You got a crush on a Sagittarius man and want him to chase you?
What to do if your love interest is the Sagittarius male?
Compared to other fire zodiac signs (Aries and Leo), Sagittarius is much more easygoing and friendly. He is the person of challenges and tending to follow his instincts.
As the optimistic kind, he believes that everything in this world has the solution. In addition to that, why should he work hard to gain the heart of one specific lady while there are plenty of women out there?
When he does something but it wastes too much of his time, then he chooses to leave it aside and continue with other tasks.
Of course, if a Sagittarius man falls for someone romantically, he will try several times to get a date with that person. He seems to be the first one to make the call or send message afterward. However, once he senses that you’re not keen with what he is doing, then he will immediately stop himself from being devoted.
Here are obvious signs a Sagittarius is interested!
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BEST Tips of Making a Sagittarius Man Chase You
#1: Be honest…but not 100% transparent
A serious man looks for a woman, not a girl.
If you want to attract a Sagittarius male, you must be independent enough to know what you really want. Also, he hates playing games.
Remember that you’re trying to get him to chase you. However, if you tell him that you want to commit after just a few dates, he is going to run away since Sagittarius values his freedom…a lot.
In this case, a better approach is to drop hints subtly that you’re available. Show your interest in particular things (not by words, of course) and his feelings for you may develop beyond a crush or a few dates.
Display your honesty…just not all of it!
Though being honest is the basic foundation when it comes to dating, it doesn’t mean you have to expose every emotion and thought deep inside. Right now, you are getting Sagittarius man to chase you, so it’s much better if you can decide how many percentage of transparency you need to provide in this relationship.
Be open but also let him know that he cannot completely access your heart and brain.
#2: Be independent…but not too isolated
Sagittarius man likes to challenge himself; thus, submissive women who are available most of the time are not really his ideal type.
Instead, he is more into the lady who is fiercely independent. Show him there are lots of things ranking higher than him in the list even though he’s important to you.
The key here is – you must find out how to make a Sagittarius man miss you.
Why don’t you spend some time apart?
It’s the opportunity to make him think about you. He will start wondering what you are doing and enjoy learning about you through social media. He’ll even get excited and be likely to chase you when seeing you act aggressive.
Don’t mind sharing things you find interesting with him. He would love seeing your enthusiasm and passion in whatever you do. Confidently answer his questions as it’s the best way for him to discover your true self.
Tell him how much you enjoy being around him.
#3: Be yourself…never in the way he wants
Most of women usually act as a totally different person when having a date with the man they are interested in. Ridiculously, men are only turned on by the female who is completely herself.
Don’t try to become another version of someone else!
If you want to know how to make a Sagittarius man want you, the answer is simply being yourself.
There are plenty of ladies, which mean your love interest has plenty of choices. His ideal type is the woman who is unique in style and in way of thinking. Never act as a clingy person; actually, he is more drawn into a genuine gal who is busy with her own life rather than spending time following his every step.
However, don’t make him feel that you ignore him or he will unintentionally leave immediately.
Furthermore, he’s not looking for a woman who just keeps nodding to everything he says as well as doing whatever he asks. This Sag guy wants his partner to state her opinions in every situation. So, if you have any disagreement, tell him honestly.
You don’t wait to respond to his texts; in fact, you are busy all day, remember!
#4: Want him…but don’t need him
Even if you know that you’ve grown strong, passionate feelings for Sagittarius man, please act as nothing happen. Once he senses that you have fallen in love with him, he may give up the chance if not getting hooked anymore.
A man wants to be wanted, not needed, in a relationship.
This is what we call making him obssessed with you!
Being wanted makes him feel sexy, desirable, and admirable. On the other hand, being needed gives him the feeling that you’re trying to trap him and require him to make the commitment without recognizing whether he wants it or not.
As soon as you’ve developed serious affection for this guy, tell yourself that he is not the reason for living. Obviously having him in your life can brighten your life; however, you are still able to be happy by yourself.
On the outside, show that you want him and give him some of your affections (not wholly); at the same time, build a fence to protect yourself from getting hurt by a Sagittarius in the future.
Again, ignoring him is not a good option as it make the Archer feel left out.
Will a Sagittarius man chase you?
You do have a good chance to make him fall for you if you know how to be happy on your own.
#5: Stay active around him
If you want a Sagittarius guy to fall in love with you, then be upbeat. Spread only positive energy around him, like smiling a lot and keeping things lighthearted. Do not bad-mouth about any person or anything as well as not start a negative conservation with him.
What type of woman he is looking for?
This guy wants to be with someone who is able to keep up with him. He is a fast-paced person always found to be on the go. In order to get him to chase you, the key is to show him that you are also as active as he is.
As a huge flirt, he has no matter if receiving flirty messages from you. Flirty and sexy are fine as long as you lure him with your lair only. Never think of showing him naked shots as you’re not after him just for making love. Give him sincere compliments about his looks, the way he talks, and so on – he’ll appreciate it a lot as Sagittarius man is always curious about how you think about him.
Hooking him with mystery is a wise move as he gets bored with women throwing themselves at him immediately.
In short, be fun and playful when around him!
When a Shy Sagittarius Man Likes You…
What he looks in potential partner?
Though he is often stunned by a woman’s beauty, just the looks cannot keep his heart forever. Sagittarius man seeks intellectual stimulation. If you’re dating one, try to make deep, inquisitive discussions with him – as he loves talking about everything in life, it’s better to widen your knowledge in different topics.
In addition, this guy prefers independent women who are capable of taking care of themselves well. He will have a very good impression to the lady dressing well, smelling nice, and having a great style.
Freedom is extremely important to a Sagittarius, so don’t be clingy if you want to be with him.
Many feel hesitant to be with the Sag male in a romantic relationship because he quickly loses his interest. Despite his short attention spans, he is actually committed and dedicated once truly falling in love. Dating with him is like riding a roller coaster – not a dull moment; it will be full of new and exciting adventures. If you want to maintain his feelings for you for long term, the tip is to shower him with surprises and excitement almost every day.
He is known for being brutally honest and tactful; therefore, there will be times you will get hurt by his words. It’s just his way of expressing what he feels, not that he wants to mean.
How to Tell if a Sagittarius Man Likes You?
As you probably, your Sagittarius love interest is a flirt; thus, it’s quite challenging to determine whether he’s just into you at a moment or he’s serious about you. For sure, the archer enjoys the chase; that’s why you should make the initial move no matter how much you like him.
If he asks you to join him in his adventure, high chances that he already falls hard for you. Interestingly, he does prefer to be asked out sometimes. But, in general, this guy still loves the feeling of going after someone.
Don’t quickly tell him that you like him!
The trick here is to be a bit mysterious when talking to him. Play hard to get and keep him guessing, and he can’t help but asking you out as he wants to know more about you. He will never stop until discovering your truest self as well as how you feel about him.
How to Keep the Sagittarius Man?
If you read this part, it means you’ve won the heart of the archer.
So, what to do now?
This guy is independent and really loves his freedom. He will instantly run away once feeling tied down in the relationship. As a free spirit, he does not want to stay with someone who tries to control him and lock him up.
Just let him climb to the top of Mount Everest as he wishes. Don’t get involved with a Sagittarius if you cannot accept his spontaneous adventures and activities. He hates women possessive and jealous; instead, he prefers the lady who is as independent as he is and who also dedicates time to her own life.
Wrap it up
Due to Sagittarius characteristics male, the Archer on the astrology wheel is complicated.
How to tell if a Sagittarius man loves you?
Sometimes it’s very hard to read his mind or catch up with his thinking when it comes to love. Many women find his changeable moods are difficult to deal with. However, once you’re capable of handling his mood swings, then you might be his potential match.
Making a Sagittarius grow interested deeply in someone requires a long process.
Why?
He seems to be a flirty; yet, this guy is quite picky with the matter related to serious relationships.
When it comes to love compatibility, he seems not get along well with the lady born under the Scorpio horoscope sign.
His strength as well as weakness is his honesty. So, learn to accept his brutal words if you want a long-term relationship with him. What he says to you can either brighten your day or crush your dreams in just a few seconds.
If you still be determined to seduce a Sagittarius male and make him chase you, then good luck!
Getting involved in a romance with a Sagittarius is worth your effort.
Hello,
I have been seeing a sag man for over a year. And I became very fond of him, so was he.
I am a Muslim Asian woman, and live with my daughter. I am legally married but I don’t live with my husband for more than three years. The man is European, single with a son.
The sag man knows about it. And he always told me that he thinks I am a fantastic mother. About my marriage, I do understand that it is a difficult to make any commitment under such situation.
We have become good friends, we talked a lot, specially about life, kids, work and many other things. He clearly showed me that he cares about me. The sex was fantastic and we also do a lot of fun things together. I live in his home town. He took me to places, we often go for walk in my neighbouring vineyards, hiking and movies too.
On one occasion, I got upset from hearing a bad news and he was instantly available, cooked dinner for me, also tried to comfort.
Then all of a sudden, after a year of constant contact, he started to act strange. He didn’t contact for days, when I did, he replied very harshly, saying that I don’t value him or like him enough. Even though I always expressed my feelings for him. Then he completely stopped communicating. I kept trying for four weeks, then I also stopped. Now, after another three weeks he is emailing me information. I know this is his way of trying to get in touch with me. He is shy, beside I am a strong independent woman. So its not easy for him. But I also I don’t understand what he wants from me. He seem super confused for his age. He is approaching fifties, I am in my mid forties.
Dear Farnad,
I can tell that your Sagittarius guy really enjoys the chase. However, as Sagittarius guys are kind of afraid of commitment, so if you’re leaning towards that he will feel smothered. Be patient and don’t be too pushy, that will only drive him away.
Sincere!
Hello! I have been seeing a sag man for a month now. He’s separated, on process of divorce with 3 kids. He texts and talks to me every day from morning to time to sleep, but I always have to ask him to go out or come to my house, or any plans. He doesn’t have the initiative to ask. He always says yes but recently I asked if he was liking me like as a commitment potential person and he says he does like me but he has too much going on right now, he’s not sure what he wants and he’s not ready for commitment. He still txts me everyday and we talk about everything, from his kids to his most confident issues and about wanting each other such as cuddles, massage, doing fun things together. I’m prob wrong in suggesting places and things to do all the time and I am not sure how to act in order to make him fall for me,,, because I think he does like me but I’m confused if what he says is out of not being that into me or just because he truly needs time to figure his things out! Help and opinion please
Dear Jenn,
Sag guys are open in a closed way. Hard to explain. They don’t like to be too emotionally available and vulnerable but they are capable of saying it. Just make sure that when he says “i love you” it’s backed up by action. Sag guys are weird. One day they love you, the next, they get bored and find something more interesting. If he’s a friend telling you this…I don’t know…don’t take it too serious. I will tell you that there has to be something from him to say “i love you” even if it’s said lightheartedly and jokingly. He probably has a crush on you and cares for you deeply but never take a Sag guy’s words to seriously.
Sincere!
So I may have messed up, I’m talking to a Sagittarius man and we have plans to hang out/hook up, we used to be co workers and through talking found out we’ve both had a thing for each other the whole time. Almost all of our conversations have Unintentionally gotten hot and heavy and have involved sending nude photos which I’m reading is a no no with a Sag man. He used to pay me more compliments and seem more interested in normal conversation before the sexual talk started, however now he seems to be cutting straight to the sexual stuff when we talk. At this point I’m not sure if he’s thinking of me as just a hook up or if he’s intrigued by me in a potential relationship type of way? We don’t talk every day and I intentionally am not texting him first I’m letting him pursue me is that the right thing to do? I’m interested in actually getting to know him more and to try progressing a relationship beyond a one time thing. Is there any way I can back track or do anything to be more mysterious going forward to keep him on the hook given that I’ve already made it obvious that I’m really interested in him? I’m a Leo female if that helps. Thanks in advance!
Dear Ashley,
At this moment I think he’s enjoying the flirting with you, and no, he doesn’t like being chased so let him take the initiative. Don’t rush for things as it takes time for a Sag to actually fall for you. They may make u feel insecure at first but once they fall in love they are true lovers but its hard to get them.
Sincere!
Ah, you are so wise and so correct! Indeed, even if he really was the man I was with, in that dream of 15 years ago, he has the same looks, but the man from the dream was holding me like something precious. So, it really can’t be him! You really found it! If he does not have the courtesy to not even care to reply to my messages for 11 months. I never thought there is such a person, who won’t respond for 11 months. I get the conclusion that he was trading sex with a friendship to me. I stopped providing the sex, so he stopped providing the friendship. This is so outrageous and un-human. Can Sag men can be so brutal? This is the biggest shock of my life. I will never, ever, not even think of being together with a Sag, ever again…
Hello! You seem to know a great deal about Sag men! I recently met a Sag guy(Capricorn in Venus). I am a taurus lady. We have been talking for a month and a half. We finally met this past week, as he invited me to his house. Up until this point we have talked on the phone, facetimed, and even text. Our communication was fairly consistent. We didn’t talk every day, but for the most part, he has been responsive and shown interest. We have been going slow, and it felt like a healthy pace. When he invited me to his house, he cooked dinner for me then watched some TV and cuddled by holding hands and laying on him. (We didn’t have sex and he was very respectful.)He had been very respectful and kind up until that point. When we met in person he seemed really comfortable and treated me well. After the date, I texted him that I was home and thanks for a great evening, he didn’t reply. I now haven’t heard from him in 5 days. Usually, he doesn’t disappoint whenever I wondered if he was interested. I haven’t contacted him since then, because I understand people need their space. However, we took some time to talk and get to know each other, and our first meeting was very good (at least from my point of view.) I have not heard from him in a week. I just need to know if he ghosted me or just taking space.
Dear Karen,
There are many reasons for a Sag to ignore you: Maybe he thought you were getting too serious, and he got scared and ran. He likes you, but he is having trouble committing himself to one girl right now. Maybe he is trying to decide right now if you are a girl he wants to date seriously. Maybe he assumes that because you’d been talking with each other for just a few months and perhaps hadn’t really quite connected, it was okay to just stop talking with you.
Why don’t you call him and ask to meet with him to talk about why he isn’t talking with you anymore? You will then get to the bottom of the problem!
Sincere!