. His work takes him soon to other country and he told he will miss me like hell. But if we are “couple “ as he said wouldn’t it be fixable then. I don’t want to annoy or bother him but sometimes I just cant understand him. He constantly asks if I would visit him in other countries. He tells all these things and then again doesn’t speak about it at all later. He even told once “I love you” before bed going to sleep in dark. I couldn’t react or didn’t know how to react.
Dear Vy,
Your Scorpio is distant because he needs to know whether he wishes to invest everything into you or whether he wants to draw away from you. If you have not done anything to make him distant don’t be afraid. He is trying to bring the balance back to himself. He’s most likely in love with you and wants to level himself emotionally and mentally because he needs to. If it continues to be this way let him know you notice his withdraw and tell him that you are willing to be there if he needs it. Don’t start a fight or act like he’s done something wrong by withdrawing. Don’t make him the problem. Just let him know that you see this in him and if he needs you you are there. That’s it. Give him time and this will draw him to confide in you because it shows you care without being demanding. It shows his feelings are safe with you.
Sincere!
He loves me, and he always say that to me, he even cried for me, and I love him very much, we have are own secret worlds in which we share together, though he can be secretive to me but he becomes honest then when I sensed he is hiding something to me and asks him about it. Whenever we’ve got quarrels, we talk about it and settle it, then he hugs me and kisses me then I do the same. And he trusts me. Well, I still need an advice though, what can you say about this?
Hi Maren,
Once Scorpio men fall in love, they dedicate everything to that person. Their love is deeper than the deepest ocean. They are very intense, yet fun loving and humorous. How they show love depends on the other person as to what they do. They need a lot of attention. If they get what they need, they will do everything to make that person feel loved.
Sincere
Me and this scorpio guy have been friends for almost like a year in social media. I kind of knocked him in msg first. We became kind of friends and also play games together online. I never met him in real life though. Idk if he likes me or not but he just replies to my stories like he is interested to know more about me. I am a sagittarius btw.
Hi Natia,
They’re masters at ignoring you when they’re obsessed with you. On the opposite end, they will “ice you out” and you may never even know what you’ve done. They’re anomalies and the best at mask wearing. But my experience says you will catch them staring at you. Smile back, let them keep it up. Because nobody chases the object of their desire like a Scorpio.
If you two haven’t met in person yet, then this Scorpio guy may ask you chit chat questions to get information out of you.
Sincere!
I met my scorpio man around an year ago. We are compatible physically, but emotionally we had lot of fights, cause he did not want a relationship, but he does care a lot as he says. After one year of ups and downs he still wants me to stay in his life. I dont know as he behaves cold and distant sometimes and close sometimes. He said he likes me , but now i dont know what to do to take this forward. He is stubborn on not wanting anything at the moment. I am unable to decipher him, should I move out of his life or do I stay and wait. Cause everytime I leave he gets really sad.
Help me
Hi dear,
a) Scorpio might be temporarily overtaken by some other obligations – they will contact you, apologize, if you are understanding or lighthearted in accepting the bond will become a tiny bit stronger for them. But if you had a real problem with it they will understand too. Just don’t be too clingy or aggressive or the real distancing will start.
b) They have overextended their mental energy (if introverts) and are close to a burnout, or are currently experiencing not so great emotions, internally they feel very guilty, and are definitely not forgotten about you, but don’t want anything bad to leak into your private time as they try to disguise it. Depending on the damage lengths of time may wary. Some stuff that might have been almost neglected may extend it. Give it some time, send a message that telegrams your current feelings about them maybe. In any disguise or fragmentation. Nothing to relationship planny or demanding, they might still be going through their process. But any kind of confirmation is nice, those people tend to live in their head a lot, then surface and wonder how much of it they made up and misinterpreted. Continue telling them stuff if you like. If you give one or occasional communication, big chance that they will contact you when ready (might take their sweet time otherwise or assume you are good as is), otherwise wait for sizable chunk and contact them.
c) Were they ever complaining about something? Maybe things didn’t gel well. Let him go, or try to go light on whatever that thing was, take a step back in a relationship and try to reestablish rapport. He might be wary at first, but your efforts will be noticed and appreciated.
d) Some Scorps prefer to get to know the person better first or gauge long term compatibility first because they have a hard time to let go. Well to be fair all do, thats how they fall in love instead of lust, so unless they find you very interesting be wary of Scorps who are fast to bed. But hey, they might have been getting to know you for a long time by sticking to the outskirts first if you met in shared space. Creep factor depends on an individual, perhaps they’ve just been seeing you around. Anyway… Some long term preferring scorps, and I stress some, might be skittish around labels before they are sure you are the one (or one that they may put that trust in, at least).
e) If you feel they might be mad at you and thats the reason, I suggest apologizing soon-ish. That way, when they finally deal with their immediate feelings they might start working at fixing stuff, or pick up from where you left off. Time is of the essence, if you are not someone they are related to, or really earned their trust (well… sometimes they give it upfront, but thats fragile and precious. Not the same), they would cut you out, start to detach, or be infuriatingly stubborn and selectively closed off after they’ve said they forgave you. In might be unconscious, but there might be some ‘tests’. Doing it earnestly, early on and without prompting might just earn you a clean slate. Well, still indicate that you are giving them space if they still need to calm down. Ironically, its alone time after + absence of real certainty that breeds all the hallmark nasty stuff, it also brings healing though, so its up to you or how evolved this scorpio is – what shape it takes after.
Sincere