He is definitely not a nice guy when trying to break off with you.
Are you suffering from the relationship with Scorpio man?
There’s one thing I should tell you about this guy: he can become a real jerk when he is done with you. Don’t be surprised if he treats you with an abrupt manner or says something rude to you.
No matter how serious you talk to him, he probably cuts off the conversation, suddenly yells or acts unruly without logic.
How to handle this guy?
Maybe you should consider leaving a Scorpio man alone in case he ignores you.
When his emotions take over, it’s difficult for him to handle things in a logical or reasonable way. If your Scorpio man senses that you’ve done anything terrible to him, he will be snippy and crappy.
So it’s better not to hurt him or you cannot live with him for a long term.
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When a Scorpio Man Ignores You…
Does Scorpio man stops communicating all of sudden?
Due to Scorpio personality traits, he is introspective and independent. In case he withdraws from you, it’s because he needs his own space to deal with his problems, stress, or workload.
Sometimes he’s also distant from you if he feels irritated with the current relationship. That’s when you’ll find him disappear for awhile (a few hours or even a few days) to clear his mind.
It may be not fair with you, but there’s no way to win your Scorpio partner back but to get to know and accept this trait of his. Well, this guy in love is complicated so it takes you much time to completely understand him.
If you’re unsure whether or not the Scorpio male is ignoring you, here are a few signs:
- He will avoid talking much to you as he normally does
- He will act distant and not open up his feelings with you
- He will get irritated whenever you show up around him
- He will stop doing any kind of physical contact with you, even holding hands or hugging
- He will say no to sex if feeling unhappy in love
When a Scorpio man feels the need to be alone, don’t interrupt him. Ignoring you doesn’t mean he’s no longer in love with you; thus, you shouldn’t take all of his withdrawals personally.
You should give him his alone time so that he can actually feel how important your presence to him.
If your Scorpio man is ignoring you, please do not ignore him back. Instead, you better remain patient because this guy will certainly return once he makes clear everything in his mind.
Why Scorpio Man Stops Communicating?
Scorpio man normally is attentive and responsive; however, he may become distant at times. Saying nothing, he just disappears and ignores all of your calls and messages – this often makes his partner worried.
Indeed, it’s normal for this guy to withdraw himself from his loved one.
As mentioned earlier, his disappearing acts will only be brought on the surface whenever he has to deal with his own matters, such as unhappiness, dissatisfaction, or stress.
Rather than asking an explanation from him, you’re advised to provide him space and time. Be patient and understanding Scorpio man behavior from his point of view. If you are in a relationship with this guy and he acts cold toward you, don’t claim that he does not love you.
He can be in love with you but still ignore you.
Being frustrating is simply one of prominent traits of his zodiac sign.
What to Do When Scorpio Man Ignores You?
You realize your Scorpio man has remained silent and distant with you for awhile, it is probably a sign you’ve done something which possibly upsets him.
If you notice that he is quiet, sulky, or angry, simply give him space.
Nevertheless, make sure the alone time you give to him doesn’t last too long or you may lose the connection between you and him; and as the result, both may break up in the end.
As I told you above, you should not ignore him in return, or it will turn into a competition of who is the best at ignoring each other. You will also never win against the stubborn Scorpio! Therefore, just be patient and send him messages occasionally to see how he is – don’t bombard him as well.
For example, if he comes back and acts like nothing happened and this upsets you, then talk to him directly. Have a serious conversation and express your true feelings, I recommend you to make a compromise with him to stop this issue occurring again.
1. Understanding him
When your Scorpio man displays his disappearing acts, it may be due to many factors – there’s a possibility you upset him, but he can get stressed because of other external things.
Unfortunately, this guy tends to throw his anger onto the people he loves most.
The reason is because he expects those to understand for his behavior. In the relationship with you, he knows you love him so there’s no chance he will lose you.
Did I tell you this guy can be selfish?
In case you are not the primary reason for his disappearing acts, the best thing to do is to still give him his own space. Never force him to explain everything, or he’s likely to explode. Leave your Scorpio man alone and allow him to deal with his issue himself.
2. Stay calm
The Scorpio male seems to lash out when he turns on his anger; that’s why he chooses to ignore you rather than to start a conflict.
He doesn’t want to make the situation much worse; thus, he disappears.
Due to this, it’s necessary to give him space. If you don’t, then he can be mean and blow up. If you’ve hurt him in the past, Scorpio man can forgive but will never forget; and might throw it back at you in this case.
Final Words
So, leaving a Scorpio man alone is actually a good idea when he is ignoring from you or gets irritated over certain things.
Don’t try to make a Scorpio miss you as he’ll definitely come back once making up his mind.
In the end, isn’t a relationship about compromise, is it?
If you want a long-term relationship with the Scorpio male, then you should build it based on compromise and understanding from the beginning. There is a saying, “Distance makes the heart grow fonder,” and this applies exactly to this confusing guy.
For any question about Scorpio man and solutions on how to deal with a distant Scorpio man, leave your comment below.
Hi, I’m a 31 year old cancer women and have been dating a 38 year Scorpio man for a month now. We talked everyday & night for hours, our conversations were always long . It felt like we’ve been talking for years, we went on dates whenever we both have off days from our hectic jobs. Recently we had sex for the first time and everything was just perfect. It was passionate & intense. We would look at each other with love in our eyes. We cuddled, talked, kissed. I’m sure we both felt like we were falling in love that night. I’ve never had that feeling before with anyone. But anyway, he left my apartment that morning for work; we talked on the phone until he got to his job. While we we’re on the phone I felt a shift in his mood. It’s like the passion went away and he turnt cold. Then after that he completely went ghost. Haven’t heard from him in 3 days. We usually talk everyday. I texted him and asked how he was doing. He sent a dry response back saying “good” That’s very unusual for him to text that way. I didn’t text back because I felt my hurt sink. The first thing that came to my mind was that he used me for sex. I would have never opened myself to him if I didn’t feel there was a emotional connection between us. I somewhat feel like the connection we had spooked him. Afterwards he completely turned cold. I really like him a lot. I feel like I’m going crazy. This has honestly taking my self esteem to a all time low. Im feeling rejected because I don’t understand how someone can be so into you, and look you in your eyes with passion then turn cold. Please help 😔
Hi dear,
When anyone, no matter what their star sign distances themselves, do not continue texting or trying to keep in touch. Send them one text asking how they are. If they don’t text they either don’t want you in their life, or possibly they are going through something they don’t want to tell you. If they want to talk to you they will reach out. People will come to you if they want to. You dont have to force it or be persistent all the time. That drives a lot of people away; mentally healthy away anyway. I think everyone needs their time to think and their space to breathe. The more you run after someone, the more they will back away.
Sincere!
Hi Rolland,
I’m a Pisces and met this scorpio guy three months ago, he was nice and approaching, trying so hard to impress me, always initiating conversation with me, surprising me with concert tickets and wines, taking me out to cinema and fancy restaurants. About one month ago, he told me that I wanna be honest with you about something which is that he ran into his ex on a public place, I asked him if they contacted each others and he said no and opened up about him not going back to her as she hurt him believing that he didn’t do anything wrong to her. In Our last date, he told me that next days will be a lot of pressure as he is opening up his own restaurant, but things went smooth between us, he didn’t lose contact with me. Although he was always asking me to wish and pray for his new business to work out. One day he told me that there’s something he wanna talk to me about and too long to be written on a text, so I asked him to call me at night, there was a storm and he stayed over at his friends house till things cool down, so after he left he sent a voice message talking about it while he was driving, i told him why you didn’t call, and he started saying “why dont you call? Why don’t you initiate conversation? Why am I the one always initiating? Don’t tell me men talk first rule” I didn’t argue with him but tried to explain myself and promised him to change, and I started changing, I called him first twice! Last time I called him he seemed off, I asked him what’s wrong and he said “I’m sad” I asked him why, and he said “no I’m just joking”. Two days after, he didn’t talk so I thought he is busy, the day after he didn’t talk as well, so I got worried and talked to him and asked where has he been and if things are alright, he replied saying that everything is fine don’t worry. Couple hours later, it was my birthday, so he texted me wishing me a happy birthday, then after that I didn’t hear back from him, it’s been a week now, He once told me that he has a friend who always try to fight with his gf before her birthday so he won’t bring her a gift, I don’t know if this means anything in my situation with him, I’m really confused and upset that he suddenly stopped talking specifically it’s my birthday I expected him to celebrate me! I don’t know what do and how to react, I’m so hurt. I really liked him 🙁
Hi Sezzy,
Scorpio dudes come off cold for a number of reasons. Before answering this, I’d advise you to take a step back, look at the friendship/relationship for what it actually is, and find the answer because more likely than not the answer is probably right in your face. When dealing with a Scorpio, it usually is.
Okay, so here are a few reasons your Scorpio guy could be acting distant suddenly:
– Scorpios are naturally very introverted.
– Scorpios are notorious for being human lie detectors.
– Say they are talking for purposes of romance.
Hope this helps!
Im pretty patient for a LEO.. im also 47 so that helps me to not be such a big baby as i was in my youth for attention and validation. What i do get sick of hearing is the fact that Scorpio needs so much compromise.. where is there compromise?.. how do we go about that? That must be the price to pay. I am with a Scorpio and he has shown me a world i’ve never know.. i have been with Aries, Gemini, and Aquarius.. Gemini was easiest but a rollercoaster. Aries too egotistical. Aquarius, lazy, secretive, too emotional over the same topics over and over and over but not proactive about resolve. Scorpio is independent and i love that.. I dont mind working for his trust because i know its incomparable to any other… I always take a breath before i speak, text, or call.. let an hour pass.. so too will your mood to where one can more easily be welcomed or approach scorpio.. however my scorpio doesn’t do confrontation AT ALL.. no matter how nice, how kind, they clam up and ignore. So i ignore too. I ignore for as long as he does and then when i respond, im kind but short.. not wordy like normal.. wonder if he notices this.
I had to correct this.. I said, “there” compromise; I mean, “their” compromise. Had to correct. That’s the Leo in me. lol
Hlw Raina here
I met an scorpion guy n m Sagittarius we have lots of things similar n we enjoy talking, n all we didnt meet yet we connected recently during lockdown.. And we are super excited to meet eachother. I understand him a alot i have by tlking to him or checking his pictures i told him about his life what he is stubborn, etc and he feels i m his guidance n the one he wants me beside him but as he is into bodybuilding but becaise of lockdown he couldnt continue n is upset off what’s going on.. He is disturb and he said he is not fine n soni decided to give him space though whatever is above written in ur page it matches to ours. He checks my txt n replies but stay offline most of the time he is messing up with his mind n try to solve but i end up worrying for him n keep thinking about him.. N i drop a mrng txt.. N in between the day whether he had his meal in time or not n then at night a good night or soo.. So i dont know what to do why is he being so stubborn n stressed will he talked to after he solves everything up he is facing or not?? Or anythng i should know. Help me find the way please
Hi dear,
The Scorpio Sun person spends a lot of effort and time coming to his point of view on a subject. Once he has reached that view he considers it to be the best possible view on the subject. He doesn’t see any reason to change that view. He knows he is right. Direct confrontation does not work with Scorpio. Head-on confrontations will leave you both feeling very frustrated and angry. It is then a matter of who is more fixed and/or angry as to the outcome.
If you want to be able to communicate with a Scorpio you must appeal to his/her emotional side. Let him see an alternative that doesn’t conflict with his set opinion. Or sometimes you will need to let the issue go for the time being and talk about it at a better time.
Sincere!
Hi Rolland,
Hope you and everyone is keeping safe during these crazy times.
So I’m a Leo, and I met a Scorpio guy on Instagram only a few days ago. The first few days were great. He was really consistent with his communication, calling and texting. Then a few days after, I started feeling constant pressure on me to speak to him even when the conversation was very bland from his side. I also notice he wasn’t as talkative and passionate as he was when he first messaged me.
So, yesterday I wanted some space from him and didn’t reach out the whole day like I would usually (I think the Leo in me took over). He didn’t message me at all either. Before going to bed, I decided to give him a call, which he declined after first bell. He’s checking everything I’m doing but I haven’t heard from him. Any advice?
Hi Kim,
Scorpios are very strange people indeed. No one will ever entirely figure them out. But they are secretive and they do play games. So one possibility is that he is still trying to figure you out. Or that he is looking for your secret. But you can get around this by telling him. He loves the dirt. He won’t act like it, but he does. He is also looking for when you are the most vulnerable. If you have a lot of people around you, he won’t like that. He wants a sneak attack. Be alone and lonely and let him know there is something bothering you. Control is the middle name for Scorpio so nothing too complicated. Let him think he is in control. Be vulnerable. He can’t resist that. However will all this being said, don’t be too easy.
Sincere!