Have you found yourself interested in a Scorpio male?
If you are a woman not afraid to take on the challenge, this guy is for you.
Considered as a mysterious and insecure creature, Scorpio is very picky and hard to fall in love.
Getting him to give you attention requires much of your time and effort.
Compared to men of other zodiac signs, guys with Scorpio sign is famously difficult to interpret as well as win over. Because of Scorpio’s unapproachable personality, women tend to look for tips to conquer his heart.
In this article, Peter Risdon will let you know what attracts Scorpio men to a woman and keys making yourself more appealed to him.
Following the information below, you will obtain a chance with the man of your dream.
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How to Get a Scorpio Man to Fall in Love with You?
#1: Challenge him
Do you know what makes Scorpio man want you?
For ladies planning to attract this guy, you must master the ‘play hard to get’ technique. Learn how to play the mouse-and-cat game; this will take you one step closer to his heart. Though he is extremely loyal, he may soon get bored if you do nothing to remain his affection to you.
If you are the servile or ingratiating type, it’s hard for you to earn his respect.
Whether you get involved with him in a romance or any relationships, this man always sees you as his equal.
#2: Give him his own space
Scorpio man is not interested in a clingy partner.
Due to his nature, this is a cold and distant person. So, don’t be surprised when he wastes such a very long time to open up and trust someone. Patience is the key of attracting him!
When you try to learn about this guy, don’t ask too many questions related to his personal affairs. He also dislikes anyone digging into his secrets or private corner on all social media pages. It’s never a wise thing to force him change any of his habits or traits.
You should make Scorpio man to miss you, not to let him run away from you.
Once he allows you to step into his inner circle, you will immediately feel his warmth and loyalty.
#3: Be honest
What a Scorpio man wants in a woman?
He really hates the feeling of being betrayed by his loved ones and will never forget if this happens. Unlike others, this guy holds a terrible grudge. If you are thinking of making some little white lies with your Scorpio, never tell lies as it enables to ruin the possibility and longevity of your relationship with him.
Make sure you have to be honest with a zodiac Scorpio guy, even though you two are just dating.
Although he prefers an air of mystery between you and him, it doesn’t mean you can tell your crush the obscured truths. Since he values honesty more than anything, it’s a must to answer his question with sincerity.
Such a wise choice will mark you as Scorpio’s potential girlfriend
#4: Be flirty
Keep in mind that Scorpio is the most sensual sign in the zodiac.
Well, it doesn’t mean sex is all he wants once starting a love relationship. However, by knowing ways to attract a Scorpio man physically, you will get the key to unlock his heart and be with him for a long time.
Catch up with his intense passion or his mood may strike.
To strengthen a relationship with a Scorpio man, you must learn how to spark his sexual desire deep inside…maybe a little buildup or teasing takes much of your time, but it’s totally worth trying. Also, whenever having a conversation with this guy, remember to keep it light and grab any opportunity to act a bit of playful and flirty.
Will you be able to turn him on?
How can you tell that he mysteriously gets attracted to you? Probably you want to discover most common signs a Scorpio man is into you.
#5: Display an air of mystery
How to get a Scorpio man attention?
My answer is – be mysterious!
As you all know, both Scorpio and Aquarius are two most curious astrology signs in the zodiac; however, Scorpio is on a higher level. Very inquisitive by nature, this man craves to know everything about you; remember that this trait will always be with him even after you two are together for a long time.
The issue here is – you shouldn’t reveal all of yourself at once; instead, I advise you to be as mysterious as him so that you can arouse his curiosity.
I know you like him a lot, but try not to see him too often. At the same time, please make sure that he is planning for his chase as well as to get to know you. Generally, become an aloof woman and act as you don’t want your Scorpio to obviously know about your intentions.
#6: Be an independent woman
What kind of woman attracts a Scorpio man the most?
Characteristically, the Scorpio male is accomplished, self-sufficient, and independent in nature. That’s why he tends to seek out for ladies who possess those similar personality traits.
You have to be independent and confident to capture the attention of the Scorpio male. He has no interest in women who are too timid, reserved, and introvert. Let your personality shine when talking with the independent-minded guy.
Remember that confidence has no relation to the loud, flashy nature; so, does not cross the line.
#7: Understand his personality well
If you want a Scorpio man to fall for you for a long time, then it’s a must to know about his personality on an in-depth level.
This guy is complicated and hard to deal with; therefore, before you want the answer for whether this guy is interested in you, you should make research about him.
He is an independent, passionate, and extremely loyal. Never taking love too lightly, all he looks for is a long-term committed relationship. Though he enjoys challenges, his interest in you will slowly fade if you play push and pull for too long.
The right timing is very important when attracting a Scorpio!
#8: Confidently speak up your mind
This guy has a huge impression for women who aren’t afraid of speaking their mind freely and honestly. When having conversations, don’t hesitate to talk to him about what you like and dislike, your life goals, and other stuff. Remember to show him the passion in your eyes.
Display the confidence in your voice and you’ll get all of his attention.
The smarter you look, the more attractive he finds you. Since a Scorpio is quite competitive and enjoys challenges, it’s a good idea to start a serious talk with him in which you two will discuss about the current affair on politics or economy.
Those topics seem to be heavy for a woman; however, he will immediately be drawn to you if you can manage that well.
#9: Be sincere
When pursuing a Scorpio man, you shouldn’t draw a line between you two. He won’t be able to make his approach if you are too guarded; instead, get closer to him by exposing your deepest emotion.
This guy when falling in love is very curious about his love interest. Hence, being honest with him about your feelings is a good way to win his heart. Tell him your thoughts about certain things and display you true emotions in every conversation. Different colors of you will certainly attract him!
If Scorpio man is not interested, he wouldn’t have the passion to know about you. So, in case he asks you anything, take that gold chance to show him your inner beauty as well as your truest self.
#10: Let him be himself
Even though he may be a bit shy or reserved, it doesn’t mean that you can control him or force him to reveal anything since the very first meeting. He feels extremely uncomfortable if being told by anyone, especially those whom he barely knows about.
He is a secretive person, so it probably takes him several months to open up to someone. Rather than pushing him to put down his guard, you’re advised to give him time until he completely trusts you.
He dislikes being in control; thus, don’t tell him what to do or how to get things done. Simply let him be whatever he wants to be. Be attentive to everything he says as sometimes he will make questions to make sure if you’re keeping up with his talk.
What Kind of Woman Attracts a Scorpio Man?
If you want to be the lady of his dream, then here are a few things to remember.
As mentioned earlier, he doesn’t like to be told he’s wrong; especially if you criticize him harshly. When it comes to making his point, the Scorpio male is confident and honest; that’s why he doesn’t expect to get involved with a ‘yes’ woman.
In most conversations, he needs to be questioned and challenged. Don’t be afraid of engaging him in debates; nevertheless, you must have enough knowledge and know exactly what you are discussing about.
It’s precise to develop a connection with him on the mental & intellectual levels.
So, you should be a person that can handle strong challenges because Scorpio man will never give in just because he likes you. Get prepared for intellectual arguments. Keep in mind that this guy will not admit the fact they are defeated; thus, it’s necessary to stop the debate at the appropriate moment.
Don’t let it turn into an intense conflict!
In Conclusion
With all these tips in mind, now you can prepare better for the purpose of winning your Scorpio man’s heart. The process of getting him to fall in love with you is not easy, especially at the initial stage.
However, don’t give up quickly. Be a little more patient and you will soon be able to build a strong connection with this guy. The relationship with a Scorpio is certainly rewarding and brings you many great moments.
How is the compatibility of this guy?
It seems like his relationship with Virgo woman, Scorpio woman or Pisces woman is built to last. The combination of Scorpio-Sagittarius does not meet the expectation as both have nothing much in common.
Lastly, please note that a Scorpio man in love is romantic, loving, loyal, and tender. But sometimes he can become envious and extremely possessive. If you think that playing games of jealousy can attract him to you, then you are so wrong.
Get ready for an adventure ride with your Scorpio man!
For any question about this topic, simply contact Peter Risdon via comment!
Hi Rolland,
I am a Taurus woman falling in love with a Scorpio man. I believe in astrology, and I fit in PERFECTLY in my Taurus description. I am a typial Taurus woman. The description on your website about my crush is very accurate. My question is, as my nature is very impatient, what can I do more to win my Scorpio man’s heart? I make sure he understand I give him his space and don’t push anything. He is secretive and doesn’t have much contact, but when we are together he is amazing and extremely romantic, so I guess he likes me! I would appreciate your advice!
Dear Laila,
Aside from being patient and respecting his privacy, you must gain his trust completely. He is secretive because right now he feels that you’re not reliable enough for him to count on. Win his trust and you will have his heart totally.
Sincere!
Hii
I m virgo women having relationship with scorpio man. I know he loves me but he never admits nd sometimes he’s bit cold. I feel insecure abt him a lot sometimes he become distant. I don’t know what to do.
Dear Petty,
A Sagittarius needs their space and sometimes this is really difficult to understand. The space is their way of keeping themselves balanced, they need time with themselves. But that DOESN’T mean they love you any less.
Talking is one of the things Sags are always glad to do as they are open. If you still have doubts after his answers, or if you still feel insecure, give the relation some more time. Sags need some time to really commit. But once they do, they’re in it for real.
Sincere!
Hi, I’m a cancer woman and I’ve been knowing this Scorpio man for about 5 months now. I can’t read him and it’s hard to tell if he’s interested so I do play hard to get but I don’t want to do it to much that I start pushing him away. We have been intimate a couple times but that’s it we haven’t been on any dates and we don’t really talk. I’m trying to respect his space and his privacy but I’m very black and white and I feel like he is giving a lot of gray areas. In a face to face conversation he contradicts himself so much. I’m confused. Should I just give up on him or just wait and see what happens??
Dear Indigo,
Scorpio man are not good about communicating as to what is actually wrong with them. I think if you sit him down and ask him what is really bothering him, he will open up to you. Though his secretiveness may be confusing, he is loyal in love and worth your investment. Don’t give up quickly – maybe he is testing you..make him feel safe enough with you untill he lets you know whats going on inside his mind.
Sincere!
I’m a Scorpio woman. I believe in astrology as it says all about my personality correctly. However, they say that a Scorpio man and a Scorpio woman cannot be together. Because even if they share the same personality and interest, I’m afraid that it will not end well between us. I’m currently in love with a Scorpio guy, but I doubt if we will last for a long time. He is a rich guy, and I am “nobody”. He said he would give whatever I want, but I’m afraid that he would ask for something that I could hardly give. I’m afraid to be manipulated or toyed by him. He’s a foreign guy, and I’m also hesitant to live with him as he is going to take me away from my family. I’m a woman who doesn’t fear anything, but facing a guy who I can say is my male version bothers me the most. I love him but I’m just afraid, it’s like I’m challenging my own self. Dominance is my thing, and is his’.
Dear Charo,
The trouble here is that both of you can get a bit possessive – so in the early stages, you may be monitoring each other’s comings and goings quite closely. You each like to know more about the other than you’ll tell about yourself, but you can’t get away with that here. You’ve met your match; your soul mate knows all your instincts and hot buttons. You both are intuitive and compassionate, which is wonderful because your emotional foundation together will be strong. In this relationship, you lovers communicate without speaking, by using your uncommonly expressive eyes. With a wink, a glance, or a gaze, you can transmit paragraphs of information.
Go ahead, for this could be the love of your life. You want intensity, and you’ve got it with this lover!
Sincere!
Dear Rolland. I am a scorpio woman and i have been talking to scorpio man for 1 year now. We have only seen each other once since we both are busy with our careers. But this man has my attention daily. I think about him but i feel like i cant get a hold on his thought . He is a someone who has been involved in bigger businesses, trying to build his empire. He messages me now and then but always keeps it lowkey and simple. I dont really know what he wants from me. Is it only my looks or do i really intrigued him? We are trying to see each other but i feel like he always puts his bussiness on number one. I am curious if he is ready for love? Being committed? He is working alot abroad so i get that he wont have much time. I know he is atracked by my looks but i want to know. What more does he need? Can this actually work?
Dear Laila,
Let me real you in here. Forget the Scorpio thing, cuz they commit all the time.
If a scorpio tells you something then most of the time its really true because scorpios don’t ever lie. And your scorpio man is testing you to see if he really wants to be with you and scorpios do like space.
Sincere!