He is definitely not a nice guy when trying to break off with you.
Are you suffering from the relationship with Scorpio man?
There’s one thing I should tell you about this guy: he can become a real jerk when he is done with you. Don’t be surprised if he treats you with an abrupt manner or says something rude to you.
No matter how serious you talk to him, he probably cuts off the conversation, suddenly yells or acts unruly without logic.
How to handle this guy?
Maybe you should consider leaving a Scorpio man alone in case he ignores you.
When his emotions take over, it’s difficult for him to handle things in a logical or reasonable way. If your Scorpio man senses that you’ve done anything terrible to him, he will be snippy and crappy.
So it’s better not to hurt him or you cannot live with him for a long term.
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When a Scorpio Man Ignores You…
Does Scorpio man stops communicating all of sudden?
Due to Scorpio personality traits, he is introspective and independent. In case he withdraws from you, it’s because he needs his own space to deal with his problems, stress, or workload.
Sometimes he’s also distant from you if he feels irritated with the current relationship. That’s when you’ll find him disappear for awhile (a few hours or even a few days) to clear his mind.
It may be not fair with you, but there’s no way to win your Scorpio partner back but to get to know and accept this trait of his. Well, this guy in love is complicated so it takes you much time to completely understand him.
If you’re unsure whether or not the Scorpio male is ignoring you, here are a few signs:
- He will avoid talking much to you as he normally does
- He will act distant and not open up his feelings with you
- He will get irritated whenever you show up around him
- He will stop doing any kind of physical contact with you, even holding hands or hugging
- He will say no to sex if feeling unhappy in love
When a Scorpio man feels the need to be alone, don’t interrupt him. Ignoring you doesn’t mean he’s no longer in love with you; thus, you shouldn’t take all of his withdrawals personally.
You should give him his alone time so that he can actually feel how important your presence to him.
If your Scorpio man is ignoring you, please do not ignore him back. Instead, you better remain patient because this guy will certainly return once he makes clear everything in his mind.
Why Scorpio Man Stops Communicating?
Scorpio man normally is attentive and responsive; however, he may become distant at times. Saying nothing, he just disappears and ignores all of your calls and messages – this often makes his partner worried.
Indeed, it’s normal for this guy to withdraw himself from his loved one.
As mentioned earlier, his disappearing acts will only be brought on the surface whenever he has to deal with his own matters, such as unhappiness, dissatisfaction, or stress.
Rather than asking an explanation from him, you’re advised to provide him space and time. Be patient and understanding Scorpio man behavior from his point of view. If you are in a relationship with this guy and he acts cold toward you, don’t claim that he does not love you.
He can be in love with you but still ignore you.
Being frustrating is simply one of prominent traits of his zodiac sign.
What to Do When Scorpio Man Ignores You?
You realize your Scorpio man has remained silent and distant with you for awhile, it is probably a sign you’ve done something which possibly upsets him.
If you notice that he is quiet, sulky, or angry, simply give him space.
Nevertheless, make sure the alone time you give to him doesn’t last too long or you may lose the connection between you and him; and as the result, both may break up in the end.
As I told you above, you should not ignore him in return, or it will turn into a competition of who is the best at ignoring each other. You will also never win against the stubborn Scorpio! Therefore, just be patient and send him messages occasionally to see how he is – don’t bombard him as well.
For example, if he comes back and acts like nothing happened and this upsets you, then talk to him directly. Have a serious conversation and express your true feelings, I recommend you to make a compromise with him to stop this issue occurring again.
1. Understanding him
When your Scorpio man displays his disappearing acts, it may be due to many factors – there’s a possibility you upset him, but he can get stressed because of other external things.
Unfortunately, this guy tends to throw his anger onto the people he loves most.
The reason is because he expects those to understand for his behavior. In the relationship with you, he knows you love him so there’s no chance he will lose you.
Did I tell you this guy can be selfish?
In case you are not the primary reason for his disappearing acts, the best thing to do is to still give him his own space. Never force him to explain everything, or he’s likely to explode. Leave your Scorpio man alone and allow him to deal with his issue himself.
2. Stay calm
The Scorpio male seems to lash out when he turns on his anger; that’s why he chooses to ignore you rather than to start a conflict.
He doesn’t want to make the situation much worse; thus, he disappears.
Due to this, it’s necessary to give him space. If you don’t, then he can be mean and blow up. If you’ve hurt him in the past, Scorpio man can forgive but will never forget; and might throw it back at you in this case.
Final Words
So, leaving a Scorpio man alone is actually a good idea when he is ignoring from you or gets irritated over certain things.
Don’t try to make a Scorpio miss you as he’ll definitely come back once making up his mind.
In the end, isn’t a relationship about compromise, is it?
If you want a long-term relationship with the Scorpio male, then you should build it based on compromise and understanding from the beginning. There is a saying, “Distance makes the heart grow fonder,” and this applies exactly to this confusing guy.
For any question about Scorpio man and solutions on how to deal with a distant Scorpio man, leave your comment below.
Hi Rolland Im a Libra girl met a Scorpio guy 4mths ago he immediately referred to us as dating but then said he wasnt ready for a serious relationship and was happy to let me run free but if i was talking to other guys hed be gone , his ex had cheated on him also. At the start he did alot of chasing after me however I felt wenever I started to get interested he distanced himself from me hes ignored me a few times but always came bk round i was happy enough with him having space as I know he has some mental health issues so nva pushed him however 3 wks ago I did say to him please dont start acting weird if this is only sex fine then thats ok ive no expectations of you tho i wouldnt like us to loose our friendship he replied dont worry no I really like you im happy were we are at and want to see how we get on but im not ready for a relationship i and no we’ll never loose friendship i said im glad we are on the same page this was before I was away for a weeks work my job is very much public eye and i would have alot of male interest I sensed when I was away that he was anxious as hecwas putting xx on messages which we nirmally didnt do so I was reassuring him then just before I came home he ignored me until i asked did he want to come meet when i got bk to which he replied thats tempting what time i said 7pm tho if he was too sick i didnt expect him too he had been in bed all week sick he never replied to me so i had to arrange another way home he ignored me for a full wk i sent 3 msgs and when he replied at end of week he just wrote I havent been myself lately and been working flat out to which I replied saying hey hope your ok and he sent back Thanks you too x I waited a while then wrote Thanks x that was ladt contact all week he followed all my social media and we’d no contact then last nite he put up a picture of being on a date with a girl from his work i messaged him saying I was hurt he replied I didnt think you would care and with your work i never passed any remarks and i wasnt sure if youd been seeing other guys and that id alot goin on with work and my family which he couldnt get involved in anyway as it wouldnt be fair to either of us Im sorry u seen that even tho he put it on an app he nva uses and knows i wld see it and im sorry it hurt you i didnt think youd be annoyed i shld mention there is a big age gap between us and ive children Ive replied saying i did care and why did he say those things but no reply Im confused has he lost interest so quickly or is this a test to see if i did care or is he being honest and cant commit to a family thanks for taking the time to read
Dear Tam,
If a Scorpio loses interest in you, you will know. You won’t need to ask questions.
They’ll stop talking to you and won’t hesitate to ignore you cuss you out.
Scorpios have a kind of hard to get personality, they act like they’re not interested when they are, and that to them is kind of flirting. But when a Scorpio is not interested they don’t fall for anything at all. They’ll get up and leave and never turn back, act like you never existed to them. They can be very cold. Scorpio’s don’t believe in wasting time in the wrong places.
Sincere!
Hi so im a cancer woman and I have a scorpio male friend. We first met in 2013 had a good connection then he disappeared for a while. We reconnected in September he mention something about the last person he was dealing with. But he said she wouldn’t give him his space and so he fell back. So everything was going good between me and him. He open up to me about things he never did before. He even mention marriage and starting a family. But then the chick he mention contacts me and tell ne that her and him are in a relationship. And down him to me through text messages. I talked to him I never mention her he came out and told me what happen. And that he didnt mean to hurt me cause he always have his heartbroken. I told him we are friends and I forgive him cause he told me that he was afraid of begin in a relationship. Due to he always do something to hurt the relationship or cheat with a female that really cares about him or he goes over and beyond for someone who does hum dirty. I have been supported and not been nasty with him. But now since he has publicly bashed him due to her begin hurt on his birthday on social media. He has been distance tores me since the week of his birthday. They were suppose to be together on his birthday before i came in the picture. But he text me one time and I didn’t say anything. I ask him to just tell me the truth when it comes to her. And if he still talking to her since she has bash him, embarrassed, and humiliated him. He says no but when I dont hear from him I see she up there where he lives. I still habe strong feelings for him and he has even told me he loves me but I feel like he loves her Should I just step away or or just keep giving him his space?
Dear Key,
Don’t wait for him. Scorpios don’t let go of the one their in love with no matter how close of a connection they have. Scorpions are generally very emotionally sensitive in nature so have a lot of women after them but they usually tend to settle down or commit to a serious relationship.
From what you said, I think he still has feelings the other woman.
It’s sad but you should step away and find your own happiness!
Sincere!
Thank you so much
Am an aqua pisces gal with Scorpio man. Together a year plus, he says he wants commitment and future. I met a girl recently who talked about her man who turns out to be mine. I don’t know wat to think right now . Do u think he lied to me.
Dear Amy,
Scorpio men like to see their partner get jealous. When dating a Scorpio, be ready as he would wake up with the intention of making jealous everyday. That’s how we are. In this case, I think you should make a conversation with him and ask for an honest answer.
If he really cheats on you, then just walk away.
Sincere!
Hi Rolland
I read all the above comments and I feel somehow relieved as I learned about Scorpio man,,,
My story is I met my Scorpio man online 3 weeks ago,,he is from my country but live in USA…one we first talk everything was great he was in that Time in my country but not the same city,,,we were talking for 10 days a lot hours by phone and he told me a lot about his life and he open up and keep talking and he told me that we will perfect for each other ,I felt his honesty,,I am Taurus girl actually I didn’t have this feeling towards anyone before and was talking about our future together everything was very fast,,,once he travelled back to USA and started his Daily routine back,,he is working 12 hours a day,,,I understand that I was waiting him after he finish his work to just have a short chat with him,,,
I felt he was very tired, jet lag,,he was busy,,,I am mature enough to understand all this issues,,,but all of the sudden I received a msg from him,,,“I feel there is like barrier between us”..actually I was shocked because he was the one who was keep pushing to get in touch,,,
I sent to him that I felt that change because of the reasons I mention to you,,and I wish if you can have a chance to continue together,,,.he kept saying that you are a wonderful girl and any man would love you and have you as his wife,,,and he pray for both of us,,,
Actually I didn’t reply to his last msg it was 10 days ago,,,I do care about him and I can say that I love him and he was the man of my dream…
His birthday next Sunday shall I send him a msg,,,I miss him so badly but I am not kind of a pushy girl,,,,
I feel very bad actually and I want him back…
Dear Mary,
A Scorpio does want to be with you, however when something lays heavily on their minds, or they are feeling emotionally overwhelmed, they need space. They don’t like to show their unpleasant emotions to the world and so choose solitude to hide those away. They are a water sign so they are more ruled by emotions which would explain his moodiness. Scorpio has a hard time ignoring or forgetting things that upset them, they have to work through it, first mentally by themselves, and then they will share it with those closest to them.
If you leave a Scorpio alone when they want to be, they will almost always open up and share what has been on their mind later, when things have calmed down.
Sincere!
Hi I am a libra. I’ve been on and off with my Scorpio man and I have a hard time dealing with his constant disappearance. I eventually learnt that I just have to give him space but the problem is that I’m losing interest everytime he leaves and comes back because I don’t understand that kind of behaviour. What I’ve noticed is that everytime I tell him he’ll lose me because of his treatment, he gets all worried and scared. Someone told me he doesn’t want to lose but I’m starting to think he’s using me. Although he makes a lot of time for me and he opens up a lot, I still get suspicious. I want to know how I can talk to him in person about him disappearing on me without causing a fight
Dear Miss C,
Well Scorpio is a water sign (emotional) so maybe he just absorbed lots of stress, sadness, anger, etc. and just need time to heal (completely normal for Scorpios). He just likes to sit back alone to recharge his batteries or with someone you like (A LOT). Whenever a Scorpio returns, he will become a better person (literally in some cases).
He is most likely upset with life and needs to figure out a few things. Just let him breath if a Scorpio loves you or is interested in you he will always come back it’s their nature. If it’s been a week or two without him talking to you send him a sweet text saying you are thinking about him, that usually gets them if he doesn’t respond, don’t push it that will just make him go back into his shell.
Sincere!
I met a Scorpio (married) man over a decade ago, I wanted to be close to him but he wasn’t interested and ignored me. Years later he’s trying to get in contact with me via a colleague. I’d rather he didn’t, I still have feelings for him and I’m in a happy commited relationship. I prefer to know nothing about his life, but wish him the best. He must realise how deeply he has hurt me in the past, and I don’t want to go back there. If I saw him again I’d say hi, but that would be it. How can I get him to leave me alone. I’m a Taurus.
Dear Anne,
As Scorpio men are direct, you can just tell your Scorpio straight out you respect your guys friendship but all the flirting is a little to much and youd appreciate it if he’d stop. Tell him to stop sending texts to you because you’re not interested. There’s no way around this. Be very clear and don’t agree to anything!
Sincere!