He is definitely not a nice guy when trying to break off with you.
Are you suffering from the relationship with Scorpio man?
There’s one thing I should tell you about this guy: he can become a real jerk when he is done with you. Don’t be surprised if he treats you with an abrupt manner or says something rude to you.
No matter how serious you talk to him, he probably cuts off the conversation, suddenly yells or acts unruly without logic.
How to handle this guy?
Maybe you should consider leaving a Scorpio man alone in case he ignores you.
When his emotions take over, it’s difficult for him to handle things in a logical or reasonable way. If your Scorpio man senses that you’ve done anything terrible to him, he will be snippy and crappy.
So it’s better not to hurt him or you cannot live with him for a long term.
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When a Scorpio Man Ignores You…
Does Scorpio man stops communicating all of sudden?
Due to Scorpio personality traits, he is introspective and independent. In case he withdraws from you, it’s because he needs his own space to deal with his problems, stress, or workload.
Sometimes he’s also distant from you if he feels irritated with the current relationship. That’s when you’ll find him disappear for awhile (a few hours or even a few days) to clear his mind.
It may be not fair with you, but there’s no way to win your Scorpio partner back but to get to know and accept this trait of his. Well, this guy in love is complicated so it takes you much time to completely understand him.
If you’re unsure whether or not the Scorpio male is ignoring you, here are a few signs:
- He will avoid talking much to you as he normally does
- He will act distant and not open up his feelings with you
- He will get irritated whenever you show up around him
- He will stop doing any kind of physical contact with you, even holding hands or hugging
- He will say no to sex if feeling unhappy in love
When a Scorpio man feels the need to be alone, don’t interrupt him. Ignoring you doesn’t mean he’s no longer in love with you; thus, you shouldn’t take all of his withdrawals personally.
You should give him his alone time so that he can actually feel how important your presence to him.
If your Scorpio man is ignoring you, please do not ignore him back. Instead, you better remain patient because this guy will certainly return once he makes clear everything in his mind.
Why Scorpio Man Stops Communicating?
Scorpio man normally is attentive and responsive; however, he may become distant at times. Saying nothing, he just disappears and ignores all of your calls and messages – this often makes his partner worried.
Indeed, it’s normal for this guy to withdraw himself from his loved one.
As mentioned earlier, his disappearing acts will only be brought on the surface whenever he has to deal with his own matters, such as unhappiness, dissatisfaction, or stress.
Rather than asking an explanation from him, you’re advised to provide him space and time. Be patient and understanding Scorpio man behavior from his point of view. If you are in a relationship with this guy and he acts cold toward you, don’t claim that he does not love you.
He can be in love with you but still ignore you.
Being frustrating is simply one of prominent traits of his zodiac sign.
What to Do When Scorpio Man Ignores You?
You realize your Scorpio man has remained silent and distant with you for awhile, it is probably a sign you’ve done something which possibly upsets him.
If you notice that he is quiet, sulky, or angry, simply give him space.
Nevertheless, make sure the alone time you give to him doesn’t last too long or you may lose the connection between you and him; and as the result, both may break up in the end.
As I told you above, you should not ignore him in return, or it will turn into a competition of who is the best at ignoring each other. You will also never win against the stubborn Scorpio! Therefore, just be patient and send him messages occasionally to see how he is – don’t bombard him as well.
For example, if he comes back and acts like nothing happened and this upsets you, then talk to him directly. Have a serious conversation and express your true feelings, I recommend you to make a compromise with him to stop this issue occurring again.
1. Understanding him
When your Scorpio man displays his disappearing acts, it may be due to many factors – there’s a possibility you upset him, but he can get stressed because of other external things.
Unfortunately, this guy tends to throw his anger onto the people he loves most.
The reason is because he expects those to understand for his behavior. In the relationship with you, he knows you love him so there’s no chance he will lose you.
Did I tell you this guy can be selfish?
In case you are not the primary reason for his disappearing acts, the best thing to do is to still give him his own space. Never force him to explain everything, or he’s likely to explode. Leave your Scorpio man alone and allow him to deal with his issue himself.
2. Stay calm
The Scorpio male seems to lash out when he turns on his anger; that’s why he chooses to ignore you rather than to start a conflict.
He doesn’t want to make the situation much worse; thus, he disappears.
Due to this, it’s necessary to give him space. If you don’t, then he can be mean and blow up. If you’ve hurt him in the past, Scorpio man can forgive but will never forget; and might throw it back at you in this case.
Final Words
So, leaving a Scorpio man alone is actually a good idea when he is ignoring from you or gets irritated over certain things.
Don’t try to make a Scorpio miss you as he’ll definitely come back once making up his mind.
In the end, isn’t a relationship about compromise, is it?
If you want a long-term relationship with the Scorpio male, then you should build it based on compromise and understanding from the beginning. There is a saying, “Distance makes the heart grow fonder,” and this applies exactly to this confusing guy.
For any question about Scorpio man and solutions on how to deal with a distant Scorpio man, leave your comment below.
Hi i am a Virgo and have been seeing my scorpio guy for just over 2 years now. We met on online And when we first met in person sparks flew. There were periods where he’s tested me, been distant , come back he’s had a lot of peculiar behaviour. What’s bothered me the most is he won’t commit and since the first date we have not had dates outside and he always comes to me at home.
Sometimes he’ll disappear for weeks/months then return. There’s been occasions I tried to leave him because of this but he dosent let go. He says he wants to be in my life forever and told me he loves me twice.He does speak about a future together but at this point I feel actions speak louder than words and I don’t understand how he can think that way if we don’t even go out together.I’m not even sure if anyone knows about me .
I confronted him about this and in a bout of anger he said I told you until I see you reach a certain point Them we’ll be together .
I felt really disrespected as I felt he was saying I wasn’t good enough. I expressed this to him and he’s told me multiple times I’ts not that. Then if it’s not that why are we not together . Then he says that I am not ready. I feel this is an excuse. He says to me my life would change if I was with him and I’m not ready. Sometimes I get the sense hes saying I am not ready for him but he talks in parables so he’s never straight.It’s been over 2years now and I feel iv waited long enough. He’s distant now because I understand he’s going through something but if I were to message him he would respond. I wonder if I’m waisting my time iv never had to go through something like this with anyone before. Side note he’s a footballer and I’m a just an ordinary woman who’s a mom. I don’t know why he’d have the interest to play with me. But hes behaviour is not normal. And what does he mean by I am not ready. Is he trying to deflect really meaning he is not ready.He has also expressed that his ex was a gold digger. When he spoke about her I saw the hurt in his eyes. So I don’t know if he’s punishing me for that. I love him very much unlike any other man he’s made me grow. I quit smoking due to him, looked after myself more and see myself in a different light. But i still can’t help feeling I’m being played.
Please help with some insight should I give up my tolerance levels are getting smaller I like order and direction and like to know where I stand. Thanks
Hi? The Scorpio man I love I met him 12 years ago. I swore on numerous occasions that I was done with him, but over the years I have learned that when he disappears something is going on internally. This being a LDR makes it harder. I’m a Taurus woman. This man is truly my soulmate. I love him so much and I don’t know why. I have tried many times to leave, but I keep coming back. Help! He’s obnoxious! 😝
I am sure many people including you are often baffled by the unexplained motive of sudden sudden “disappearance”.
Most of the time, vanishing from relationship suddenly could very likely due to his/her own preexisting issues, or more precisely internal conflicts with his /her own character. As far as l know, there are only 2 kinds of reaction people could produce when actually involved or anxious about involving in unpleasant conditions e.g. dilemmas, or conflicts that may implicitly / explicitly induce distress psychologically, emotionally, or physically.
However, don’t immediately go crazy and find good excuses to blame yourself. Distressful sentiments can very well be the by-product of their own emotional incapabilities and incompatibility to find peace with their true nature.
As human beings, we are genetically inclined to acting better, sweeter, nicer (than our true selves) in front of someone of our interest. However, though we can hide whatever is underneath with a little touch of cosmetics or a hint of gentleman on the first few dates, true nature reveals itself once we get comfortable with each other, we instinctively discard our sugar coating, and start to share secrets, the ups and downs in daily life…and BOOM!
All of sudden they are offered a TEST of what really consists of their authentic personality and character- which includes their level of integrity, maturity, their sense of responsibility, their understanding of the definition of love, and etc…
-Some pass this TEST with flying colors. When confronted a critical problem on one side of relationship, they listen with their hearts open, brainstorm solutions/possibilities when there seems none, put themselves on frontline with you, take up responsibility when you didn’t even ask…. they work with you as frequently as they could to overcome the struggle no matter what.
-Inevitably, there is the other kind of people who fail the exam. When problems haven’t even birthed, they quivered merely at their own THOUGHT of “what If this goes wrong…my life, my world, my work….oh no…it’s gonna be very bad , stressful, no….” and all of a sudden, palms are sweating hard and their hearts racing madness, they withdraw into panic mode.
They are anxious about way too many “what ifs” and how those “what if’s” could severely impact their life, their reputation, their work, their …everything. Though they may have had a shot at your respect, love and trust when you first start dating, the mere sight and thought of pressure and responsibility (when not even disclosed explicitly ) frightened them and suffocated them. They choose to flee BEFORE the possible crisis for that they fear they probably aren’t as strong-minded and devoted enough as they’ve promised you the first day to take responsibility for you even if they still have a love interest in you. They are anxious about the repercussion of not confessing to you about their true nature and getting blamed and hated for entailing reason.
So my friend, l hope this can serve as some useful insights to resolving your confusions with the situation you may be facing. Regardless of how things turn out, l wish you everlasting happiness & faith in love and truth.
Be happy, Be you.
Cheers,