He is definitely not a nice guy when trying to break off with you.
Are you suffering from the relationship with Scorpio man?
There’s one thing I should tell you about this guy: he can become a real jerk when he is done with you. Don’t be surprised if he treats you with an abrupt manner or says something rude to you.
No matter how serious you talk to him, he probably cuts off the conversation, suddenly yells or acts unruly without logic.
How to handle this guy?
Maybe you should consider leaving a Scorpio man alone in case he ignores you.
When his emotions take over, it’s difficult for him to handle things in a logical or reasonable way. If your Scorpio man senses that you’ve done anything terrible to him, he will be snippy and crappy.
So it’s better not to hurt him or you cannot live with him for a long term.
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When a Scorpio Man Ignores You…
Does Scorpio man stops communicating all of sudden?
Due to Scorpio personality traits, he is introspective and independent. In case he withdraws from you, it’s because he needs his own space to deal with his problems, stress, or workload.
Sometimes he’s also distant from you if he feels irritated with the current relationship. That’s when you’ll find him disappear for awhile (a few hours or even a few days) to clear his mind.
It may be not fair with you, but there’s no way to win your Scorpio partner back but to get to know and accept this trait of his. Well, this guy in love is complicated so it takes you much time to completely understand him.
If you’re unsure whether or not the Scorpio male is ignoring you, here are a few signs:
- He will avoid talking much to you as he normally does
- He will act distant and not open up his feelings with you
- He will get irritated whenever you show up around him
- He will stop doing any kind of physical contact with you, even holding hands or hugging
- He will say no to sex if feeling unhappy in love
When a Scorpio man feels the need to be alone, don’t interrupt him. Ignoring you doesn’t mean he’s no longer in love with you; thus, you shouldn’t take all of his withdrawals personally.
You should give him his alone time so that he can actually feel how important your presence to him.
If your Scorpio man is ignoring you, please do not ignore him back. Instead, you better remain patient because this guy will certainly return once he makes clear everything in his mind.
Why Scorpio Man Stops Communicating?
Scorpio man normally is attentive and responsive; however, he may become distant at times. Saying nothing, he just disappears and ignores all of your calls and messages – this often makes his partner worried.
Indeed, it’s normal for this guy to withdraw himself from his loved one.
As mentioned earlier, his disappearing acts will only be brought on the surface whenever he has to deal with his own matters, such as unhappiness, dissatisfaction, or stress.
Rather than asking an explanation from him, you’re advised to provide him space and time. Be patient and understanding Scorpio man behavior from his point of view. If you are in a relationship with this guy and he acts cold toward you, don’t claim that he does not love you.
He can be in love with you but still ignore you.
Being frustrating is simply one of prominent traits of his zodiac sign.
What to Do When Scorpio Man Ignores You?
You realize your Scorpio man has remained silent and distant with you for awhile, it is probably a sign you’ve done something which possibly upsets him.
If you notice that he is quiet, sulky, or angry, simply give him space.
Nevertheless, make sure the alone time you give to him doesn’t last too long or you may lose the connection between you and him; and as the result, both may break up in the end.
As I told you above, you should not ignore him in return, or it will turn into a competition of who is the best at ignoring each other. You will also never win against the stubborn Scorpio! Therefore, just be patient and send him messages occasionally to see how he is – don’t bombard him as well.
For example, if he comes back and acts like nothing happened and this upsets you, then talk to him directly. Have a serious conversation and express your true feelings, I recommend you to make a compromise with him to stop this issue occurring again.
1. Understanding him
When your Scorpio man displays his disappearing acts, it may be due to many factors – there’s a possibility you upset him, but he can get stressed because of other external things.
Unfortunately, this guy tends to throw his anger onto the people he loves most.
The reason is because he expects those to understand for his behavior. In the relationship with you, he knows you love him so there’s no chance he will lose you.
Did I tell you this guy can be selfish?
In case you are not the primary reason for his disappearing acts, the best thing to do is to still give him his own space. Never force him to explain everything, or he’s likely to explode. Leave your Scorpio man alone and allow him to deal with his issue himself.
2. Stay calm
The Scorpio male seems to lash out when he turns on his anger; that’s why he chooses to ignore you rather than to start a conflict.
He doesn’t want to make the situation much worse; thus, he disappears.
Due to this, it’s necessary to give him space. If you don’t, then he can be mean and blow up. If you’ve hurt him in the past, Scorpio man can forgive but will never forget; and might throw it back at you in this case.
Final Words
So, leaving a Scorpio man alone is actually a good idea when he is ignoring from you or gets irritated over certain things.
Don’t try to make a Scorpio miss you as he’ll definitely come back once making up his mind.
In the end, isn’t a relationship about compromise, is it?
If you want a long-term relationship with the Scorpio male, then you should build it based on compromise and understanding from the beginning. There is a saying, “Distance makes the heart grow fonder,” and this applies exactly to this confusing guy.
For any question about Scorpio man and solutions on how to deal with a distant Scorpio man, leave your comment below.
I am a Gemini woman who has fallen for a Scorpio, I feel like every comment is similar to mine. He travels about 2 weeks every month so it makes this even more complex. We feel for each other pretty quick and pretty hard, then he went from wanting me, texting me, loving me to not communicating. After day 2 of no text, I kindly told him it was a pleasure meeting him and if he ever needs anything I will always be here. Then he sends me a text of him with another man. He says he is a certain way. We talked about everything and decided to just have a fun relationship. We still continued to text and still do but he was making it seem like he wanted to continue with me and I am ok with his other lifestyle choice. It opened up a bunch of new experiences. This continued and then 2 days again and he says he is moving next year and he just didn’t see me as a long term relationship. I am still ok with that. I feel that strong of a connection with him that I keep hoping I can somehow prove to him I am perfect for him. He often does his moments of days of disappearing and I always leave him alone and he comes back. Is he just using me to have someone who understands him or will I ever win him over. I don’t ask questions when he disappears and I keep allowing him to chase other women because I want him to see that I am the one for him.
Even though after reading all these comments I still feel hope. Am I just asking to get hurt again? Will he ever see me as a long term relationship?
Dear Gemini,
You just need to understand that this guy doesn’t want you. He most likely has someone else he wants, but is patiently waiting for.
You waste your time with him, and you are going to be in this miserable state, where your self confidence is being trashed…and it is your choice. You know how he feels about you. Don’t you want to be in love…don’t you want to know how it feels to be loved back, and to have somebody treat you so good, that your life improves everyday, in every way? You deserve that, you don’t know how that feels…and you deserve to know and feel that.
Sincere!
It’s been 8 months since he walk out of our life’s… promising to come n Never doing so. He’s my husband I change my number so he won’t reach me, he refuses to divorce me refusing to sign the divorce papers, I don’t even know what to do, he left me with a 6 month old baby at the time.
I cannot stand his mind games
There’s no more communication not even about the baby, what should I do?
Hi dear,
It’s time for you to reach him!
Let him know that his distance and silence is bothering you, and at the same time be sure he knows how you feel about him. It may take him a long time to realize his silence is damaging to your relationships and quite sometime to overcome this problem. You would be right up front about how his behavior has the potential to ruin the relationship. I would give you this advice: don’t wait to long for him to change, it may take longer than you expect.
Sincere!
Hello there! My Scorpio man and I have been in a loving long distant relationship for 2 years. We see each other a couple of times a month. The past 2 months we hit a rough patch where we would argue frequently. He would lash out at me and just give me the cold shoulder. The issue has always been communication. When we argue he wants space and time alone, while I want to talk about the issue so we can resolve it. It’s been built of frustration, one after the other of taking breaks and still staying in communication and talking about our issues. We would try to resolve it via text due to long distance and something else would happen. I feel like we need to talk things out in person. Then he broke up with me one evening when he was out with his friends because I was frustrated he wasn’t communicating. He felt like I was being too needy and on top of all the other frustrations, so he ended it. He blocked me on every thing. I tried communicating with him via email and he didn’t respond until a week later telling me he’s done. We FaceTimed a week after that and he explained that he had to block me, so I wouldn’t try to communicate with him and make him more upset. He said he started to grow resentment towards me cause felt unheard and that I don’t listen to him. He told me he still loves me and cares about me, but we both grew to be different people (him – lashing out at me when he shouldn’t and I was acting needy). He said the door isn’t closed, but he doesn’t want to get my hopes up. He said he needs to reset and get back to who he was when we first met. I’ve said he’s changed from the person he use to be and I think that stuck with him. I also know my faults and apologized in not listening by giving him space/time alone when he asked in the beginning. He said he needs to take a step back. My instinct is to step in and show him I can listen and give him what he needs, but I realize I need to step back and give him time and space. He said yes to that. He said maybe this is the breakup we’ve been needing to take to reset. He unblocked me and said we can be friends. He told me I can text him with any happy news or anything I want to share with him, I just can’t talk about him and I. We had a short text exchange after the FaceTime and it organically just stopped cause I didn’t want to be all up in space.
It’s been almost 3 weeks since we broke up and a little over a week since we’ve FaceTimed. I’m just unsure what to do next – do I text him or leave him alone? Will he come back at the current state we are at? I love and I miss him. I want him back and I realize my faults as to where I could have been better.
Hello Roland,
I am a Leo sun and Scorpio moon and I have feelings for a Scorpio. I worked at an art museum and was reading a novel by Stephen king when he noticed me. Some time later we matched on an online dating app and talked for a while. Me not having a clue that we had seen each other because I can’t remember all visitors 😀 So after some time we decided to meet, and everything went so well, I instantly felt an emotional connection and we kissed. We texted each other once everyday and had two more dates, cooked and we slept with each other. Then, I went on vacation and send him a text to which he didn’t reply. After a few days of not receiving a reply from him, I texted again, which I usually don‘t do because I think people have their reasons why they chose not to text. To my surprise I got an answer saying that he is very sorry but he had to leave to southkorea for 3 months for his studies. That he knows he should‘ve communicated it earlier but didn’t because he immensely enjoyed our time together. He hopes that I am not angry at him. I said I am not angry and that I wish him all the best and maybe meet when he is around again. I thought the communication was over at that point. But then he tried to keep up communication and I answered. After some time I felt I was putting in more effort and he was not being very communicative nor very open emotionally . He didn’t reply for a week. Although I knew it was childish and it may have been because I was very anxious at the time, I also didn’t reply until one week later. Honestly, this embarrasses me a bit. Then suddenly he immediately replied but I was so emotionally exhausted that I took some time to reply. Everything felt too much for me and unhealthy. The last text from me was a happy text kind of joking around to which he didn’t reply. I needed time for myself but now we haven’t talked for 2 months and I am not sure if I should text him to remind him that I still care or wait until he comes back at me. Also he should come back during the next week so I could just wait and see if he texts and if not, it’s over for me…. I would appreciate any insights, because I am really confused on what to do at this moment.
Hi dear,
I know it’s difficult, especially for most women, to give a man his space when he’s pulling back. But you really need to. It’s just the way most men are.
It’s actually, most likely, a good thing. Men tend to do this most often when they reach a new level of closeness with a woman. They tend to get sort of overwhelmed in a way and often feel the need to step back and get a handle on things again.
If he’s unsure about the relationship, the last thing you want to do is make him feel smothered, like you can’t respect his needs, like you can’t control yourself, like you’re way too invested in a relationship he isn’t sure he wants, making him feel even more overwhelmed and unsure. And the chances of you ending up doing or saying something that’s going to make you seem needy, clingy, desperate, and/or crazy are a whole lot higher when you’re stressing out and anxious about him needing his space. There’s simply no good that can com from contacting him until he makes it clear that he wants you to, and way too likely that you’d actually do some damage to the relationship.
He knows how to get in touch with you when he’s ready. And if he never does, there’s really nothing you can do about that, anyway.
Sincere!
Hi dear,
Scorpio men value their deep connections with friends and/or lovers. If they come back it’s because u didn’t do anything that serious, usually a failure in communication and as long as you know how to “effectively” communicate, then they are willing and often want to work things out. They do not let go of you due to petty stuff. On the other hand, they are easily annoyed by aloofness, lack of confidence, lack of consideration, lack of consistency, shallowness, manipulation, narcissism, disloyalty & dishonesty.
If a Scorpio leaves, let them go! He wants to be gone…sometimes he doesnt want to sting people that is why he leaves people alone. He won’t return.
Sincere!
Hi
My guy and I have been off and on for years. A few months ago he went thru some major life events and I was there as I always have been. We started this relationship completely different than any of the times before. He flew My daughter and I almost every weekend 900 miles to see him while a work. We’ve talked in the phone multiple times a day since day one. We have always discussed real life things happening and made decisions together. He added me to his living will after about a month. Tells me and my daughter he loves us. Loves her and treats her as his own. Has said since day one he would never leave us and always be here for us. Even planning to elope. Then I found out I was pregnant. Both excited but he was beyond stressed. I knew this. I could sense it and feel it. He told him he was stressed with work and the event that happened still playing out and felt like the weight of the world on him bc he has always had everything set. I ended up having issues and went to the hospital he was 700 miles away and freaked out. Got to me as fast as he could. Told me over and over for several days he thought he was losing me. And didn’t know what he would do without me. And that he did this by stressing me out. So on top of that I have a dog that does not like kids except my own and we knew this and looking for a new home well he snapped one night and lost his cool. Left and the next day apologizes to me for seeing a very poor version of him. Says he is not well and did not handle that well. Then says he needs some time to rest and get himself right bc it’s not fair to myself or my daughter until he is well. It’s been 7 days and he has vaguely spoke via text to me. We went from all in to crickets almost. And I am trying so hard to not message or bombard him until he is better but how long is long enough?? I know he loves me. I know he wants to be with me? But why the sudden distance when both need each other right now.
Dear Brenda,
Sometimes, Scorpio men just feel like they are trapped in a relationship, or a situation or whatever and they just need to get away for awhile to breathe. It’s not because of you, so don’t take it personally. They just have a strong need for independence and when they feel like that’s being threatened they need to escape for awhile. But don’t worry, they usually come running back!
My advice would be to not bother us when they go away like this, it’ll just make they stay away longer. They just need to feel free every now and then. They need to get away, to clear their mind and just escape. This need for freedom can be more prominent depending on the persons other placements, but generally most Sags have it in some form.
Sincere!
Hello Roland,
I met this scorpio man at work he showed interest in me from the first time we talked, we went out 4 times in a month and then on our 5th date he held my hands and cuddled me in the cinemas and when i asked him why he did that he said its just a feeling that he had and i let it go, he then started acting weird distancing himself from me, one day he is super cute and the other he acts cold, he late replies to my messages and other times he calls me and talks about future plans and cute stuff, then we went out after that date 2 more times, so our casual dating (you can call it that) lasted 2 months , on the last time we went out he started again touching my hands and cuddling me , then i demanded him to tell me why he is doing that since i was so confused from all the mixed signals he was giving me , he then told me that he is not ready for something serious thats why when he finds himself too cute with me he backs away but then he cant help it and comes back, he told me to consider us just friends until he is ready for a relationship he will come and tell me that, and he cant tell me that he likes me now since he cant commit to it and he doesnt wanna break promises ( please note that he started a new job 2 weeks earlier and he is worried about that job very much ) . Anyways he had that talk with me and then disappeared and didnt text or call me at all for 11 days, which never happened before in those 2 months , he never disappeared for more that 2 days. Now im going crazy, i dont know if he is playing games with me or if he is really serious or what?? Im not the type of girl that like players and im looking for a serious relationship and commitment and i dont know what to do, shall i reach out to him?? Or do i just ignore him? Is he gonna text me or is he done with me? At the same time i reallllyyy realllyyy like this guy, he got into my head and its driving me crazy!
Thank you
Dear Natalie,
You have to be extremely patient in order to maintain a stable relationship with a Scorpio. They do things in the moment, and they can lose interest quickly if they don’t find you special enough for their attention. My advice is that you stay friends with him, because he could end up falling for you if you show him that you’re worthy enough for his commitment. Honestly though, you shouldn’t have to change yourself or try to prove anything to him. If he tells you that he wants an open relationship even though you don’t, move on while you still can.
Just be careful if you do pursue anything deeper than a friendship, and be honest with him about your confusion, because what I’ve learned about Scorpio is that honesty is the best policy.
Sincere!