He is definitely not a nice guy when trying to break off with you.
Are you suffering from the relationship with Scorpio man?
There’s one thing I should tell you about this guy: he can become a real jerk when he is done with you. Don’t be surprised if he treats you with an abrupt manner or says something rude to you.
No matter how serious you talk to him, he probably cuts off the conversation, suddenly yells or acts unruly without logic.
How to handle this guy?
Maybe you should consider leaving a Scorpio man alone in case he ignores you.
When his emotions take over, it’s difficult for him to handle things in a logical or reasonable way. If your Scorpio man senses that you’ve done anything terrible to him, he will be snippy and crappy.
So it’s better not to hurt him or you cannot live with him for a long term.
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When a Scorpio Man Ignores You…
Does Scorpio man stops communicating all of sudden?
Due to Scorpio personality traits, he is introspective and independent. In case he withdraws from you, it’s because he needs his own space to deal with his problems, stress, or workload.
Sometimes he’s also distant from you if he feels irritated with the current relationship. That’s when you’ll find him disappear for awhile (a few hours or even a few days) to clear his mind.
It may be not fair with you, but there’s no way to win your Scorpio partner back but to get to know and accept this trait of his. Well, this guy in love is complicated so it takes you much time to completely understand him.
If you’re unsure whether or not the Scorpio male is ignoring you, here are a few signs:
- He will avoid talking much to you as he normally does
- He will act distant and not open up his feelings with you
- He will get irritated whenever you show up around him
- He will stop doing any kind of physical contact with you, even holding hands or hugging
- He will say no to sex if feeling unhappy in love
When a Scorpio man feels the need to be alone, don’t interrupt him. Ignoring you doesn’t mean he’s no longer in love with you; thus, you shouldn’t take all of his withdrawals personally.
You should give him his alone time so that he can actually feel how important your presence to him.
If your Scorpio man is ignoring you, please do not ignore him back. Instead, you better remain patient because this guy will certainly return once he makes clear everything in his mind.
Why Scorpio Man Stops Communicating?
Scorpio man normally is attentive and responsive; however, he may become distant at times. Saying nothing, he just disappears and ignores all of your calls and messages – this often makes his partner worried.
Indeed, it’s normal for this guy to withdraw himself from his loved one.
As mentioned earlier, his disappearing acts will only be brought on the surface whenever he has to deal with his own matters, such as unhappiness, dissatisfaction, or stress.
Rather than asking an explanation from him, you’re advised to provide him space and time. Be patient and understanding Scorpio man behavior from his point of view. If you are in a relationship with this guy and he acts cold toward you, don’t claim that he does not love you.
He can be in love with you but still ignore you.
Being frustrating is simply one of prominent traits of his zodiac sign.
What to Do When Scorpio Man Ignores You?
You realize your Scorpio man has remained silent and distant with you for awhile, it is probably a sign you’ve done something which possibly upsets him.
If you notice that he is quiet, sulky, or angry, simply give him space.
Nevertheless, make sure the alone time you give to him doesn’t last too long or you may lose the connection between you and him; and as the result, both may break up in the end.
As I told you above, you should not ignore him in return, or it will turn into a competition of who is the best at ignoring each other. You will also never win against the stubborn Scorpio! Therefore, just be patient and send him messages occasionally to see how he is – don’t bombard him as well.
For example, if he comes back and acts like nothing happened and this upsets you, then talk to him directly. Have a serious conversation and express your true feelings, I recommend you to make a compromise with him to stop this issue occurring again.
1. Understanding him
When your Scorpio man displays his disappearing acts, it may be due to many factors – there’s a possibility you upset him, but he can get stressed because of other external things.
Unfortunately, this guy tends to throw his anger onto the people he loves most.
The reason is because he expects those to understand for his behavior. In the relationship with you, he knows you love him so there’s no chance he will lose you.
Did I tell you this guy can be selfish?
In case you are not the primary reason for his disappearing acts, the best thing to do is to still give him his own space. Never force him to explain everything, or he’s likely to explode. Leave your Scorpio man alone and allow him to deal with his issue himself.
2. Stay calm
The Scorpio male seems to lash out when he turns on his anger; that’s why he chooses to ignore you rather than to start a conflict.
He doesn’t want to make the situation much worse; thus, he disappears.
Due to this, it’s necessary to give him space. If you don’t, then he can be mean and blow up. If you’ve hurt him in the past, Scorpio man can forgive but will never forget; and might throw it back at you in this case.
Final Words
So, leaving a Scorpio man alone is actually a good idea when he is ignoring from you or gets irritated over certain things.
Don’t try to make a Scorpio miss you as he’ll definitely come back once making up his mind.
In the end, isn’t a relationship about compromise, is it?
If you want a long-term relationship with the Scorpio male, then you should build it based on compromise and understanding from the beginning. There is a saying, “Distance makes the heart grow fonder,” and this applies exactly to this confusing guy.
For any question about Scorpio man and solutions on how to deal with a distant Scorpio man, leave your comment below.
The Scorpio guy I know for slightly more than a year just stopped communicating with me.
Weeks since his last message: 12days
Situation: His priority is to rebuild his career since he is into his own biz now. His work needs him to fly and focus as he is on projects basis.
Question: what should I do? How long would Scorpio man disappear?
He has not read my messages sent to him. He did not reply/text either.
I called him once, he did not answer.
We did not quarrel or have any forms of arguments before he disappears.
This is killing me and I am confused.
Hi D.Sea,
Worry wouldn’t be a good approach. It would deepen, rather than solve the problem.
In situations like this, it helps to think back to the last interaction you had. If all went well, he is simply very busy or is going through something inside that has nothing to do with you. In this case, he will appreciate your understanding and support, when you give him personal space.
So, instead of reacting in fear or anxiety, it would be best to use his silence to do a mental inventory of why you care for him and what are your own honest feelings about the situation.
Try to be positive!
Sincere!
I just met this scorpio men and know each other roughly two months only. I am Taureans girl and when we met everything is smooth and he is caring and lovely as well. He will call and text me everyday. Suddenly, he received wedding card from his ex than he tell me that he wants to be alone. Now its been 4 days he shut the door, never return my call, never text me. I am so confused. I understand we are in the early stage to get to know each other. But we do share a lot of stories because we do spent time together a lot. And he also ask for serious relationship when we have some discussion before he create this dintant. I feel so hurt with this situation and confused. What is going on?
Dear Hertz,
This Scorpio man wants to take things serious with you; however, it’s hard for him let go from the past relationship. He falls hard, loves hard, and needs quite a long time to completely get over a heartbreak. At this time, he may get emotional a bit…just give him time to think instead of forcing him to answer you.
Be patient and he will come back to you. Don’t worry!
Sincere!
Hi Rolland, I’m an aries-pisces cusp, have been chatting online with this scorpio, we met on a forum through discussions. Never talked on phone or met. Just photos and messages. He’s younger, a loner, workaholic and widower for about 10 years, since early 20s. There won’t be another woman in his life, he says. He does the usual minimal chatting, disappearing, coming back with some interesting thing to share, sometimes his work, sometimes his interest. He is an introvert and says he hardly has friends but we chat, personal, professional, passions, etc. It was my initiative to contact and still I mostly initiate. He’s never shown interest except saying he cares. But I’ve fallen for him. It’ll be a year soon. Do you have any suggestions?
Dear Carolmop,
Scorpio man is the king of mind games and unlikely to make the first move, because he fears rejection. However if you two decide to hook up, the connection could be mind blowing. Male scorpios are very secretive because they’re afraid that if they share any serious information or feelings, you may get the upper hand. That’s why he’s so good at small talk, and only speaking to you occassionally instead of having a meaningful conversation.
Tell yours he is wonderful, smart, and gorgeous. Seduce him. If you are successful, you will have his undivided attention tonight, tomorrow, and for as long as you want it. Also patience is key to winning his confidence, but by the sound of it, you’ve been pretty patient already, so go ahead and take the plunge. However don’t expect for things to move quickly after you two make a connection. He will need time.
Sincere!
Greetings! Im in a relationship with a scorpio man and im 8months pregnant with him and about to give birth this December 24, 2019.. it’s just we don’t have enough savings plus we’re far from each other, his phone shut down and no time to buy a new for he is pressured from my coming due date so we are lacking of communication, lack of money, pressured, stress, and he even said that he is disappointed to our baby’s gender, all mixed up. Now he’s blocking me thru fb on and off, not talking to me for a days, and he is now planning to break up with me. What do you think of his behavious? I can’t understand him anymore.. i tried to talk to him calmly thru messenger but he said “i should leave him alone and things will still be the same” but in the end of conversation he said “you’re on your own now.”
Hi dear,
Trust me! he is destroying the relationship, and he will build another with a new girl. This way he can hurt you endlessly! His mind and what he is doing now are very complicated that you cannot understand easily! You all need to REALLY communicate. Sometimes Scorpios have hard time expressing theirself, how they feel, so they try to act it out and give you hints instead of actually telling you how they feel. Usually they act it out in a way thats so confusing, which they are very confusing sometimes. You really need to be straight forward with him and tell him how you feel and really try to get to know how he feels to. COMMUNICATE. He obviously still has feelings there, so talk to him about it instead of trying to figure it out by guessing.
Sincere!
Dear Rolland,
Thank you so much for your spot on analysis. I followed your advice and he says he will care for me for life, even expenses, etc, if I need help, I can vent at him, he’ll listen. But I should not have expectations, there will never be another woman in his life. I don’t know what he’s getting out of it then. Or what should I do.
Hi dear,
Scorpios take relationships way serious. And they usually never cheat and would have never got into a relationship if they weren’t serious. Scorpio guys can be both hot and cold. It is normal for scorpio guys to act distant. Most of the times they are very much responsive but sometimes they may disappear as if they never existed. And after sometime they would return and act as nothing happened. So whenever they act like this just give them their space and they will comeback because Scorpios are naturally introverts and like taking a break from everyone. And don’t worry about your relationship, your guy would never cheat on you.
Sincere!
Hi Rolland! Hope you are doing well! I am sorry to bother!
I am a pisces woman and have been dating 3 times a scorpio guy, whom i met online. Since before we met, he was more affectionate towards me than me, but after second date i also jumped into the same pool. He had broken up last year from a 5 years relationship with the women he loved and the reason was because they were fighting a lot. So, we used to call each other every night and the dates were almost endless, staying for hours together and the third time we kissed and very passionately, smth that stood on our minds for days. We almost planned to have sex the next date. But after third date, we haven’t met each other due to different circumstances. When chatting smt he found me as childish behaving and like i was doing it on purpose and he needs harmony, so i apologized although i never tended to hurt him or doing things on purpose and i am also not a person who fights or is needy or wants to debate.
He started to get cold until i discovered he got back to talking to other women online. We talked about it and he was almost saying goodbye, but i tried to make him remember that whenever we are together or we call, evth is great, but chatting is not the best. He said that he saw me in the app that’s why he also went back to talking to other women, but i said i went back on the dating app to watch him, not to talk to other guys. When i asked him if he liked me or was interested in me, he avoided it by answering that we are very different and also said that when i am being childish, he looses interest in me. We made up and he said let’s chat a bit until the covid quarantine ends and then we can see if we can meet. He also said that he will continue talking online to other women, but i said i am not going to and that i would rather spend that time with someone i like than with other guys, and then he talked about being loyal and that he never gives his number to other ladies online.
We are talking now, but i feel him very distant. Sometimes i try to make him laugh and smt he tells me a bit about what is worrying him, i told him i care about him and i am here for evth, but mostly conversations are small talk. And lately i stalk him and see him until late night staying on WhatsApp. He’s playing the nice guy with me, but at the meantime i feel he’s talking to other people.
The real problem is that I don’t know if he likes me anymore or is just trying to cool off by time. I don’t know how to get the relation as it was at the beginning. Can you please help me understand this guy a bit more? I don’t know if i should let go or keep him talking until we meet probably after 1 or 2 months?
His distancing hurts me a lot, i am a loyal person and i am being patient, but his behavior has to make sense at some point.
Hello dear,
Check yourself if you are being too clingy and too available. There are some factors why he’s behaving that way. Learn how to balance everything. If it seems that both of you really don’t have any problem yet he acts that way. Try this:
Even when you’re unhappy, pretend that you’re HAPPY. Happy to take care of him, happy to love him unconditionally, happy to be with him, etc. Even if he still acts distant, just IGNORE it. Don’t be so emotional and also be cold to him just to make a revenge. It will just make things worst. DON’T let sadness ruin everything. Then you’ll see, later on he will realize why he’s been so distant and cold to you when there’s you who’s always been there and not even complaining. Just give him enough time for himself and always do your part whatever happens. It will all be worth it.
Sincere!
Well , it had been 1 month I met this scorpio guy , we text each on a daily base , we had sex once , after that the conversation was good , but four days after he ignored me , not sure why , am thinking is because of pictures I post on Facebook he didn’t like , I sell clothing, people comment on my pic , I can’t help that , when a comment is to much about how I look I don’t respond, I really like him , is he gonna come back? I sent him 3 messages, he never open them . This is not the first time he ignored me , he did it before I was online 3 in the morning, then I block him for 5 days because he ignored me for 8 days, after I reach out to him he answered, but at that time we didn’t have sex , is it just sex he wanted? I don’t know, its killing me not knowing, what is going on , I just don’t want to give up like that, we had sex , it mean something to me , I miss him , what should i do ? Please help me.
Dear Alisa,
If he keeps staying quiet for many days, then you should reach out to him. Meet him in person and ask for a serious conversation…then tell him about his disappearing acts and require an explanation from him. It’s better to have a talk in person so that no misunderstanding is built up between you and him.
Sincere!
I am a Leo single mother. My Scorpio man used to love me more than anything. He never made me realized that I’m not a single girl .Once i was really mad as my family and my ex husband was disturbing me like hell and his too much possessiveness had suddenly become breath taking to me. I needed space i told him so many times bt he never got it. That is when i have done wrong I talked with so many guys on fb but I never lover anyone except him. When after he found out he acted very rude to me and almost killed me but did not leave me but punished me in a lot of ways.After 1 year slowly he was cutting off stopped caring about me now I have said sorry to him a million times and in every possible ways but he dsnt even care.Now he has declared to break up this relationship. Now I love him so much. I cannot even think living without him .He keeps on ignoring my text and calls. Can I ever win him back do I have any chance.?
Dear Sandra,
A possessive partner is always hard to handle. Scorpios do have this image of being ridiculously jealous. Possessive partners are appealing to some people because it looks like they care a lot. For some people that’s romantic, for some suffocating. There is a line in jealously that shouldn’t be crossed. If a man doesn’t trust you at all then it’s his own insecurities. But with a Scorpio try to be patient because they are not generally jerks, they’re just possessive.
Honestly if you want to know if he wants you back give him space and don’t initiate anything. Let him stew with his thoughts. Just go on with your life and pay no mind to him. If he has feelings it will be apparent, if he doesn’t, you won’t hear anything from him. You can always tell how much a man cares by how he prioritizes you in his life. If he’s being flaky, giving him time to miss you is the best thing.
Practice detachment my dear and you’ll reap rewards.
Sincere!
Hello I need help. I’m a Scorpio woman still in love with a Virgo man whom had me lose my place to save both his from back taxes 18 years ago. The deal was when he got his settlement he would buy me a cabin. Well almost 4 yrs ago he got 365 thousand and I got nothing except dumped with my stuff on dirt during a rain storm in the high desert wouldn’t loan me a tarp. Now I should tell you a little of what I’ve been thru leading to this point. His excuse when I told him your terrorizing 35 yr old son needs to get out I’ve had 18 yrs of crap with him breaking my neck stabbing me trying to Follett my service dog tried o d my pup on meth put trans fluid in replace my oil put windshield washer and antifreeze in place of my brake fluid cut the wires on my garage doors that I used for a fence after he left me to die so they fell on my car his kid and friends took half my stake bed motor ripped my doors on trailer so they won’t shut his daughter and oldest son have terrorized me since 2000 I even caught his son and daughter having sex it was in fricken believable the crap I saw. His kid would not give us even a minute together without causing crap. That’s just the tip of the iceberg. I put my foot down and said he goes or I do. Well he told me to leave cause I yell to much….but what bugs me is when he said it the look in his eyes was no don’t go he was scared. He let his bitch Barbara and her boyfriend move into one of the houses I lost my place for and it’s right down the road from my dirt patch. Once he wished me dead I died 3 times within 12 hours. Someone signed for a pacemaker I didn’t need on May 19 2016. Well as of last October it finally got checked after all these years. It’s destroyed 3 of 4 valves in my heart. I’m dying. I don’t care heaven was better then trying to live without the man I gave 100 percent to. I didn’t steal cheat or lie I took the beatings like a champ and didn’t hurt his punk kid. He bought his ex’s houses cars ect. He let me lose what I had for an inheritance for my kids whom I let live with their Scorpio father in Utah. He’s a great guy really. Why do I still love my Virgo why can’t I figure out what went wrong? His son is Scorpio narcissist. The cops tell me kill him but won’t help me because punk Michael is a Venus snitch for them. They arrest me for telling Mike Sr not to lie for his kid and to tell the cops what he did. I got jumped by 3 pigs handcuffed and arrested for talking out of turn while sitting on my couch. But I would do it all over again if that kid would just die or go away. He’s been like this all his life and not only has the loneliness stress and heartbreak killed me he’s hurting his father as well. I don’t want to love ever again there is nothing left in me for me let alone for someone else. But all I do is wonder why this happened I was really good and put up with some bad bad crap for the sake of love. Kid has destroyed my credit 3 times I was fixing it again but that punk is doing it again. I want to go home but I can’t get a loan for a vehicle let alone a place to live. Why does God hate me so bad. And no matter what I’ve tried I can’t seem to die….i hung myself the rope broke I got a new rope and made a deadly double hangman noose and tried again well the board moved and it was secure. Go figure. This pacemaker kills me sends me to heaven I get to say hi then get jerked back to this hell in landers ca. I can’t take it. I can’t live I can’t die and I wish I was never born as I have discovered thru time that a jealous friend of my mom’s cursed me at birth. They call me “THE WISH JEANIE” as things happen when wished around me. But I can’t wish for myself God’s got a fucked seance of humor on that one. I truly just want to die. But not like this alone in dirt no utilities no home just a tore up half a motor home to live in one side got tore off and his kid keeps tearing my wall I made off and dumping my water and everything I had is ruined still in the dirt still in the elements. I got left to die on property with 3 or 4 foot of garbage across the 7 acres. So why do I still want and love him.? Why can’t I find the reason this happened. So I can fix it? I want to go home and be with him. He might as well be in a different country as we don’t talk. His excuse and only one is I yelled about his whores and his kid beating on me. Please kill me as suicide evades my every attempt. And it’s against heavens rules. I can’t go on neither do I want to without him. I can’t get close to another man ever I’ve tried. Please any insight would help. Why can’t I stop loving him? My love for him has killed me it’s just a matter of a few months now but I can’t live without love. Thanks.
Debbie
Hi dear,
If a Scorpio is deeply in love and let someone completely inside, then no. They won’t let go. They will fight with everything to be with that person to a point that they will drive the other person crazy. They love with everything they have and they demand the other person fully commit to the relationship. If the other person pulls away, they will get possessive. Until they have finally had enough, they will let go.
Sincere!
Hello.. so my Scorpio man and I have been dating (LDR) for almost one year (this month). We’ve met 3 times during the year. We were supposed to meet again but the pandemic happened. We last fought over a repeated issue which we had just talked about a few days before it again. On hindsight, I feel I should have just let it go instead of getting so mad about it, but at the same time I felt it really unfair that I communicate things to him which upsets me but he repeats the same thing and says it’s not his intention to hurt me bla bla. Anyway, in the heat of my anger, he was still telling me some things like please avoid this certain item which I’m allergic to but I told him to stop pretending like he cares and that I don’t want anymore, things to that effect. It’s not the first time we’ve said stuff like that to each other but we’d always go back to each other cos we never really meant it. Except this time it’s like he just shut off. He didn’t even respond to that last message. Some days after I tried to reach out to him but I probably worded it not the way he wanted to hear it. He read my text but didn’t respond. So days later again I tried to be more sincere and reach out to him but he didn’t even open my message. He hasn’t blocked me, or changed the nicknames or unfriended me on social media. He still does some of the things I told him to do (like the haircut I liked on him, and some other stuff). But he’s completely ignoring me. It’s almost one month now. I guess he saw the preview of my messages but he hasn’t opened them. They’re just delivered. I don’t wanna give up on him or on us just yet. Especially when he hasn’t said a word to me. I really want to go see him once flights open up again but I’m worried that me might not want to see me. And that’s still most likely in August so I don’t know what could have transpired in between but it’s killing me not knowing if I should wait or not or what I should do 🙁
Hi dear,
I believe you already have the answer to your own question. No one wants to wait for someone ignoring them all the time, be it a new relationship or an old one, after all every one has got some priority list and trust me they will just try to make their comfort zone for whatever they do.
So do you think it is worth of waiting for him?
Do you think you will get what you are waiting for?
Do you think you will end up being happy in the end ?
Do you think he is worth of waiting?
Do you think he is the “one” to wait for?
Well, try to answer these questions to yourself and just proceed accordingly.
Take care.
Hey Rolland,
I’ve known a Scorpio man for 8 years now. We’ve been close ever since but in between we had our own relationships with other people.
He said he wants me in his life as long as possible, but can’t promise me commitment. He knows he loves me and sees a future, but can’t promise me commitment. He says I’m pushing him away, while he’s doing the same thing. I didn’t hear from him for a month now. I’m so confused and wondering if it’s a waste of my time, should let him go and not look back.
Kind regards,
Clemence
Dear Clemence,
Usually typical Scorpio men crave for long-lasting, committed relationships.
If your Scorpio man can’t promise you a commitment, then maybe he is no longer interested in you. In this case, it’s better to let him go and focus on your own life. Be with someone who truly loves you and want something built to last with you.
Good luck!
The best way to handle a scorpio is totally blocked and ignored him. Do you really think when he disappear from you he don’t have fun around? This guy are good at manipulating and the most drama king sign. Never trust a scorpio man. Moving on and get away from him at all cost. And if he come to harm you just lodge a police report on him. Never let him step into your life ever again. He want you all for himself but he’s been keeping his option open and have lots of affair. Thinking he’s the Romeo of the sign. So ladies never ever give him a chance. Let him rot and suffer himself. Cause in the end all he wants what benefits him and not you. Don’t trust all his sweet words saying he will always love you or come back to you no matter what. There are so many men out there who would never leave you even if he’s angry. Surely you won’t want a man who will keep playing the pulling and pushing game. Two words for all scorpio guys out there. F*ck yourself!
Out of all these comments this seems to be the realist… it’s so hard to understand how there can be such a tight connection and in the end he can act selfish and act like you’re nothing… so painful
That is bullshit what you say about Scorpios! Watch your tongue my ex and I are both scorpios and you haven’t the slightest clue as to our loyalty. So you need to go fuck yourself as you were probably the dirty one being a sleaze when you thought he wasn’t looking. We see all you can’t lie to a Scorpio so my question to you is what kind of whore are you? What did you do to make him leave? Stupid bitch quit talking shit about us Scorpios. Your probably a stupid cancer or pices am I right? Doesn’t matter your stupid. I wish you trip and break your lying mouth! Women us Scorpios can be mean and ruthless when necessary but only when you provoke us and especially hurt our heart. So don’t listen to this crap we are loyal and we love forever to a fault. Don’t try to hurt us for we are the bringer of life and death we love hard and we hate harder there is no in between. If you step on our feelings be prepared for pain we know all pain all to well and can dish it if necessary we are ruthless when provoked and will wait for revenge if hurt. Love us for real and whole heartedly or don’t bother even saying hi. Aka Mrs wish.
How would I know if a Scorpio is lying about cheating
Dear Olivia,
You have to figure it out. Be cool, calm, and listen to your Scorpio who have been with you such a long time. In my opinion, I believed your Scorpio just want a space, so give him a little break and show him that you understand and care. I believed he loves you that is why you are with him. You are lucky one.
Sincere!
I’m a libra my Scorpio man ignores me. The last text that he send was “I’m sorry I tired to all the fights and arguments. This is me I don’t want to be complicated to my selfish. Maybe your right I’m selfish that’s the only way to be strong. I’m trying to figure out what’s better to us than to fight all alone.” I know it was my fault we I always make a arguments with him to the small things. Today 3weeks he never call and text me. It’s so hard to me. I texted him and say sorry and explained to him and I admit that it’s all my fault. But he never reply. I missed him so much. What will I do.?
Hi Marie,
Scorpios are very strange people indeed. No one will ever entirely figure them out. But they are secretive and they do play games. So one possibility is that he is still trying to figure you out. Or that he is looking for your secret. But you can get around this by telling him. He loves the dirt. He won’t act like it, but he does. He is also looking for when you are the most vulnerable. If you have a lot of people around you, he won’t like that. He wants a sneak attack. Be alone and lonely and let him know there is something bothering you. Control is the middle name for Scorpio so nothing too complicated. Let him think he is in control. Be vulnerable. He can’t resist that. However will all this being said, don’t be too easy. You’re there. You’re vulnerable, but you keep a little to yourself. Remain a mystery to some extent. And be sexy. All sexiness appeals to him. Ideally, you’re bad, but just on a potential level. He might indulge, but you won’t be considered permanent if you really are. Keep everything about the two of you to yourself. Silence is mandatory.
Sincere!