He is definitely not a nice guy when trying to break off with you.
Are you suffering from the relationship with Scorpio man?
There’s one thing I should tell you about this guy: he can become a real jerk when he is done with you. Don’t be surprised if he treats you with an abrupt manner or says something rude to you.
No matter how serious you talk to him, he probably cuts off the conversation, suddenly yells or acts unruly without logic.
How to handle this guy?
Maybe you should consider leaving a Scorpio man alone in case he ignores you.
When his emotions take over, it’s difficult for him to handle things in a logical or reasonable way. If your Scorpio man senses that you’ve done anything terrible to him, he will be snippy and crappy.
So it’s better not to hurt him or you cannot live with him for a long term.
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When a Scorpio Man Ignores You…
Does Scorpio man stops communicating all of sudden?
Due to Scorpio personality traits, he is introspective and independent. In case he withdraws from you, it’s because he needs his own space to deal with his problems, stress, or workload.
Sometimes he’s also distant from you if he feels irritated with the current relationship. That’s when you’ll find him disappear for awhile (a few hours or even a few days) to clear his mind.
It may be not fair with you, but there’s no way to win your Scorpio partner back but to get to know and accept this trait of his. Well, this guy in love is complicated so it takes you much time to completely understand him.
If you’re unsure whether or not the Scorpio male is ignoring you, here are a few signs:
- He will avoid talking much to you as he normally does
- He will act distant and not open up his feelings with you
- He will get irritated whenever you show up around him
- He will stop doing any kind of physical contact with you, even holding hands or hugging
- He will say no to sex if feeling unhappy in love
When a Scorpio man feels the need to be alone, don’t interrupt him. Ignoring you doesn’t mean he’s no longer in love with you; thus, you shouldn’t take all of his withdrawals personally.
You should give him his alone time so that he can actually feel how important your presence to him.
If your Scorpio man is ignoring you, please do not ignore him back. Instead, you better remain patient because this guy will certainly return once he makes clear everything in his mind.
Why Scorpio Man Stops Communicating?
Scorpio man normally is attentive and responsive; however, he may become distant at times. Saying nothing, he just disappears and ignores all of your calls and messages – this often makes his partner worried.
Indeed, it’s normal for this guy to withdraw himself from his loved one.
As mentioned earlier, his disappearing acts will only be brought on the surface whenever he has to deal with his own matters, such as unhappiness, dissatisfaction, or stress.
Rather than asking an explanation from him, you’re advised to provide him space and time. Be patient and understanding Scorpio man behavior from his point of view. If you are in a relationship with this guy and he acts cold toward you, don’t claim that he does not love you.
He can be in love with you but still ignore you.
Being frustrating is simply one of prominent traits of his zodiac sign.
What to Do When Scorpio Man Ignores You?
You realize your Scorpio man has remained silent and distant with you for awhile, it is probably a sign you’ve done something which possibly upsets him.
If you notice that he is quiet, sulky, or angry, simply give him space.
Nevertheless, make sure the alone time you give to him doesn’t last too long or you may lose the connection between you and him; and as the result, both may break up in the end.
As I told you above, you should not ignore him in return, or it will turn into a competition of who is the best at ignoring each other. You will also never win against the stubborn Scorpio! Therefore, just be patient and send him messages occasionally to see how he is – don’t bombard him as well.
For example, if he comes back and acts like nothing happened and this upsets you, then talk to him directly. Have a serious conversation and express your true feelings, I recommend you to make a compromise with him to stop this issue occurring again.
1. Understanding him
When your Scorpio man displays his disappearing acts, it may be due to many factors – there’s a possibility you upset him, but he can get stressed because of other external things.
Unfortunately, this guy tends to throw his anger onto the people he loves most.
The reason is because he expects those to understand for his behavior. In the relationship with you, he knows you love him so there’s no chance he will lose you.
Did I tell you this guy can be selfish?
In case you are not the primary reason for his disappearing acts, the best thing to do is to still give him his own space. Never force him to explain everything, or he’s likely to explode. Leave your Scorpio man alone and allow him to deal with his issue himself.
2. Stay calm
The Scorpio male seems to lash out when he turns on his anger; that’s why he chooses to ignore you rather than to start a conflict.
He doesn’t want to make the situation much worse; thus, he disappears.
Due to this, it’s necessary to give him space. If you don’t, then he can be mean and blow up. If you’ve hurt him in the past, Scorpio man can forgive but will never forget; and might throw it back at you in this case.
Final Words
So, leaving a Scorpio man alone is actually a good idea when he is ignoring from you or gets irritated over certain things.
Don’t try to make a Scorpio miss you as he’ll definitely come back once making up his mind.
In the end, isn’t a relationship about compromise, is it?
If you want a long-term relationship with the Scorpio male, then you should build it based on compromise and understanding from the beginning. There is a saying, “Distance makes the heart grow fonder,” and this applies exactly to this confusing guy.
For any question about Scorpio man and solutions on how to deal with a distant Scorpio man, leave your comment below.
Hi Roland,
I met a scorpio man last month on a holiday, we spent 2 days together and we hit it off right away. We became boyfriend/girlfriend after the holiday and we spoke everyday video calls and constant messages all day. Just recently he told me his dealing with fe problems and said we need to talk so that night I was calling him but he’s not taking my calls. Since then I haven’t heard from him , I message him regularly trying to get a reply but it’s been 10 days and still ignoring my messages. 3 days ago he removed me from his instagram , I am really confused of what’s going on him.
Hi Alice,
Well, as they are very intense in nature, so lack of patience push them away .
Secondly, i personally feel that , major reason for sudden distant is the way they test you. Test all your limits , want to see how much you can do for them, want to see that extra mile you walked for them. Because they are not looking for some one whose going to give up soon on them. Relationships are real for them.
Sincere!
Hello-
I am so glad that I found this site about Scorpio men! I met this guy July of 2019 and we have been intimate for 6 months. He had been texting me at least once weekly – we were in a casual relationship. I recently have been helping him out with family issues as well as giving him rides to appointments due to losing his license. Four days ago, we had a great time and it even seemed as though he wanted to eventually move in with me. I responded to a text on Thursday, and I texted him Saturday and he has not texted back since. I am so confused and upset. I like him soooooo much and really thought we had a future together. What is your advice?
Dear Lynn,
When Scorpio men distances themselves, do not continue texting or trying to keep in touch. It’s okay to send him one text asking how he is. If he doesn’t text, then he either doesn’t want to continue the relationship, or possibly he is going through something he doesn’t want to tell you. If they want to talk to you they will reach out.
Scorpios I have known are intensely private and don’t like to share much. They might be going through something. They do a lot of thinking and will revert back privately at times.
Sincere!
Hello Roland
Thank you for your insight into the Scorpio man. He is very intriguing indeed. I am a Sagittarius girl and have been talking with my Scorpio since Nov 2017. We met online and we live in different states. We have been through many ups and many downs. In the time we have been talking, video chatting, etc… I would unconver some of his secrets and we would have explosive arguements. That Scorpio temper is nothing to trifle with!! In the time we have been chatting (I guess online dating) I found out he was speaking with another woman but he swears she was nothing and that she was obsessed with him. He even went as far as to share screenshots of their conversations with me because I asked for them. He swears has never been with any other woman physically and he wants only me. He is on contract with work and he claims to want to marry me and start a family. He even claimed to have told his colleagues that he was married so he wouldn’t cheat on me. He swears he has been celibate and blows up everytime he is accused of cheating. I have left him several times because I fear dishonesty and unfaithfulness. Yet chase’s me everytime. In the past 2 years he has opened up about his family. His stress and his past hurts from relationships. They only thing is I tried visiting him and he refused me twice. I try to break it off with him and he claims to be shattered. He has accused me of cheating and says some terrible things when he is angry then he apologizes after a day of pure silence. He has alot of stress at work and he is under alot of pressure. He says his career is at stake and his reputation. He has financial problems (big ones and he has shared a few of the details with me.) I am not sure if I can trust him. Things have gotten so bad at work for him that now he barely communicates with me. Yet, he always says he loves me and I am the only one who has stayed by his side. I understand his frustration but I hate the inconsistency. When angered he tells me he will go with other women , ignores me, and when he is sad he runs back to me and begs me to speak to him. He says he will love me for life and he is grateful he found me. Then he will turn cold and pull away. He even stopped flirting with me and responding to my attempts to engage him in anything sexual. We communicate differently. He claims I can be disrespectful because I don’t put up with his stubborness and accept things at face value when I see something wrong. I keep feeling like there are other women (could be my insecurities) and I take it out on him. This angers him and he tells me he is sick of asking the same questions over and over. I tell him I question him be cause his words do not match his actions. I am confused. I have fallen in love with the man I have gotten to know but I know there is more to him because we haven’t met in person. There are secrets he has told me he swears he has never told anyone else. He refers to his family and my family as “ours” one day then he tells me he doesn’t deserve me and disappears again. He used to text me everyday “good morning” now I barely hear from him at all. He is easily angered now and his temper erupts out of no where. I address our issues and he dismisses my questions replying he loves only me or he will never have sex with another woman no matter how bad it gets. I am worried about his sincerity. I know scorpio men can be manipulative and selfish. I hurt him then he hurts me. We are arguing almost weekly now and he breaks up with me only to beg forgiveness a day later. He says “we will always argue but we will be together forever”. I am confused. Am I just a game that he has played for almost 3 years because I am online? I block him and he calls me from someone else’s phone just to tell me I was wrong… He emailed me when I tried a 30 day no contact break up. I know his schedule so where we used to talk for hours on his days off I now barely hear from him even on his days off and holidays. He stopped sharing with me his day or asking about mine. He doesn’t pay attention to things in my life – like he stopped caring about me. He claims it is stress and he is in trouble or frustrated with work. I always explain my concerns and I even give him details on why I feel the way I do. I stand up to him when he does me wrong and he promises to be better only to break his own word and revert back. I worry it is another woman because of his emotional distance, lack in sexual flirtation and lack of attention. He says he appreciates my love, support, and patience but I cannot help him with his problems. Yet, he goes frantic when I try to run or end the relationship. He says I am the only woman he will love and he could never love another the way he does me. He says his plans have not changed he wants to get married and have children. He is 40 years old, never married, no kids. He said his relationships have never worked out because of his temper and being misunderstood. I am the only woman who does not turn her back on him and he is grateful.
He tells me if we do not work out he will never try with another woman… is it all a game? Do I believe him? Should I leave and block him with no explanation? Is he lying to me and manipulating me? Will he ever come around and step up? Is this normal?
Hi ïãm sherinn
My Scorpio guy distant with me stop communicating since Feb 12, 2019 ïãm totally upset
Situation: in my family there are not supported this relationship because he is a hindu last I call his mother and they said its not practical after that I talk to him don’t leave me I can’t leave without you but he replied to study well and he already tell everything about our relationship after that he stop communicating with me and and I quired about him but nobody knows anything about him after that he suddenly appear in the online Feb 15 then he not msg me and deactivated his whatsapp account I cried a lot
Question : what shall I do? Does he come back? Does he still loves me?
Hi,
I am a libra women and my best friend is a scorpio. Our friendship has a lot of ups and downs. Though he respects me, he keeps ignoring me. Tells me not to expect anything. Beginning I was left to be myself and accepted how ever I was but later on, my concern and care is mentioned to be mostly suffocating, irritating and things lk that. I am told not to expect anything and as well not to give the care and affection as he is self contented and more so selfish.
I like him a lot and value the bond we share. I keep liberating him from his behavior thinking its bad phase, just things will be fine. We do communicate regularly. I don’t want to loose our friendship.
Hi Allen,
I’m kind of understanding what your friend is doing to you. I’ll tell you why he is doing that. You have done or are doing something that he disapproves of. He probably expects better from you and is disappointed that you don’t really respect his feelings. And if you really want to keep this friend of your now would be a good time to up your friend game because once he is done ignoring and being rude to you he’ll probably cut you off from his life.
Sincere!