He is definitely not a nice guy when trying to break off with you.
Are you suffering from the relationship with Scorpio man?
There’s one thing I should tell you about this guy: he can become a real jerk when he is done with you. Don’t be surprised if he treats you with an abrupt manner or says something rude to you.
No matter how serious you talk to him, he probably cuts off the conversation, suddenly yells or acts unruly without logic.
How to handle this guy?
Maybe you should consider leaving a Scorpio man alone in case he ignores you.
When his emotions take over, it’s difficult for him to handle things in a logical or reasonable way. If your Scorpio man senses that you’ve done anything terrible to him, he will be snippy and crappy.
So it’s better not to hurt him or you cannot live with him for a long term.
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When a Scorpio Man Ignores You…
Does Scorpio man stops communicating all of sudden?
Due to Scorpio personality traits, he is introspective and independent. In case he withdraws from you, it’s because he needs his own space to deal with his problems, stress, or workload.
Sometimes he’s also distant from you if he feels irritated with the current relationship. That’s when you’ll find him disappear for awhile (a few hours or even a few days) to clear his mind.
It may be not fair with you, but there’s no way to win your Scorpio partner back but to get to know and accept this trait of his. Well, this guy in love is complicated so it takes you much time to completely understand him.
If you’re unsure whether or not the Scorpio male is ignoring you, here are a few signs:
- He will avoid talking much to you as he normally does
- He will act distant and not open up his feelings with you
- He will get irritated whenever you show up around him
- He will stop doing any kind of physical contact with you, even holding hands or hugging
- He will say no to sex if feeling unhappy in love
When a Scorpio man feels the need to be alone, don’t interrupt him. Ignoring you doesn’t mean he’s no longer in love with you; thus, you shouldn’t take all of his withdrawals personally.
You should give him his alone time so that he can actually feel how important your presence to him.
If your Scorpio man is ignoring you, please do not ignore him back. Instead, you better remain patient because this guy will certainly return once he makes clear everything in his mind.
Why Scorpio Man Stops Communicating?
Scorpio man normally is attentive and responsive; however, he may become distant at times. Saying nothing, he just disappears and ignores all of your calls and messages – this often makes his partner worried.
Indeed, it’s normal for this guy to withdraw himself from his loved one.
As mentioned earlier, his disappearing acts will only be brought on the surface whenever he has to deal with his own matters, such as unhappiness, dissatisfaction, or stress.
Rather than asking an explanation from him, you’re advised to provide him space and time. Be patient and understanding Scorpio man behavior from his point of view. If you are in a relationship with this guy and he acts cold toward you, don’t claim that he does not love you.
He can be in love with you but still ignore you.
Being frustrating is simply one of prominent traits of his zodiac sign.
What to Do When Scorpio Man Ignores You?
You realize your Scorpio man has remained silent and distant with you for awhile, it is probably a sign you’ve done something which possibly upsets him.
If you notice that he is quiet, sulky, or angry, simply give him space.
Nevertheless, make sure the alone time you give to him doesn’t last too long or you may lose the connection between you and him; and as the result, both may break up in the end.
As I told you above, you should not ignore him in return, or it will turn into a competition of who is the best at ignoring each other. You will also never win against the stubborn Scorpio! Therefore, just be patient and send him messages occasionally to see how he is – don’t bombard him as well.
For example, if he comes back and acts like nothing happened and this upsets you, then talk to him directly. Have a serious conversation and express your true feelings, I recommend you to make a compromise with him to stop this issue occurring again.
1. Understanding him
When your Scorpio man displays his disappearing acts, it may be due to many factors – there’s a possibility you upset him, but he can get stressed because of other external things.
Unfortunately, this guy tends to throw his anger onto the people he loves most.
The reason is because he expects those to understand for his behavior. In the relationship with you, he knows you love him so there’s no chance he will lose you.
Did I tell you this guy can be selfish?
In case you are not the primary reason for his disappearing acts, the best thing to do is to still give him his own space. Never force him to explain everything, or he’s likely to explode. Leave your Scorpio man alone and allow him to deal with his issue himself.
2. Stay calm
The Scorpio male seems to lash out when he turns on his anger; that’s why he chooses to ignore you rather than to start a conflict.
He doesn’t want to make the situation much worse; thus, he disappears.
Due to this, it’s necessary to give him space. If you don’t, then he can be mean and blow up. If you’ve hurt him in the past, Scorpio man can forgive but will never forget; and might throw it back at you in this case.
Final Words
So, leaving a Scorpio man alone is actually a good idea when he is ignoring from you or gets irritated over certain things.
Don’t try to make a Scorpio miss you as he’ll definitely come back once making up his mind.
In the end, isn’t a relationship about compromise, is it?
If you want a long-term relationship with the Scorpio male, then you should build it based on compromise and understanding from the beginning. There is a saying, “Distance makes the heart grow fonder,” and this applies exactly to this confusing guy.
For any question about Scorpio man and solutions on how to deal with a distant Scorpio man, leave your comment below.
Hi Rolland,
Thank you for your time in helping others undrestand scorpio man.
My question..
Im a virgo that likes a scorpio man.
Were both mature..i had long relationsgip behind me and he was never married.
We live in the same house (with 2 other people)..I feel tense energy when around him and he does litlle things of kindness to me..but if others are around he mostly ignore me. And sometimes he doesnt talk much when there is opportu ity. I feel his eyes on me time to time.
I dont know if his shy or undicisive ..or still tests me..then theres 5 years difference between us (im older) , 2 other room mates, and his lack of experience in relationship with women.
Me beeing a virgo doesnt help.
Should I give him more time (its been a few months already), or give him any subtle signal (difficult for me)
Thank you
Jasna
Hi Jasna,
Scorpios are very strange people indeed. No one will ever entirely figure them out. But they are secretive and they do play games. So one possibility is that he is still trying to figure you out. Or that he is looking for your secret. But you can get around this by telling him. He loves the dirt. He won’t act like it, but he does. He is also looking for when you are the most vulnerable. If you have a lot of people around you, he won’t like that. He wants a sneak attack. Be alone and lonely and let him know there is something bothering you. Control is the middle name for Scorpio so nothing too complicated. Let him think he is in control. Be vulnerable. He can’t resist that. However will all this being said, don’t be too easy. You’re there. You’re vulnerable, but you keep a little to yourself. Remain a mystery to some extent. And be sexy.
Sincere
While that don’t be disrespected bc you show vulnerability. If he knows you can walk away and be happy with someone else. Show him your worth is none negotiable. It will piss him off and he will act like he dose not care. He does as he will be calling and texting with aloof texts. Respond in few days you had many things to finish and catch up with friends and your passions. He will be scratching himself and not now how Virgo girls got things going for her when he ignored you. Be spontaneous about your plans abd tell him last minute you are on your way doing things you love. He could be miserable about that but won’t ever show it. He may even withdraw sex if you out manipulate him. Virgo needs to take care of herself. If he is living you out feeling alone do yourself a favor. Leave him. Woman has to be the one to initiate sex of you will never get it. It’s demeaning but Scorpio has to feel in control. They are stealth lovers. Don’t be too predictable, Virgo, he will get bored. Always be funny, preoccupied, doing what you love and sexy in intelligent way. Overdressing or over make up won’t do. Be earthy sexy. If you have to punish him for being a jerk; do it in calm, positive, respectful and subtle way; as you matter to yourself and he is causing you an obstacle to your success with his behavior.
Show with actions not words. When he is watching you creepy; it’s a good sign. When they try to protect you; it’s a good sign. Is it worth it? I don’t now. Don’t underestimate your worth, Virgo. He knows you worth it. He will never comes firs to communicate even if being a jerk. You have to understand his moody dark side that looks so angelic. They are so slow as well. Drives Virgo girl nuts. His dirty house abd dishes all over the place. If his body is clean; it’s a good sign. done just can’t handle him. We have been on vacation and I had to beg for sex. Either he is tired, is it me? He is 53, has full viagra bottles everywhere; yet not interested? Blood pressure meds, no thyroid or he is not interested in sex. If his house is so dirty I doubt he is doing someone else, or he comes back for the little he can get ftom you bc other girl did not live up to his expectations. They won’t an emotional connection while not communicating or doing anything to deserve it. Fuck it. I just got into my car and left. Did not respond his calls or texts. I just have to much respect gif myself. I do have a kind heart. Maybe this one is too insecure about himself.
Hi Rolland, Thank you so much for your insight of the Scorpio man. I’m in a situation I NEVER expected to be in. No haters PLEASE as I’ve been harder on myself than anyone else could ever be. I’m in a relationship of over 30 years without getting into all details it is and was never intimate. We are best friends. I am living 5 minutes from our home to care for a family member. At least 5 years ago I’ve been attracted to a Scorpio man. The connection is undeniable. Nothing happened until 2 years ago. Nothing major but something. I realised I was in love with him, expressed it. He said maybe we are feeling the same but later denied saying it. My confusion is he will say things like maybe you should get your own life, I said I was trying to move away from current situation. He asked me several times when. When I missed the expected move over date to the family home he seemed irritated. I did eventually move with family member. BUT, he has yet to express any feelings for me but I feel like he has them. He stares at me constantly, intense stares as we live a few hrs apart, its when he comes to visit mutual friends when he does this. He will no longer kiss me but expects other intimate things. His texts are not the same, distant and sometimes cold. I guess I’m being an idiot. Is the answer right in front of me? I haven’t fully let go of my current situation as I don’t want ANYONE else if not with him. I have never strayed from any other relationship in my life and the guilt is beyond hell. I would not want to hurt the current person I’m with if I don’t have to. If this Scorpio man doesn’t want me then I would stay where I am. He says he is not interested but always comes back and says encouraging things to keep me thinking he is interested but then nothing or denys saying them. It’s been back and forth for so long. What do I do? This is just a synopsis of so much more that has been said or done. Do you have any insight or suggestions for me? I’m a Cancer woman.
Thank you….
Hi dear,
This question is interesting because it’s something that I consider to be common Scorpio behavior. Scorpio is a very intense sign that has difficulty letting go of anything in their life. It is possible that the Scorpio men rejected because they didn’t make the initiative and/or they don’t know enough about you yet to make a commitment.
Scorpios tend to take relationships and commitments seriously and they often have emotional walls up because they know they fall hard. Scorpio is a water sign and as such are very deep and emotionally sensitive. They have a tendency to be very serious in life and can be secretive and possessive. Jealousy is another common trait among some Scorpios. Perhaps the men are jealous at the thought of someone else having you, even if you’re not their type. This could be fueled by their sensual nature and wanting to be appreciated.
It might not make a lot of sense to non-Scorpios, but once a Scorpio falls for someone, they rarely (if ever) let go. This can cause issues down the road for future lovers because Scorpio holds onto the past with iron arms.
Sincere
I have been dating this Scorpio for a year and a half. I know he is stressing because of school. However out of the blue he texted me saying he had been very stressed and has been very doubtful and that he needed some space. He needed to be alone and didn’t know what he wanted. It’s been five days without any communication. I don’t know what to think. Obviously I am very upset. But I am giving him his space. Is that too much space? He will reach out to me if he wants.. well that’s what I keep telling myself but he is like a baby at times…. if he says no he means yes.
Hi Rolland,
I’m deeply in love with my Scorpio man and he told me he fell in love with me as soon as we spoke with each other. He says his love is deeper than I can imagine but he gets angry with me about things he suspects me of doing…like cheating on him…that I would never do. I reassure him again and again that I am his woman and most of the time he believes me, but sometimes he becomes enraged when he can’t understand or believe that I’m doing something as simple as working. Please tell me HOW I can reassure him that he’s the only man I love or ever WILL love.
Hi Roland. so I’ve been married to a scorpio man for 3 yrs. We started off with a whirlwind relationship and got married within 3 months in the relationship.. we both felt like we’re each other’s soulmate. Long story short, since the beginning i started to find out about him going online and reaching out to women. Searching women and even reaching out to my girlfriends to hit on them. But. he has never actually taken the step of physically cheating. Last april, his ex reached out to him and sure enough he responded. Then i find naked photos and videos of her in his phone. I also didn’t mention that our sexual relationship is basically non-existent at this point and it kinda stopped 3 months into the relationship..
Anyway, after the ex incident, he has been diagnosed with sex addiction (and yes there are a lot of different types of this addiction and it don’t have to be a physical one).. Fast forward, we’re trying to get him the help he needs but we’ve been having a lot of arguments and things have been cold and distant between us lately.. and last week i decided to leave. Last night we finally talked (or I decided to talk) but he’s been distant and has shut down to the point that he asked for
space to figure things out which I understand and willing to give him.. During the talk I asked him a few questions.. if he still loves me which he said “yes”. if he still
wants to be in our relationship to which he answered “at the moment no”, if he wants a divorce which he answered “at the moment no”, and lastly I asked him if he would want to be in it in a long run which he said “yes”. He also mentioned that he has only shutdown this way 2x before. Also before our talk he did text me that he just needed space and will come around and that he’s not going anywhere.. my question is, with a scorpio’s traits and based on what he has told me. what do I do from my end besides give him space? And do you think we still have a chance to make things work even after he comes around? I really appreciate the article and your help with my questions. Thank you