You got a crush on a Sagittarius man and want him to chase you?
What to do if your love interest is the Sagittarius male?
Compared to other fire zodiac signs (Aries and Leo), Sagittarius is much more easygoing and friendly. He is the person of challenges and tending to follow his instincts.
As the optimistic kind, he believes that everything in this world has the solution. In addition to that, why should he work hard to gain the heart of one specific lady while there are plenty of women out there?
When he does something but it wastes too much of his time, then he chooses to leave it aside and continue with other tasks.
Of course, if a Sagittarius man falls for someone romantically, he will try several times to get a date with that person. He seems to be the first one to make the call or send message afterward. However, once he senses that you’re not keen with what he is doing, then he will immediately stop himself from being devoted.
Here are obvious signs a Sagittarius is interested!
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BEST Tips of Making a Sagittarius Man Chase You
#1: Be honest…but not 100% transparent
A serious man looks for a woman, not a girl.
If you want to attract a Sagittarius male, you must be independent enough to know what you really want. Also, he hates playing games.
Remember that you’re trying to get him to chase you. However, if you tell him that you want to commit after just a few dates, he is going to run away since Sagittarius values his freedom…a lot.
In this case, a better approach is to drop hints subtly that you’re available. Show your interest in particular things (not by words, of course) and his feelings for you may develop beyond a crush or a few dates.
Display your honesty…just not all of it!
Though being honest is the basic foundation when it comes to dating, it doesn’t mean you have to expose every emotion and thought deep inside. Right now, you are getting Sagittarius man to chase you, so it’s much better if you can decide how many percentage of transparency you need to provide in this relationship.
Be open but also let him know that he cannot completely access your heart and brain.
#2: Be independent…but not too isolated
Sagittarius man likes to challenge himself; thus, submissive women who are available most of the time are not really his ideal type.
Instead, he is more into the lady who is fiercely independent. Show him there are lots of things ranking higher than him in the list even though he’s important to you.
The key here is – you must find out how to make a Sagittarius man miss you.
Why don’t you spend some time apart?
It’s the opportunity to make him think about you. He will start wondering what you are doing and enjoy learning about you through social media. He’ll even get excited and be likely to chase you when seeing you act aggressive.
Don’t mind sharing things you find interesting with him. He would love seeing your enthusiasm and passion in whatever you do. Confidently answer his questions as it’s the best way for him to discover your true self.
Tell him how much you enjoy being around him.
#3: Be yourself…never in the way he wants
Most of women usually act as a totally different person when having a date with the man they are interested in. Ridiculously, men are only turned on by the female who is completely herself.
Don’t try to become another version of someone else!
If you want to know how to make a Sagittarius man want you, the answer is simply being yourself.
There are plenty of ladies, which mean your love interest has plenty of choices. His ideal type is the woman who is unique in style and in way of thinking. Never act as a clingy person; actually, he is more drawn into a genuine gal who is busy with her own life rather than spending time following his every step.
However, don’t make him feel that you ignore him or he will unintentionally leave immediately.
Furthermore, he’s not looking for a woman who just keeps nodding to everything he says as well as doing whatever he asks. This Sag guy wants his partner to state her opinions in every situation. So, if you have any disagreement, tell him honestly.
You don’t wait to respond to his texts; in fact, you are busy all day, remember!
#4: Want him…but don’t need him
Even if you know that you’ve grown strong, passionate feelings for Sagittarius man, please act as nothing happen. Once he senses that you have fallen in love with him, he may give up the chance if not getting hooked anymore.
A man wants to be wanted, not needed, in a relationship.
This is what we call making him obssessed with you!
Being wanted makes him feel sexy, desirable, and admirable. On the other hand, being needed gives him the feeling that you’re trying to trap him and require him to make the commitment without recognizing whether he wants it or not.
As soon as you’ve developed serious affection for this guy, tell yourself that he is not the reason for living. Obviously having him in your life can brighten your life; however, you are still able to be happy by yourself.
On the outside, show that you want him and give him some of your affections (not wholly); at the same time, build a fence to protect yourself from getting hurt by a Sagittarius in the future.
Again, ignoring him is not a good option as it make the Archer feel left out.
Will a Sagittarius man chase you?
You do have a good chance to make him fall for you if you know how to be happy on your own.
#5: Stay active around him
If you want a Sagittarius guy to fall in love with you, then be upbeat. Spread only positive energy around him, like smiling a lot and keeping things lighthearted. Do not bad-mouth about any person or anything as well as not start a negative conservation with him.
What type of woman he is looking for?
This guy wants to be with someone who is able to keep up with him. He is a fast-paced person always found to be on the go. In order to get him to chase you, the key is to show him that you are also as active as he is.
As a huge flirt, he has no matter if receiving flirty messages from you. Flirty and sexy are fine as long as you lure him with your lair only. Never think of showing him naked shots as you’re not after him just for making love. Give him sincere compliments about his looks, the way he talks, and so on – he’ll appreciate it a lot as Sagittarius man is always curious about how you think about him.
Hooking him with mystery is a wise move as he gets bored with women throwing themselves at him immediately.
In short, be fun and playful when around him!
When a Shy Sagittarius Man Likes You…
What he looks in potential partner?
Though he is often stunned by a woman’s beauty, just the looks cannot keep his heart forever. Sagittarius man seeks intellectual stimulation. If you’re dating one, try to make deep, inquisitive discussions with him – as he loves talking about everything in life, it’s better to widen your knowledge in different topics.
In addition, this guy prefers independent women who are capable of taking care of themselves well. He will have a very good impression to the lady dressing well, smelling nice, and having a great style.
Freedom is extremely important to a Sagittarius, so don’t be clingy if you want to be with him.
Many feel hesitant to be with the Sag male in a romantic relationship because he quickly loses his interest. Despite his short attention spans, he is actually committed and dedicated once truly falling in love. Dating with him is like riding a roller coaster – not a dull moment; it will be full of new and exciting adventures. If you want to maintain his feelings for you for long term, the tip is to shower him with surprises and excitement almost every day.
He is known for being brutally honest and tactful; therefore, there will be times you will get hurt by his words. It’s just his way of expressing what he feels, not that he wants to mean.
How to Tell if a Sagittarius Man Likes You?
As you probably, your Sagittarius love interest is a flirt; thus, it’s quite challenging to determine whether he’s just into you at a moment or he’s serious about you. For sure, the archer enjoys the chase; that’s why you should make the initial move no matter how much you like him.
If he asks you to join him in his adventure, high chances that he already falls hard for you. Interestingly, he does prefer to be asked out sometimes. But, in general, this guy still loves the feeling of going after someone.
Don’t quickly tell him that you like him!
The trick here is to be a bit mysterious when talking to him. Play hard to get and keep him guessing, and he can’t help but asking you out as he wants to know more about you. He will never stop until discovering your truest self as well as how you feel about him.
How to Keep the Sagittarius Man?
If you read this part, it means you’ve won the heart of the archer.
So, what to do now?
This guy is independent and really loves his freedom. He will instantly run away once feeling tied down in the relationship. As a free spirit, he does not want to stay with someone who tries to control him and lock him up.
Just let him climb to the top of Mount Everest as he wishes. Don’t get involved with a Sagittarius if you cannot accept his spontaneous adventures and activities. He hates women possessive and jealous; instead, he prefers the lady who is as independent as he is and who also dedicates time to her own life.
Wrap it up
Due to Sagittarius characteristics male, the Archer on the astrology wheel is complicated.
How to tell if a Sagittarius man loves you?
Sometimes it’s very hard to read his mind or catch up with his thinking when it comes to love. Many women find his changeable moods are difficult to deal with. However, once you’re capable of handling his mood swings, then you might be his potential match.
Making a Sagittarius grow interested deeply in someone requires a long process.
Why?
He seems to be a flirty; yet, this guy is quite picky with the matter related to serious relationships.
When it comes to love compatibility, he seems not get along well with the lady born under the Scorpio horoscope sign.
His strength as well as weakness is his honesty. So, learn to accept his brutal words if you want a long-term relationship with him. What he says to you can either brighten your day or crush your dreams in just a few seconds.
If you still be determined to seduce a Sagittarius male and make him chase you, then good luck!
Getting involved in a romance with a Sagittarius is worth your effort.
I’ve been dating a Sagittarius man for 5 months. We previously dated on and off for 2 years 10 years ago, but ended after a pregnancy scare. During the 10 years he would reach out to me asking if I wanted to get a drink or coffee, I was married with kids so I didn’t take him up on offer. I’m divorced now with 2 kids from previous marriage and ended up agreeing to see him and it was like no time had past when we saw each other. We decided to start seeing each other again. About 3 months into us dating again he let me know he wanted to take things slow and wasn’t ready for a relationship right now. He told me he fell for me and it happened so fast, but just needed more time. He then started distancing himself a little from me, which left me confused and a little heartbroken. After a week of not speaking we started talking again. We have great chemistry and we give each other independence to have a life that isn’t just solely focused on us attached to each other everyday. We discussed that we should take things slow and see where things go with us naturally and since we spoke he has started opening up more and has become very romantic and showing a lot of signs of someone being inlove. He tells me he is addicted to me and loves being with me. I already have met his family and friends when we previously dated 10 years ago, but since we started seeing each other again he hasn’t brought me around friends or family. I really love him but I’m hesitant to let myself completely open up to him if he is never going to commit, but I do really want to be with him.
Dear Marie,
Sagittarius men are quite loyal and committed with the right partner. However, they do not enjoy being boxed in or pressured at all. It must be their idea. They are naturally independent creatures but once they meet the right person, they will absolutely commit and be with that special someone. Sag will never want someone who is clingy or jealous though, they will need to keep some sense of freedom within the relationship for it to flourish and grow.
Sincere!
Dear Sir Wooten, My Sag ex just re-appeared, after 1 year of ignoring my messages! I sent him this: ” I have a confession to make to you, please open my facebook chat”. Suddenly, I see a message from him, sent on a seperate thread marked ”secret, encrypted message”, where the chat warns me ”this message will be automatically deleted 10 seconds after reading”. I open the message and it said ”hello”. That was all. Then his text dissappeared and the space was blank. He put a timer for 10 secs. Just to say ”hello” then ghost. How weird!
I didn’t reply anything, because this looks like a joke. And I don’t want my message to be deleted in 10 secs. One hour later, he blocked me on that secret conversation thread and I can no longer reply.
So it seems he has no problem re-appearing after 1 year, with no explanation, sending ”hello” and blocking me again. Does this look to you like him playing games? Are Sags keen on games? If after 1 year of no contact I am still worth playing games, is this a good sign? Are all Sags are so weird?
Dear Marcia,
Sagittarian prides themselves on being big thinkers, having broad minds, expansive viewpoints, tons of wordly wisdom … prove you have the greater share and that may make him feel a little bad.
Sincere!
Dear Sir Wooten, Merry Christmas to you!!
My ex-Sag had yet another surprise, he went on to block me on messenger just 1 day before Christmas. I think it means ”don’t even try to send me a Christmas wish”. Rather than ignoring my messages, he has now robbed me of the possibility of sending him anything at all.
By the way, he had blocked me again at Christmas for a whole week, also 2 years ago, while we were together, and I had accepted his excuse, blaming technology ”oh, I don’t know how it happened, I didn’t block you”. I quess that means he is always with another girl at Christmas time and he was hiding from me, wanting to be undisturbed. Maybe she studies abroad and comes over at Christmas holidays to be with him, who knows! And when she is here, he hides!
This is so puzzling, I thought Sags were serious and direct men, but this one, he seems playing games, even when we are done. Because I think his blocking means ”work harder, you can no longer reach me”. He would unfriend me and block me totally if he wanted to be done and over. So I see this as playing games and using Christmas time to punish me. Am I right according to your expertise?! I hope so but I may be wrong and a too naive Pisces girl….
Dear Marcia,
I have met a few Sagittarius men who were players so I can relate. There is an adventurous and optimistic inspiration attached to almost everything a typical Sagittarian does. However, I always recommend the entire birth chart be considered.
But if you meet a man with a sun in Sagittarius sun, you will usually get a pretty big Sagittarius vibe as men tend to live in their sun. However, sometimes I think Sagittarius types get a bad reputation for not wanting to commit. What you are most likely seeing is that need to be free, that inner philosopher that needs to be expressed and indulged. This sign in particular needs a mate that is traveling in the same direction. If you are not up for a life-long adventure, you may want to just be friends or get left behind.
I hope this information is helpful!
Take care and happy new year!
Good Day Mr. Wooten,
So I am currently dating a Saggi I think… Im a Leo… We have been friends since high school and well we hit it off pretty well after you know…. I finally showed my interest as he has been chasing me for so long… so his chase was about more than fifteen years… so now we started dating he had to travel for work… asked me to wait for him … so I did… we were electric… we had many adventures .. I think I went wrong when when i asked him what we doing(looking a status) … he says we going with the flow…he highlighted that hes not ready for commitment… he lost two brothers very close to him … even has one tattooed on his chest …( he has changed alot since their death) I think he still grieves for them we have always been honest with each other BUT I’ve been hearing a lot of negatives about him and I have told him every time( im very honest with him)… even from people he considered as friends but even after a few dramatic events( his ex ,…my ex) within dating… he has drastically fall back.. he still responds to my messages.. says everything is good but hes not asking to see me anymore but he keeps tabs wants to know what im up to or where Im going….. when Im off from work but he doesn’t follow up with anything … when I ask why he would say no reason… Im in between minds about him… I personally feel like his interest is somewhere.. everybody says hes a playing games but he ensures me that hes not a player… but I dont know .. he knows I love him … Im so ashamed of my feelings for him … I feel to give up completely but the way he has sparked my heart .. I swear i might not feel that with anyone else.. I dont need him but I do love him .. I only want to make him happy … is that so hard…I think I might have to consider the lost and move on … what are your thoughts .. what do u think ???
Hi Mimi,
They’re sweet but not the best at being attentive. They have their mind on so many other things that sometimes you aren’t their first priority. It’s not that they don’t care about you though, they do, they just aren’t the best at showing it sometimes. This guy is flirty though and that’s just in his nature. He’s a bit of a ladies man but a lot of Sag’s are because they just love to flirt.
Sincere!
Hello Mr Wooten,
I have been talking to a sag man for a few months now. We live in different cities (I live on the East coast and he lives on the West Coast). We met while I was on a work trip in his city – things started off physically and we kept in touch a little bit when I went back home. Any time we’re in the same town (I’m usually only there for a day or two at a time) we meet up and have a good time – I started developing feelings for him and was honest with him about it. He told me he liked me but wasn’t looking for anything serious – I was fine with this as I was seeing other men and was always back and forth between cities. But I stopped our physical relationship and said that we should just be platonic friends. He was fine with this and we remained friends (he is always supportive of my work and is there if I need anything or just need someone to talk to and puts up with my bad moods etc). But I am recently moving full time to the city that he lives in. Since he found out he has been the one to start chasing me (constantly texting and reaching out). He also revealed that he still sees me in that way (physically) and only agreed to be friends to make me happy. I have been quite cold with him – ignoring his messages/taking some time to reply AND have made it clear that I do not want anything casual and I am looking for something more serious (not necessarily with him, but in general). I am not sure what his intentions are now that he is making a serious effort. Will he just seek to restart a purely physical relationship OR now that we will be in the same city do you think he will want to pursue something more meaningful? If it is the first option I would rather just ignore him and move on. Please let me know your thoughts!
Dear Natalie,
Sagittarians aren’t really that open with their feelings, they’re outgoing, and don’t mind contributing to a subject but when it comes to them personally you’ll be very lucky to get past the surface they present to everyone. They aren’t fake though, just protective of how they feel because they kind of see commitment as being locked into something, and nothing turns away quicker than a restraint. They also find it hard to be that vulnerable with someone on an emotional level. It will probably take a while to get there but once you get them please do not play games with their emotions, always be 100% honest, and they are intuitive so we will know if you are lying. They want to settle down, eventually but not with just anyone. You have to keep them stimulated in all ways.
A lot of times, a Sagittarius doesn’t realize that they hurt someone by something they feel is a harmless comment/action. I know a few Sagittarians(including myself) that have done this. But they most likely mean no harm.
Sincere!
Dear Sir Wooten,
Thank you so much, as you have truly laid out so much enlightening knowledge about the Sag men!
There was just a shock in the new year for me! I checked my ex Sag’s facebook wall, from another account (he has banned me from seeing his wall) and one friend writes to him ”happy new year my friend and enjoy your family”. But I know he is living alone, having moved to his own appartment a year ago, his mum is a widow living at her house, and his sister is married. So which family exactly is his friend talking about? I fear he got married recently and may even have a baby! This can explain why he stopped replying to my messages for 1 full year (too busy changing nappies), why he banned me from his facebook wall for 2 years (not to see any wedding pictures), why he would block me on Christmas and Summer holidays (obviously to be with his serious girlfriend during the holidays, who became his now wife). If this is true, I can’t believe how badly I have been played… I am not sure he got married, but I am very suspicious after seeing this message to him by his friend… Wouldn’t a real Sag have the guts and courtesy to let me know, if he had another relationship, or if he got married? Then I would have let him go, and not waste sending him any more messages to him for a whole further year. Why all this secrecy and wasting my time….!
Then learn to let things go dear!
Have a new fresh start in 2020 and don’t get yourself involved in a toxic relationship…you deserve better.
Sincere!