He is definitely not a nice guy when trying to break off with you.
Are you suffering from the relationship with Scorpio man?
There’s one thing I should tell you about this guy: he can become a real jerk when he is done with you. Don’t be surprised if he treats you with an abrupt manner or says something rude to you.
No matter how serious you talk to him, he probably cuts off the conversation, suddenly yells or acts unruly without logic.
How to handle this guy?
Maybe you should consider leaving a Scorpio man alone in case he ignores you.
When his emotions take over, it’s difficult for him to handle things in a logical or reasonable way. If your Scorpio man senses that you’ve done anything terrible to him, he will be snippy and crappy.
So it’s better not to hurt him or you cannot live with him for a long term.
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When a Scorpio Man Ignores You…
Does Scorpio man stops communicating all of sudden?
Due to Scorpio personality traits, he is introspective and independent. In case he withdraws from you, it’s because he needs his own space to deal with his problems, stress, or workload.
Sometimes he’s also distant from you if he feels irritated with the current relationship. That’s when you’ll find him disappear for awhile (a few hours or even a few days) to clear his mind.
It may be not fair with you, but there’s no way to win your Scorpio partner back but to get to know and accept this trait of his. Well, this guy in love is complicated so it takes you much time to completely understand him.
If you’re unsure whether or not the Scorpio male is ignoring you, here are a few signs:
- He will avoid talking much to you as he normally does
- He will act distant and not open up his feelings with you
- He will get irritated whenever you show up around him
- He will stop doing any kind of physical contact with you, even holding hands or hugging
- He will say no to sex if feeling unhappy in love
When a Scorpio man feels the need to be alone, don’t interrupt him. Ignoring you doesn’t mean he’s no longer in love with you; thus, you shouldn’t take all of his withdrawals personally.
You should give him his alone time so that he can actually feel how important your presence to him.
If your Scorpio man is ignoring you, please do not ignore him back. Instead, you better remain patient because this guy will certainly return once he makes clear everything in his mind.
Why Scorpio Man Stops Communicating?
Scorpio man normally is attentive and responsive; however, he may become distant at times. Saying nothing, he just disappears and ignores all of your calls and messages – this often makes his partner worried.
Indeed, it’s normal for this guy to withdraw himself from his loved one.
As mentioned earlier, his disappearing acts will only be brought on the surface whenever he has to deal with his own matters, such as unhappiness, dissatisfaction, or stress.
Rather than asking an explanation from him, you’re advised to provide him space and time. Be patient and understanding Scorpio man behavior from his point of view. If you are in a relationship with this guy and he acts cold toward you, don’t claim that he does not love you.
He can be in love with you but still ignore you.
Being frustrating is simply one of prominent traits of his zodiac sign.
What to Do When Scorpio Man Ignores You?
You realize your Scorpio man has remained silent and distant with you for awhile, it is probably a sign you’ve done something which possibly upsets him.
If you notice that he is quiet, sulky, or angry, simply give him space.
Nevertheless, make sure the alone time you give to him doesn’t last too long or you may lose the connection between you and him; and as the result, both may break up in the end.
As I told you above, you should not ignore him in return, or it will turn into a competition of who is the best at ignoring each other. You will also never win against the stubborn Scorpio! Therefore, just be patient and send him messages occasionally to see how he is – don’t bombard him as well.
For example, if he comes back and acts like nothing happened and this upsets you, then talk to him directly. Have a serious conversation and express your true feelings, I recommend you to make a compromise with him to stop this issue occurring again.
1. Understanding him
When your Scorpio man displays his disappearing acts, it may be due to many factors – there’s a possibility you upset him, but he can get stressed because of other external things.
Unfortunately, this guy tends to throw his anger onto the people he loves most.
The reason is because he expects those to understand for his behavior. In the relationship with you, he knows you love him so there’s no chance he will lose you.
Did I tell you this guy can be selfish?
In case you are not the primary reason for his disappearing acts, the best thing to do is to still give him his own space. Never force him to explain everything, or he’s likely to explode. Leave your Scorpio man alone and allow him to deal with his issue himself.
2. Stay calm
The Scorpio male seems to lash out when he turns on his anger; that’s why he chooses to ignore you rather than to start a conflict.
He doesn’t want to make the situation much worse; thus, he disappears.
Due to this, it’s necessary to give him space. If you don’t, then he can be mean and blow up. If you’ve hurt him in the past, Scorpio man can forgive but will never forget; and might throw it back at you in this case.
Final Words
So, leaving a Scorpio man alone is actually a good idea when he is ignoring from you or gets irritated over certain things.
Don’t try to make a Scorpio miss you as he’ll definitely come back once making up his mind.
In the end, isn’t a relationship about compromise, is it?
If you want a long-term relationship with the Scorpio male, then you should build it based on compromise and understanding from the beginning. There is a saying, “Distance makes the heart grow fonder,” and this applies exactly to this confusing guy.
For any question about Scorpio man and solutions on how to deal with a distant Scorpio man, leave your comment below.
I’m curious as I’m in a relationship with a Scorpio man, and LORD, I wish I did my homework in just reading about his sign b/c the complexity of this individual would drive you to drink!!! We were introduced by a mutual friend around December and never physically met each other until New Years (as we both live in two different states). And I was SOOOOO skeptical about dating some long distance, but we hit it off VERY well. He’s very determined, poised, and is a gentle sweet heart, but with a stern approach. I’m so not use to being with someone so direct and in all honesty, he’s been able to pull out a lot of my own insecurities which has caused me to become defensive and of lately, we’ve been having these little spats. Also he’s going through his own job issues which I’ve made it my duty to be very supportive, but not knowing how this sign can become “distant” and so unpredictable, I took his actions personally and in addressing it our conversation turned out to be a NASTY lashing out and I referred to his relationship with his daughter out of jealousy in what he was saying about my relationship with my daughter and her father (obviously, we each have kids outside of the relationship). Anyhow, he got really heated and nasty and ended with him saying for me to stop “F$%@@” refer to his time with his daughter and that he would call me back. Of course, I gave us a day to cool off and then I noticed he blocked me from his Messenger account and basically all my texts and calls, he will simply not answer. I’ve had time to think, I know I really was out of line and the whole argument could’ve been handled so much better if I had learned to listen to hear rather than listen to reply. Anyhow, It’s going into the second week of not speaking and I realize he will need time, but I guess my question is how long is “too long” and am I wrong for me to still pursue as I feel we were going SOOOO well to the point of discussions on me moving, marriage, all of those things. I do care A LOT and I use “care” rather than “love” b/c I realize this isn’t something I would want to use “loosely” with him as when he’s into you, I see he’s in it for the long haul and so am I.
Did y’all work it out? I’m invested now. Bc your story sounds like mine. Though me and him live close to each other in the same state.
I met a Scorpio guy 4 months ago. It started off great. We are both Scorpio, both moon in Virgo and rising in Leo.
He didn’t want to be intimate so I agreed, he was new out of a relationship.
He said we could be friends.
We had an undeniable connection.
From not talking to him for a while, I approached him with some bad news about my family. I spoke about 20 minutes and he was completely engaged with me eye contact was100 per cent and I felt he was completely engaged with our time talking. He was lost in me. I didn’t reciprocate I was deep in the conversation. I hope that didn’t bother him..
He was very supportive and it went well. I told him I just had to share with him.
2 months were great then he became a little distant. However he came back multiple times after game playing. He became annoying and a little rude and said he was busy.
Now he seems to be avoiding me. I cannot seem to get a moment to talk.
I miss him terribly.
I know I should let him be and hope he comes back around.
How long should I give him.
Hi Rolland!
I dont even know where to start …as this was my first encounter with a scorpio man and Im a pisces and i thought we were the perfect match.. we had an intense relationship for 3 months and then he got diagnosed with gall stones and disappeared making and excuse saying I had said something wrong to him. I didnt bombard him with texts or calls, just a few here and there very loving ones. Meanwhilebhe had his surgery. Suddenly one day he said he loves me and i said the way you have been behaving doesnt seem like love and he completely shut down and then out of the blue he tells me he has to go through chemo..it was obvious i got hyper and told him i wanted to be with him but he blocked me and ghosted me. We were completely incommunicado.. Then from christmas he started texting me again and wished me on new years. Said to me he wanted to meet me,called me a couple of times..unfortuately i missed them but when i asked to call back he refused to talk to me. Then one day he said he wants to be with me and wants to be together but at that time for 2 days i couldnt speak to him as my dog was extremely unwell n passed on..but i kept informing him about what was going on…he send his condolences, at the end also i texted him thats lets talk, lets meet, lets be together and he just replied with an okay. but after that he disappeared into thin air…both his numbers are switched off now for more than 3 weeks..and i have no way to reach him as he isnt even at home.
So im at a loss as to what happened..and im completely heartbroken as he had come to meet my family and asked to marry me as well and we had talked about marriage too…and now hez gone..so could you please shed some light on it. Thank you!
I’m a scorpio and I’m going through health issues. I’m extremely independent and do not accept support from anyone. So my defense mechanism: dissappear.
Hi, thank you for this wonderful insight. I’m an Aquarius woman and I met a Scorpio man,we’ve known each other for 8years but never said anything just admire each other from afar, the relationship just started and he has disappeared, no contact, he dose nor return my calls or my messages, I don’t know if I might have said something to hurt him, I tried apologising but still no word from him. Most times I see him on the road, but he pretends not seeing me. It hurts because I do really like him.
Hi Ben,
Don’t pay him any attention. Men like what they cant have so if he was into you, he will resume his pursuit but if he never was, it wont change a thing and you walk away with your dignity.
In the end, treat yourself like a prize. Be honest ,be yourself but don’t be easy to get. Don’t be calling him, let him make the effort and the. When you are comfortable, then you start to reciprocate. Maybe old fashioned but I believe in a man who works for what he wants
Sincere
Hi there
My Scorpio soulmate and I (taurous women) soent 3,5 years of fantastic relationship. We both know, that we’re great together but now it’s time to transformation. I’have a backpack (fighting divorce, cancer, 3 lovable boys) and he has to decide, if he can live with my backpack and do the next step to move together. I do understand where he is at and left him alone to figure out what he want’s and need’s.
I know he loves me and I know he loves me too and yet I don’t know, if the space I gave him, the pull out I did for him, was the right choice. If he doesn’t wanna be with us, that’s okay, but I don’t want to loose him, because I made a mistake of going distant