He is definitely not a nice guy when trying to break off with you.
Are you suffering from the relationship with Scorpio man?
There’s one thing I should tell you about this guy: he can become a real jerk when he is done with you. Don’t be surprised if he treats you with an abrupt manner or says something rude to you.
No matter how serious you talk to him, he probably cuts off the conversation, suddenly yells or acts unruly without logic.
How to handle this guy?
Maybe you should consider leaving a Scorpio man alone in case he ignores you.
When his emotions take over, it’s difficult for him to handle things in a logical or reasonable way. If your Scorpio man senses that you’ve done anything terrible to him, he will be snippy and crappy.
So it’s better not to hurt him or you cannot live with him for a long term.
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When a Scorpio Man Ignores You…
Does Scorpio man stops communicating all of sudden?
Due to Scorpio personality traits, he is introspective and independent. In case he withdraws from you, it’s because he needs his own space to deal with his problems, stress, or workload.
Sometimes he’s also distant from you if he feels irritated with the current relationship. That’s when you’ll find him disappear for awhile (a few hours or even a few days) to clear his mind.
It may be not fair with you, but there’s no way to win your Scorpio partner back but to get to know and accept this trait of his. Well, this guy in love is complicated so it takes you much time to completely understand him.
If you’re unsure whether or not the Scorpio male is ignoring you, here are a few signs:
- He will avoid talking much to you as he normally does
- He will act distant and not open up his feelings with you
- He will get irritated whenever you show up around him
- He will stop doing any kind of physical contact with you, even holding hands or hugging
- He will say no to sex if feeling unhappy in love
When a Scorpio man feels the need to be alone, don’t interrupt him. Ignoring you doesn’t mean he’s no longer in love with you; thus, you shouldn’t take all of his withdrawals personally.
You should give him his alone time so that he can actually feel how important your presence to him.
If your Scorpio man is ignoring you, please do not ignore him back. Instead, you better remain patient because this guy will certainly return once he makes clear everything in his mind.
Why Scorpio Man Stops Communicating?
Scorpio man normally is attentive and responsive; however, he may become distant at times. Saying nothing, he just disappears and ignores all of your calls and messages – this often makes his partner worried.
Indeed, it’s normal for this guy to withdraw himself from his loved one.
As mentioned earlier, his disappearing acts will only be brought on the surface whenever he has to deal with his own matters, such as unhappiness, dissatisfaction, or stress.
Rather than asking an explanation from him, you’re advised to provide him space and time. Be patient and understanding Scorpio man behavior from his point of view. If you are in a relationship with this guy and he acts cold toward you, don’t claim that he does not love you.
He can be in love with you but still ignore you.
Being frustrating is simply one of prominent traits of his zodiac sign.
What to Do When Scorpio Man Ignores You?
You realize your Scorpio man has remained silent and distant with you for awhile, it is probably a sign you’ve done something which possibly upsets him.
If you notice that he is quiet, sulky, or angry, simply give him space.
Nevertheless, make sure the alone time you give to him doesn’t last too long or you may lose the connection between you and him; and as the result, both may break up in the end.
As I told you above, you should not ignore him in return, or it will turn into a competition of who is the best at ignoring each other. You will also never win against the stubborn Scorpio! Therefore, just be patient and send him messages occasionally to see how he is – don’t bombard him as well.
For example, if he comes back and acts like nothing happened and this upsets you, then talk to him directly. Have a serious conversation and express your true feelings, I recommend you to make a compromise with him to stop this issue occurring again.
1. Understanding him
When your Scorpio man displays his disappearing acts, it may be due to many factors – there’s a possibility you upset him, but he can get stressed because of other external things.
Unfortunately, this guy tends to throw his anger onto the people he loves most.
The reason is because he expects those to understand for his behavior. In the relationship with you, he knows you love him so there’s no chance he will lose you.
Did I tell you this guy can be selfish?
In case you are not the primary reason for his disappearing acts, the best thing to do is to still give him his own space. Never force him to explain everything, or he’s likely to explode. Leave your Scorpio man alone and allow him to deal with his issue himself.
2. Stay calm
The Scorpio male seems to lash out when he turns on his anger; that’s why he chooses to ignore you rather than to start a conflict.
He doesn’t want to make the situation much worse; thus, he disappears.
Due to this, it’s necessary to give him space. If you don’t, then he can be mean and blow up. If you’ve hurt him in the past, Scorpio man can forgive but will never forget; and might throw it back at you in this case.
Final Words
So, leaving a Scorpio man alone is actually a good idea when he is ignoring from you or gets irritated over certain things.
Don’t try to make a Scorpio miss you as he’ll definitely come back once making up his mind.
In the end, isn’t a relationship about compromise, is it?
If you want a long-term relationship with the Scorpio male, then you should build it based on compromise and understanding from the beginning. There is a saying, “Distance makes the heart grow fonder,” and this applies exactly to this confusing guy.
For any question about Scorpio man and solutions on how to deal with a distant Scorpio man, leave your comment below.
My Scorpio boyfriend and i have recently got back together after dealing with long distance for a while due to his job. As soon as he got back we decided to get back together and everything’s been fine although he got a new job and it isn’t what he expected (he absolutely hates it) and one day he randomly says that he’s very stressed and he feels like Ive been mad at him a lot lately ( passive aggressive cause i have a hard time getting over the withdrawling and ignoring while he was living in Ohio and he’s reconsidering our entire relationship even though we always talk of the future together. I told him I’d give him some space and i did for a few days but decided to check in afterwords and the conversation was just small talk and dry. We still aren’t really speaking but he’s the first to see when I add things to my Facebook.
Dear Margerie,
I think it’s better for both of you a bit more time to get used to the current state. Even if the relationship is going well, don’t push it because it just makes things more intense.
Sincere!
Hi, thank you for writing this article, it was exactly what I was looking for.
I’ve been long distant with my Scorp for about two years now. We talk everyday and he opened up his heart to me even more a few days ago.. I melted.
But he cut off communication, doesn’t reply to my texts and I found out that he is on a sudden, random vacation which he never told me about, through his Snapchat. Then he replied that he’s currently there.. but he ignored me after that text. I know he’s having some problems at work currently.. But still..
I’m completely confused and shocked and I don’t know what to think of this? I don’t think he’s there with someone else.. but I just can’t understand this type of behavior. Why not tell me that you’re going? I don’t see the point.
Thank you,
Elisa
Dear Elisa,
Being distant is in their nature. They are water signs and intend to care lesser on their partners. They could be sometimes jealous and aggressive when it comes of trusting their beloved. But they’ll not stay like that for a long time. Before you realise then return to better feelings. It is true that sometimes they could be rather cold for you to deal with, but with perserverence from both sides the relationship will prevail.
Sincere!
Scorpio man. Sagittarius woman. 2 months relationship. He said he loved me and wanted a future and a family with me. Sagittarius is fickle, in and out, hot and cold, loves freedom. He said he loves me but I drained him emotionally because unpredictable. He asked for a break and went silent. I apologized and told him that I was unsure in the beginning, but by the end of the two months I fell in love. Told him I was ready to dive all in with him. I want a future with him, family kids. No more running away from him. No more erratic behavior. Because finally i am in love with him. He’s fallen in love before I did. He has been patient. No sex over the 2 months. I told him I’m ready for sex. He says he needs a break to gain clarity because he can’t think straight when I’m around he says he is under my charms. Will he come back or is this a final break-up. I crossed boundaries of him need space. He was upset. He said it’s not helping to not allow him a break /space. He said he doesn’t know what to say think or do. So he said focus on yourself for now, not on me or any other men.
Dear Vivi,
If you’ve hurt Scorpio man, remember that he will hold it against you for a long time, maybe even forever, depending on how bad the situation was. He can be very petty when his pride is at stake. If you won’t leave him and move on, just be as nice to him as you can and maybe he will come around. Also, if you didn’t apologize, you definitely should if you want to speed things up. If you’ve already apologized, apologize again, but don’t say, “I’ve already apologized BUT…” or “I think I need to apologize again.” Just say you’ve been thinking about it, you’re sorry about whatever happened and promise it won’t happen again.
Sincere!
Thank you. i read well… i’ve known my bf a year and we are in relationship for 10 months. During out relationship, i showed him insecurity and jealousy. He hates the most that i showed my madness or jealousy in front of his people. And i got mad at him when he was with friends 3 times. Whenever it happened, he was completely ignoring me. Then every time i went to his house to find him so we got back together.
This time also when he completely cut off the contacts. I waited like 10 days. Then he texted me and i asked to meet up. he said he wants us to have some time cuz he does not want to repeat our same loops. But i went to find him.
During i was with him for 3days, he welcomed me and cared me so much. But this time i was not so nice to him and showed him jealousy again. I actually felt he got tired a bit right before i came back home. And our sex is usually so amazing. But this time only first nite was great. Not so intense. Cuz i was also not in mood cuz of insecurity.
After i came home, he texted me nicely, but i brought up the story ; i did apology and said i will try and asking his try.
Suddenly he ignored me completely. So i waited 13days. And he texted me after he came back to my town for work.
So we texted a few word, and i was afraid of getting ignored again, so instead of asking to meet up, i told him i am going his town this week with friend so can i stay in his house. After that, he seemed a bit down, and took time for text back. I noticed it was inappropriate. ( but i was too afraid so that i did mistakes instead of opening his heart.)
But i did not go this trip cuz i thought he may be wanna see me so he texted, so i wanna try. After 2 days, i texted him to meet up. But no text for 5hours. I texted again i will wait. But no text. So i called him with land line phone( he does not know number).
He was driving and was with friend. Voice was very cold and upset (seems like he was super mad cuz i called him when he was with the same friend and i did not wait for reasponse) . I asked him can i join but he said “ it’s not a good idea”. He said he is moving out the place. So i asked him where u move out 2 times . But he said “some place. It’s not a good idea to tell u”
So i said i think we should meet at least once. Then he said not today but maybe next couple days. This happened yesterday. After that, today, no contact again. And also he told his friend if i ask his new address, don’t tell.
I do not know what he is thinking.. will he come back if i give him time again?
this continuous upsetting at me and no contact make me crazy. It was ok for no contact for first 10 days. And right after 2nd 2 weeks no contact was bit challenging. But if it starts again now, i feel struggle. I don’t know how long i should wait more. We have not seen for 3 weeks now… is there any chance?
Whenever he wanted to break up, he always told me before…
There is still my name in our nexflix and music accounts. And he still maintain instagram with me. But like couple days, he keeps adding women each other in his instagram. I guess he is doing some dating apps or something.
Can you give me some advise? I want him back.. i waited for a month from ignoring..
i really wanna see him in person. I know he will also be ok if we meet and talk.. What can i do now to increase possibility to make him back ?
Thank u so much for reading long story…
I wanted to let u know exact situation… i am struggling and try to let him go.. but with this one month waiting it is hard..
Thank you…
Dear Jessica,
About Scorpios, they don’t like clingyness.
They like a girl who loves them and takes care of them, and as much as they are great guys..they are selfish as hell. When they hurt you, they do not mean to hurt you. They do things because they think of themselves and come back to you and expect you not to get mad at whatever they’ve done.
Scorpios love taking their time alone. They love doing their own thing. That doesn’t mean that they dont love you.. but he just loves chilling out on his own.
About YOUR Scorpio, he’s either 1) Ignoring you because he is no longer interested in you or 2) He’s just enjoying his time alone and wanted to chill and will come back when he’s recharged.
If he didn’t talk, you’d have the time to move on.. or maybe you’ll meet someone better in the meantime?
Sincere!
My Scorpio friend and I have been off and on for 3 years. We haven’t been able to be together due to certain situations. Every time something intimate happens between us he disappears for weeks. He doesn’t really reach out unless I reach out to him and then he starts to come around. It’s been about a month since our last encounter and he disappeared 2 days later. I have called once and he answer but I kept it short (5 mins) and then got off. I tried calling again a week later and no answer. I emailed him and he responded but was very short. Before he disappeared this time, he said our connection was too strong and we couldn’t be friends bc of the situation we are in. I just want my friend back! Do you think he will come around? We have been friends for 3 years, can they just throw it all away that easy? What should I do?
Dear KK,
Maybe he cannot admit his feelings for you, so he decides to ignore you – this is a normal behavior from Scorpio man. Just give him some personal time, and he will come back when making up his mind.
Don’t force him to answer your call or messages!
Sincere!