He is definitely not a nice guy when trying to break off with you.
Are you suffering from the relationship with Scorpio man?
There’s one thing I should tell you about this guy: he can become a real jerk when he is done with you. Don’t be surprised if he treats you with an abrupt manner or says something rude to you.
No matter how serious you talk to him, he probably cuts off the conversation, suddenly yells or acts unruly without logic.
How to handle this guy?
Maybe you should consider leaving a Scorpio man alone in case he ignores you.
When his emotions take over, it’s difficult for him to handle things in a logical or reasonable way. If your Scorpio man senses that you’ve done anything terrible to him, he will be snippy and crappy.
So it’s better not to hurt him or you cannot live with him for a long term.
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When a Scorpio Man Ignores You…
Does Scorpio man stops communicating all of sudden?
Due to Scorpio personality traits, he is introspective and independent. In case he withdraws from you, it’s because he needs his own space to deal with his problems, stress, or workload.
Sometimes he’s also distant from you if he feels irritated with the current relationship. That’s when you’ll find him disappear for awhile (a few hours or even a few days) to clear his mind.
It may be not fair with you, but there’s no way to win your Scorpio partner back but to get to know and accept this trait of his. Well, this guy in love is complicated so it takes you much time to completely understand him.
If you’re unsure whether or not the Scorpio male is ignoring you, here are a few signs:
- He will avoid talking much to you as he normally does
- He will act distant and not open up his feelings with you
- He will get irritated whenever you show up around him
- He will stop doing any kind of physical contact with you, even holding hands or hugging
- He will say no to sex if feeling unhappy in love
When a Scorpio man feels the need to be alone, don’t interrupt him. Ignoring you doesn’t mean he’s no longer in love with you; thus, you shouldn’t take all of his withdrawals personally.
You should give him his alone time so that he can actually feel how important your presence to him.
If your Scorpio man is ignoring you, please do not ignore him back. Instead, you better remain patient because this guy will certainly return once he makes clear everything in his mind.
Why Scorpio Man Stops Communicating?
Scorpio man normally is attentive and responsive; however, he may become distant at times. Saying nothing, he just disappears and ignores all of your calls and messages – this often makes his partner worried.
Indeed, it’s normal for this guy to withdraw himself from his loved one.
As mentioned earlier, his disappearing acts will only be brought on the surface whenever he has to deal with his own matters, such as unhappiness, dissatisfaction, or stress.
Rather than asking an explanation from him, you’re advised to provide him space and time. Be patient and understanding Scorpio man behavior from his point of view. If you are in a relationship with this guy and he acts cold toward you, don’t claim that he does not love you.
He can be in love with you but still ignore you.
Being frustrating is simply one of prominent traits of his zodiac sign.
What to Do When Scorpio Man Ignores You?
You realize your Scorpio man has remained silent and distant with you for awhile, it is probably a sign you’ve done something which possibly upsets him.
If you notice that he is quiet, sulky, or angry, simply give him space.
Nevertheless, make sure the alone time you give to him doesn’t last too long or you may lose the connection between you and him; and as the result, both may break up in the end.
As I told you above, you should not ignore him in return, or it will turn into a competition of who is the best at ignoring each other. You will also never win against the stubborn Scorpio! Therefore, just be patient and send him messages occasionally to see how he is – don’t bombard him as well.
For example, if he comes back and acts like nothing happened and this upsets you, then talk to him directly. Have a serious conversation and express your true feelings, I recommend you to make a compromise with him to stop this issue occurring again.
1. Understanding him
When your Scorpio man displays his disappearing acts, it may be due to many factors – there’s a possibility you upset him, but he can get stressed because of other external things.
Unfortunately, this guy tends to throw his anger onto the people he loves most.
The reason is because he expects those to understand for his behavior. In the relationship with you, he knows you love him so there’s no chance he will lose you.
Did I tell you this guy can be selfish?
In case you are not the primary reason for his disappearing acts, the best thing to do is to still give him his own space. Never force him to explain everything, or he’s likely to explode. Leave your Scorpio man alone and allow him to deal with his issue himself.
2. Stay calm
The Scorpio male seems to lash out when he turns on his anger; that’s why he chooses to ignore you rather than to start a conflict.
He doesn’t want to make the situation much worse; thus, he disappears.
Due to this, it’s necessary to give him space. If you don’t, then he can be mean and blow up. If you’ve hurt him in the past, Scorpio man can forgive but will never forget; and might throw it back at you in this case.
Final Words
So, leaving a Scorpio man alone is actually a good idea when he is ignoring from you or gets irritated over certain things.
Don’t try to make a Scorpio miss you as he’ll definitely come back once making up his mind.
In the end, isn’t a relationship about compromise, is it?
If you want a long-term relationship with the Scorpio male, then you should build it based on compromise and understanding from the beginning. There is a saying, “Distance makes the heart grow fonder,” and this applies exactly to this confusing guy.
For any question about Scorpio man and solutions on how to deal with a distant Scorpio man, leave your comment below.
Hi, I am pisces women and I love scoprio man. We were friends at first. When i started getting more intense i proposed him. He said i dont know what happens in future and let it be like that. After that we get too close and had physcial relationship. Till august everthing between was happy. When ever i asked about our relationship he gives me a mixed signals. Like he loves me but dont know whether can get married or not. I thought he was fear to have commitment because of his family problems and carrier problems. So i never forced him on our relationship. But in august i get to know he have relationship with another girl. I asked about that relationship he said he loves her.. And he dont want miss me too.. So I try to leave him but he is not letting me go.. He is trying to hold me.
Should i stay or leave him. I am confused by his mixed signals. Can you help me out
Dear APR,
If a man cheated on you once, he will do it again and again. You shouldn’t trust him or his mixed signals – he already said he loves the other woman, then what is the point of holding you? You’re better leave him as he cannot love you like the way you love him.
Sincere!
My Scorpio man and I only physically dated for about 2-3 months when I had to move because my situation changed (out of my control). We’ve always had a very strong connection, and it was like love-at-first-sight when we met. But we’ve now not seen each other for about 3 years but kept in touch all along, planning to get back together when I return. This summer communication got weird. We were in the middle of planning a trip that HE suggested, and then he suddenly stopped replying for 2 months. Then he sent a message out of the blue, suggesting he wanted to donate to a fundraiser I had started online a month prior. I was shocked by the text and didn’t reply for a month because I was confused for a while but since my reply, I’ve not heard from him for about 2 weeks. I get the feeling someone (in his life) might be sabotaging our communication with technology but not sure. We’ve always been good to and with each other, and this is a very weird phase for me. What’s going on? Should I try calling him ? Our major issue is the distance, which is my fault, and I’m working on it.
Dear Savannah,
It’s better to contact him and find out what really happened. Conversations are very important to help you build a healthy relationship; don’t just do nothing and think overly in your mind.
Sincere!
I am a Taurus woman and my Scorpio guy and I used to date for a while couple of years ago. It didn`t last long and I was the one who ended our relationship even though I liked him very much because I wasn´t ready to be in a relationship with anyone at the time. He had very strong feelings for me and showed me how much he cares about me and loves me at any given time. After the break up he suffered a lot and felt very bad, but he didn`t really say it to me, that´s just what I heard from our mutual friends. He instantly got a new girlfriend and stayed with her for a long time, so even when I already felt sorry for leaving him and wanted to tell hem I miss him badly, I couldn´t because he was in a relationship with that girl and I didn´t want to mess into that situation. A year after we broke up he broke up with her and texted me right away wanting to meet up with me, communicate with me again, but we didn´t in fact go out. I graduated and moved to study abroad, moved on with my life. Year and a half later we reconnected via text messages. At first it was just regular chatting about how our lives are going, really friendly and interesting conversations, nothing romantically involved. With the time we began communicating on a daily basis and it gradually started becoming something special as I opened up to him about my regrets and my feelings and how sorry I am for dumping the only guy that really loved me. He said that my words mean so much to him and that he had a really hard time forgetting me and that even when he was still with his girlfriend he still had feelings for me that messed up with his head. After that one conversation we started talking on the phone and texting the whole day for a month,me still abroad, already open to each other about our romantic feelings and wanting to meet, kiss and feel each other. I came back to my country and met with him and it was really magical, I could see it in his eyes and his whole being that he loves me and cares about me and we made love all night. Couple of days later he became very different and distant and I felt that and asked him what´s wrong to which he replied that it´s sad, but he doesn´t see any point in continuing our relationship because I live abroad and I´m not there the whole time, which he cannot stand. I told him directly and from my heart that I don´t wanna lose him and I really like him and he said “me too but I see no perspective in that because I know how much it hurt before”. So we didn´t really keep in touch after that day, conversations became different and distant from both sides- him wanting to slowly distance himself and me wanting to give him the space that he wants and respect his desicion, cause I have all in all already made myself very clear about everything he needs to know and hear – me wanting him nevertheless. So I came back to the country I study in and moved on with my life and it´s been a full month of no contact now, but I miss him very much and think about him everyday. He even muted my stories on Instagram so he can´t see me, I assume because he wants to forget me. I still feel pretty bad even though I acknowledge our situation, but it´s just that I miss and love him badly, do you think he will text me or try to fix things? What is he thinking and feeling right now…?
Greetings,
Lara
Dear Lara,
Thanks for sharing your story with me.
Scorpio men are afraid of showing feelings because they’re afraid of getting hurt. They often draw people in and withdraw as this is a way to study them. This behaviour is due to distrust caused by emotional bruising in their past relationships. In this case is the breakup with you in the past. I think it’s possible to gain his trust again because he still does have feelings for you, but it may take a very long time for him to completely put his guard down…also, the distance can increase the difficulty.
At the end, the decision is up to you!
Sincere!
Hi Roland,
I’ve been with this Scorpio man for a bit more than 3 years now. We’ve had our ups and downs, didn’t see each other sometimes for up to 2 months. On a regular basis, we would still see each other only every 2-3 weeks. We do keep in touch in writing though, even if the communication in writing is quite limited as well. He normally wouldn’t also pick up the phone to call me. Most of this pace is initiated by the Scorpio. I understand that he has a couple of things he needs to sort out for himself, especially in terms of making a career. However, I’ve found it often quite hard to deal with this kind of behavior. I have often felt rejected and hurt. Despite of this, it gives me a feeling of lack of security as it is difficult to plan with him for a common future. In the beginning I felt that he had committment issues which have turned into him seeing me being the mother of his children. I’ve expressed how his behavior makes me feel which I think had put him a bit under pressure. However, I can tell that he’s giving an effort even though it doesn’t seem to be easy for him to do so. It is difficult for him to find a healthy balance between relationship and achieving his career goals. On the other side I have also tried to calm myself down, to give him space and not to take his behavior personally. At our lowest point I complaint a lot about how his behavior made me feel which didn’t help the situation. My initial patience turned into frustration and made me often become impulsive. I often didn’t feel that he understood why I became impulsive but rather felt I was attacking him out of nowhere. At one point he also turned cold and I feel that he may have also betrayed me. He disappeard but didn’t break up with me. After a month I got back in touch, he apologized.
It is still difficult at times as I can feel that it doesn’t make me happy. I hope that once he sorted out his career situation his mind is more free to focus a bit more on the relationship. Any advice on how to keep my hopes up and to keep on going?
Thank you,
Cancer woman
Dear AC,
Scorpio men dissappear for a couple of reasons:
1/ They are angry and need to calm down.
2/ They don’t know how they feel about you and need to figure it out .
3/ They need space.
Just let him breath if a scorpio loves you or is interested in you he will always come back it’s their nature. If it’s been a week or two without him talking to you, send him a sweet text saying you are thinking about him, that usually gets them if he doesn’t respond. Don’t push it that will just make him go back into his shell.
Sincere!
Hello
I am taurus woman and i met Scorpio guy 3 months ago. Everything was like in fairytale. And then he stopped reading and respond any of my messages. Then, 2 weeks we didn’t talk at all, he ignored me, didn’t read my message and then he texted me back. He was apologize and told me that he scared away because everything was so great and we had so good connection. He told me that he needed time and now he realized that i am in his heart and he have a feelings for me. He asked me to meet him etc. I was going. This was wonderful, he wasn’t away from me any meter, hold my hands all the time, kiss and hug a lot.. we talked a lot and seems that everything is fine. I decided to stay him place and we had sex, he was amazing. Now..he scared away again..he told me that he wants to take things very slowly..well, me too..but he is not responding AGAIN any of my messages…
What i have to do? Give him space?
A
Dear Anneli,
A Scorpio is afraid more than anything else of getting his feelings hurt. TRUST is a big issue and opening up first is something we rarely do. So he is afraid you may hurt his feelings if you do not feel the same way about him; that’s why he is quite hesitant. Open up to him! Tell him everything that you feel about him. Depth is important to Scorpios, they do not appreiciate shallow beings, and always keep it real with him.
Sincere!