He is definitely not a nice guy when trying to break off with you.
Are you suffering from the relationship with Scorpio man?
There’s one thing I should tell you about this guy: he can become a real jerk when he is done with you. Don’t be surprised if he treats you with an abrupt manner or says something rude to you.
No matter how serious you talk to him, he probably cuts off the conversation, suddenly yells or acts unruly without logic.
How to handle this guy?
Maybe you should consider leaving a Scorpio man alone in case he ignores you.
When his emotions take over, it’s difficult for him to handle things in a logical or reasonable way. If your Scorpio man senses that you’ve done anything terrible to him, he will be snippy and crappy.
So it’s better not to hurt him or you cannot live with him for a long term.
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When a Scorpio Man Ignores You…
Does Scorpio man stops communicating all of sudden?
Due to Scorpio personality traits, he is introspective and independent. In case he withdraws from you, it’s because he needs his own space to deal with his problems, stress, or workload.
Sometimes he’s also distant from you if he feels irritated with the current relationship. That’s when you’ll find him disappear for awhile (a few hours or even a few days) to clear his mind.
It may be not fair with you, but there’s no way to win your Scorpio partner back but to get to know and accept this trait of his. Well, this guy in love is complicated so it takes you much time to completely understand him.
If you’re unsure whether or not the Scorpio male is ignoring you, here are a few signs:
- He will avoid talking much to you as he normally does
- He will act distant and not open up his feelings with you
- He will get irritated whenever you show up around him
- He will stop doing any kind of physical contact with you, even holding hands or hugging
- He will say no to sex if feeling unhappy in love
When a Scorpio man feels the need to be alone, don’t interrupt him. Ignoring you doesn’t mean he’s no longer in love with you; thus, you shouldn’t take all of his withdrawals personally.
You should give him his alone time so that he can actually feel how important your presence to him.
If your Scorpio man is ignoring you, please do not ignore him back. Instead, you better remain patient because this guy will certainly return once he makes clear everything in his mind.
Why Scorpio Man Stops Communicating?
Scorpio man normally is attentive and responsive; however, he may become distant at times. Saying nothing, he just disappears and ignores all of your calls and messages – this often makes his partner worried.
Indeed, it’s normal for this guy to withdraw himself from his loved one.
As mentioned earlier, his disappearing acts will only be brought on the surface whenever he has to deal with his own matters, such as unhappiness, dissatisfaction, or stress.
Rather than asking an explanation from him, you’re advised to provide him space and time. Be patient and understanding Scorpio man behavior from his point of view. If you are in a relationship with this guy and he acts cold toward you, don’t claim that he does not love you.
He can be in love with you but still ignore you.
Being frustrating is simply one of prominent traits of his zodiac sign.
What to Do When Scorpio Man Ignores You?
You realize your Scorpio man has remained silent and distant with you for awhile, it is probably a sign you’ve done something which possibly upsets him.
If you notice that he is quiet, sulky, or angry, simply give him space.
Nevertheless, make sure the alone time you give to him doesn’t last too long or you may lose the connection between you and him; and as the result, both may break up in the end.
As I told you above, you should not ignore him in return, or it will turn into a competition of who is the best at ignoring each other. You will also never win against the stubborn Scorpio! Therefore, just be patient and send him messages occasionally to see how he is – don’t bombard him as well.
For example, if he comes back and acts like nothing happened and this upsets you, then talk to him directly. Have a serious conversation and express your true feelings, I recommend you to make a compromise with him to stop this issue occurring again.
1. Understanding him
When your Scorpio man displays his disappearing acts, it may be due to many factors – there’s a possibility you upset him, but he can get stressed because of other external things.
Unfortunately, this guy tends to throw his anger onto the people he loves most.
The reason is because he expects those to understand for his behavior. In the relationship with you, he knows you love him so there’s no chance he will lose you.
Did I tell you this guy can be selfish?
In case you are not the primary reason for his disappearing acts, the best thing to do is to still give him his own space. Never force him to explain everything, or he’s likely to explode. Leave your Scorpio man alone and allow him to deal with his issue himself.
2. Stay calm
The Scorpio male seems to lash out when he turns on his anger; that’s why he chooses to ignore you rather than to start a conflict.
He doesn’t want to make the situation much worse; thus, he disappears.
Due to this, it’s necessary to give him space. If you don’t, then he can be mean and blow up. If you’ve hurt him in the past, Scorpio man can forgive but will never forget; and might throw it back at you in this case.
Final Words
So, leaving a Scorpio man alone is actually a good idea when he is ignoring from you or gets irritated over certain things.
Don’t try to make a Scorpio miss you as he’ll definitely come back once making up his mind.
In the end, isn’t a relationship about compromise, is it?
If you want a long-term relationship with the Scorpio male, then you should build it based on compromise and understanding from the beginning. There is a saying, “Distance makes the heart grow fonder,” and this applies exactly to this confusing guy.
For any question about Scorpio man and solutions on how to deal with a distant Scorpio man, leave your comment below.
I Met a Scorpio guy we’ve only been talking for three months i like him chemistry is great we talk literally everyday but some days he will take a little longer to reply back even though i can see him online posting content and some days he’ll go ghost rarely ever does this but I’m learning him a little bit more when we’re together we stare at each other we cuddle go to bed together but then he does this disappearing act here and there not text back for hours or one day maybe out the week i won’t hear from him i don’t like it should i be worried ? I really like him
Hi Chanel,
I’m so sorry to hear you’ve been ghosted by a Scorpio. To be honest, I wouldn’t be surprised if a Scorpio invented ghosting. I don’t know how long you saw him, whether you met once, or had a longer term relationship. But when a Scorpio has decided he isn’t interested, he’s not interested. He’s already gone. Don’t embarrass yourself by trying to contact him and just try your best to move on.
I think most Scorpios would have the manners to leave in a kinder way, but it’s normal for them to walk away during a fight, to disappear in an instant. He probably had more planets in Scorpio than the Sun.There are better people out there, don’t let him make you lose your confidence, or you will let him win.
Hang on girl!
Hi Rolland,
I’m a pisces girl. 2 months ago, I met this Scorpio man via matrimonial site as a marriage proposal. He rejected my proposal without seeing my pictures just because of community differences. Then I got his contact number and texted him casually regarding the proposal and he called me, spoke quite decently and I accepted his reason for rejecting my proposal due to his family concerns, though his family is being particular about the community. Then surprisingly the next day he again contacted me to know whether I’m alright with his rejection or felt bad. Then he revealed that he really likes me even without seeing my pics and he’s not interested with the community differences but he has no other choice to convince his family. Then after, we started chatting and calling each other and he started caring for me so much. A week ago, we were teasing each other and suddenly he addressed as future wife while talking but that was not about me. So then I got upset and I reduced talking. He had no clue as why I got upset for 2 days and he kept calling me to know as what’s that offended me. After 2 days I revealed him and he said the same that he likes me but if community wasn’t being an important thing, he would’ve accepted to marry me long back. Also he said again, he started liking me before seeing my pics itself but he wasn’t ready to give false hopes just because he strongly believe as it won’t work. Then the next day he spoke well but since yesterday he reduced talking. Even I reduced bothering him. He’s being busy with his work since last month and now since after that small miscommunication happened between us, I feel he’s ignoring me and reducing to talk. Last 2 days, he was extremely busy with work and today he’s on off but he’s not talking much. Last Saturday he said he’s doing his pending but still he chatted with me but this Saturday I’m not sure whether he has work or not, but no proper texts. Even I’m not asking him anything and I’m replying only if he texts me first. Now I don’t know how I should let this relationship work. Is he hating me since yesterday?
Dear Ammu,
You have to decide what exactly you want from him.
If you all you want is to be friends, I think that this is probably out of the question now, but who knows. Just ignore all this ‘sensitivity’; don’t think about whether he likes you or not, don’t take anything personally and treat him like you would any acquaintance. If he still wants to be your friend, then hopefully he will go back to acting like he did in the beginning. If not, you will just drift apart slowly. Don’t be sorry about this, since nothing has been said, a couple of years down the line you can resume as friends again.
If you want to be more than friends, now’s the time to start flirting.
If you don’t want either, then just end it with him. Don’t answer his calls, treat him like a stranger, and if he asks, just tell him that you don’t want to be friends any more.
Hope this helps!
Yes, it helps.. Sorry just now I saw your reply..
Actually, now something differently happening. I thought he’s ignoring me and so even I didn’t call or text him that day. But the other day, he said that he expected my call or message like how I used to do. Still I maintained my limit to know what’s his opinion about me..
Yesterday when he called me, we had a casual talk about work and few comedy jokes. Suddenly he said he really feels like meeting me. He also said it’s been like many weeks since I spoke to him happily. Just 2 days I didn’t talk to him properly and I asked him as why he feels like that. Then he said “I don’t know why, I feel like many weeks you didn’t talk to me”..
I’m being quiet with him and not responding well because, I want him to talk to his family about our marriage. I don’t know how else I should play tricky.
Hi Rolland,
I’m a Piscean. I’ve been seeing this Scorpio man for a couple months now. When we first started talking he randomly ghosted twice. The first time We got talking, we stated we were soulmates, then he randomly ghosted. I never heard from him. After some time he came up with an excuse, he did it again so I blocked him. A couple months after I unblocked him and reached out first. Saying we should start off on another note. He was eager to hear from me and we began talking again, only for him to ghost on me, saying he went through some things. He came back and apologized, again, and promised it wouldn’t happen again. We’ve got talking and even closer. We finally met in person and there was a very strong connection. We were both convinced we were soulmates. He talked about taking things serious and I believed the relationship got serious from there. The sexual connection was so strong too we had sex after our second meeting. He mostly opened up about himself and talked about having a future with me. A day after he ghosts again amidst a text. I made a series of calls and texted for days , getting no reply. About 5 days after I called with another number only for him to pick up, so he obviously was ignoring me on purpose. In anger I blocked him everywhere and sent angry texts, which e never replied to till date. It’s been a week now. I’m contemplating calling him up cause I wanna justify myself, I really believed we were soulmates and I rarely misinterpret vibes…I just keep having this notion I was being played
Hi dear,
Clearly he isn’t completely into you. Gauge that level o interest and adjust your expectations down two notches. It’s up to a guy to show interest. Be glad that you haven’t vested your feelings into him and dial it back. Remind yourself that you haven’t “put your money in the cookie jar” just yet. Let him come to you and keep yourself occupied. Occassionally, YOU be the one to end the conversation and tell him you will talk to him later. Put him on his heels. When he is in “chase” mode more often, he won’t stop thinking of you. But you need to behave as if you aren’t thinking about him all of the time
Sincere!
My Scorpio is a heroine addict we been together 10 years he wrecked the car and decided to be a ghost and don’t face me but told me he love me with all his heart before he ghost me I’m so confused
Dear Tiesshier,
There are many reasons as to why a guy would ghost you. Most of the time they are built off of pride and or fear of vulnerability. It all depends on how things have been going. Has the conversations been awkward and hard to do? Have y’all previously gotten into a fight? Did you say something he might have not liked? There is many things that could contribute.
– He only talks to you when he is either bored or horny and otherwise doesn’t want to talk to you until you are needed
– You were previously a couple and have been having issues and he no longer wants to deal with the responsibility of trying to fix it ( a childish reason but boys tend to do this)
– He’s scared of commitment and/or being vulnerable. Most men don’t like to show their sensitive side because it could cause heartbreak they don’t want and that also causes trust and commitment issues
– Y’all were just friends and y’all began to talk everyday and he is developing feelings and he’s scared of how you will react or doesn’t want to ruin your friendship because he developed such feelings
– Last but not least he’s just immature and wants to play with your feelings, this reason is usually how it goes especially if this boy does it often.
All and all please remember a real man would not ghost you. He would talk to you about whatever it is like a mature adult. Don’t settle for a boy who can’t even speak his mind, they never turn out good in the long run.
I hope this helped, good luck! 🙂
Hello Rolland,
Good article! I and my Scorpio man have been in Long Distance for more than 1 year now, all is good but his swing mood makes me crazy, these days he said he is not in good mood and don’t like to talk with anybody but i see him always online in his mobile, only off when he goes to bed. I give him space and he still talks and reply my message and also say that he misses me. everything is good, usually we communicate everyday but now he texts me once in 2 or 3 days and but he always replies my message soon as he sees it. My mind tells me that he has someone although he said to me no one in his life except me. He said he doesn’t like to loose me but his behavior (secretive) sometimes makes me nervous. So what Should I do?
Hi Sabrina,
There is two ways how you can handle, depends on the situation.
1. Ignore
Do not let yourself to be dragged in his mood swings. Tell yourself “this is temporary, after few hours he will calm down and then we will talk”. In meantime do what you ever do. Choose this option if YOU are the reason of the mood swing. That is, if you make him sad. Do not argue, you will make it even worse.
2. Change
Change his mood to previous one. Which is really easy to do if you know what makes other person happy or unhappy (don’t know why would you choose to make unhappy, but anyway…). Choose this option if the reason of person’s mood change is an external factor (not you). It has three stages:
– Listen. First listen what happened, and what made him unhappy/happy.
– Agree. Always agree, what he says. DO NOT try to teach, or worse – don’t agree.
– Redirect. Redirect his thoughts from external factor. You want him not to think about what made him change mood. The best way to do it is by asking unrelated questions.
Sincere